소셜 미디어의 위험성: 안전에 대한 아버지의 교훈

### 온라인 안전 탐색하기: 소셜 미디어의 위험성에 대한 아버지의 교훈
* 👨 한 아버지가 딸에게 인터넷 스토커인 척하며 온라인에서 사람을 만나는 것의 위험성을 가르치기 위해 **극단적인 방법**을 택합니다.
* 🚔 납치 가능성으로 경찰이 출동하자 아버지는 **실제 위협으로부터 딸을 보호**하려 했다고 설명합니다.
* 📱 딸인 마이클라는 **토드라는 16세 소년**으로 추정되는 사람에게 도발적인 사진을 보낸 사실을 인정했습니다.
* 💔 한 부모로서의 무게를 느낀 아버지는 특히 **소셜 미디어의 영향**으로 딸의 안전에 대한 우려를 표명합니다.
* 💃 팽팽한 대립 끝에 아버지는 안전과 인식의 중요성을 강조하며 **마이클라가 학교 댄스 파티에 참석하는 데 동의**합니다.
* 👀 마이클라는 아버지가 자신이 채팅하던 **'토드'였다는 사실**을 알게 되면서 온라인상의 모든 사람이 자신이 주장하는 사람이 아니라는 사실을 뼈저리게 깨닫게 됩니다.
* 💬 "이 세상에는 나쁜 사람들이 존재하며, 소셜 미디어의 위험에 대비할 수 있도록 도와주고 싶을 뿐입니다."라고 말하며 **경계의 필요성**을 강조합니다.
* ❤ 결국 아버지와 딸은 화해하고, **미카엘라는 아버지의 과격한 행동 이면에 담긴 사랑과 배려**를 깨닫게 됩니다.

마이클라의 아버지는 온라인에서 낯선 사람을 만나는 것의 위험성을 가르치기 위해 납치극을 꾸몄습니다.

It's not fair, Dad. I want to go to the bunch of formal, the first dance of the school year. Honey, I know, but like I told you before, you're just too young to go to these dances. It's not fair. All my other friends get to go, but did their parents catch them kissing a boy after school? All girls do it these days, Dad. I know, but you're just 14. You're just too young. You know, it's really hard being a single parent. You're just grown up too fast, and I'm just concerned for your safety. Plus, I know boy blah blah blah. I heard it all before. I wish Mom was still around. She let me go. Yeah, me too, sweetie. I miss her too. He's not letting me go. Oh wow, that sucks. Just because he got you with Justin? Yep. I thought you two broke up. Yeah, we did. He's too much of a mama's boy. That's the problem with boys our age. Tell me about it. How are things going with Mr. Romantic off Facebook? I think you just sent me a

message. Are you ever gonna meet him? You do have been talking on Facebook for weeks. I know, and he's older. Yep, he's 16 and a junior in high school. Wow, that's the type of man you need to meet. Okay, seriously though, I gotta go. Can't keep my prince waiting. You go for it. Thanks. Bye, Michaela. Hey, stranger. Hi, Todd. I've missed you. Me too. How's my princess doing? Okay, what's wrong? My dad won't let me go to the dance. Oh, wow, that sucks. You're the only one that understands me, Todd. Thanks, Makayla. I wish we could meet. Do you want to FaceTime finally? I do, but I'm shy. I like that you're shy, but I like to see you instead of just your pictures. Do looks matter that much to you? No, Todd. You know I care about how we connect on an emotional level rather than looks. Can you send me some of your pictures? Okay. Oh, wow, these are really hot. I want to see you. Why can't you FaceTime? What's wrong?

