자녀 양육의 어려움: 무례함, 괴롭힘, 가족 역학 관계

### 가족 간의 갈등: 무례, 괴롭힘, 그리고 변화의 길
* 👩 대화는 **부모에게 무례한 태도를 보인 카일라**에게 엄하게 말하며 그녀의 문제 행동과 태도 문제를 강조하는 것으로 시작됩니다.
* 🎥 카일라의 어머니가 유튜브의 영향 때문이라고 말하는 **카일라의 욕설 사용을 보여주는 동영상**이 소개되어 소셜 미디어가 어린 자녀에게 미치는 영향에 대해 강조합니다.
* 🏠 아이들의 생활 환경은 **혼란스럽고 지저분한 것**으로 묘사되며, 어머니는 집안의 질서와 규율을 유지하기 위해 **고군분투하는 모습**을 보여줍니다.
* 병상에 누워 있는 아버지는 아이들이 엄마의 관대함을 이용한다며 **아이들의 행동에 대한 불만**을 토로하며 **훈육이 필요**하다고 주장합니다.
* 👩 토론을 통해 아이들이 학교에서 심각한 괴롭힘을 당하고 있다는 사실을 알게 되었는데, 부모는 지금까지 알지 못했고 **이는 가족 내 소통이 부족했음을 나타냅니다.**
* 🛏 이 가족의 어려움을 접한 한 커뮤니티 회원이 **아이들을 위한 침구를 구입**하고 추가 지원을 위해 **GoFundMe를 시작**하는 등 지원에 나섰습니다.
* 🤝 어머니는 딸의 긍정적인 변화와 도움이 필요한 가족을 돕는 데 있어 **커뮤니티 참여의 중요성**을 인식하며 받은 지원에 감사를 표했습니다.
* ❤ 내러티브는 가족들이 직면한 어려움에 대한 지속적인 지원과 인식을 촉구하며 **어려움에 처한 시기에 단합과 도움의 필요성**을 강조하는 것으로 마무리됩니다.

카일라의 무례한 행동은 혼란스러운 가정 생활과 소셜 미디어의 영향에서 비롯된 것입니다.

I [Music] hello, how are you? Hi, Kayla, how are you? Stand up, young lady. What's your name? Kayla. Kayla M. I heard about you. You're the young lady that's been giving your family a lot of problems, being very disrespectful to your mother and your father. Turn this off. Cut it off now. Sit down, ma'am. Can you come in here and have a seat, please? Sure. Why you your shoes in the middle? Sit down. Did I tell you to move? Did I tell you to move? Then you don't move until I tell you to. What's going on with her? She has an attitude issue. Um, if you go and look in their room, it's a hot mess. That's her little sister. So, I try to control her. She actually curses. I have a video that I want to show you in my phone, actually, that um, she was profanity and everything. I'm like, Why you that kind of language? Excuse me, what? What is her name? That's, is that the other one? Yes, Kamaya.

get in here. I'll have a [Music] SE. I don't know who in the video. Yeah, so I don't know. She's doing. How old are you? 11. And you're talking like this? That's what I wanted to show you. My Chanel. What you do that young lady? Be quiet. Did she just say subscribe to my channel? She doesn't have one though. I did. She did say that, but a lot of it comes from YouTube. I tell them stop watching YouTube, and they had YouTube. That had YouTube on at first. Excuse me. Excuse me. I need you to understand who I am and what's going to happen if you keep on with this noise and interrupting me by making all this noise. Oh, excuse me. I'm have a problem with you. You understand me? Stop with the shenanigans. Stop all the noise. You wasn't crying when you was disrespecting your father and your mother. You weren't doing that then, but now you want to make all this noise and sniffle and cry 'cause I'm here.

you weren't doing that when you were stealing from them and talking to them crazy and defying them, so don't do it now. Be quiet. Do you understand me? So, I did check. She doesn't have any social media accounts or anything of that nature. I think a lot of... Can you pull this back up? Sure, you're going to get a chance to explain yourself. Do you want to play it again? Yes, ma'am. Let me play it again. Sure, go ahead. Just hit the middle of the screen and it will start playing. It should start playing. I think... Guys, welcome back to my channel. Subscribe to my down below. My sister has... Welcome to my channel. When I tell you it's like she T turn up [__] and she girl I don't know [__] f you subscribe to my channel. Yes, subscribe to my channel. Social media. Yes, and I have looked um. I didn't find any, you know, channels that she may have had. I did check. They won't do it. They'll say okay.

they'll go on there, lay down, watch TV. Really? Yes. Um, I don't know which one of them did it, but I'm going to show you in the bathroom where one of them took nail polish and wrote all on the walls. Really? Yeah, I'll show you. You are not to move. You are not to move. You are not to move, and you better not talk to each other while I'm out of here. If I look around this corner, and if I hear you two talking to each other, you're done. Okay. Oh my God. Yeah, that's the room. I've been trying to fight with that for almost two weeks to get them to clean it up, and I'm only one person. How you doing, sir? So if you look right here, um, that's what she took nail polish, put on the wall right there and right here too. She took rope, nail. I like, why'd you do that? I don't know. I'm like, wow, this is ridiculous. This is freaking ridiculous. I've never seen this.

