아버지의 사랑: 숨겨진 진실이 밝혀지다

### 수용의 어려움: 아버지의 과거와 함께하는 딸의 여정
* 👨 딸은 아버지에 대한 사랑과 관심에도 불구하고 **친구들이 아버지에 대해 언급해서는 안 된다**고 주장하며 아버지에 대한 부끄러움을 표현합니다.
* 🚗 그녀는 마지못해 **엄마 대신 아빠가 자신을 데리러 오는 것**에 동의하며 두 사람의 관계에 대한 내적 갈등을 드러냅니다.
* 💔 어머니는 아버지의 장애에 대한 고통스러운 진실을 밝히며 **딸의 우발적인 총격으로 모든 것이 바뀌기 전까지 한때 건강하고 활동적이었던 아버지의 모습**을 설명합니다.
* 😢 딸은 아버지가 자신을 무조건적으로 사랑하고 사고에 대해 자신을 탓하지 않았다는 사실을 알게 되면서 **두 사람의 유대감이 더욱 깊어집니다.**
* 📝 딸은 친구들이 아버지의 상태를 알게 될까 봐 걱정하며 **조롱과 비난을 두려워**합니다.
* 🚍 새로운 학교 환경을 탐색하면서 그녀는 **사회적 수용의 무게와 가족 생활을 비공개로 유지해야 한다는 압박감**을 느낍니다.
* 💬 어머니는 격차를 해소하기 위해 가족 바비큐 파티를 제안하지만 **딸은 또래 친구들 사이에서 자신의 사회적 지위를 유지**하고 싶어 거부합니다.
* 🚫 딸에게는 피해야 할 사람들의 목록이 주어지며, **10대 사회 적응의 어려움과 복잡한 사회 역학 관계**를 설명합니다.

신디는 아버지의 휠체어와 과거의 비극에 대해 부끄러움을 느끼며 아버지의 정체성에 대해 고민합니다.

I'm so glad I transferred here. I've hardly had any friends back in my house. Ill. Why is he waving at us? You don't know him, do you? Uh, no. I have no clue who he is. I'm sorry. I just remembered I have to do something, but I'll meet you later at my house, okay? I don't have a ride. Yeah, me neither. I was hoping to get a ride with you, actually. No, sorry. That won't work. Just take the bus or Uber. I'll text you guys the address. Bye. Well, that was awkward. Seriously, it's fine. The bus should be here in a second anyway. Honey, where you going? Hey, sweetheart. I was calling you. So, how was your first day? Where's mom? She was supposed to pick me up. I know, but she got busy, so I figured I'd come. So, are you going to tell me how your first day of school was in the car, not here, in a hurry? Get in. What's the rush, mom? Where were you? I specifically said I wanted you to pick me up. Well, honey, I

got tied up on a call. What's the big deal anyway? I just started at a new school. I want to make a good impression. I prefer not letting the whole school know that my dad. Look, my friends are coming over, so can you and Dad just go somewhere for a couple hours, please? Go get something to eat or something. Yeah, honey, actually, I was going to barbecue. Maybe I could make some for you and your new friends. And not good. No, Mom, please. [Music] You know what? Why don't on the Fridays? We haven't been there in a long time, and it's happy hour. Okay, I guess that's fine. Come on, baby, I'll drive. Okay. [Music] This top is so cute. I might order it. Hey, have you met this girl, Alex? Yeah, she's in my Kim class. She seems super... stay away from her, trust me. You don't want to be friends with her. Okay, we'll actually send you a list of girls to stay away from and guys. Not today. Oh my God, there's that guy again. Heck is he doing here. He better not be

following us some sort of creep. No way is it 5:15 already. I'm gonna be so late to my, uh, Pilates class. You do Pilates? I should have told you guys ahead of time, my bad, but I'll see you at school tomorrow. Is there anyone here that can give us a ride? No, sorry, but if you want, I will call you an Uber. You just have to go like right now, like now. foreign [Music] Not that way, that door's actually, um, having problems, but I will take you out back. It worked perfectly fine earlier, only coming in, not leaving. Sorry, I'm gonna order your Uber now, and it'll be here soon. Bye. [Music] Thank you. So, you were supposed to take doubt for a couple hours. It's only been an hour and a half. Okay, well, it didn't take us that long to finish eating. It wasn't a big deal anyway. The big deal is I don't want my friends to know who my dad is. They'll make fun of me. That is not a nice thing.