maybe we can see each other in person instead. Um, what's wrong? Okay, what? Maybe tomorrow you won't make fun of how I look, right? [Music] Bye, Dad. Thanks. [Music] So, so you're meeting Todd today? Yes, he should be here soon. Okay, just be careful, Michaela. I can't believe you never video chatted him. I saw his pictures. He said he was shy. Okay, if anything happens, keep your GPS on so I know where you're at. Okay, bye. Bye. I see you, Michaela. Um, yes, it's me, Todd. You're Todd? Yeah, I know I look a little different than my pictures. Yeah, and a lot older. Hey, that's offensive, Michaela. Sorry, I didn't mean to be offensive. Well, I did tell you that you might not like what you see, but why didn't you tell me you're older? Well, I like you. I thought we connected on an emotional level. Why should that matter? Yeah, you're right. [Music] So, hey, you want to get some ice cream at the mall?

uh sure, it's kind of far, isn't it? Yeah, well, I drive. That's my car over there. Um, okay. Um, you don't want to see at the park? Well, it's kind of chilly here, don't you think? I mean, I got some blankets in my car. Um, okay. How's Todd? Did you meet him yet? Yeah, and he's a lot older than his pictures. What do you mean? Everything okay, Michaela? Everything okay? Uh, yeah, everything's good. Sorry. Well, here she is. Hey, let's take a selfie. Um, okay. Here, let me do it. I have longer arms. Wow, that looks great. Your battery's a little low, though. I got a charger in my car. Is that 50 percent? It'll be fine. These batteries die really quickly. I'll charge it for you. Okay, well, hop on in. [Music] Um, do you have my phone? Yeah, it's in my pocket. Can you charge it, or can I see it? Sure. I can't pull it out right now because I'm driving, but, uh, as soon as we stop, I'll give it to you.

oh okay hey, it's really hot. Why don't you take off that sweater? It's okay, I can just run on the window. They're broken. Uh, international, that's broken too. Just take it off. Don't you trust me, Michaela? What are you doing? Oh my god, dad. Yes, dad. What are you doing? Pull over, Todd. Thanks, man. Dad, what are you doing here? Me? What are you doing here? You're the one here with the old creeper. Hey, Josh. What the heck? Sorry, Mike. Sorry, Mike. Sorry, I'm Mike. He's a co-worker of mine. I paid him a thousand dollars to pretend to be an internet kidnapper. Wait, wait, so what happened to Todd? There is no Todd. I set you up. What do you mean, dad? I'm the Todd you've been chatting with on Facebook. I set you up to see if you would meet some random guy off the internet. And on top of that, you get into his Toyota Corolla. Sorry, dad, I didn't know what to do. You don't get inside a stranger's car. You call the

cops. Sorry, I was scared. I wanted to, but you took my phone. No, Michaela, you had plenty of chances. Here you go. Ah, no phone for you. You're grounded. Is that the cops? Wait, you called the cops? No, maybe Amber did. What the heck, Josh? I don't want to get arrested, dude. Calm down, you're not gonna get arrested. Hey, I'm just a computer engineer. I'm just helping a friend out. Shut it, you perv. No, no, he's telling the truth. She's my daughter. So you were abducting your own daughter? No, officer, like I was trying to tell you before. I was trying to teach her a lesson. It's true, officer, he's my real dad. So you're not in any harm? You can tell me the truth, I can help you. No, officer, he's my real dad and his coach. Okay, because your friend called in a complaint and said that you were possibly being kidnapped. Yeah, she doesn't know my dad was pretending to be an internet stalker to teach me a lesson.

So, this is your daughter, and you were pretending to be someone else to purposely kidnap her. Yes, officer. She was sending me provocative pictures before meeting this guy who she thought was 16 and a guy named Todd. And why would you do that? I was just trying to teach her a lesson. I mean, before it happens in real life. Makes sense. I have a baby girl of my own, so I can understand how you feel. And this is my friend Mike from work. He was just trying to help me out. Okay, I got it. And you got into this Toyota Corolla with this old creep. Hey, come on, I'm not an actual creep. Yes, officer. Jeez, I should salute your dad for doing such a good job and arrest you for your own stupidity. But, uh, I have a feeling you're gonna suffer worse consequences when you get home. That's true. [Music] Yes, I know she didn't go to school today. [Music] Yeah, I'm taking care of it. She's grounded.

