여성과 정서적 착취에 대한 진실

### 궤도자의 환상: 여성이 정직하지 않을 때 알아차리기
* 💔 많은 남성들이 **여성의 칭찬과 애정**을 특별한 관계라고 생각하며 믿지만, 이는 종종 착각입니다.
* 🔍 현실은 많은 여성들이 연애적 관심 없이 정서적 지지와 확인을 위해 남성을 **'궤도인'**으로 곁에 두고 있다는 것입니다.
* 😔 희망은 판단력을 흐리게 하여 **남성들이 여성의 친절을 진정한 관심**으로 오해하게 만들 수 있다는 점을 인식하는 것이 중요합니다.
* 🚫 여성은 대면에 대한 두려움으로 인해 **자신의 연애 감정이 부족하다는 사실**을 솔직하게 말하지 않을 수 있어 상황이 더욱 복잡해집니다.
* 💡 "그녀를 믿을 수 있는 상황은 단 하나, **그녀가 당신과 성관계를 가질 때**뿐입니다." 그녀의 말이 행동과 일치하는 유일한 경우이기 때문입니다.
* ❓ 여성이 자신이 훌륭하고 매력적이라고 주장하지만 **친밀감을 느끼지 않는다면**, 그녀의 정직성과 의도를 의심해보는 것이 중요합니다.
* 🛑 남성은 감정적인 부스러기를 받아들이기보다는 **자신의 상황에 책임**을 지고 **자신이 조종당하고 있음을 인식**해야 합니다.
* 📞 한염으로 어려움을 겪고 있고 명확성이 필요한 경우 **상담을 통해 도움**을 받으면 앞으로 나아가고 자존감을 되찾는 데 도움이 될 수 있습니다.

남성은 여성이 자신과 성관계를 갖지 않는다면 자신의 감정에 솔직하지 않을 가능성이 높다는 것을 인식해야 합니다.

So she tells you that she likes you, that you're a great guy, that you're desirable and that she would be lucky to be with you. There is only one circumstance where she's telling the truth at all. The times you shouldn't believe her because she is

lying to you. In this video, I'm going to tell you the one circumstance where you can trust her. Do you think that the phenomenon of orbiters is real? I know girlfriends that have done that and it's like, it's nice to get attention, just

like, oh yeah, it's good for the self-esteem, it's nice to know. You may think that you have a special relationship with a girl. You may even delude yourself into believing that at some point you're gonna become romantic with her. You tell

yourself, why else would she keep you around? Why would she be so nice to you? Why does she come to you of all people as a shoulder to cry on when her boyfriend is being a jerk? Doesn't this indicate that she's interested in you at

least on some level? No! Snap out of it. You are allowing your hope and your desire to cloud your vision, and you're not seeing things rationally because you want to be with her. You are interpreting all of her behaviors, all of her actions as though she also wants to be with you.

But you're just seeing a projection of your own hope. It's not real. The reality is that you don't mean anything to her. You're just an orbiter. She is just using you to soak up her emotions, to prop up her ego, to get you to do favors for her.

You need to break this idea that you've got in your head that women are these sweet, kind, gentle, angelic beings who can do no harm. It is an illusion, it is a deception. Just like men, women have a dark side, and female psychology can be

really selfish. There are women who will happily exploit you, will lead you on for days, weeks, years even, because if it's benefiting them, they don't care what the impact is on you. I'm not some crazy extremist who says that all women are

like this or that they're guaranteed to behave this way, but you do need to understand that women are capable of acting in this cold, calculated, callous way. There are lots of low-quality women out there, and these women need to be avoided at all costs.

This female practice of leading men on so they can be exploited is way more common than our society acknowledges, and for whatever reason, the culture doesn't even seem to judge it as a particularly bad behavior. You know, there's no massive social consequences for a woman who does

this, but it's for that exact reason that you need to be hyper-vigilant and aware of this because the culture is not going to condemn it because socially there's not going to be consequences for a woman who does this. She can get away with it, and it can go unnoticed. So you, you need

to be vigilant in looking out for this so that you don't get exploited in this way. If you don't spot the signs yourself, you are screwed because nobody's going to point them out for you, especially not the girl. Why do you think women aren't

honest with orbiters about their lack of romantic interest for me, it's definitely out of fear that I'm gonna lose a friend. And so, like, I sort of in my mind it's like I'd rather string them along and still have the friend, a friend, so long

as she's benefiting from the friendship and it's good for her to have you around as an orbiter, do not expect her to do the right thing. If you're waiting for her to take the initiative and to let you know preemptively that you have no

chance with her romantically, you'll be waiting forever. It's not going to happen. And I'm not having a go at the girl in the clip. She was very friendly chatting to me and very open and honest in her answers, which I appreciate. And this

behavior of leading men on is not exclusive to women who are especially dark in their psychology. Even good-natured girls can fall victim to this because women just hate confrontation. And so, she's not likely to bring the conversation up with you because she doesn't want a fight

or an argument, or really deal with your emotions. Yes, it's cowardly. I'm not saying I approve of this. I'm just saying that it is very, very common for women to not be upfront with men about their lack of romantic interest. And given that you

need to be aware, the responsibility is on you, and you have the responsibility to make sure that you're not in orbiter. How do you do this? Like I said at the start of the video, there is only one circumstance, just one, where you can trust that she means what she says there.

