Since I can remember, I've been told that I have a gay voice, and the internet loves to tell me that I sound like the honey badger.

Oh, the honey badgers are just crazy! So, is there such a thing as a gay voice? Like, is it quantifiable? If we take out all the slay, boots, the house down, and remove any visual or behavioral clues, could you still tell?

Surprisingly, science has a lot to say about it. Gr, ba Get out, get out, get out!

In order to study gay versus straight voices, researchers look at parameters such as pitch variation—like how much a person's pitch changes as they talk, duration values for vowels and consonants, AKA how long people hold their A, E, I, O, U sounds, or how long people hold their S's.

And some studies just straight up get random people to listen to others talk and try to judge whether they thought that person speaking was gay or straight.

Results find that gay men speak with higher pitch variation, meaning that their range from low to high is much more extreme than men. Not surprised, we have range, honey!

These pitch studies were done in many languages like English, Dutch, and French, and in all cases, gay men spoke with higher pitch variation, meaning the gay voice expands beyond language and isn't just about the words or culture we engage in.

Gay men were also found to have longer vowel durations for A, I, and U, AKA they hold these vowels longer in general when they speak compared to straight men.

But gay men are also more likely to hold their S sound for longer than straight people.

Gay people holding their S for longer may make you think of the quintessential gay lisp, which is very triggering to me.

Like, as a kid, everyone would always make fun of me and say I sounded like Super Silly Billy, so sadly there is some truth to those bullies making fun of me about that, but it's also a common misconception because a lisp is when you misarticulate your 's', whereas gay people are more likely to overarticulate the 's'.

In fact, studies show that gay men are no more likely to have a lisp than straight men.

Finally, when studying gay versus straight men, it was found that gay men were more likely to articulate than straight men, which totally makes sense to me.

All my straight guy friends were like, 'Oh hey man, do you want to hang out?' I was like, 'Okay, what?

' Because of these findings, it was hypothesized that perhaps the vocal differences between straight and gay men were due to hormones, like differences in testosterone, possibly.

But after studying this, it was found that gay men have just as much testosterone as straight men, so instead, researchers began looking into environmental differences as a possible explanation.

It turns out both gay men and straight men change their voice based on who is listening.

Yes, straight men will modulate their voice based on who is listening. One study found straight men would speak more stereotypically masculine to strangers than to people they were comfortable with.

Straight men would lower their voice when speaking in leadership roles, when giving orders or commands, and they would also lower their voice in the presence of an attractive woman.

Gay men changed their voice too, but under different circumstances.

One study found gay men who disliked sounding gay were able to modulate their voice to sound more straight and were more likely to be mistaken as straight by listeners.

A separate study found that gay people changed their voice depending on whether they're talking to friends, co-workers, or their Family members tend to use the most falsetto voice or upper vocal range when talking to friends.

An Italian study also found that gay men would sound more gay when they were talking to somebody they had already come out to or if they were speaking to someone they presumed was gay.

A really fascinating study on gay YouTubers found that after making a public coming out video on YouTube, their subsequent videos were more likely to be perceived by people as sounding gay, whereas straight YouTubers of the same age over that same time period ended up sounding more straight to people.

This has led to a theory that sounding gay is an adaptation of gay men to allow others around them to know that they are in fact gay.

But this isn't set in stone; it's important to note that while some people may feel gay men talk more like women, the research doesn't fully support this idea.

There are some syllables and ways that we speak that are similar to women, but gay voice has its own unique characteristics as well.

In other words, it adopts some female features, but others are completely unrelated. But what about our dear lesbian friends and other queer people?

We haven't forgotten about you! While there is less research on it, studies have found unique characteristics of lesbian voices, but they're far less socially noticed than gay male speech.

Of course, many straight men can sound gay, and gay men can sound straight, but studies show there is a difference in speech that will change based on who is listening to you.

How you're perceived will also relate to your mannerisms. You know, I talk with my hands a lot.

The way you dress is a large factor for a straight guy, I must say, and it all weaves together to create the complexity of speech in relation to sexual fluidity.

But what about gay face? Can you tell if someone is gay just from looking at their face? We actually have an entire podcast episode diving into the science of gay face on our Side Note podcast.

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