장기간의 모유 수유: 자녀의 독립성에 미치는 영향

엄마는 모유 수유를 끊는 데 어려움을 겪으며 육체적, 정서적으로도 영향을 받습니다.

### 모유 수유에서 아이를 떼어낼 때의 어려움
* 🤱 이 어머니는 **6년 넘게 아이에게 모유 수유**를 해왔고, 이로 인해 **신체적 고통과 건강 문제**가 발생했습니다.
* 👶 모유 수유를 끊는 것은 아이가 독립적인 개인으로 살아가는 법을 배우는 데 도움이 되므로 **아이의 발달에 매우 중요**합니다.
* ❤ ️ 엄마는 **아이의 요구를 거절하기 어렵고 스트레스를 줄까** 걱정됩니다.
* 🧠 아이가 엄마에게 지나치게 집착하고 혼자 놀지 못하면 **아이의 발달에 대한 우려**가 커집니다.
* 💪 어머니는 자녀가 인생에서 피할 수 없는 스트레스에 직면하고 **이를 극복할 수 있는 힘**을 길러야 합니다.
* 모유 수유를 오래 하면 **산모와 아이 모두에게 신체적, 호르몬적 영향**을 미칠 수 있습니다.
* 😢 모유 수유를 중단하는 것은 **엄마와 아이 모두에게 정서적으로 힘든 일**이 될 수 있습니다.
* 👩 ↪f_200D↩⚕️ **모유 수유를 중단할 때는 전문가의 조언과 지원**을 구하는 것이 중요합니다.

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Oh, you're really pushing it too far. We're going to pee together. Why is mom working, mom? What should I do? Mom, where are you now? Mom, if you're not here, I can't do anything. Just do it. If you do that, it's okay. Oh, I'm tired now. Mom is tired too. Mom will be upset in a bit. Why is mom upset? Mom, I wish you were upset. That's being stubborn. That's what it means to be upset. Right, oh why are you like this? Oh my, are you breastfeeding? It hurts just looking at it. It's too good. Oh, now the milk won't come out. Have you ever tried to wean off breastfeeding properly? No, I haven't done it properly. Oh, then why haven't you thought that you should stop this? People around me say things, and whenever the family and the child ask, actually

It's tough. I wanted to quit giving it, but every time my child asked for it, I felt heartbroken. You can't even eat spicy food or manage your diet. Then how do you drink a glass of beer? You almost give up everything and live like that. Soy was the biggest. Why do you drink beer? But you've been managing it for six years until your child turns six. No, it's not. I'm really curious about this personally, apart from the broadcast. You've been breastfeeding for almost a few years now. How do you feel about physiological changes? Physiological changes haven't occurred for about four years, but now that the amount is completely reduced, it seems to have started since last year. Yes, yes, for a few years, breastfeeding, when you breastfeed, there is cell regeneration.

We are looking at it as a standard, so breastfeeding is when my body, well, the body that is raising a newborn, is seen as that country's body, so it's hard to prepare for pregnancy. And now, when prolactin, the hormone, is produced a lot, menstruation doesn't come. So, imbalance occurs in the body right now, and it's not a matter of a few months, but it has been continuing for years. So, if this continues in the long term, let's say, have you all arrived? Have you all arrived? Yes, welcome. Good job. Here, I will stop here. No, not yet. Yes, why don't you try to solve it yourself? Why should I hold your hand? It's here. It's here. Let it go by yourself. Yes, you are doing well by yourself. Um, Dad, you also praised me for a moment. Just a moment, just a moment. Just a moment. Let me talk about Mom. Taeyeon is so beautiful and lovely, but sometimes, I feel so suffocated that I can't even breathe.