Before, I've never seen this before. Never seen this before, ever. Ever. Look at this. That's their room. Look at this. I am literally scared to walk in here. Look at this. I have never, out of all the years I've been doing this, I've never seen a room. This is, this is what in the world. Yeah, fake nails, food, and Bs. They took those from me 'cause those were upstairs in my. Look at this over here. Yes, ma'am. That's where I sleep, upstairs. I sleep upstairs. So, the fake nails were in upstairs, my stuff. So, how they got down here, I didn't get. Oh my God. Apparently, they're take, they're taking them. But yeah, I try to get clean. That room gets cleaned today, you understand me? That room gets cleaned today. I've never seen a room that filthy in my life. How can you live like that? You're walking over clothes, bugs up under the damn clothes, and you're just disrespecting this home and your mother. And because your father is bedridden, you're just going to run over.

your parents, huh? That's what you're doing because you know that's wrong, what you're doing to them. You're taking advantage because he is bedridden, and you're just doing what you want to do in this house. It ends today, yes sir, today, yes sir, yes sir. Think I'm playing with you? Before I leave here, you clean that damn room up. I've never seen that. You girls are too smart to be living like that and doing that to this woman. You understand me? Yes sir, ma'am. What else is going on with them? Um, like I said, The Stomping, the talking back. She just told her dad, Shut up, leave me alone, a couple minutes ago. He told her, Go take a shower, 'cause she's starting to hit P. Which one? Kayla. And she told her father to shut up, leave her alone. Yes, she talks to him like that? Yes, quite a bit. Wow. Um, Mom, don't open your mouth till I tell you to. So, I know it's a lot of it because he is bedridden, but that's

that's really it 'cause when she goes to school, she's fine. Just when she comes home, they're two different people. That one is a straight-A student, that one she has some seeds, but when they get home, they're two different kids. I'm like, what is going on? Is he dressed? We need to, I need to talk with him, interview with him as well. Yes, give me one second, scoot over there. Don't open your mouth while I'm out of this room. If I hear you mumble anything to her or you mumble something of her, you're done. You get me? Yes, sir. You sit there and be quiet. This is ridiculous. I've never seen a room like that in my life. You should be ashamed of yourself living like that. Do not open your mouth. How you doing, man? How you doing, sir? Pleasure to meet. I wanted to get your take on what's going on. I'd like to get both parents. I didn't want to just get her side. What do you want to tell me about what's going on? What do you think is

happening man. I was I'm the disciplinarian since I have had this stroke. You know, been being written for a year. It's a year this month. Uh, she can't control them. I can 'cause I'm, you know, I treat them like they in my Army. No doubt. I how I was treated when I was a kid. And she let they run over her. They know they can run over her. They can't run over me. You know, they talk crazy, all that. You know, I may say some cursed words. Yeah, I do. I ain't gonna lie about that because I be, I, I don't know if I be mad at them, me mad at her. She don't do nothing about it. That's how I feel. I mean, you know, that's just real. I'm tell you the truth. And so they need somebody to get their answers and give my man, my man completely understand. So let me go in here and deal with them. Um, but I've never, and I've been doing this a long time, I've never seen a

room that is just ridiculous. My mama would never let me get away with that. She beat me all the way the next week, man. I've never seen nothing that is just horrible, man. But I guarantee you that room is going to get clean today, okay? I'm going to come back here and speak with you. I just want to get your side of your take, man. I want to get both parents involved, all right, young lady. Who you're the Auntie, the sister basically, so she's here all day, every day, okay, with you. Have nothing to worry about. I guarantee you. I gave you my word. I'm not going to break it. They about to get together. M got a job, all that. I get you, and I understand that. That's I understand it. I do. Doesn't give you your right though to misbehave and abuse your parents and do the things you're doing, but I understand. You understand, yes. So what we're going to do Monday. Are you familiar about the bullying that she's going through? A lot of bullying in

