분리의 힘: 원하는 것을 끌어당기기

### 분리의 힘: 내려놓음으로써 원하는 것을 끌어당기기
* 🔄 "무언가를 놓아주려는 의지가 강할수록 **실제로는 더 많이 끌리게** 됩니다."
* 🧲 결과에 감정적으로 투자하지 않겠다는 마음가짐을 가지면 **자석의 부정적인 면처럼 긍정적인 경험과 기회를 끌어당기는 힘**이 생깁니다.
* 🏃 사냥꾼이 사냥감을 쫓는 추격의 자연스러운 역학 관계는 **목표나 욕망을 쫓을 때, 목표나 욕망은 우리를 피하는 경향**이 있음을 보여줍니다.
* 💡 인간 본성의 근본적인 측면은 무언가를 쫓으면 본능적으로 도망친다는 것이므로, **쫓는다는 사고방식에서 끌어당긴다는 사고방식으로 전환**하는 것이 필수적입니다.
* 🤑 예를 들어, **더 많은 돈을 원하면 부족함을 느끼게** 되어 이미 가지고 있는 것에 감사하기 어려워질 수 있습니다.
* 🌌 중심을 잡고 중심을 잡으면 **자신만의 중력장을 만들어 목표와 욕구를 쉽게 달성**할 수 있습니다.
* 🚀 원하는 것을 쫓아 에너지를 낭비하기보다, **그 욕망을 자연스럽게 내 삶으로 끌어들이는 사람**이 되는 데 집중하세요.
* 💪 이러한 사고방식의 전환은 목표와 관계에 접근하는 방식을 크게 바꿀 수 있으므로 **"플로우 상태에 있으면 인생이 훨씬 더 쉬워집니다."**

원하는 것을 끌어당기는 힘은 그것을 쫓는 것이 아니라 분리하는 데서 나옵니다.

yo, what's going on guys? It's me, welcome back to another video. In this one, talking about why you should not give a [ __ ] or stop giving a [ __ ] about literally everything. So, there's a universal law called the law of detachment, and basically, the more that you are willing to let something go, the more that you are willing to detach from something, the more it is indeed actually attracted to you. Now, this can be applied to a lot of different aspects of life, whether it be with your goals, with business, with women especially. This is a big one because basically, it's a fundamental piece of human nature, right? There is the Hunter and there's the hunted, there's the predator and there is prey, and naturally, when something chases after you, you run, run. Now, this could be your goals, it could be the woman that you want. If you are the pursuer, if you are chasing that thing, it is naturally going to run away, even if you want good things for it, right? It's just a natural

instinct when something comes running at you at full speed. You're unsettled. You're not sure what it is, but it feels like it's an emergency, and it feels like something that you evacuate from. It feels like something you should get away from. So, like I said, it doesn't matter how great or how pure your intentions are. Something that is naturally being chased will run just by default. That is the instinct that we are programmed with, and your goals are the same way, right? Don't chase; attract. I've talked about this in other videos where the fastest way to get what you actually want is not to go after that thing because, again, it will run away, but to become the person that attracts that thing naturally. Become a person that money is attracted to. Become a person that women are attracted to, right? So, life is much easier when you're in a flow state, when you're in a centered, grounded, um, very present in the moment, and that is when you start to literally create your own gravity. Like, imagine yourself

as a planet, right? If you're flying around chasing all these goals, you're scattered and you're kind of all over the place. It's very hard for you to be present, to be solid in your presence, and to create that like gravitational field around yourself, right? You need to be set in your goals and your identity and your belief systems in yourself mentally, physically, spiritually. And once you do that, you create your presence, your orbit, and things will naturally start to become attracted to you. So, that is something that's very, very powerful, something that has changed the way I go about thinking about specifically goals, women, a lot of things that in my life. I spent all this time and energy trying to get to this place, trying to chase after this thing, and you always feel like you're like chasing your own tail, like you're running in circles, and like you're never really at that thing. It's because you're not letting it come to you. You're not attracting it to you. It's far more effortless when you do it like that, when things naturally just enter your

