You've made an effort, but the results may not be as good as you expected. Making an effort means you have a dream, right? You've probably tried every possible way for that dream. However, if the method is wrong or not effective, even if you work hard, the results may not be satisfactory. I will show you a way to get closer and faster to the results than just making an effort. First, think about what your goal is. It may be vague in your mind, so you made an effort. But have you ever thought about what exactly it is? If you thought about becoming the best speaker, what exactly does being the best speaker mean? The best self-development speakers I know are Director Kim Mikyung and Professor Kim Chang-wook, but Kim Mikyung

There are people who like Director Kim Mi-kyung and there will be people who like Professor Kim Chang-wook. Both of them are quite remarkable speakers, but if it weren't for Director Kim Mi-kyung, or if it weren't for Professor Kim Chang-ho, the content might not have been convincing. It seems that their words were absorbed because of how they expressed it. Both of them are top speakers, and I truly think their styles are very different. In my opinion, Director Kim Mi-kyung has a more serious and sincere style of speaking, while Professor Kim Chang-ho tends to present his stories in a humorous and entertaining way. Some might wonder why Professor Kim Chang-ho talks about serious matters so lightly, while others might think Director Kim Mi-kyung is too serious. Even though they both hold top positions in the same field like this.

Each person has a different style. What I want to say is that I want to be the best speaker. Rather than saying I want to be the best speaker, like Professor Kim Chang-ho, who delivers humorously, or I want to be the best speaker, like Director Kim Mi-kyung, who speaks truthfully, there should be detailed goal setting. If it were me, I would have thought, I will become the best speaker like Professor Kim Chang-ho, who is humorous. If you have a goal, there is a high chance that you have your own role model who has achieved that goal. Then, you need to analyze how they became the best. And start by doing what you can do step by step. Vague goals can actually make it harder for you. Running towards a goal without details, you might wander around within that goal, thinking, I did this and that, without progress.

The first step is to check. For the second goal, set aside time to invest during the day. You may have work to do to make a living. However, if there is something you want to do besides that, you need to set aside time separately every day. Usually, when there is extra time, it is used for the goal. But you must set aside time every day and dedicate it entirely to the goal. It's difficult to find time for overtime. In that case, you can postpone the expression of that much. In fact, if it were a friend, I would have said this, but I will show you a way because you might get hurt. Use the weekend or other days to make up for the missed time. Do you have to work more on the weekend if you didn't do it on weekdays? Of course. Or you can add it on days off during the week. As much as you invest time, the goal will come closer. So, on days off or after work.

Don't hesitate to invest time for your goals. In my case, I bought a timer that students use. When you set it for one hour, that time is an investment in your future. If you need to go to the bathroom or have an urgent call, just pause for a moment and then resume when you come back. It may not be easy to invest one hour every day, but I think changing the future without investing an hour a day is a bit greedy. Start with one hour, aim to spend more time if possible, but never set an unrealistic time. If you set one hour, even if you want to continue after that hour, just take a break. If you set an unrealistic time, it will be tough from the beginning, and if you set one hour but do more, there is a chance you'll do less the next day. Make spending a planned day a habit.

Even if you want to do more, hold back. Even if you want to finish quickly, hold back. Studying is said to be done with your buttocks. Nowadays, everyone knows this saying. If you think it's the same, you can just sit down steadily, whether it's thinking about something, searching, or consistently doing related work. Consistency is essential. Third, create a separate time for rest or hobbies. If you invest all your time in the future, you will probably achieve success quickly. Of course, theoretically speaking. Everyone who has worked knows that working for 9 hours at a company is really tough. It's working 8 hours excluding lunchtime, which can be even harder than working at a company. It's for your own future. Setting a goal requires being proactive and studying the parts you don't know, which can consume a lot of energy.

It is essential to set aside rest time separately and engage in hobbies to avoid feeling like you are just working and living. In my case, I go out for filming one day during the weekend. I take photos and videos, mainly focusing on taking pictures these days. I bought a camera not long ago, spent a lot on equipment, have a lot to study, travel for field trips, and spend the whole day, but I look forward to the next week. Perhaps because it's a hobby, I only invest as much time as I want, and as I enjoy what I do, I quickly see improvements in my skills. Taking photos also allowed me to meet many people in that field, which was nice. Therefore, I hope you can make sure to have a day of rest and hobbies at least once a week. Also, please remember to reward yourself for your efforts and take one step closer to your goals.

There is no way to do it quickly, so it is important to break down the goal into small pieces and work on it step by step. It is important to reward oneself each time the goal is achieved. That way, there will be a sense of accomplishment and it will serve as a great justification for what you want to have or what you want to do. When I achieve my own goals, it's not only nice to buy something I want, but I also recommend trying expensive food. People often consider cost-effectiveness when eating, and there are not many who are willing to eat expensive food just because it's expensive. I believe that every price has its own value. Of course, there may be some overpriced items, but if someone buys them at that price, it's because they are being sold at that price. Places that set prices higher than the value will likely fail. Expensive food is more likely to have a higher value, and it may be surprisingly delicious beyond expectations.

It could be nothing, but it will definitely be different from the food I have eaten so far. I feel that when taking pictures, you tend to use your senses less as you live. I have lived in the current place for about 10 years, but since I started taking pictures, I feel like every corner of the neighborhood looks so beautiful. Meals are different for everyone, whether it's for a date, to fill up at school or work, but most likely, it will be eaten within a framework. Within a reasonable price, it's about eating appropriate food. Therefore, it is essential for me to challenge myself to try new food once a month. If I don't feel attracted to new food, I also try brands that I haven't tried before among the ones I used to eat. Of course, by doing this, the probability of enjoying it a little decreases. Not eating.

Because it may not suit your taste as it is food, and the probability of not trying a brand you haven't eaten before is high, I try it only about once a month. While talking about the need to give rewards, I even went a little into TMI. I highly recommend trying expensive food. Today, I looked into what to do if the results are not as good as expected even though I made an effort. There were four things: First, clearly identify what the first goal is. Second, allocate a specific amount of time to invest in the second goal. Third, set aside time for rest or hobbies. Fourth, make sure to reward yourself. If you can't remember the details well, please watch the video again and try it once. You will be able to confirm your steady progress. Today's question for the diary is, do you have a goal or an ideal that you are aiming for? Please answer in the comments or in your mind.

Then, if you have any stories you want to hear or if you write your own story in the comments, I will find related books and make a video. Thank you for listening to me until the end.

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