[Music] [Applause] hey everyone and welcome to top think. Today we're going to learn about 10 obvious signs of a beta male. Now let's begin. Number one: unclear boundaries. Deep down, a beta male is searching for one thing: approval. He cares about what other people think of him. He works overtime to please everyone in his social circle because beta males rely on their environment to give them confidence and self-esteem. It's common for beta males to prioritize friends, co-workers, and even strangers over themselves. They're people pleasers, so they struggle to set boundaries. You may recognize a beta male going out of their way for someone they just met, but they're not doing favors out of the goodness of their heart. At the end of the day, they're desperate to be liked. Number two: betas in disguise. Insecure beta males get frustrated with their own personality type. They don't want to be betas; they want to be alphas. They want to stand in the spotlight, receiving praise and

attention from all the people around because many betas want to be Alphas. They imitate Alpha personalities. They act like someone the world should respect, admire, and envy. They emphasize their power, their strength, and superiority. But that's not what it means to be an alpha male. These characters are beta males in disguise. Most of the time, you're dealing with someone who's very insecure. They're constantly anxious about their social standing. They don't respect themselves, and they may be questioning their own decisions. But this sounds like a shooter, bro. What is he doing? But they don't want the world to know how much they're struggling. They want to project an image of confidence and charisma, and that's why betas in disguise look and act like caricatures. They exact, oh my god, Alpha characteristics because they're desperate to be respected. Number three, fading in the background. Not all beta males are arrogant and self-possessed. In fact, most beta males fade seamlessly into the background. They don't draw attention to

the elves. They avoid challenges and risks, and they are frequently overshadowed by dominant personalities. Beta males learn early on that they don't receive the same respect as Alpha personalities. They often internalize this inferiority. Beta personalities believe Alphas have something they don't, so every time they get an opportunity to shine, they fall apart. Their nerves get the best of them. They worry too much about what people think of them, and they try too hard to be impressive or confident. Unfortunately, these social failures have dire repercussions. If you aren't secure or confident, people won't take you seriously, and many beta males struggle to leave a lasting impression on others because few people respect what they have to say. If you know someone who fades into the background, someone who's used to getting overshadowed, you're dealing with an insecure beta personality. Number four: external envy. Envy is another quality that many betas share. Beta males struggle to assert their wants and needs, and naturally, they become jealous of the people who can.

beta male sees an assertive, dominant, and successful man accomplishing what they cannot. He becomes envious of the attention this man's receiving, and that envy drives our beta male toward the wrong kinds of goals. Beta males frequently fixate on shallow aspirations; they chase vague ideas like money, fame, or power, believing their success will bring them respect and satisfaction, but it won't. Alpha personalities draw confidence from long-term personal goals. They spend time reflecting on what they want. They have a strong sense of their beliefs and values, and because they know themselves, they can pursue the best version of themselves every day. If you want to test whether someone has an alpha or beta personality, ask about their goals. If they're focused and ambitious, chasing an honest vision of their future, then you're dealing with a strong and assertive person. If they're more interested in paychecks and power trips, you've got yourself a beta male. Number five: the friend zone. Everyone has heard about the friend zone. In the friend zone, one person wants to be friends, and the other person wants

to be something more. But here's the funny thing about the friend zone: it only seems to affect one kind of guy, and that kind of guy is the beta male. Insecure beta males are the only guys you hear complaining about the friend zone. Well, why is that? Well, because beta males are disgusting. I got dizzy thinking about them because they use the friend zone as an excuse for their lack of romantic success. But the root of the problem has nothing to do with friendship. The female population is not conspiring against beta males. Instead, beta males are conspiring against themselves. They're nice, supportive, and respectful, but only because they expect something in return. They invest time and effort into someone they like, believing their hard work will yield a relationship, but it rarely does. Submissive personalities like beta males struggle to accept rejection, so instead of thinking, Okay, I guess she just doesn't like me, beta males will blame social norms, dating habits, and female biases. They'll lash out and criticize others instead of recognizing their own failures. Pay attention the next time you

hear someone complaining about the friend zone. Oftentimes, you found a beta personality. Number six: overusing media. Beta personalities struggle to communicate face to face. They're nervous, they're insecure, they're fidgety, they try too hard to be cool. You may catch them bragging about finances or shallow achievements, but beta personalities come alive on social media, in virtual environments. They can hide behind their keyboards, typing whatever they want to whoever they want. It is an assault on D. Any beta males find confidence in anonymity, even if they're nervous and quiet in real life. Now, in some cases, this is a good thing. Some beta personalities can show their true selves without the pressures of a social environment. He's watching them have [Laughter] fun. Oh my God, look at it. Holy [ __ ] man, play The Joker music here. But it's not always positive. Many beta males dedicate too much time and too much effort to their online personalities. They want the work. Hey, hey, hey, relax bro. World to see them one way, but in person, there's

someone completely different. Yeah, I'm a toxic person. Number seven, foregoing leadership. Beta males avoid leadership roles. They're notoriously indecisive because they worry too much about making the wrong decisions. Unfortunately, they never develop the instincts of an assertive personality. Instead, they take the back seat. If you ask a beta male why he shies away from leadership roles, he may say something like, Oh, it's too much pressure, or I just don't have time, but these are excuses that he uses to avoid taking responsibility. He's afraid of making a mistake. Unlike Alpha Personnel, boom in chat says, Bro, this video is dog [__]. Chat is Boom a beta that's offended by the video? Be honest. Beta personalities measure their self-worth by their accomplishments. When they fail, they heavily criticize their own capabilities. They lose faith in themselves. They struggle to persevere through hardship, and they don't learn from their mistakes. These are essential leadership qualities. So, if you know someone who avoids leadership goals, ask them why. If they can't give you a