There's only one context when you can believe anything that she says, just one. You want to know what it is? It's pretty simple: she has sex with you. She says that she likes you. Okay, I mean that's nice to hear, but does she mean it? Well, ask

yourself this: is she having sex with you? She says that you're a great guy, but what, not great enough to have sex with? She says that you're special, that you're desirable, and yes, if she's having sex with you, then she's probably telling the

truth, those are her true feelings. But if she's saying that you're special and that you're desirable and you're a great guy, and she's not having sex with you, why not? If she really felt that way, why wouldn't she be having sex with you? If

some girl is rejecting you and she's saying some nonsense like, 'Any girl would be lucky to have you,' don't believe her because she's a girl. If she'd be lucky to have you, why doesn't she have you? She's not giving you an honest account

of her feelings. If she truly felt that way, she'd be having sex with you. I've known this from my private consultations, that it can be extremely difficult to get men out of their oneitis. It's really, really similar to an addiction, actually, and they're extremely

protective of their oneitis, protective of that illusion that they've created, in the same way that an addict is protective of their drug or whatever. But this is the real truth: I don't care how much she says that she likes you, how

Special, you are. How desirable you are. If she's not having sex with you, she's lying. She doesn't really feel that way. Her actions do not match her words. I know that you've had a crush on her for years. I know that the two of you have

these deep conversations about topics that that really, really mean a lot to you. And I know that she's had a rough childhood, a rough past, and you empathize with her. And that it seems as though she really gets you. But ask yourself this question: is she sleeping

with you? Because if not, you're getting played. You're being manipulated, and you need to get away from this girl. She knows what you want. Women are aware of this. If you want a romantic and a sexual relationship, she knows that you want all the good stuff from before: all the

companionship, the conversation, the intimacy. But you, you want a deeper intimacy. You want to share the core parts of who you are with her. You want to trust her with that, all sides of yourself, including the sexual. And if she

knows that, but she doesn't reciprocate, then she's leading you on. It's really a horrible thing to do. It's exploitative. As long as you stay obsessed with her and she encourages that, she's rubbing you of the opportunity to explore new

relationships with people who actually deserve to be with you. But you're not blameless in this situation, not at all. You have some responsibility here because why have you accepted this situation? She's feeding you crumbs. Why do you keep eating them? You need to

break free she's telling you that you're a great guy that you're special blah blah blah whatever do her actions match her words that's the important question and if she's not sleeping with you then she's not telling you the truth I understand that this is easier said

than done  it is can absolutely some guys and for them they need a pretty regular reminder you know an injection of truth in order to snap them out of their infatuation for if that sounds like you if you've got this oneitis and

it's preventing you from moving on in your life take action now if you need help book a consultation with me we'll chat over Skype and we will sort you out life is too short to spend it obsessed over some girl who doesn't really care about you

The ONLY Time You Should Believe A Woman

Alexander Grace

여성의 칭찬을 믿어야 하는 상황

여성이 당신을 좋아하고, 당신은 훌륭하고, 바람직한 사람이라고 말하는 것은 한 가지 상황에서만 진실한 말입니다.

오비터(친구 영역에 있는 남성) 현상에 대해 논의합니다.

남성은 종종 궤도 이탈자와의 로맨틱한 관계가 가능하다고 착각하기도 합니다.

화자는 여성의 친절이 자동으로 로맨틱한 관심을 의미하지는 않는다고 주장합니다.

남성의 희망은 판단력을 흐리게 하여 여성의 행동을 잘못 해석하게 만듭니다.

궤도는 여성의 자존심을 높이고 호의를 받기 위해 사용됩니다.

연사는 여성의 이기적인 능력을 강조하며 여성에 대한 이상화된 시각에 도전합니다.

일부 여성은 결과에 신경 쓰지 않고 오랜 기간 동안 남성을 착취합니다.

연사는 이러한 행동을 보이는 저질 여성을 피해야 한다고 강조합니다.

이러한 착취적인 행위는 인식보다 더 흔하게 일어나며, 여성에 대한 사회적 처벌이 부족한 경우가 많습니다.

여성이 궤도에 대해 정직하지 않은 이유

여성은 우정을 유지하기 위해 정직함을 피할 수 있으며, 이는 궤도자가 손해를 보더라도 마찬가지입니다.

친구를 잃는 것에 대한 여성의 두려움은 남성을 묶어두게 됩니다.

궤도선 사태를 끝내기 위해 여성이 주도적으로 나서기를 기대하지 마세요.

선의의 여성조차도 대결을 피하여 부정직으로 이어집니다.

여성은 대면을 피하는 것이 연애에 대한 무관심을 솔직하게 드러내지 않는 일반적인 이유입니다.

진정한 관심도를 나타내는 유일한 신뢰할 수 있는 지표

여자의 말을 믿을 수 있는 유일한 경우는 여자가 당신과 성관계를 가질 때입니다.

여성이 당신과 성관계를 갖는다면, 그녀의 칭찬은 진심일 가능성이 높습니다.

여성이 당신이 훌륭하다고 말하지만 성관계를 갖지 않는다면 그녀의 감정은 진심이 아닐 수 있습니다.

여성이 당신이 매력적이라고 주장하지만 거절한다면 정직하지 못한 사람입니다.

진정한 감정은 성적인 관계로 이어질 수 있습니다.

원염에서 벗어나 앞으로 나아가기

남성은 외도(한 여성에게 집착하는 것)를 버리기 어렵습니다.

칭찬과 상관없이 성적인 관계가 없다면 그 여성은 거짓말을 하고 있는 것입니다.

깊은 대화와 공유된 경험이 있다고 해서 성관계의 부재를 부정할 수는 없습니다.

그녀가 당신과 자지 않는다면, 당신은 조종당하고 있는 것입니다.

여성은 남성이 원하는 것을 알고 있지만 보답하지 않아 착취로 이어집니다.

집착은 남성이 다른 관계를 탐색하는 것을 방해합니다.

남자는 상황을 받아들이는 데 부분적으로 책임이 있습니다.