자아 개념: 내면의 현실을 통한 관계 표현하기

### 자기 개념과 상상력을 통한 관계의 변화
* 🧠 관계 개선을 위한 첫 번째 단계는 **상상력이 현실을 만든다는 사실**을 인식하는 것이며, 이를 이해하는 것이 중요합니다.
* 📝 상대방과 자신에 대한 생각을 적어보면서 **자신의 자아 개념과 관계를 어떻게 인식**하고 있는지 생각해 보세요.
* 💔 누군가를 **전투적이거나 무시하는 사람**으로 간주하면 그 사람과의 상호작용에서 그러한 인식이 나타나 **부정적인 역학 관계**가 강화됩니다.
* 💖 대신, **부모님을 사랑스럽고 헌신적인 존재**로 상상하고, 부모님이 자신을 **가치 있고 놀라운 존재**로 여긴다고 믿으면 부모님의 삶이 달라질 것입니다.
* 🍔 욕심을 버리는 대신 **원하는 관계를 이미 맺고 있다는 마음가짐**을 가져야 올바른 에너지를 끌어들일 수 있습니다.
* 🛁 과거의 논쟁이나 부정적인 시나리오에 집착하는 것은 **인생에서 원치 않는 이야기를 영속화**할 뿐이므로 피하세요.
* 🔄 두려움과 의심에 집중하면 그러한 결과를 불러오지만, **긍정적인 자아 개념**을 유지하면 상황을 바꿀 수 있다는 것을 이해하세요.
* 🌌 궁극적으로 진정한 현실은 상상 속에 존재하며, 이 상상력은 실제 세계로 투영되어 **관계뿐만 아니라 삶의 모든 측면을 변화**시킬 수 있다는 사실을 인식하세요.

자아 개념이 관계를 형성합니다. 원하는 사랑을 얻기 위해 긍정적으로 생각하세요.

all right uh another video um the main thing I get is on Reddit like is SPS um like come on man the first step I'm going to make this really quick okay the first step is to stop being aware that they're not there how do you do that oh how do you do that oh they [ __ ] spit on me today oh I I caught them blowing somebody how do you do that knowing your imagination that created this situation in the first place is the only reality there is okay that's number one and once you know that then everything I'm saying should make sense to you next they're being a certain way to you right okay how do you describe your relationship with this person how do you describe them how do you describe what they think of you what do you think of yourself what do you think of yourself in relation to them into in relation to anybody in relation to your whole life right write that [ __ ] down because you'll forget and look at it I guarantee you

I guarantee you. You said they're so combative. They don't talk to me. They don't listen to what I'm saying. I'm at internet burger right now. I might be interrupted, but uh, they don't listen to what I'm saying. They told me they have nothing to do with me, whatever, whatever, whatever. Okay, do you see what you're aware of? Of course, they're going to show you that is your self-concept, like about them. Uh, they could never [ __ ] believe me because I am [ __ ] the most valuable person in their life. Like, I am so [ __ ] amazing. I'm so [ __ ] magnetic. They would never leave me. They're M. Like, I am them. They're madly in love with me. Hold on, Burger time. All right, got my burger. Uh, I'm trying to park, but uh, where was I? Yeah, so basically how you think of them is how they're going to show up. It's that simple. Think they're so [ __ ] in love.

with you think they're do think like make believe in your imagination like they're always doing sweet things for me. They treat me like the [ __ ] King I am. You know what I mean? They recognize how valuable I am, how [ __ ] amazing I am, how I'm always [ __ ] chosen by them. Like, they literally s for me. They [ __ ] masturbate to me all the [ __ ] time. They can't get hard or wet for anyone [ __ ] else. This is how you got to think. Like, I'm not bullshitting you. This is how you got to think, right? If you always thought that your reality has no choice but to, that's what you're aware of. That's what's going to show up for you. Like, I can't tell you countless times where like, listen, I'm not [ __ ] perfect. Trial and error and [ __ ] mistakes and everything. Like, is how I know all this.

stuff right like relationships I've had where I'm always trying to fix things, pursue things. They're just going to [__] go away because that's like neediness. You're giving off a need. You don't have it right. You have to imagine you already have them. If you already have them, you're not giving off a neediness energy, and you're going to attract them, right? Then you attract the relationship you want that you created in your mind. Talk to them in your head, sweet, sweet [__] conversations, not these [__] random arguments or you recollecting arguments you had where you wish you [__] threw a point at their face to prove you a writer wrong. You got to realize it doesn't matter. You're arguing with your [__] self, right? Especially in the shower, man. Stop [__] arguing with people in the shower. Like, you got to realize how much time you give into the story of what you don't want. Like, it's really that simple.