straight answer. You may know everything you need to know. Number eight: proximity to Alpha. Not every beta male is desperate for attention or respect. Some beta males are very confident. I have a rule that a beta can graduate to an alpha if he comes on over 33 women's faces, right? Like facials them, and they got to be hot. Come on, dude, it's got to be hard, right? And then who they are, even though they aren't natural leaders or courageous socialites, they have positive traits that make their personalities unique. The problems we've talked about so far exist because beta males deny their personality type. They're ashamed of who they are, so they try to become something they're not. It's that feeling of inferiority and disrespect that shapes a self-destructive beta personality. But what happens when a beta personality embraces their flaws? In the workplace, for example, you can recognize confidence when a beta recognizes their flaws. Yeah, no, I'm not doing this joke. Actually, this is really stupid. Betas, by their loyalty, confident beta males act.

as partners and sidekicks to dominant personalities, they reinforce the authority of an assertive leader, and they typically benefit from this two-way relationship. While confident beta is still shy away from risks, they aren't worried about being number one; they want to step out of the spotlight. They help assertive personalities instead of trying to become one. So, if you're looking for a beta male, look at the alpha personalities. You know most of the time a strong Alpha has a confident beta right by a side. Number nine, romantic loyalty. Even though beta males struggle to attract romantic attention, confident betas can be great partners in relationships. When they're not motivated by insecurity, beta personalities are thoughtful and caring. They go out of their way to cater to their partners, and they pay close attention to their needs and moods. If you have a beta personality, lean into your strengths. You may not attract as much attention as alpha males, but millions of beta personalities maintain happy and long-lasting relationships. Unfortunately, many others become self-critical and insecure.

creating the classic nice guy persona to recognize a beta male in a relationship. Look for a partner who gives more than they take. If they stay true to themselves, any beta male can build a strong relationship alongside a confident partner. No, they can't. There's no hope. Nobody wants to live with you guys. Nobody feels safe around you guys. Number 10: negative commonality. Let's talk about one more positive moniker of a beta personality. Beta males are much less intimidating than alpha males. They don't make the same impression when they enter a room. They're less confident. They're less mysterious. But these negative qualities make beta males much more relatable as individuals. But just think of it this way: many people admire dominant personalities for their confidence and self-esteem, but not everyone in the world is an alpha. In fact, most men have a beta personality. They're normal guys who struggle with the usual batch of hang-ups and insecurities. Yes, Alphas have more success with women. Yes, they rise faster in the workplace, but beta

personalities have more in common with the general population. They're relatable and approachable, and they're easier to understand in our everyday lives. It's easier to be a holy [ __ ] Hassan perer makes sense male than an alpha male, especially if you're confident in your beta personality. Ultimately, that's the deal breaker, whether you have a beta personality or an alpha personality. Don't try to change the way you are as a beta. It's okay to step out of the spotlight. It's okay to be unsure or afraid of making hard decisions, but you shouldn't let those weaknesses define you. Bro, this traumatizes beta Ms like this shouldn't be on the internet. I am a nurse to you. If I was on Fresh and Fit. Oh, here we go, here we go. Yeah, my's in chat. You've been on Fresh Fit. Okay, expose me. I haven't been on there. Myron's first guy to vouch for me was MyON. Literally, the first guy to vouch for me was MyON. Literally, what

does vouch mean put let me get on a pod first so you on did you go on the Pod. I always got I always have myons back. He's a great dude. Did you did you go on the podcast. He's on he's yeah he's on he's in the chat. What's up myON. What's up brother. Thank you man. I like I just want to say if you disrespect fresh and fit and to be honest with you I was about to [__] go hard on you if you want to know the truth. I spare you got spared because myON said that you was just joking around when you went hard on Fresh. That's actually the truth and ask Myron if I'm [__] making that [__] up because I'm not. You want bring myON into this what did I spared you. Myron spared you today when he when he said red light basically that you were just joking around. You weren't really what did I

what did I say about fresh? Okay, let's just stay focused on the conversation. Alright, start distracting gaslighting. Just stay focused on the conversation. Now, back to Fresh, back to fresh and fit. Okay, now I get what you're saying, and I would like to just say on a comedic level, I guarantee you that I would [__] Crush you on a physical boxing level. I would [__] Crush you. I have zero fear of you, and that is why I'm your F father. I am your Daddy. Yeah, I'm not. I am your daddy. Never forget who dadd. Dad, can I ask you something, dad? Do you know I'm not actually 170? I'm 65, 265 lbs. One shot at kou, literally one shot. You're a woman's weight. You're a woman's weight. You're literally a [__] underage girl's weight. You know that? That's like a little fat woman. You were not even in the same. You're a little fat woman to me. You know that.

you're a little fat woman genetically, so enough of that, Daddy. I'm your dad. That's a plot twist for you, huh? You like that Hollywood Jewish contract? There a drone on the [Music] way, yo. Get this off the Chad will always say, Just work out, man, and be yourself. And then the nerd goes, Uh, I don't really want to do any of those things. I just want to go to the part where my [__] is wet and [__]. Oh, but they're fun to do. Like, you get self-confidence doing that. I just really want to go balls deep in some [__]. Oh, I don't know. I don't remember me getting my dick wet before I did these three things above my head. Yeah, I just really want to play Valorant and get my dick wet and [__] 'cause I really like a girl, and I think she's the one for me, and I don't even do

it for sexual gratification. I just like her because she is cool, and she's my people. [Music]

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