I may appear weak-willed like you said, which could lead me to act inconsistently towards my child, but when it comes to household chores, even if I can only do it for 30 minutes, I need to be able to do it a bit. But while doing it, things don't progress. It doesn't progress. Although household chores are not my expertise, when it comes to doing them, it's hard to even have a conversation. I feel like I can't even argue properly. And now, since I can't stop breastfeeding, I keep eating, and it hurts a lot here. It hurts a lot. I feel like I'm torn apart. It hurts so much. Please, Yeon-ah, Mom is in so much pain, so please don't breastfeed. But she won't stop. Jae-yeon, because of that, I'm in so much pain, I can't even move properly. I can't move at all. How difficult must it be? No, really, until she's three years old.

Feeding breast milk is good for immunity and forming attachment. So, I just ignorantly thought it would be good to keep doing it whenever the child wants. I didn't know if I should keep breastfeeding until this age. It's not three years old, it's not three years old. Because he's going to school at six, why do you keep thinking he's three years old? You shouldn't think he's three years old. If I don't give it now, he just struggles too much. So, seeing that makes it difficult for me. I couldn't decide firmly. Even though there were opportunities before, I couldn't stop it twice. If I didn't do it then, I wouldn't be able to stop it now. It's a superstition. Mom should have a stronger will to stop it, but from what I see, your will is weaker. Your will is weaker.

When my father sees it, his heart weakens, and my mother needs to have the will to stop it, but she just eats when she wants to eat and fasts for a thousand days when she wants to fast. It feels like I can't stop her. I have nothing to say. My daily life and leisure are non-existent, so when I got a health check-up, there was a problem with my liver, and the antibiotics were so strong that I couldn't take them, so at that time, I had no choice but not to take them, which was very difficult. But now, um, at first, I didn't know what to do, but when I asked the doctor, he said it should be fine after about 7 or 8 hours, so I took it in the morning. It seems like my father is hearing it for the first time, and the baby is breastfeeding for too long.

I saw that the tooth decay was severe, so I went to the hospital and found out that I needed to stop breastfeeding immediately because the condition was too serious. At that time, I might have felt overwhelmed, but for the sake of my child's health, I had to stop. Even then, I don't think I really grasped that thought. Oh, maybe if I just brush their teeth well, wouldn't that be enough? Oh, but at that time, the child wouldn't eat. Yeah, so when the teeth were treated, the child didn't eat. After the treatment at the hospital, when the child came to me, they refused. I tried to persuade them, but they refused, saying they wanted their mom. Oh, they wanted their mom. Why did they want their mom? The child didn't even cry. At that time, I continued to breastfeed for a long time, but since the child didn't eat like this, I felt so heartbroken. No, it's not heartbreaking. I was just struggling too much. It was so sad because I wasn't breastfeeding. At that time, I knew I was depressed.

It seemed like it would grow, it felt like everything was lost, and then I stopped it myself. The child stopped it themselves, but I wanted it. I thought I would feed only until about 30 months, but I couldn't stop after that. But as I understood that feeling, I breastfed for over 12 months. Tears came, and it was sad. Now it feels like everything is collapsing, it's strange. So, it's really hard to stop breastfeeding. It's really hard to remember the first day I stopped. It was so difficult, I couldn't express it in words. I kept feeling like my mom wasn't ready, and because of that emotion, it was tough even though she seemed to be okay with it. But the reason we say goodbye first is because of this. So, when is the last time to say goodbye to mom's breast milk?

Now, the starting point is called the reason period. It's the time when you start reasoning. So, it's generally recommended to start around 6 months. Yes, 6 months. But until 6 months ago, you think of yourself and your mother as one body psychologically. When you look at what you want, your mother immediately provides it. So, what I want ultimately becomes what my mother wants and what the world wants. But if I want something and my mother doesn't give it to me, then the child starts to think, What's going on? I want it, but my mother doesn't give it to me. This is when the child begins to recognize the differences in thoughts, feelings, and desires between themselves and others, realizing that they are independent beings. So, it's the beginning of practicing to live as an individual, taking the first step in the process of self-differentiation. This event, the first greeting with reasons, is a very important event. It seems like he's still six years old and hasn't done this yet.

