기대치 관리 심리학에서의 인식

숙련도를 인정받기 위해서는 전문 지식이 필요하므로 대부분의 사람들에게 인정을 기대하는 것은 무리입니다.

### 인정에 대한 무리한 기대감
* 😢 사람들은 **인정과 인정을 받고자 하는 깊은 심리적 욕구**를 가지고 있지만, 이를 기대하는 것은 거의 합리적이지 않습니다.
* 🎖 인정을 받으려면 어느 정도의 숙련도가 필요하며, **숙련도가 없으면 대부분의 사람들은 능력과 숙련도를 인정받지 못합니다.**
* 🤝 "대부분의 사람들은 **여러분의 특정 역량과 숙달 분야에 영원히 입문하지 못할 것**입니다."
* 🔍 특정 분야의 탁월함과 숙달을 인정받으려면 **마스터 지위에 있는 사람**이 있어야 합니다.
* 👏 숙달된 영역 내에서 소수의 사람들로부터는 어느 정도 인정을 받을 수 있지만, **일반적으로 사람들에게 인정을 기대하는 것은 무리한 기대**입니다.
* 💊 "삼키기에는 **씁쓸한 약**이지만 진실입니다."

i'm dr. orion taraban, and this is psych hacks: better living through psychology. and the subject of today's short talk is don't expect recognition. this is a tough one for folks, which is why it's going in the unpleasant truths playlist. people have this deep psychological need to be recognized and acknowledged. i have it, you have it, we all have it. unfortunately, i'm here to tell you that it's rarely reasonable to expect recognition. and here's why. recognition requires some degree of mastery. for instance, if i were to put 10 chess boards in front of you with the pieces arrayed in different patterns and combinations, would you be able to point out the game that was being played by the grand master? probably not. i mean, if you just have a basic understanding of chess, all those chess boards are going to look pretty much the same to you. brilliance could be staring you in the face, but you would lack the ability to recognize it. it would require somebody who's pretty much at master status to be able to

recognize the game being played by the grand master. Some measure of expertise is required to recognize competence and mastery. Without it, mastery remains completely invisible to the uninitiated. And most people, whether you like it or not, will be forever uninitiated into your specific field of competence and mastery. That's just the way it is. So to expect the uninitiated to be able to recognize masterful behavior is unreasonable. You might be able to receive some recognition from a small subset of individuals who exist within your domain of mastery and who aren't corrupted by envy and resentment, but you can't reasonably expect it from people on the whole. It's a bitter pill to swallow, but it's the truth. What do you think? Remember to subscribe and hit that like button for the algorithm. And if you'd like to schedule a consultation, you can reach me at psychspodcast@gmail.com. Talk to you soon.

Don't expect recognition: why no one cares about your thing

Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.


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사람들은 인정받고자 하는 깊은 심리적 욕구를 가지고 있지만, 이를 기대하는 것은 거의 합리적이지 않습니다.

인정을 받으려면 높은 수준의 숙달이 필요하기 때문에 일반인이 한 분야의 탁월함을 진정으로 높이 평가하거나 인정하기는 어렵습니다.

숙련도를 인정받기 위해서는 전문성이 필요하기 때문에 초보자에게는 보이지 않습니다.

같은 분야 내에서도 소수의 사람들만이 인정받을 수 있기 때문에 일반 대중의 인정을 기대하는 것은 무리입니다.