여성의 독성 행동 징후

### 주의해야 할 독성 여성의 6가지 확실한 징후
* 👿 "그녀는 항상 피해자"라며 끊임없이 다른 사람을 비난하고 죄책감을 느끼게 하며 **자신의 행동에 대해 책임을 지지 않습니다.**
* 🎮 '게임하기'는 **불안과 미성숙의 신호**이며, 관계가 어떻게 될지 알 수 있는 지표입니다.
* 🧠 독성은 종종 **불안감, 미성숙, 트라우마, 자가 치유에 대한 필요성**에서 비롯됩니다.
* 🏆 '성취가 경쟁이 될 때', 그녀는 여러분의 성공을 지지하지 않고 기뻐하지 않으며 **오직 자신만을 걱정**합니다.
* 👁 '과도한 시기나 질투'는 **불신, 염탐, 경계를 넘나드는 행동**으로 이어집니다.
* 🕹 "대화 상대나 행동을 지시하는 등 **'통제'하는 행동은 해롭습니다.**"
* 💸 초기에 사치스러운 요구를 하거나 **합의된 재정적 한계를 넘나드는 등 금전적인 목적으로 사용자를 이용하는 것**은 경고 신호입니다.
* 🔍 데이트나 연애를 할 때 이러한 징후를 살펴보는 것은 매우 중요하며, 이러한 행동이 있다고 해서 그 사람을 구제할 수 없는 사람은 아니지만, **이러한 해로운 행동을 바꾸고 중단하도록 요구할 수 있습니다.**

피해자 놀이, 질투, 통제 성향 등 여성의 해로운 행동을 인식하는 것은 건강한 관계를 위해 매우 중요합니다.

hi everyone welcome back to my channel. If you're new here, I'm Courtney Ryan. Today we're going to be going over six foolproof easy ways to tell that a woman is toxic. I think every single guy on the planet should watch this video, especially after the Amber Heard Johnny Depp debacle that we all saw online. I think it will benefit all of you to make sure that you watch this video and stick around until the very end. So again, these are six foolproof ways to tell that a woman is toxic. Let's get right into it. Number one, she's always the victim. If she's always pointing fingers, blaming you, never taking accountability, it's always everyone's fault but hers. This is not a good sign and a sign that she's unable to take accountability for her actions, which is obviously not beneficial if you're looking for a healthy mature relationship. This is the type of girl that's always going to make you feel guilty, who's going to make you feel like you need to be apologizing for

things that you didn't even do simply because of the fact that she can't take accountability for her actions. Plain and simple, it's exhausting to be with someone like this and a toxic situation to be in where someone is always blaming other people and playing the victim. Now there's a really big difference between playing the victim and actually being the, you know, person who was in the right in a situation. I'm not saying that she can never be the victim in a situation, but I do think that constantly playing the victim or wanting to be the victim and wanting people to feel bad for you and throw a pity party for you is not a good way to live your life and is exhausting to be with someone like that. Number two and one of the easiest ways to see things from the very beginning is that they play games. This is something that you honestly might be able to pick up on from the very start and save yourself some time. I say this all the time on my channel. If you have been on my channel for a while, I'm sure you've

heard me say this a million times. If she's playing games with you, this is a sign that she is insecure and immature, and we don't have time for that here. And also, this is going to be a window into what the rest of your relationship is going to look like with her, which probably is not a healthy, happy one. I will also say this, and I think it's important for me to mention this at some point in the video, is that a lot of times toxic people and toxic behaviors stem from, you know, insecurity, immaturity, but also trauma, and also things that we need to deal with and heal within ourselves that a lot of people just don't step up and do. Does it mean that this person is going to be toxic forever? No, absolutely not. Does it mean this person is going to be undateable for their entire lives? No, absolutely not. But I will say it is not your responsibility to stick around and find out if they change, or to try to be the one to change them. I would not recommend any of you do.

that in this case of talking about a toxic girl, it is her responsibility to take ownership for her toxic behaviors and heal herself, and work things out so that long term, she can potentially be in a healthy, happy relationship. And while we're on the topic of stepping up and taking charge of our mental health, here I'm really excited that today's video is sponsored by BetterHelp. Real talk here, how is your mental health? In all honesty, I've been feeling a little bit overwhelmed and I've been struggling a little bit, you know, running two YouTube channels, trying to make time for myself. It's not easy. So, if you're struggling with your mental health, you're definitely not alone. My therapist, Janie, helped me identify that in order to be my best self, for not only myself but also for all of you and the people around me, I have to make sure that I'm, you know, putting time in with myself and spending time on things besides just work. In all honesty, it's really difficult to manage your mental health.