So, this child is currently unable to correctly identify their age compared to their actual age. They are unable to demonstrate various age-appropriate functions. At the age of six, they are still breastfeeding. Also, when playing, they seem unable to play alone even for a minute or a second. Yes. Furthermore, they spend the whole day clinging to their mother, constantly calling out mom, mom, mom. Whenever they see their mother, they are startled and lie down near her, saying, Oh, mother, your waist won't hold up much longer. So, expressing it to this extent may be a bit of an exaggeration, but it seems like they are spending a considerable amount of time like a newborn. Yes, at this point, I am very concerned about this aspect of the child. Yes, even though the mother is not married, Oh, my back is going to break, Oh, my back is going to break. It's good for nature to be uplifted. With this kind of posture, the back and shoulders are coming out like this. Should we buy a support for the buttocks? Oh, it's so heavy, I'm going to die.

Oh, gosh, the child is so heavy. Oh, my, everyone seems surprised. They are all big kids. Look at this, it's really heavy. As Dr. Oh mentioned, your back will really be in trouble within a few years. 23kg. Ah, my dear mother. Oh, my. Oh, dear, this child is heavy. I don't want to. I don't want to. I want to ask mom to carry him. Oh, it's too heavy. Mom, have a little bit. Oh, it's too heavy. Mom, have a little bit. Oh, no, no, grandma. No, no, no. Why, mom, why? Oh, my. Oh, my. Let's see if grandma can lift him. Oh, my. Oh, my. Oh, my. Oh, my. Oh, I can't believe this. Grandma, let me see. If you do that, then hey, you choose. If you choose, I'll carry it. Which one should we pick? Which one? Yes, this one. This one. What's this? That's like a bread roll. That's why it's so heavy. Oh, it's hard. Look, no, let's put it down a bit. Grandma, it's hard. I'm going to die. Oh, let's put it down.

Come on, let's take a picture. It's hard to take a picture. I'm dying. Let's get off. I'll get off. Oh, she's small. Oh, she definitely won't get off. She's stuck. Oh, Yooni, pick one and let's go. Pick one more. Let's go. No way. Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, come on. Wait a moment. Please speak firmly. No, just pick one more and pay for it. Mom, there's no end to this. Let's do this. Let's do this. Mom, it's hard. Should we get off now? No, I don't want to. We'll be hot too. It's not me. Just a moment. Let's take a break. Just a moment. Let's take a break. Yes, my child is like me. We've been discussing for quite a while. But I find this scene to be truly shocking. If I say this, many people might think, No, what?

The child is not causing a disturbance, nor is the child being violent. Why are you exaggerating it so much, Doctor? I know you might think differently, but that scene feels very eerie to me. It feels quite unsettling, like the child is almost inseparable from the mother, hanging onto her back like a lump. It just feels so strange to me. Even at the bakery, people were staring. Yes, I see this as a very serious issue. But what really intrigues me is why the mother keeps giving in. When the child asks, she just can't refuse. So, she grants every wish. Why does she have to grant every single wish?

Think about it, I think I was not good at refusing. I think the child might feel stressed. Usually, people say, That's the biggest thing. But they say not to carry it. Why do they say not to carry it? Because people stand on the ground toward the gravity of the earth. Right, we stand firmly towards gravity and then lift our legs to walk. This is resisting gravity and controlling our bodies. When these sensations go to the brain, it awakens the brain. So, without looking in the mirror, I feel where my body is facing, which direction I am going, and how I am moving. Through this, attention is developed, and then, by handling the position of the eyes, eye movements, and body movements well, we can concentrate and carefully observe the surroundings when looking at the world.

