데이트 문화에서 남성적 권위에 대한 환상

### 인플루언서 라이프스타일 뒤에 숨겨진 진실: 남성다움과 진정성에 대한 심층 분석
* 🤔 대화는 화자와 **댄 빌저리언의 라이프스타일을 비교**하는 것으로 시작되며, 빌저리언은 대중적으로 더 큰 존재감을 가지고 있지만 화자는 **자신의 삶과 더 깊은 유대감**을 느낀다고 언급합니다.
* 💬 연사는 빌저리언의 진정성과 부를 둘러싼 논쟁을 인식하면서 빌저리언에 대한 미묘한 시각을 드러내며, **"많은 젊은이들이 들을 수 있는 건강한 메시지"**라고 생각하기 때문에 전 세계에 방송되는 것을 좋아한다며 **빌저리언이 대변하는 부끄러움 없이 살라는 메시지**를 높이 평가했습니다.
* 🏆 그는 자신의 연애 방식을 빌저리안의 방식과 비교하며, **빌저리안이 교제 수당을 제공하는 모델**과 달리 자신은 역사적으로 보다 전통적인 방식으로 여성을 유혹해 상호 금전적 이익을 얻었다고 설명합니다.
* 📈 약 30만 명의 팔로워를 보유한 이 연사는 **빌저리언에 비해 소셜 미디어에서 자신의 성장 속도가 느리다**는 점을 인정하면서도 대중의 인식과 상관없이 **자신의 삶은 만족스럽다**고 강조합니다.
* 📸 인스타그램에 자신의 일상을 공유할 때는 개인의 행복을 우선시하며, **"이로 인해 얼마나 많은 문제가 생길지"**를 더 걱정한다며 주변 여성과 갈등을 일으킬 수 있는 콘텐츠는 게시하지 않는다고 합니다.
* 👀 연사는 데이트에 관한 많은 자칭 권위자들을 비판하며, 그들 중 **"90%"는 실제 경험이나 주장에 대한 증거가 부족**하기 때문에 가짜라고 주장합니다.
* 🎣 그는 어부의 비유를 통해 많은 사람들이 자신의 성공에 대해 이야기하지만 **증거를 제시할 수 있는 사람은 거의 없다**는 점을 설명하며 가식적인 사람들로 가득한 세상에서 진정성의 중요성을 강조합니다.
* 🔍 이 토론은 데이트 조언 공간의 투명성을 촉구하는 것으로 마무리되며 **익명 계정의 위험성**과 **남성들이 추구할 수 있는 진정한 경험의 필요성**을 강조합니다.

그는 온라인에서 자칭 데이트 전문가라고 자처하는 많은 사람들이 가짜이며 여성에 대한 실제 경험이 부족하다고 생각합니다.

Is your life, um, similar in a sense to a guy like Dan Bilzerian? I mean, he's a very, like, he's far more public, and he's got a bigger reach with the Instagram thing, and he made that happen a number of years ago. But, I mean, you're a guy that I can reach out to, like I've got you on WhatsApp, but you know, I can reach out to you and say, Hey, you know, what are you up to? sort of thing. But I feel like your life is like his, but I don't even know if it's at another level. Like, I feel like you guys live better, you know, to some regard, because the way that you have no apologies to anything in a different sort of way. There's a debate with Dan Bilzerian. There's a debate whether he was legit, whether he's not, whether it's dad's money, whether he's... Do you think he's rich himself? I hoped he was for a very long time, but finding out that when all these stories came out, you know, that he's a big fake.

but you know people have written [ __ ] about me too, so I did my research. And when it all came out, it was fake. It kind of upset me because I feel like I like people like him existing to give that message to, you know, what I live how I want, I [ __ ] who I want, I'm not going to get tied down, I'm not going to get divorce rate, I just put my dick in whichever model I like, and everyone could leave me alone, and I don't apologize. I like that being broadcast to the world because I actually think it's a healthy message for a lot of young men to hear, and it's something that a lot of young men need to know as possible. So, it's not like me finding out Santa wasn't real because I don't [ __ ] idolize him. I don't idolize anybody. I'm a self-made man. I live in my own world, but at my level and my

brother's level. You have to understand I've met women and [__] women who have been to his house, who have been to his parties. So, I know his setup. His setup is he contacts the model agencies, they all sign NDAs. They shouldn't, she shouldn't have spoke to me. I'm not gonna name drop her. They all sign NDAs, uh, they get an allowance, they get their flights paid for. You can't rely on a woman signing an NDA to keep your mouth shut. Exactly, exactly, clearly, obviously not. They get an allowance, a weekly expenditure. Now, he doesn't actually pay them for sex, but they're flown in, they're paid for their, uh, you know, they're giving money to hang out with him. And he does [__] some of them. Now, that's very different from my setup. Typically, my setup was for many, many years. I would approach women and meet them and seduce them in the old-fashioned way, and within a few months, they were earning money for me to make me richer, either on webcam or a

