reading over 100 books on women taught me important lessons that nobody talks about. But before we get into the secrets I learned, let me tell you my story. How I went from a shy boy and introverted and struggling to talk to anybody to actually becoming charismatic and easily getting girlfriends. Growing up, I was a painfully shy kid. Whether at school or social gatherings, my attempts at conversation were usually met with an uncomfortable silence. It seemed that my way of expressing myself just didn't resonate. The social awkwardness only deepened during high school, a time when my peers were busy partying and dating while I struggled to muster a simple hello, even to the sandwich lady at lunch. I had two best friends who were as awkward and insecure as I was. Our nights were spent playing video games, especially League of Legends. The concept of dating was almost mythical to us, rarely even discussed. Despite not being unattractive, my lack of social skills held me back significantly. As we grew older, my friends started finding girlfriends, but I remained alone.

realizing something had to change, I quit gaming and took up exercising, the route most guys take, hoping to boost my confidence through physical fitness. But muscles alone weren't enough to beat the challenge of talking to girls. YouTube tutorials on approaching and talking to women weren't helpful, so I started reading books like No More Mr. Nice Guy, Seduction by Robert Greene, How to Not Die Alone, and a couple more. I also joined various Reddit groups to learn to talk to girls, approaching methods, and so on. Each book talked about confidence, a quality I desperately needed. Applying lessons wasn't straightforward, as each book had a slightly different lesson, so I'd always get lost in the advice. I remember the first time I asked a girl at the gym how many sets she had left. Her reply of two more felt like a victory. I was so happy, encouraged, I began starting more conversations, no matter how unimportant they seemed. I remember one time I approached a girl, complimented on her dog-themed socks, only to learn they were actually squirrels, which resulted in her laughing.

over it. My understanding got better with books, and each day I've really started progressing more and more. Books really offered a new perspective on girls. The Game by Neil Strauss was particularly transformative because after that period, I approached a cute girl at the gym, got her insta, and we started talking. On our first date, while shaking, I managed to kiss her. My first girlfriend, my success story, would be great if there wasn't some dark twist in it. After 3 months of dating, my first love left me heartbroken into pieces. Going into the gym wasn't the same anymore. Heartbreak really affected my social skills, and that period was really tough. Now, fast forward a couple of years and many girlfriends later, I came to the conclusion that the true difficulty doesn't lie in getting many girls but in getting a quality one and having her as long as possible. Now we are getting into the main point of the video, and here's what I've learned reading over 100 books on women. There will be seven key lessons from Don't Idolize.

anyone to chasing equals losing. Female emotions: what they say they want and what they actually want. Why they love leaders, why respect over love, and importance of take it or leave it mentality. One: don't idolize anyone. The first thing that experience and books taught me is that girls are just humans. I struggled with this idea because I was looking at beautiful girls from a position of neediness, a prize that I could never have. Girls are not unicorns; like everyone else, they have their own insecurities, trials, and moments of doubt. So, putting them above yourself will only sabotage you in the long run. Two: chasing equals losing. The more you chase after something, the more it avoids you. The more interest you show, the more you repel the object of your desire. When one's interest in someone is too strong, it makes people feel awkward or even fearful. Uncontrollable desire makes you seem weak, unworthy, and pathetic. Additionally, women are organically drawn to ambitious men, which is why I want you to prioritize your purpose over her.

she will prioritize you over everyone else. Three women are emotional. Women tend to be more emotional, and expecting them to be entirely rational is like expecting men to watch Kardashians - not happening. Women love all emotions. This is why women sometimes create drama just to feel a spectrum of feelings - anger, love, happiness, sadness. Given this tendency, understanding how to navigate these emotions is key. Your goal is not just to make her happy, but to let her feel all spectrum of emotions. You can tease her, make light-hearted jokes, and even playfully challenge her, but it's important to know when to draw the line for what women say they want and what they actually want can be as different as night and day. Women often try to be socially correct and may not fully express their own desires. That's why it's better to watch what women respond to, not just listen to what they say. When it comes to attraction, pay more attention to their actions. They're like showing you the way. If you focus on what they respond to, you'll be miles ahead.

five women are only loyal to their leader. Talking about the things women want. Spoiler alert: they want a whole universe. One thing they ultimately can't resist is the lover, aka the powerful man who is capable of taking a lead and inspiring her submission. Adopt the attitude of the leader, and women will revert to their naturally submissive nature faster than you can imagine. Six: respect over love. Many people think women love the same way men do, but that's not quite true. Women and men see love differently. Women won't date or sleep with men they just kind of like; they need to respect him. The respect factor is a big deal; without it, there's no chance of a deeper connection. So if you're aiming for a meaningful relationship, focus on earning her respect first by being worthy of respect, and the rest follows naturally. Seven: take it or leave it mentality. Confidence is incredibly attractive to women, but there's a specific kind of confidence that hits the mark: indifference. It doesn't mean being rude or distant; it's about projecting a take

it or leave it attitude. This quality makes women go insane, sometimes even a little anxious, because they know they are dealing with a stud, which draws them in. You can still be a great boyfriend, express love, give compliments, and be caring, but if you also communicate that you're okay with moving on if things don't work out, it creates a sense of allure women can't simply resist. When women say they like confident men, they often mean they like guys who could walk away without hesitation if needed. With these seven things in mind, in my previous video on finding a girlfriend, is actually easy, I think you can create a full image of what women truly

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