You learn self-control. Walking is very important in this process, so when you can walk, make sure to walk. It is crucial for a child's development. I don't tell you to walk to make it easier for the mother's back, but I tell you that it is a necessary process for the child. Oh, you heard it for the first time, right? Walking is so important. Yes, that's right. I really heard it for the first time. Let's eat. I'll bring it. The door is open. Oh, my mother-in-law. Oh, is there any trash? Oh, I don't think so. It's so natural. Now, your mother-in-law is saying, There's quite a bit of trash. How much trash is there? Are you sure you're matching this up? Oh, my, are you here to take out the trash? Because you can't go out. Because you can't go out. Oh, even for a moment. That's why she does that. Oh, our mother-in-law is amazing.

Oh, goodness, there isn't much trash at my mother's place. Oh my, Mom really takes care of recycling everything. Oh, because she's a mom, she does that. Who else would do it? Yeonah eats a few times a day. It feels like she eats endlessly. Because Mom provides everything, it's truly mysterious. What's so mysterious? I don't know. I guess I'll blame you for something. Honestly, I said it's all at the bottom. Yes, that's right. Since I was young, it seems like I've been overdoing things. Overdoing everything, even breastfeeding for too long. Because of that, my stomach... Yes, my stomach. Oh, because I'm angry, I cut off Yoocheon and even the teacher. What are you going to do? Will Mom tell you to study? Really, when Choyeon's teeth were all grown and she cried and ate...

Don't force a child who doesn't want to eat to eat, please just let it go. You should pass over them crying too much. You should have passed over that. Oh, it's not working. Just feed them. Oh, it looks like a scene from a drama, even up to the fireworks. But actually, my mom was busy. Actually, my mom was always busy. I was even in kindergarten, my mom... At that time, I don't think she went to work, but we used to take the bus. Oh, she was quite independent, my mother. Then, one day, on the bus, I think I got lost once. I think I got lost for a while inside the bus, crying, and by chance, I met that gentleman and waited at a cafe. My mom didn't come, the teacher came. I called the teacher and said, I can't come over there now, so please hurry.

Go over there, but I, but now that I'm married and have a child, I want to stay by your side. Oh, okay, okay, okay. The reason I raised you like that is because in the future, I will live alone without siblings, so be brave and make your way. There are cases where I do that to make you do that. To do that, I purposely have a shop there and if you don't come with me, I'll just give you money and teach you while you go. Oh, I don't know why this is happening. Oh my, I didn't know it would turn out like this. Oh, I'm frustrated, I'm frustrated. Oh, why is this happening? My heart hurts, my heart hurts. Yes, Yeon-ah, why is this separate? Why are you crying again? Let's sit next to mom and dad. Oh my, what is Chaeyeon saying? Mom and dad, let's die after I die. Let's die after I die. Oh my, where did you hear such things? What's gotten into you?

I make a heartbreaking sound, saying I want to be born again. While thinking like that, tears come out. So my mom, even though she is overly protective, can't help but stick with me all day. She says she can't help but be like that, saying she can't be strict. Oh, it will be hard later on. Hmm, how much strength did I have when I was young? I want to do everything for my daughter. Oh dear, demanding things for my child. So, earlier I mentioned wish fulfillment. If I don't listen to this, I wonder what worries my child might have. Oh, if my child doesn't receive a warm welcome from friends outside and gets rejected even by me, where will they find peace of mind? Yes, I think there should be at least one person who can truly comfort and provide a place to rest, no matter what.

I wonder if gradually getting more attached to the child is something that mothers tend to do a lot. Your ultimate goal in raising a child is independence. Towards independence, you walk a long journey with your child. Therefore, people need to live more clearly as independent individuals. But this process starts from birth. In fact, when the baby is in the womb, it's just one body. When the body comes out, what is the first thing to do? Cut the umbilical cord that is connected as one body. Then, what is the second step? Now, you have cut the umbilical cord. So the body is separated. Bye-bye breastfeeding, bye-bye beautiful, and this is the second step. What comes next? Holding hands and walking, that's the next step.