platform like OnlyFans or something like that. So, I see myself on a higher level because I distinguish the difference between being a customer and being a provider of the service, you know. I'm the guy who gets money because he has women, not the guy who spends his money to get women near him. But I liked the message he was spreading out there. Is my life similar to his? I don't know. He is the king of Instagram. Good for him. I mean, he's a big, big boy on Instagram. I'm about 300 and something thousand followers. Each time I get new cars, etc., it jumps by 10, 15,000. I will climb up there eventually, but that's not why I'm doing it. I don't post as often as I should. I don't take my Instagram as seriously as I could. A lot of the fun things I do aren't on my Instagram. If I took it more seriously, I think I could be bigger. But my life is certainly amazing. I haven't

listened. How do you distinguish what part of your life gets to be shown on Instagram versus what you reserve to be kept private? Well, it's all down to, I don't care about my Instagram audience. For me, it's how much trouble is this going to cause me. So, in the last episode with other women or with the authorities or no, but in general, but usually with other women, with people. I mean, there's the last episode of Take Confidential Mind of My Brother's kind of YouTube vlog where we just sometimes whip out our phones when we're doing [__] and we edit the footage together. I was on a camping trip. We rented these big tents in the Transylvanian mountains, kind of glamping more than camping, but I was with three different women. Now, all the women who know me know who these three are, and after that episode was released, it was all, Oh, why didn't I get invited? Why didn't you bring me on it? Because you don't like her, and she

doesn't like her, and it's chess, and it's politics, and it gets me in trouble. So, that's what I think about before I post things on social media. I don't care about my audience and what they'd like to see. I think, is this going to get me in trouble? Is this going to cause me unnecessary headache and unnecessary grief? You know, I want to keep my life happy. So, I'm happy having all the pictures of the women, all the pictures of me partnering with girls in my phone, and I don't need to show anybody. I just don't like it. It's not why I do it. Do you think that there's a chunk of the guys out there that purport to hold out to the public that they're authorities on women in dating that are full of crap? That are, I think, ah, this is a slippery slope I'm going to go down, but I think, man, slide down. Yeah, man, there are, you know, let's go down the road. There are people who I think can teach certain things to

different calibers of men, but in terms of just having it nailed in terms of what I refer to as living in god mode. Like, I can't have as much sex per day as the number of really beautiful women who want to have sex with me. I don't have that many hours because I'm busy driving supercars and doing other [__]. This is why I describe my life as god mode. It's unlimited resources, essentially. And I think it's very easy to [__] on the internet because so many men are in a horrible position right now. So many men are living lives where they're failing with women, they're failing on the sexual battlefield, they're failing in the sexual marketplace. They have no clue that it's very easy to be a pretender. I mean, I'm a martial artist. I come from a kickboxing background, and there are some gyms, especially in the United States, they're referred to as mcdojos when someone doesn't know how to fight, doesn't know karate, doesn't know

kickboxing doesn't know taekwondo, but he's teaching other people how to fight. And you know, because it's very cool to have men look up to you, be like, Yeah, this guy's a badass. They don't want to put in the years of hard training. They don't want to do the actual work. They just want people to admire them as some sort of authority on something that's badass. And open people's ass and having sex with a bunch of beautiful women is a badass thing to do. And on Twitter, it's very, very easy. I mean, don't even get me started on anonymous accounts, Rivolino. Like, what are you doing, Matt? Yeah, wrote the mask slips occasionally. He wants bragged about having sex with seven different women in five days, in five years. The mask slipped off, and you saw for a second underneath. Seven in five years. I've literally done seven in 48-hour periods of time. And for him to be an authority that people listen to, it just goes to show.

this the state of men as a whole is lost. It's terrible for these people to be authorities. They're all fake. Ninety percent, ninety percent, ninety percent. The guys who claim to sleep with beautiful women in bed, beautiful women, ninety percent. Now, there are people like Rolo Tomasi who, and Rolo talks about me sometimes, but you know, let me tell you something. I have friends who would be like, I was married and I read his book and his book saved my life. I haven't read Rolo's, but I've read one actually on audiobook. But I don't need the work of Rolo Tomassi. But when people who I respect say, Yeah, his work saved my life, I mean, I'm like, You know what, cool, that Rolo guy obviously knows something. But Rolo doesn't run around saying, I [__] all the [__]. This is why I don't, I don't have anything really bad to say about him. But loads of guys claim that they do [__].

all the [ __ ] and no one shows receipts. No one is like, Here are all the women I'm sleeping with. I mean, you just pulled up one of my tweets. I used to run that anonymous account where every day I was tweeting the women I slept with. Yeah, that was a very small following there too, and I was privileged enough to see all of that. I've still got that on. Yeah, I've still got that. I run an Instagram account now that has no followers and it's private, but each time I sleep with a new woman starting at this year, I just upload a picture of her for myself because it makes me happy to see it. And when you're playing at my level, ninety percent of the guys out there claiming to date women, sleep with women, meet women, pull women, they're all fake. No one's showing their cards, no one's showing their their uh. Me and my brother had the analogy, we're saying we're fishermen and we all talked about fishing all day long. Me and Andrew are the guys on Instagram.

