외로움을 극복하고 공부하는 데 있어 몰입의 중요성

### 몰입과 긍정적인 에너지를 통한 외로움 해결
* 📖 연사들은 처음에는 당황스러웠지만 지금은 잘 쓰여지고 시대를 초월한 심오한 내용을 담고 있어 **읽고 묵상할 것을 추천하는 책**을 썼습니다.
* 💬 연사는 외로움에 관한 책의 한 구절을 공유하며 **외로움은 완전히 몰입하지 않는 데서 발생**하며, 특히 공부할 때 **몰입하기 위해 끊임없이 노력**해야 한다고 강조했습니다.
* 📚 연사는 **책의 각 부분을 공부하고 성찰**하며 일상 생활에 통찰력을 적용할 것을 권장했습니다.
* 👥 외로움은 혼자 있는 것만으로 해결되는 것이 아니며, **다른 사람에게 둘러싸여 있어도 근본적인 외로움이 해결되지 않으면 여전히 외로움을 느낄 수 있습니다.**
* 😔 외로움은 종종 나쁜 것으로 간주되어 **이분법적인 사고와 자책**으로 이어지곤 합니다.
* 🎯 연사는 외로움의 에너지를 긍정적인 에너지로 바꾸어 목표를 위한 원동력으로 삼으라고 조언하며, **타인을 위한 것이 아니라 자신을 위한 것**이어야 한다고 강조했습니다.

혼자 공부하면 외로움을 느낄 수 있지만, 몰입하면 그 감정이 해소되고 긍정적인 에너지로 바뀝니다.

Hello everyone, today is a delightful Tuesday. If I may share something with you, I have a book. If studying doesn't work out, give up. After writing this book, I felt a bit embarrassed. So, I didn't really go to bookstores often to see if my book was there. I checked if my book was there and left after looking at 10 pages. But recently, I kept seeing it. I thought, Wow, I really wrote well. So, it's not embarrassing. Even if I show it off anywhere, this book will remain with me for a lifetime. It's a book that I'm not embarrassed about, no matter who reads it or in which era. I'm confident that it's a book that stands the test of time. So, as I look at it again, I'm reading it carefully.

I would like to explain to you. The books here are like jewels to me. I turned 43 years old. When I was 40, I had to reinterpret and discard the contents given to me by the horse that made me. I felt the conclusion through interpretation, so it's okay. Although it's not a classic, I recommend reading classics to you. Even though it's not a classic, the content is good. Today, I want to share and discuss with you. On page 293, it says, Do not seek from people for lonely reasons. I will read this and explain it to you. Listen once and I will tell you what it means. Even if a student is sitting in a bustling classroom at Harvard University, it feels like the capital of the desert.

Like water, being alone is lonely. However, a monk alone is not lonely. If a monk feels lonely, he cannot do his duties. Then, even if a monk is alone in the isolated environment of the desert, wouldn't he feel lonely? That's because he is fully immersed in that moment. A person who is immersed does not feel lonely even when alone. Studying is something that can only be done alone. You may think you are lonely just because you are alone, but that is a misconception. The reason you feel lonely is that you are not fully immersed. It's not about being alone. Studying can be a battle against loneliness and distraction, ultimately a constant struggle for immersion. The moment you stop immersing yourself, depression creeps in. To not feel lonely when studying alone, you must immerse yourself. Do not seek the reason for loneliness in others. I will read you this part of the book.

Chaeganeun ireohge namassjanayo. Danrag-eul naraeseo dallang mada tto gangjohaneun juge yeoleul dasi jemog-eulo dal-a najanhayo. Ige yo wae ireohge haessseubnikka? Yeolebun-ege jom deo yeolebuni jom deo jal iehago jom deo ganghage wa dasi algo geuleohge malssum deulin geojyo. Geuleohge bubunbun ilg-eusigo bosigo saeng-gag-eul haneun geosdo johayo. Yeolebuni ige jega chaeg-i johdago malssum-eul deulyeossjiman yo chaeg-ui naeyong-i jochogayo. Gunde geugeoleul yeolebun-ui gyeolgug 4 geol an mandeulmyeon igeon geunyang hanbeon ilg-eo ij-eobeolineun geuleon caeg-e bulgwahan geojyo yeotaye geuleon caegdeul-i lang geulaeseo ilg-eo saeng-gag-eul hasyeoya doeyo. Jega jigeum non-eo gang-ui leul hajanayo. Non-eo non-eo ga juneun insaiteuga gwe

Don't just immerse yourself in studying like pouring water into a bucket, it's not about going to KaSi, just try applying it in your daily life. What I'm saying is, instead of looking for reasons for your loneliness in other people, there's a saying, right? Try to observe what that means. Observe things happening around you with that theme in mind. That's how you will truly understand and internalize it. Yes, yes, then in order to do that, utilize it like that. This book, well, today, you are lonely. Why are you lonely? Love yourself. I also feel lonely. Why are you lonely? It's not because you are alone. Why are you lonely? It's because of the loneliness that comes from human nature.

And some people say they feel lonely when studying. When studying, it's not about studying alone, is it? Are you supposed to study together with others? If so, what is the point of studying? But if I feel lonely because I am alone, not just by myself, but because there is no one around, then it becomes distressing. Next time, I should work with someone. If I feel lonely, I can't focus on studying or get immersed. It means I have to be so lonely that it's hard to study. But everyone is not like that. It's not that way. When you study with others, you don't feel lonely. When you study or talk to someone next to you, you may mistakenly think you are not lonely. But I still feel lonely. The reason you feel lonely is not just because you are alone. That's why even if someone talks to me and there is someone next to me, I still feel lonely. Why? Because the fundamental loneliness has not been resolved.