like why are we so [ __ ] programmed to constantly play the story we don't want, be aware of what we don't want. We keep feeding the [ __ ] we don't want, feeding it all day, every day, looking for the 3D to fix [ __ ], trying to do things in a 3D to fix it, manipulate, no, go inside and do it. That's how you started all this, from inside. So, like, I think I was trying to say, I've lost people in my life, and I've gained them back, and then I become aware, once you get used to it, of what I was thinking that caused this separation of us, what I was thinking. Like, if I go back, if I get triggered, and I go like, I get them back, like, oh, they're so loving, they're like, I am, you know, their Obsession, I am everything they want. They come back, right? If I start going down that same Rabbit Hole, I'm like, man, my SP is

like a [__] piece of [__]. Why are they this way? They're going to return to that old self, right? And you're going to blame them, but it's your thoughts of them that did it, right? And likewise, in the same way, if I manifest them back, 'cause you can robotically affirm them back, but keeping them is a different story. You manifest them back, and then you have these fears like, Oh, they're going to leave again. Your self-concept just went out the window. What self-concept is that? Why would they leave you? You're [__] god. There's no one better than you. You're everyone's top priority. No one has, has no one's better than you. No one compares to you, right? If you thought that, you wouldn't think they're going to be [__] texting someone else or they're going to leave or the same shit's going to happen again. If you think the same shit's going to happen again, it's going

to happen again. Keep your awareness on the story you want. All right, it's as simple as that. [ __ ] him in your head. Talk to him in your head. Have the relationship you want in your head. Be aware of what you want in your head, no matter what you're seeing up front, 'cause that's your old news, man. That's your old [ __ ] expired [ __ ] CNN, Fox News, whatever of your [ __ ] life in front of you. That's what that is. Don't even [ __ ] ignore the 3D. Accept that you cause it. Figure out what you thought that caused it, and then be like, Aha, I was thinking this recently. I was fearful of this recently. And then that's how you fix yourself and get what you want permanently. And then you can change every aspect of your life, not just SP. This works for jobs, money, how you think in relation to different things, okay? And the way to do this so easily is to know the true reality is 4D.

IT projects to the 3D, and you are everything and everyone you are. I am okay, all right. I may be back.

STOP BEING AWARE OF THE WRONG STORY!! (SP Edition)

The Power of I AM

다른 사람과의 관계를 변화시키기 위한 첫 번째 단계는 자신의 상상력과 자아 개념이 상황을 만들고 있다는 사실을 인식하는 것입니다.

상대방과 그 사람과의 관계에 대한 생각과 감정을 적어두면 자신의 관점을 명확히 하는 데 도움이 될 수 있습니다.

궁극적으로 상대방에 대해 어떻게 생각하느냐에 따라 상대방이 내 삶에 어떻게 나타나는지에 영향을 미친다는 점을 기억해야 합니다.

다른 사람들이 나에게 깊은 매력을 느끼고 나를 왕족처럼 대하는 것을 상상하면 현실을 바꿀 수 있습니다.

원하는 관계를 시각화함으로써 결핍감을 없애고 대신 관계를 끌어당길 수 있습니다.

과거의 다툼이나 원하지 않는 것에 집착하기보다는 마음속으로 긍정적인 생각과 대화에 집중하는 것이 중요합니다.

우리는 종종 우리가 원하지 않는 것에 집중하고 부정적인 생각을 키우며 변화를 위해 외부 환경을 조작하려고 노력합니다.

화자는 자신의 삶에서 사람을 잃고 얻는 것에 대해 성찰하며 타인에 대한 자신의 생각과 신념이 관계의 역학 관계에 중요한 역할을 한다는 것을 깨닫습니다.

누군가를 되찾는다는 것은 그 사람을 유지하는 것과는 다르며, 같은 부정적인 패턴이 반복되지 않도록 하기 위해서는 강한 자아 개념을 갖는 것이 중요합니다.

현재 상황과 상관없이 머릿속에서 원하는 이야기에 집중하세요.

현실의 원인이 자신에게 있음을 인정하고 그 원인이 된 생각을 파악하세요.

두려움을 이해하고 사고방식을 바꾸면 삶의 모든 측면을 영구적으로 변화시킬 수 있습니다.