You set it up, right? Then how do the kids do? They try to catch it, right? They walk, right? Well, there are cases where moms control the gravity, but most of the time, they let the kids go far from them. So, kids moving forward means they are going towards the world. Therefore, walking is a very important developmental process in handling gravity. From a psychological development perspective, it's about practicing to gradually move away from parents. As children go through these stages, they are growing and developing. It gives strength to mothers internally. It's about cultivating the strength to live alone. It doesn't mean that the child is suffering in life because of stress. But it seems difficult for mothers as the process of the child becoming an individual and separating is challenging.

It seems difficult because you must have heard a lot of stories like this. If you keep doing this, you will ruin your child by constantly treating them like a baby. You must have heard this story many times. Of course, I just explained it more professionally and in detail, but you must have heard this story countless times. However, there is a reason why some mothers cannot do this. If we don't handle this reason well today, even though Dr. Park said so, it's really heartbreaking. It may not be possible. It's like a dream come true when our child comes out and meets us, and there is a change where the mother can be more helpful. Now, we need to gather more strength. Try it. Don't stop. You keep saying that I should be eating. It's really important. Seriously. When it comes to sleeping, the mother sleeps on top, and the father sleeps on the side. That's right. This is really hard. I've tried it too.

I don't think it's going well. Right, we did that famous thing every two hours, but all night, mom couldn't sleep. Then, we can't sleep either. It's the same as the number of times I did when I was in the hospital. It's not really sleeping, it's just staring blankly. Oh, mom sleeping well all day might be a wish. Mom, you naturally take care of us all night, and you might be able to walk out, but it's hard, it's hard. Yeah, for mom, it gives a sense of fulfillment in her inner self. It seems like she finds a lot of reasons to live mentally, clinging to the child and depending on it. Do you have that aspect? Shall we listen? The separation anxiety is more about me than the child.

I feel like it's getting worse, so when relatives like my older sister come to visit and play, why does mom only look for that sister and go with her, it feels a bit hurtful. When I'm just with friends, I worry unnecessarily and feel upset, wondering how the baby is doing, I think I have quite a high level of anxiety. What if the child reacts like this when I push him? Yes, yes, there are quite a few cases like that, so when the mother experiences something difficult, she is afraid of everything and wants to prevent it from happening. Right, so if a six-year-old child is breastfeeding, should it be stopped because no one is around? Is it necessary to make it less difficult during the process of stopping it? Should I let them experience it? Are there ways to make the difficult parts a little less difficult? No, for example, there are essential vaccinations that the child must receive, right?

Then, if you are afraid of needles, how can you make it less painful? Is it possible that it will hurt less if you get vaccinated a year later? It's the same as this. Because breastfeeding on the skin is not just a matter of nutrition or emotional development, but also about individuality and independence. It's not a positive point, it's a negative point. But you shouldn't say that. However, in the process of stopping, you might feel some stress. In life, humans experience all sorts of things. Even if you do your best, the results may not always be good. Mothers also experience strange accidents in life. That's life. By going through that well, inner strength is also developed. The ability to handle it well is developed. But moms are now trying to make their children completely stress-free. Then, the ability to endure unavoidable stress does not develop.

Let me talk a little more specifically. Because my child is having a hard time adapting at kindergarten, I decided to cut off all education. Yes, that's right. But during the time at home without going to school, it seems like there is no education happening at all. As the child grows older, they should have more things to do, but the gap is widening. Due to this gap, the child is experiencing more stress. Because of this stress, I feel like I'm getting nearsighted. Oh my, goodness. But still, feeling sorry for what the child is going through, how can I... how can this... I can't say it like that. Mother, it seems like you are trying to do what's best for the child, but I am truly sorry for the child. I can't help but say this. That love is always absolute, but sometimes giving that love can harm the child. Would you like to become a mother who harms the child? No. Then, are you getting sick, mother?