school. I had no idea. You didn't have no idea. They called my mom or anything. Had no clue. I can't talk to you every day. So, so, so, so let me let me get this straight. I believe you. So, this was something that you didn't know. You just find your kids are being bullied severely in school. I had no idea. Amen. Would tell me like here and there. Oh, somebody say something to my sister. You know, but that's what kids. You know, kids have issues. But severely being bullied. I had she's being severely bullied. I had no bul. Yeah, she being severely bullied. Girl is on social media. Uh, post trying to post things and make YouTube videos at 11 years old. She told me where she got it from. She got it from school, from other kids bringing their phones in. And that's what these kids are doing. Everybody's on Tik Tok and Instagram and trying to, you know, they're showing butt shots and taking nud shots. These kids are doing this. I' I have so many phones that I've uh recovered from

Other kids were there, where there were little kids naked, they're showing their bodies. These little kids are doing this stuff, and so she was falling into that same category, sir. So, for the sake of her, I need the parents to be on the same page when it comes to them. What you do in your personal life, you know, that's what you do when it comes to them. I think we have to be a little more cautious of what they're hearing us say to each other and what they're seeing us do to each other, you know what I mean? That's just critical, big bro. That's critical to them because if they're hearing Dad curse and call the f-bomb and [__] bombs, you know what I mean, they're going to pick that up from Daddy, you know what I mean? Because they're sponges right now. You're very welcome, young lady. So, they're making progress on the room, ma'am. They're making progress. They're cleaning up, they're bagging stuff up, going

through what's dirty and what's clean, um, but they're making progress. So let's see how this goes here on out. When your mother or your father tells you to do something, stop. When they tell you to do something, you do it. Yes, sir. When they tell you to do it. Yes, sir. Every day, you and I will be talking every single day. If your mother or your father tells me that when I talk to you every day that you're not listening to them and you did not do what they said do, I'm coming back that day, and we're going to have a serious conversation. You understand me? Yes, sir. You respect your parents. Now, I'm not expecting you to be perfect. You're going to make mistakes. I'm not going to trip on you making a mistake. You're kids. You're going to make a mistake every now and then. Your mother makes mistakes every day. Your father makes mistakes every day. I make mistakes every day. You understand? Yes. But calling them out of their name, calling them bees and ages, and telling them what you will and won't do in their

house and tearing up this room like this and telling your father shut up leave me alone you're eight you're 11 you shouldn't even be talking like that to your parents ever you understand yes sir this room clean it tonight when I call and I FaceTime this room better be clean or I'm coming back tonight you get me yes all right get the cleaning let me have a word with you now you like a great parent that loves her children um but we have to figure out going forward how to make the communication somewhat better with you and your children so that you have more access to what they're doing every day cuz right now it seems like you've been out of the loop yes you didn't know your children were being bullied severely at school right until today till today you are struggling from what I understand with things that your kids are hearing with you two kind of on you know having issues sometimes in your children the only way this works is if you and him are on the same page so that's why I'm

going to talk to you together. That's very important now. Your private life, what you do in your private life as adults, that's clearly on y'all. But when it comes to these children, you two have to be on the same page and see, to be honest with you, for not because clearly, excuse my, I don't, but that's I work. No, we have twice in the last 12 months. Yes, I lost my job in May because of him. She justed, so it's I lost my [Music] child in November last year. Then we moved here, and it's been down for, but it's a lot on me, sure, you know. Um, I tried to discipline them, but I was abused as a child. Both you girls look like y'all can be models, look like y be models. That social media thing, you got to stop it. Whose phone did you do that recording on? Is that your phone? My's phone. All right, don't be doing that, okay? Okay, don't be doing that, honey. Um, we did have our own

phones before, but our dad took it away because we were too busy on it and stuff. Yeah, instead of helping around the house. Yeah, you should help around the house a little bit. You got toys and Barbie dolls and all kinds of stuff. I got to wait until I get my room clean. Soon as you get your room clean, not only will you have that Barbie, I'll buy you a toy. I will buy each of you a toy. Get that room cleaned up, respect your parents, and I will come by here, and I promise you, I will buy you both a toy that you like. That's my word. I need that room cleaned up tonight when I leave here. Don't go back to cussing and misbehaving 'cause I'm calling tonight, and if they tell me when I leave here that y'all went back to cursing and fighting and disrespecting them, I'm coming back, and if I come back here on and I'm mad, y'all in trouble. You get me? Yeah. All right, let me get out of here. Hey, prison doctor here at Walmart.