with our huge catches weighing them, saying, This is my fish, this is my fish. Everyone just talks about fishing all day. Where's everyone's [ __ ] fish? Where are the pictures? Where's the evidence? You know, it's mind-blowing that these guys still can have such a large audience showing zero receipts, zero. Yeah, even one anon accounts are dangerous, the worst, often quite deceptive. I mean, why are they hiding? You know, why can't we see, you know, what's going on? You see it in all kinds of different genres out there. It's not just in spaces like this too, right? I mean, you see it everywhere. I mean, you know, you know the answer already. You know the answer. Why can't we see them? Because what they are saying they do and what they claim to have doesn't exist. A limitable man is, uh, tell your son, This is world-renowned for his. I've been blocked by a lot of those guys. Yeah, I've been talking about lions, guys, because I called them out on their

[ __ ] yeah, not as much as you guys. I mean, you guys destroyed that guy with like one week of material, I think, right? Yeah, yeah, the Jordy guy. No, tell your son this guy, that guy. Yeah, because he was chasing one of the girls that was in your cam studio or something. Was it, was that majority guy? No, well, that's, that's, it's both of them. So, and you know, there's a few names, there's, ah man, I'm not gonna do it, I'm not gonna do it. But very recently, a couple months ago, one of these, I'm a playboy, I'm this, I'm that, who doesn't tell anyone his real identity with the exact same email address he uses on his, uh, with the exact same email address he uses on his, his mailing list, etc. Had signed up to an Oni fans account, was tipping one of my girls money. So, you know who you are, my friend. This beer, this beer is on you, I guess. Thank you very much. But, uh, you need to get off the

internet telling men that you know how to get laid because I've read your messages and they're really [ __ ] sad. They're really sad, rich. You know what? You know what? Do I say his name? Do I just tell you? You know what? Just, just, uh, send it over to me on the WhatsApp. You know, I will, I will, I will do it because now I gotta know. Let's give a woman, give me like, give me, give it three things. Ask your next, next question. I'll track it down, you.

Tristan Tate: "I Live Better Than Dan BIlzerian"

Rich Cooper Clips

라이프스타일 비교하기: 댄 빌저리언과 나 자신

화자는 댄 빌저리안의 대중적 영향력이 더 크지만 자신의 삶과 댄 빌저리안의 삶이 비슷하다고 느낍니다.

그들은 빌저리안의 거침없는 라이프스타일을 높이 평가하며 그것이 젊은 남성들에게 건강한 메시지를 전달한다고 믿습니다.

연사는 빌저리안이 모델 에이전시와 비밀유지계약(NDA)을 맺는 방식에 대한 내부 지식을 가지고 있으며, 이를 자신들이 여성을 만나고 유혹하는 방식과 대조합니다.

소셜 미디어에서 공적 생활과 사적 생활의 균형 맞추기

이 화자는 여성을 끌어들이기 위해 돈을 쓰는 사람들과는 달리 서비스 제공자로서 자신을 차별화합니다.

그는 인스타그램 팔로워가 증가하고 있으며, 더 진지하게 받아들인다면 더 큰 성공을 거둘 수 있다고 인정합니다.

화자는 자신의 사생활을 우선시하고 문제나 드라마를 일으킬 수 있는 콘텐츠를 게시하지 않으며, 대신 자신의 삶을 행복하고 사적으로 유지하는 데 중점을 둡니다.

"신 모드"로 살아가기: 남성성에 대한 관점

화자는 무한한 자원과 아름다운 여성들의 관심으로 인해 자신의 삶을 '신 모드'라고 묘사하며 많은 남성이 성 시장에서 겪는 어려움과 대조합니다.

또한 가짜 페르소나와 익명 계정의 만연을 강조하면서 남성성과 여성과의 성공에 대한 권위자인 척하는 사람들을 비판합니다.

연사는 롤로 토마시의 업적을 인정하며 그가 일부 남성의 삶에 미친 긍정적인 영향을 높이 평가하지만, 성공을 위해서는 진정한 경험과 노력이 중요하다고 강조합니다.

데이트에서 기만적인 주장의 본질

많은 남성들이 여러 명의 여성과 데이트하거나 잠자리를 가졌다고 주장하지만, 자신의 주장을 뒷받침할 증거나 '영수증'을 제시하는 경우는 거의 없습니다.

익명 계정을 운영하다가 현재는 비공개 인스타그램을 운영하고 있는 화자는 증거 제시의 중요성을 강조하며 왜 다른 사람들이 자신의 행동을 숨기는지 의문을 제기합니다.

화자는 이러한 주장을 하는 남성의 대다수가 가짜이며, 투명성 부족은 데이트뿐만 아니라 다양한 장르에서 만연해 있다고 생각합니다.

캠 스튜디오의 드라마: 플레이보이의 이중생활

플레이보이로 유명한 한 남성이 최근 자신의 메일링 리스트에 동일한 이메일 주소를 사용하면서 OnlyFans에서 캠 스튜디오의 여성 중 한 명에게 팁을 준 사실이 드러났습니다.

화자는 이 남성이 온라인에서 남성에게 연애에 대해 조언하는 메시지가 슬프다며 불만을 표출합니다.

화자는 이 사람의 정체를 밝히겠다고 암시하며 그를 추적하겠다고 제안합니다.