field enter your domain. It's much easier to handle them. It's much easier to keep attracting them and keep the things that come your way. And from there, it also puts you in a position of power because the things that are coming to you, into your life, are entering into your world and tearing into your frame. That's super important, especially with women. So yeah, don't be a person that chases after things. Become somebody that attracts them. And again, the biggest component of this is to not give a [__]. Right? So I think it's a Buddhist belief that all suffering comes from desire. When you want something, you inherently are then exposed to the lack of that thing that you want, right? So if you want more money, automatically, as soon as you want to have more, the amount that you have becomes insufficient, becomes not enough, right? So by wanting more than what you have, what you do have, you become ungrateful for and becomes insufficient for you, becomes not enough.

It's hard to be grateful for those things, so when you stop giving a [__], when you release your desire to have more than what you already have, it's basically what is necessary for you to align with the energy that you need to have in order for you to do the things I was talking about earlier, like attracting things into your world, right? Because if you give a [__], if you have desire, if you're chasing after the thing, it runs, and it's going to be pushed farther away from you. Like, think about it like this: magnets have polarities. Some sides are attracted, and when you flip it, they're repelled, right? If you try to push two sides of the magnets together, then it's the same. They push each other away. That is what happens when you give a [__]. Think about it. It's like the positive versus the negative side of the magnet, right? The positive side is you giving a [__], and you're trying to attract positive things.

so they just keep pushing each other away, right? If you flip that and you are the negative side of the magnet, which is pulling things in by not giving a [__], by not having desire, by not being emotionally invested in the outcomes or the things that you do not have because it will make you feel empty. Once you release all of that, you become the negative side of the magnet. You can now attract things to you, and that will completely change the dynamic of a lot of things within your life. So, I hope you guys found that helpful. If you made it to the end of the video, you're a real one. I appreciate you guys. Make sure you like, comment, subscribe. We got more content coming soon. Stop giving a [__]. Stay strong, stay blessed, stay dangerous, and I'll catch you guys in the next one. All right, love you, peace.

STOP giving a F*CK and watch MAGIC happen in your LIFE!

Bengt Jobe

본능적으로 우리는 무언가가 빠르게 다가오면 불안해져서 도망치고 싶어집니다.

이러한 본능은 목표를 쫓다 보면 목표가 멀어지는 경우가 많습니다.

대신, 돈이든 관계든 원하는 것을 자연스럽게 끌어당기는 사람이 되면 우리 자신의 중력을 만들어 삶의 흐름 상태를 달성할 수 있습니다.

목표를 쫓느라 정신이 흩어지면 집중하기 어렵고 개인적인 존재감을 드러내기 힘들어집니다.

정신적, 육체적, 영적으로 명확한 목표, 정체성, 신념 체계를 확립하면 원하는 결과를 끌어당기는 중력장을 만드는 데 도움이 됩니다.

인생에서 원하는 것을 자연스럽게 끌어당기는 것이 그것을 끊임없이 쫓는 것보다 더 효과적입니다.

기회와 욕망을 끌어당기는 것이 그것을 쫓는 것보다 더 효과적일 수 있는데, 이는 자신을 권력의 위치에 올려놓기 때문입니다.

더 많은 것에 대한 욕망은 배은망덕함과 결핍감으로 이어져 현재 가진 것에 감사하기 어렵게 만들 수 있습니다.

욕망을 내려놓고 지나치게 신경 쓰지 않으면 자석의 극성처럼 긍정적인 것들을 내 삶에 끌어당기는 에너지를 정렬할 수 있습니다.

욕망과 결과에서 분리하면 에너지가 이동하여 '자석의 부정적인 면'이 되어 사물을 끌어당길 수 있습니다.

분리의 법칙으로 알려진 이 원리는 무언가를 놓아버리면 오히려 더 가까이 다가갈 수 있다는 것을 시사합니다.

목표나 사람을 쫓는 역동성은 종종 그들을 도망치게 만드는데, 이는 지나치게 투자하지 않는 것의 중요성을 강조합니다.