uh for some of my clients, um, two little girls, two little beautiful little girls, smart as all get out, um, they were struggling, having a very hard time, um, so when we went into their house, we noticed that they didn't have any sheets, any pillows, um, really just having a hard time, so it just wasn't in our heart, um, to let that go, so we're here at Walmart, and we're buying them some brand new sheets to put on their beds, and we're going to get them some pillows, and just some other bedding, um, but this is the kind of heart it takes, and um, I expect this from our communities, uh, these are families that are struggling, and, and all of us knows of someone who's having a hard time, and they have children, or they, they don't have food to eat, um, it is our obligation for those who have to be able to give back to those who have not, so that's what we're about, that's what we're doing, um, so stay tuned, stay tuned, hey everybody, so these are the two

wonderful little girls I was telling everybody about. I want to start a GoFundMe for these little girls who deserve an opportunity um and they're having a rough time right now. And so I would love for my supporters, my followers, let's start a GoFundMe to help these two little girls. They're doing well in school, they're, they just need a little help. So I'm asking for you guys um. I want to set something up but please let's do a GoFundMe for these two little beautiful girls. All right this is for YouTube. Oh wow well thank you so much. I've not received flowers, this is the first. They're fake now. Well that's okay, fake flowers, fake flowers are okay. It's the thought that counts. Thank you so much, I appreciate you. Hey guys um, I wanted to thank the prison doctor so much. He came into my home, he saved my baby's life. He is amazing, y'all need to get with him, follow him on all social media. He really loves the kids, he's really looking out for me and my family.

I really see a big improvement in my girls, and I love him. Y'all need to follow him, get with him. I'm telling you, he's the truth. He's the man. He's awesome. Thank you, prison doctor.

The Prison Dr. in Atlanta

The Prison Dr

카일라는 부모님에게 무례한 태도를 보이며 가족에게 문제를 일으키고 있습니다.

욕설을 사용하고 지저분한 환경을 조성하는 등의 행동으로 어머니의 불만을 샀습니다.

이러한 태도의 원인으로 유튜브의 영향이 언급되고 있으며, 부적절한 발언을 하고 채널 구독을 요청하는 영상이 공개되기도 했습니다.

가정 내 무례한 행동에 대처하기

두 사람이 매니큐어로 벽에 낙서를 하고 위층의 물건을 가져가는 등 공동 생활 공간에 혼란을 야기하고 있습니다.

화자는 지저분하고 무례한 행동, 특히 병상에 누워 있는 아버지에 대한 무례한 행동에 좌절하고 있습니다.

그들은 변화를 강요하기로 결심하고 즉시 방을 청소할 것을 요구합니다.

육아 및 형제자매 역학 관계의 어려움

아이들은 학교와 가정에서 대조적인 행동을 보여 부모를 좌절하게 만듭니다.

뇌졸중으로 무력감을 느낀 아버지는 아이들을 훈육하는 데 어려움을 겪는 반면, 어머니는 관대하게 보입니다.

부모의 엄격한 접근 방식과 자녀의 행동과 환경을 개선하겠다는 약속이 강조되고 자매가 직면하고 있는 괴롭힘 문제를 해결합니다.

괴롭힘과 어린이에게 미치는 영향에 대처하기

화자는 또래의 영향과 소셜 미디어로 인해 악화되는 자녀의 심각한 학교 내 괴롭힘을 인지하지 못하고 있습니다.

아이들은 휴대폰을 사용하여 부적절한 콘텐츠를 공유하고 있으며, 화자는 부모가 같은 생각을 가지고 자녀에게 미치는 영향력을 염두에 두어야 한다고 강조합니다.

연사는 자녀와 매일 대화를 나눌 계획이며 부모를 존중하고 실수도 성장의 일부라는 점을 인정하는 것이 중요하다고 강조합니다.

부모와 자녀 간 커뮤니케이션 개선

부모는 학교에서 심한 괴롭힘을 당하는 자녀를 훈육하고 소통하는 데 어려움을 겪고 있습니다.

자녀의 행복을 위해 부모가 같은 생각을 갖는 것이 중요하다고 강조합니다.

부모는 자녀에게 방 청소를 하도록 인센티브를 제공하고 좋은 행동에 대한 보상으로 장난감을 사주겠다고 약속합니다.

똑똑하고 아름다운 두 소녀가 침대 시트와 베개 같은 기본적인 생필품이 없어 어려움을 겪고 있었습니다.

화자는 이들에게 새 침구를 사주고 추가 지원을 제공하기 위해 GoFundMe를 시작했습니다.

이들은 가족의 삶에 긍정적인 영향을 준 한 의사에게 감사를 표합니다.