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health with better help you can also use my link to get 10 off your first month at betterhelp.com. Courtney Ryan, that's better h-e-l-p.com. Courtney Ryan moving right along here. Number three is that achievement becomes competition. Being competitive and competition in general is a very normal thing in a lot of aspects of our lives. Maybe you're playing a video game or a board game, or you know you're doing something fun with your partner that gets a little bit competitive. What is not healthy is when your achievements become competition. And I found a quote from an article that I want to share with all of you that says, Healthy relationships are based on a mutual desire to see the other succeed in all areas of life, Carabello says, but when things turn toxic, every achievement becomes a competition. So maybe this looks like she doesn't encourage you, she doesn't support you, she gets upset when you get a promotion at work or when something good happens in your life because she's only able to be happy for

you if the same thing is happening to her. Maybe you just got an A on your exam, but she got a C, so she's upset and mad at you for the fact that you got an A. There are so many situations and scenarios where this can present itself. That's just a little example I wanted to share with you in case maybe you've been in something like that. But again, this can present itself in many areas of our life, whether it be with friendships, or work, or a promotion, or getting a new job. I mean, it could be, again, an array of things. But when achievement becomes competition, she's not supportive, she's not encouraging, she's not happy for you, and she only cares about herself. This is a real issue, and that leads me into my next point here, number four, which is excessive envy or jealousy. If envy is keeping your partner from being happy for your success, this is a big issue, and it's quite frankly toxic. When we're talking about jealousy here, jealousy is a natural human emotion, but when it leads to constantly mistrusting your

partner snooping through their phone, or crossing boundaries. This isn't a good thing, and being jealous and envious isn't cute. I know it might seem okay in the beginning, or people say, you know, it's healthy to have a little bit of envy or jealousy in your relationships, but again, when it gets to this excessive point, or a point where you know you're crossing boundaries and you can't trust each other. Now, if you've given someone a reason not to trust you, that's a totally different story. That's not what I'm talking about here. But say, for instance, you bring up a story, you're telling her something, and there's a girl that you mention in it, and the second that you mention the girl, she absolutely freaks out, even though you've done nothing wrong. That's exhibited. And again, here, if something positive is happening in your life, you would think that your partner would be encouraging and supportive, but if envy is keeping them from being supportive or encouraging of you, this is toxic. Number five is that she's

controlling. And again, my last two points that I made have led me to this point, and they're all kind of entwined within each other because often, if you know she's controlling, she also might be envious or jealous. Does she make you sit on the couch when you get home from work so that she can come and take your shoes off for you? But one day you decide to take your own shoes off, and she has a frantic meltdown. If you watch the Johnny Depp trial, you probably know exactly what I'm referring to here. But regardless if you watch that or not, generally speaking, here controlling behavior is toxic. Being controlling of your partner is not healthy, point-blank period. Does she control who you hang out with, who you talk to, what you do on a daily basis, how you take your shoes off, if you take your shoes off? I know that's a crazy example, but this is just proof that it happens. Of course, setting boundaries within your relationship is really important, but setting boundaries and being controlling are two very different things. And my

last point here is money. Does she try to get you to buy a Birkin even though you just met her? If so, she's probably toxic. Does she only talk to you when you're buying her something or taking her out? Remember here, what you allow is what will continue. I really want to highlight here that it's toxic to spend tons of money to impress a woman, but it's also toxic when a woman is only using you for your money. If she makes you pay her in order to send her a text message again, if she's asking for a Birkin on the first date, if she's asking you to fly her out and take her shopping, and that's the only way she'll talk to you, probably a sign that this girl doesn't have your best interest in mind and only wants to see what's in your wallet. And if you're in a relationship or married, the same kind of money rule applies here, but it might just look a little bit different. Have you agreed on a budget and she goes behind your back to buy things anyway?