And it solves the fundamental loneliness, right? It shouldn't be called a problem to solve throughout our lives. It's not a problem to solve, so there's nothing to solve. It's about resolving it. We all have various emotions in our lives. We can feel loneliness, happiness, anger, and various emotions because we are emotional beings. Humans have these emotions internally, and the issue lies in how we express them with what kind of energy. You are doing that. Because I feel lonely, I think loneliness is bad. We always think in terms of good and bad. I mentioned good luck and bad luck. So, loneliness is considered bad, and laziness is bad, but being kind is good. Selfishness is bad, and being considerate is good. That's how it goes. It's exactly ten thousand won.

I should become a good person, that's why I cultivated the field of education. Since I was young, I have been receiving such advice. Starting from elementary school, they tell you to be a kind and good person. I didn't even think much about it, that's why. Therefore, being lonely is considered bad. Feeling lonely means I am saying that I am lonely to others, that I have no people around me, that I am a person who is not well-liked. If I am not popular, it means I am a bad person. Due to this twisted binary thinking, I end up creating a very strange version of myself. I conclude that I am lonely because there is no one around me, even though that's not the real reason. Am I making sense? So, if I keep meeting those people, meeting people is about using your energy, as I mentioned. Therefore, I use my energy there.

It's about human relationships. When you meet people because you are lonely, how deep can those human relationships be? Usually, it becomes an exceptional encounter. And what remains after such exceptional encounters? It's even greater loneliness. So, for those who are studying, even if you study, if you don't study with the intention of truly understanding the book, it's just a superficial study. People who study also feel lonely. They feel lonely because they haven't immersed themselves in it. They feel so lonely. When you immerse yourself in something, you become unaware of even the things happening around you. That's because you only see that one thing. So, the reason you feel lonely is because you don't seek it from people.

Please drink, everyone, loneliness can be solved by yourselves a lot, and you can solve it a lot. How should you do that? You should purify the feeling of loneliness into positive energy and radiate it. That's how successful people do it. Those who can't do that fail. The feeling of loneliness you feel is also energy. Don't treat it as garbage, as I mentioned before, don't use trash-like materials. Then what remains? Only garbage remains. But pour that energy, the energy of feeling lonely, positively and find the subject to radiate. It's not about being a person, you must never become a person. It's not about doing it for others, it's solely for you. If you are studying, how should you pour that energy? It becomes the essence of studying.

I feel lonely because I can't concentrate. It's not because of people. So, everyone, please study hard today. Now, let's read each sentence and complete it. Oh, show it to me 100 times together. Oh, the local food has a strong taste. The meat is all gone, it's salty. I ate the bone, it's delicious. How about the taste? It's been a while since I've had such a delicious meal. Yes, I've finished eating. Nice to meet you. I'll eat the rich people's Jjapaguri. Eat a lot, kids, it's really good. It's not difficult to eat. It's moist, try it.

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이 책의 메시지는 공부하는 동안 외로움을 이겨내기 위한 몰입의 중요성을 강조하며 저자 자신의 경험을 바탕으로 공감을 불러일으킵니다.

저자는 독자들에게 외로움을 피하기 위해 친구를 구하기보다는 공부에 몰입하는 데 집중할 것을 권합니다.

논어에 깊이 몰입하는 것의 중요성

논어를 부분적으로 읽으면 심오한 내용을 더 잘 이해하고 기억할 수 있습니다.

단순히 묵상 없이 텍스트를 읽는 것만으로는 감흥이 부족할 수 있습니다.

각 부분을 공부하고 일상 생활에 적용하면 고독과 인간의 본능에 대한 귀중한 통찰력을 얻을 수 있습니다.

혼자 공부하는 것과 함께 공부하는 것의 본질

혼자 공부하면 외로움을 느낄 수 있으며, 이는 고통스럽고 집중력에 영향을 미칠 수 있습니다.

다른 사람들과 함께 공부하면 외롭지 않다는 착각이 들 수 있지만 근본적인 외로움은 해결되지 않습니다.

인간의 근본적인 감정인 외로움을 해결하고 해소하는 것이 중요합니다.

외로움이 개인 성장에 미치는 영향

어릴 때부터 좋은 사람이 되어야 한다는 메시지는 외로움에 대한 두려움과 깊은 관계를 형성하기 위한 노력으로 이어졌습니다.

인기 있고 끊임없이 친구들에게 둘러싸여 있어야 한다는 압박은 이분법적인 사고와 외로움에 대한 자책으로 이어졌습니다.

이 책은 의도와 상관없이 공부하고 다른 사람과의 관계를 추구하지 않으면 깊은 외로움을 느낄 수 있다고 강조합니다.

외로움을 긍정적인 에너지로 전환하기

외로움은 긍정적인 에너지로 전환될 수 있으며, 이는 성공에 매우 중요한 요소입니다.

외로움을 낭비하지 않고 개인적인 목표에 집중하고 외로움의 에너지를 연료로 활용하는 것이 중요합니다.

공부든 다른 활동이든 외로움을 생산성으로 전환하면 더 만족스러운 삶을 살 수 있습니다.