Do you want to go back early, or do you want to breastfeed? No, do you want to raise a child who can't even write properly? Do you want to be lonely without friends, sticking by your mom's side even when you're 20 or 30 years old? Absolutely not. Yes, yes. Oh, why did you cry again? When I breastfeed, I shake the most. Feed a lot on the right side because the milk comes out a lot on the right, and almost don't feed on the left, don't feed much on the left. Yes, come on in. Hello. Yes, please sit down. Yes, there is no abnormality in the breast ultrasound. Oh, thank goodness, thank goodness, thank goodness. But if you keep breastfeeding, the milk keeps coming out because when you suck, it seems like you need milk, so it gives a signal from the brain. That's right. There is no nutrient in it, right? Right now, there is no nutrient. Oh, it's hard for each other. Even if you remove it, there may be a problem with female hormones.

It could happen. There could be a problem with female hormones. Oh, women. Why? Because it's more important during the management period. What I mean is, I can suppress ovulation. Victory may not come out. If that happens, female hormones may not be produced well. It can be a physical problem for mothers too. Not having menstruation for a long time is clearly not good for oneself. Oh, it's not good. You have to stop it. You have to stop it. It's difficult. No, you have to do this. You have to. You have to be firm. Even the teacher agrees. Yes, you have to do it. If you don't, you can't. That's it. Just stay still. I'll cut it off tomorrow. If you jump over 100k, it's called a pulse. Even now, I think it's about 120 when I see it. [Music] How much are you running now? At this point, it's about 14,450 times. Right now. You're running a lot. The kids were surprised by running so much. Like that, they were surprised.

The military party was held about 135 times, and the military nurse party was also held about 135 times. Yes, yes, there are things like hyperthyroidism that can make growth faster. Yes, even in the case of a baby with congenital hypothyroidism, they grow quickly. You have to keep taking medication like this, and you should also check for complications such as hyperthyroidism. Some people may want to know about hyperthyroidism, but naturally, they end up going to the hospital. Even though the mother said to stop taking it, the doctor firmly advised to continue. Chea-yeon keeps saying her heart hurts, and when she first went to the general hospital, her heart rate was over 150 beats per minute. So, they thought it was a heart problem and went to the university hospital for tests, but the thyroid hormone levels were so high that they exceeded the maximum measurable limit by the machine, so it couldn't be measured. Yes, in such serious cases, medication needs to be taken for a lifetime.

You may need to eat and regulate your body temperature. Oh, you have to have blood drawn. Oh, no, doctor, can children get that too? Thyrotoxicosis is very rare. So, first of all, in the case of hyperthyroidism, it's when too much thyroid hormone, T3 and T4, is produced in the thyroid gland. This can make you feel like you're burning up all the time. So, there are various causes of hyperthyroidism. The first thing to consider is Graves' disease. When the thyroid gland enlarges and becomes hyperactive, the eyes can bulge out as well. The exact causes are not fully understood, but it's believed that stress can have a significant impact. So, autoimmune diseases are generally heavily influenced by stress.

I can't say it's all because of stress, but when considering the causes of Graves' disease, which can induce hyperthyroidism, it's impossible to ignore stress. So, in fact, my mom worries that stress could worsen the child's illness due to stress. However, what worries me more is that anyone, not just people with stress, must go through various stresses in life. If you don't develop the strength to handle and overcome even the stress that everyone just goes through, life will be stressful until you open your eyes in the morning. So, what might not be perceived as stress by others could be very heavy stress for this child. Therefore, I keep telling my mom more strongly that she must never impose such stress. I'm afraid that even a little stress could make the child's illness worse.

You can't really live with stress that you can't let go of for a lifetime, right? But what should we talk about? From what you said earlier, it seems like there's something bothering you in the process of raising your child. I will never treat this child as if I am the big one, that kind of aspect seems to exist. In the childhood of a mother, among the things experienced by a mother who raised her, Oh, this was really difficult for me. I should never do this to our child. If this becomes excessive, it can lead to being immersed in that aspect of child-rearing. Let's listen to that story. Can I say this? I'm not sure. It might have been when you were around the same age as Se-yeon. Yes, when you were young and in a situation without a mother, being alone. That's what's on your mind. I see, when you were alone, it bothered you. I see.