does she cross the boundaries that you've agreed on when it comes to finances? These are conversations that you need to be having. And in order to have a healthy, happy relationship, you have to make sure that you guys are both, you know, respecting each other's boundaries and not consistently crossing them. Or that leads to toxic behavior like this. All right, guys. So to wrap it up here, again, I think a lot of times toxic behaviors stem from insecurity, immaturity, trauma, you know, not taking charge of our mental health. So I think it's really important to make sure that you're looking for these things when you're looking for a potential partner, when you're dating, even when you're in a relationship and married. These are six foolproof warning signs that you need to look out for. And again, I'm not saying that just because she does things, she is the scum of the earth, worst person on the planet, she's never going to be dateable. But it just might require her to, again, step up, take charge of herself.

and stop doing these toxic behaviors. Let me know down in the comments if you guys have ever experienced any of these things. If there's anything I missed, please be sure to let me know and help some of the other guys out down in the comments. If you like this video, be sure to give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel to be in the loop for when I release new content. If you haven't already, be sure to follow me over on Instagram at Courtney Christine Ryan. I love connecting with all of you guys over on there as well. As always, thank you all so much for watching and I will see you all next time.

6 Ways To Tell A Woman Is Toxic (Every Guy Needs To Know This)

Courtney Ryan

그녀는 끊임없이 피해자 행세를 하고 책임을 거부하며 파트너에게 죄책감을 느끼게 합니다.

심리 게임을 하는 것은 불안감과 미성숙함을 드러내는 명백한 신호이며, 이는 건강하지 못한 관계로 이어집니다.

이러한 행동을 인식하는 것은 중요하지만, 이를 바꾸려고 노력하는 것은 여러분의 책임이 아닙니다.

정신 건강 및 유해한 행동에 대한 책임감 갖기

해로운 행동에 대한 주인의식을 갖는 것은 개인의 성장과 건강한 관계의 잠재력을 위해 매우 중요합니다.

BetterHelp는 맞춤형 온라인 치료를 제공하여 정신 건강 지원을 더 쉽고 저렴하게 이용할 수 있도록 합니다.

독성 관계에서는 성취가 경쟁의 원인이 되어 서로의 성공에 대한 지원과 행복이 부족해질 수 있습니다.

파트너가 정서적으로 지지적이지 않다는 신호

성취가 경쟁으로 변해 파트너가 서로를 지지하지 않고 자기중심적으로 변하는 경우.

파트너의 성공에 대한 과도한 부러움과 질투는 관계에 독이 될 수 있습니다.

파트너의 지원과 격려 부족이 일관된 패턴이라면 정서적 지지 부족의 신호일 수 있습니다.

통제적이고 유해한 파트너의 징후

조니 뎁의 재판에서 볼 수 있듯이, 시기나 질투와 관련된 통제적인 행동은 관계에 독이 될 수 있습니다.

경계를 설정하는 것과 통제하는 것 사이의 경계는 매우 중요하며, 값비싼 선물을 강요하는 등의 재정적 조작도 파트너에게 독성이 있다는 신호입니다.

합의된 금전적 문제에 대해 등 뒤에 숨는 것은 관계의 또 다른 적신호입니다.

재무 건강을 위한 관계의 경계 설정하기

해로운 행동을 피하려면 관계에서 재정적 경계에 대해 열린 마음으로 대화하는 것이 중요합니다.

해로운 행동은 불안감, 미성숙함, 해결되지 않은 트라우마에서 비롯되는 경우가 많으므로 파트너의 경고 신호를 살피는 것이 중요합니다.

데이트든 결혼이든 건강하고 행복한 관계를 위해서는 자신의 정신 건강을 관리하는 것이 필수적입니다.