yes, thank you. Okay, all right. Well, good day. Thank you. Hey, dad. Hey, Mikayla. I'm sorry about today, sweetie. It's okay. Come over here. You know what? I'm sorry too. I mean, I just went to such extreme lengths. How did you even think of this? I saw this Kobe person video on YouTube, and it just seemed like a good idea at the time. But why'd you do it, honey? Uh, there are bad men out in this world, and I just want to prepare you for the dangers of social media. Who's someone you might meet online is not necessarily the person they are in person, but you just can't go meet random guys. I understand, dad. Hey, look, you know what? I don't want to be hard on you. I really don't. I'm not gonna ground you. Are you feeling okay, dad? Yes, I think you learned your lesson, especially how much I scared you. Wow, really, dad? Thank you so much. No problem, sweetie. And you know what? I want you to go to your school dance.

wait, really? Yes, but I'm gonna chaperone. I'm gonna be your date. What? Seriously, Dad? Is that gonna be okay? Yes, I'd love that. I think it's every teenage girl's dream to have their dad chaperone them at their first school dance. Yeah, yeah, I figured. You're my hero, Dad. I love you. Oh, sweetie, I love you too. There's a lot of creepers out there, especially when it comes to meeting someone online, so beware who you meet. Always tell a friend or a family member before you do meet in a public area, and if something doesn't feel right from the start, don't be afraid to ask for help immediately. Stay safe out there. Hey, I truly hope you enjoyed that video. Remember to drop it a like. It truly means a lot to me. It helps out the YouTube algorithms, and it makes you feel a lot better. Also, subscribe to this channel. We're growing quickly. We finally hit 1 million subscribers. Leave a comment. You know, as always, I love reading as many comments as I can, and I

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미카엘라와 토드의 온라인 연결

16살이고 고등학교 2학년인 미카엘라와 토드는 몇 주 동안 페이스북으로 대화를 나눴습니다.

마이클라는 수줍음 때문에 FaceTime을 주저하지만 결국 직접 만나기로 결정합니다.

마침내 만났을 때 토드는 사진과는 다른 외모에 마이클라의 예상보다 나이가 많았지만, 둘은 여전히 연락을 주고받으며 쇼핑몰에서 아이스크림을 사기로 계획합니다.

한 아버지가 딸 미카엘라가 납치당하고 있다며 도움을 요청한 후 경찰과 마주칩니다.

아버지는 인터넷 스토커로 가장해 딸에게 교훈을 주려고 했을 뿐이라고 설명합니다.

미카엘라는 부당한 대우를 받았다고 느끼며 학교 댄스 파티에 가고 싶어 하고, 아버지는 미카엘라의 안전과 한 부모로서의 고충에 대해 우려를 표합니다.

한 아버지가 딸에게 소셜 미디어의 위험에 대비하기 위해 무리한 노력을 기울인 것에 대해 사과합니다.

딸은 교훈을 이해하고 아버지의 지지에 감사해합니다.

두 사람은 학교 댄스 파티에 대해 이야기하고 셀카를 찍으며 아버지는 딸의 휴대폰을 충전해 주겠다고 제안합니다.

한 아빠가 딸의 첫 학교 댄스파티에 인솔자로 나서면서 온라인에서 사람들을 만날 때 안전의 중요성을 강조해 딸을 놀라게 합니다.

그는 동료와 함께 가짜 시나리오를 만들어 딸에게 낯선 사람과의 만남의 위험성에 대해 교훈을 줍니다.

딸은 온라인에서 채팅을 하던 사람이 자신의 아빠였다는 사실에 충격을 받고, 이러한 상황에서 조심하는 것이 중요하다는 점을 강조합니다.

한 아버지가 다른 사람으로 가장해 16살로 보이는 남성에게 도발적인 사진을 보내던 딸을 납치했습니다.

그는 더 나쁜 일이 일어나기 전에 딸에게 교훈을 주기 위해 자신의 행동을 정당화했습니다.

아버지의 친구도 이 계획에 가담했지만 경찰관은 유쾌하지 않았고 조치를 취할 계획이었습니다.