If it had happened, you might have experienced something bad, so you keep worrying about what might happen. It seems like you feel you have to protect in any situation without me. That's why that memory keeps coming back, causing great fear and anxiety. It's called trauma. It seems like it's a trauma. If that memory didn't keep coming back, if it didn't exist, your parents wouldn't know. They probably didn't talk about it. Yes, then you can better understand your mother's pain, worries, and fears when you hear her say that. Perhaps you might develop a feeling of wanting to protect you even more, the opposite of what you expect. I think I can really understand that sentiment. How is your mother feeling?

I like it the most when I'm just playing with my mom, but I don't know why my mom keeps eating snacks. I don't want her to do that, but she keeps doing it. It's been a while since I stopped breastfeeding, so I keep eating and getting hurt here. Even if I'm told not to eat it, I can't help it. Jaeyeon is listening to everything. I have something to say to my mom. I'm sorry, mom. I'm sorry, mom. Oh my, oh my. Mom, you're Sarah. Oh my. For the sake of the child, what is really right? Today, the teacher and my mother-in-law always said the same thing, but I think I was just too stubborn. I wondered why this would have such an impact. I realized that I was really wrong. Now, I shouldn't ruin the child anymore.

I think I can do it. Seo Yeon, are you okay? Come on, let's go out. Should we go out and talk? Alright, wait a moment. Let's go out for a moment. Let's go out. Why, why, why is this happening? Hello, Choi Yeon-ah. Hello, Jaeun. Yeah, let's sit down. Where should we sit? Jae Yeon, try some water. Check it. Hold it up. Hold it up. You're doing well. Look at this. You can open it. You're doing well. Wow, it's amazing. Yeah, you're doing well. Teacher, I think there's one thing I need to tell you. Dr. Park, I think I need to talk to you. Yeah, there are moms. When a baby is born, they are so happy. It's so beautiful in the world. You must have felt the same way. Even back then, Mom loved Chaeeun and she was beautiful. But she didn't wear such a pretty dress and sit like this back then.

Sitting down, pouring a bottle of water, and placing it neatly, the scene of talking to the doctor, will it be prettier than back then or less pretty? Well, let's ask mom. What do you think? It's prettier, right? That's right. Thumbs up. Double thumbs up. Yes, the best way for you to live according to your age. Yes, but sometimes it's hard to learn something new. Choi Yeon-a, but you're not learning alone. Your mom and dad will teach you. They will teach you. Mom knows that you like to drink milk, but now you need to stop and grow up for Chaeyeon. Mom doesn't stop giving Hyun milk because she doesn't love Chaeeun, but because she loves her so much. Now, let's work hard to live happily like a six-year-old. [Music] Yanggo, of course, this is obvious.

Mom, now Chichi is completely not allowed, you know, even if Chaeyeon wants it, I can't give it. Look at Choeyeon, look at this baby, look at the pacifier. There are kids who suck on pacifiers, right? Kids who suck and pull on it, that's what Chichi is for. Look at Choeyeon, think she's putting something in her mouth. It's really funny. Yes, Dr. Oh Eun-young also mentioned that. Giving Chichi to her was thought to be a very good thing for mom, but it wasn't. It wasn't love. Because she couldn't eat Chichi, she was upset. Mom will try to fill that with a different kind of love that suits you. Mom promises, got it? Got it? So, what do you think about Choe? It's really hard, I don't know. Sad, don't know, don't want to talk. Why are you embarrassed? Embarrassed. Nowadays, saying those things is a bit embarrassing. Oh, today is separate.

Let's sleep, lie down [MUSIC] Ah, Ah Yoo, it's time to sleep, sleep Ah [MUSIC] Sleep, Dad, Dad, three, Dad, Tae-ah, why are you like that, Hyuna, why are you like that, why, why, why, why is it [MUSIC] not working well, it's not working well, how have you been, I'm so curious.