to say I'm not gonna let you continue to talk about your dad this way. You should be proud that he's your father. Well, I'm not. I don't want anyone to know who he is. It's embarrassing. So, she didn't mean it, honey. Don't [Music]. How could you say something like that? You need to go out there and apologize to him right now. Well, it's true. I mean, I don't understand why he's in the wheelchair anyway. I wish I had a normal dad like everyone else. Mom, what's wrong? Cindy [Music]. Your father never wanted you to know about this, but I think it's time for me to tell you the truth. You see, your dad used to be really fit. He worked out all the time. He was even in better shape than me. Loved to go on runs. But we didn't live in the safest neighborhood, and one day while he was gone, we had a scare. So, that's why your dad decided to get a gun. He hid it in a drawer just in case.

anything ever happened. Little did we know that you would find it. He walked into the room and saw you holding it. He tried to get it from you, but you accidentally shot him. When we got to the hospital, the doctor said the bullet hit his spine. Because of that, he'd never be able to walk again. [Music] But even after all that, never once did he get upset at you. [Music] So you see, your father's in a wheelchair because you found the gun. You were just too young to remember. Oh my God, I had no idea. He never wanted me to tell you because he didn't want you to blame yourself. He loves you so much. Oh, it's not your fault. We should have locked it up. [Music] Here's the full list of people not to talk to. Oh my gosh, I didn't even know there were this many people in our grade. You gotta be kidding me. There's that weirdo again. We should just call the cops. Hey, over here, Cindy. Why are you calling him over? Uh, actually, I should have told you this.

sooner, but he's my dad, the best dad in the world for that matter, and I'd really appreciate it if you guys didn't make any comments about him, especially if you want to ride. You want us to ride with him? Hey honey, can he even drive? Yeah, he can. What if people see us with him though? So there's nothing wrong with him. Fine, you guys can just go ahead and take the bus home then. Oh, and don't forget this. Bye. Hi honey, look, I'm sorry. Mom couldn't come pick you up. She had no... It's fine. See that you came instead of mom. And uh, if he wouldn't mind, could you pick me up tomorrow too? Cheers honey, I'd like that. [Music]

Teenager Is ASHAMED Of DISABLED DAD (PG-13) | Dhar Mann

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화자는 이전 집에서 외로움을 느끼며 새로운 곳으로 이사하게 되어 기뻐합니다.

낯선 사람이 예상치 못한 손을 흔들며 차를 태워달라는 어색한 대화로 이어집니다.

화자의 엄마가 아이들을 데리러 늦게 도착하면서 급박하고 긴장된 대화가 오갑니다.

새로운 학교와 친구 관계 탐색하기

화자는 새로운 학교에 적응하고 있으며 아버지의 영향력을 숨기면서 좋은 인상을 남기고 싶어합니다.

화자는 부모님에게 친구들이 방문하는 동안 시간을 내줄 것을 요청하고 함께 행복한 시간을 보내자고 제안합니다.

화자의 친구는 특정 여학생에게 접근하지 말라고 경고하며 피해야 할 사람들의 목록을 제공하겠다고 제안합니다.

한 아이가 총을 가지고 놀다가 실수로 아버지를 쏴 평생 휠체어에 묶여 살아야 했습니다.

비극적인 사건이었지만 아버지는 아이를 탓하지 않고 계속해서 사랑과 지지를 보냈습니다.

아이는 자신의 행동이 어떤 영향을 미칠지 전혀 알지 못했고 장애인 부모를 둔 낙인으로 인해 힘들어했습니다.

아버지의 장애로 인한 딸의 고군분투

딸은 아버지의 휠체어가 부끄러워 다른 사람들에게 아버지가 누구인지 알리고 싶지 않습니다.

딸은 친구들의 말에 속상해하며 아버지의 상황을 받아들이기 위해 애쓰고 있습니다.

어머니는 아버지의 과거를 밝히며 한때 건강했던 아버지가 가족의 안전을 위해 예방 조치를 취한 것이 지금의 상태가 되었다고 설명합니다.