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화자는 모유 수유로 인한 육체적 고통에도 불구하고 모유 수유를 중단하기로 결정하기 위해 고심하고 있습니다.

화자는 자신의 욕구와 아이의 욕구 사이에서 갈등을 느낍니다.

장기간의 모유 수유는 화자의 신체적 불편함과 정서적 고통을 유발하고 있습니다.

엄마는 감정적으로 갈등을 느끼며 모유 수유를 중단하기 위해 고군분투하고 있으며 결정을 내리기 어렵습니다.

아이의 충치가 심해 결국 엄마가 아이의 건강을 위해 모유 수유를 중단할 수밖에 없었습니다.

모유 수유를 중단하는 과정은 아이의 독립성 발달을 돕기 위해 6개월 정도에 시작하는 것이 이상적입니다.

아동 발달 및 모성 유대감에 관하여

6세 아이가 모유 수유를 거부하고 혼자 놀지 못하는 등 우려스러운 행동을 보이고 있습니다.

아이가 엄마에게 지나치게 의존하고 엄마가 경계를 설정하지 못하는 것은 심각한 문제를 야기합니다.

경계를 설정하고 아이가 독립심과 공간 인식을 키울 수 있도록 하는 것은 건강한 발달을 위해 매우 중요합니다.

아동 발달을 위한 걷기의 중요성

걷기는 엄마의 허리를 편하게 하는 것과는 별개로 아이의 발달에 매우 중요합니다.

서두르지 말아야 할 필수 과정입니다.

대화에 등장하는 어머니는 아이에게 지속적인 지원과 위로를 제공해야 할 필요성을 느끼며 딸을 위해 모든 것을 해주고 싶은 마음을 표현합니다.

자녀의 독립심을 키우는 엄마의 심리적 여정

아이의 독립 과정은 탯줄을 자르고 엄마와 떨어져 걷는 법을 배우는 등 출생과 함께 시작됩니다.

이 과정은 아이의 심리적 발달과 성장에 매우 중요하지만, 분리불안으로 어려움을 겪는 엄마에게는 힘든 과정일 수 있습니다.

엄마들은 종종 아이를 돌보는 데서 성취감과 목적 의식을 찾지만, 아이가 더 독립적이 될수록 놓아주어야 하는 어려움과 씨름하기도 합니다.

산모와 아이의 고통과 스트레스 최소화하기

모유 수유는 영양뿐만 아니라 개성과 독립성에 관한 문제이기 때문에 갑자기 중단하면 엄마와 아이 모두에게 스트레스를 유발할 수 있습니다.

아이의 스트레스를 없애기 위한 엄마의 노력은 피할 수 없는 스트레스에 대처하는 능력 발달에 방해가 될 수 있습니다.

유치원에서 아이의 스트레스를 줄이기 위해 교육을 중단하면 발달 격차가 커지고 더 많은 스트레스를 유발할 수 있습니다.

아이에게 사랑과 보살핌을 제공하려는 과도한 욕구는 때때로 의도하지 않은 해를 끼칠 수 있으므로 엄마가 자녀 양육에 있어 균형을 찾는 것이 중요합니다.

갑상선 기능 항진증과 그 잠재적 원인에 대한 이해

갑상선 기능 항진증은 갑상선 호르몬의 과잉 생산으로 인해 지속적으로 열이 나는 느낌을 받는 질환입니다.

그레이브스병은 갑상선이 비대해지고 과잉 활동하는 것이 특징인 흔한 원인 질환으로, 종종 스트레스의 영향을 받습니다.

스트레스는 그레이브스병과 같은 자가면역 질환에 큰 영향을 미쳐 상태를 악화시킬 수 있습니다.

부모는 자녀의 성장과 자녀가 직면한 어려움에 대해 이야기합니다.

자녀의 발달을 위해 특정 습관을 고치고 다양한 방식으로 사랑을 표현하는 방법에 대해 이야기합니다.

대화는 또한 성장에 따른 감정과 당황스러움에 대해서도 다룹니다.