가족 역학: 자녀의 말에 귀 기울이는 것의 중요성

### 가족 역학: 경청과 수용의 중요성
* ❤ 화자는 가족에 대한 깊은 사랑을 표현하며 특히 다가오는 명절에 **서로를 위해 함께 있는 것의 중요성**을 강조합니다.
* 🎨 런던이라는 이름의 어린이가 아빠와 함께 진심 어린 순간을 공유하며 **가족 간의 유대감과 감사함**을 담은 그림을 선보입니다.
* 😢 하지만 런던이 아빠가 자신의 그림을 찢었다고 비난하면서 **서로의 말에 대한 신뢰와 믿음에 대한 열띤 논쟁**으로 이어져 긴장감이 감돌기 시작합니다.
* 👩 런던의 주장에 좌절한 어머니는 개입하지만 결국 **파트너의 주머니에서 찢어진 그림**을 발견하고 상황 뒤에 숨겨진 진실을 밝혀냅니다.
* 💔 아버지는 자신의 실수를 인정하며 후회와 변화의 의지를 표명하고, 런던은 듣지 못하고 무시당했다고 느낀 아버지를 **용서하기 위해 고군분투**합니다.
* 🛑 내레이터는 아이들이 때때로 거짓말을 하더라도 그들의 감정을 이해하는 것이 가족의 역학 관계에 중요하다는 점을 인식하면서 **아이들의 말을 경청하는 것**이 중요하다고 강조합니다.
* 🚸 논의는 계부모 양육의 어려움으로 옮겨가 **생물학적 관계에 관계없이 모든 아동을 수용**하고 동등하게 대우해야 할 필요성을 강조합니다.
* 💬 이 메시지는 시청자자들이 혼합 가정의 어린이들을 감사하고 존중해 달라는 행동 촉구로 마무리되며, **어떤 어린이도 소외감을 느껴서는 안 된다**는 점을 강조합니다.

모든 어린이는 동등한 대우와 존중을 받을 자격이 있으므로 가족의 사랑과 수용은 매우 중요합니다.

[Music] hey, I just want to tell you guys I love you guys so much. I'm always going to be here for you guys, so don't you ever forget that. And I appreciate us sitting down, having family time soon. The holidays are coming, and I, yeah, and I just want to make it the best for you guys, truly make it the best. I love you guys so much. [Music] [Music] dad, dad, guess what. What is [Music] that a what. Yeah pH a picture that I for you. For me. Yeah, thank you. Thanks. Hey, I know you see me working [Music] right [Music] hey baby, what are you doing it for my dad. Ooh, I love that baby, you did a great job. Okay s the gift to my dad. Oh, I'm sure he's going to love it baby daddy. Hi baby, that's for me. Yeah, I love this. Thank you baby, I love you so much, you know that. Let me help. I love you. All right, I see you later. Okay, let dadd put some. Okay, I'm going to put this

in my jaw and keep it forever next to my heart. Okay, Daddy. And Daddy turned it over too. I love this baby. Thank you so much. Love you, baby. Dad, come in. Come in. Hey, Lond, are you okay? Why do you look so sad? I don't even want to say it because I feel like you're not going to believe me, so I don't want to say it. We were just talking downstairs. You can trust me. Well, you're not going to believe, but Dad, I don't. I feel like it's just not working out. Well, why? Yesterday? No, sorry, today. Earlier, he ripped my paper, my drawing that I gave to him. He ripped it. What do you mean, ripped it? Like, can't you see I'm London? Dad would not do that. I told you you wouldn't believe me, London. Dad would not rip your joy. But I'm telling you, I saw it. He did. He was like, Well, I can't you see I'm working? Well, I don't. I don't know. I don't know Dad for doing that and

where's the drawing if it's ripped, and why didn't you tell me when he did it? Because you wouldn't believe me, 'cause you're not believing me right now. I'm not believing you because I know he wouldn't do that, but I know that he did. London, if he did that to you, you would have came to me when he did it. No, I wouldn't have because I know you wouldn't believe me, 'cause you're not even believing me right now. I don't know how many times I have to repeat this. You keep thinking that he wouldn't, and I didn't think that he would either, but he did. I know he wouldn't do that. I don't get what's wrong with you. Like, what is it that you're trying to create? I'm not trying to create anything, but fine, whatever. I know even wouldn't believe me anyway, whatever. Like, just keep it to yourself 'cause I know he's not going to do it. I'm leaving. I don't know. Can't even see how you're

doing [Music] believe me, babe. Can you believe that London told me that you ripped her drawing? I was just so mad at London because I don't know what's wrong with this kid. I feel like she wants to argue or something, you know? That's what kids do, babe. Kids set parents to argue. Yeah, hope you don't believe nothing she tell you. Yeah, I know how kids could be. They could be a little spoiled sometimes. You want some food? Um, I'll take some later. I'm going to check the clothes in the laundry room. Okay. [Music] [Music] [Music] for [Music] [Music] for [Music] baby. Hey there, I'm going to take a bath. Okay. Okay, I'm tired. Yeah, I always your soap. I still hav open m [Music] so yeah. So, I find it strange that Lon s find one strange. I just told you she said what she said. Kids always lying, babe. That's what kids do. You used to do it. I used to do it. Be lied? No, I

don't I never lied on my stepdad. Oh my dad, why would I rip a paper up? I don't know, that makes no sense. It doesn't, babe. I'm going to bring your clothes to the laundry room, okay? Huh, what babe? I'm bringing it clo to the laundry room, okay babe? No [Music] problem [Music] sh [Music] I know I don't get what [Music] going. What is this baby? I don't know where to do this. This is London's drawing. How do you get this? It was in your pants. You said you didn't rip her drawing. Why would you rip her drawing? Why would you go in my pocket? Are you serious right now? How am I supposed to wash your clothes if there's things in your pocket? What is this? I was just having a bad day and I didn't know how. Absolutely not. I don't care for your bad day. I was really having a bad day. I don't care for it. I didn't mean to rip it. No, I don't care.

for your bad day, and there's now the drawing is in the toilet. You can take it out. That's where it belongs, in the toilet. No, it doesn't belong in the toilet. You want to know how I really feel? I don't care how you feel. You want to know how I really feel? You want to know how I feel now after today? You want to know how I feel? You want to know how I really feel about this? You want to know how I really feel after today? That's another man-child, do you want? I don't really care. I don't really care. It's still a child. I don't care if it's another man, a crack, a foster child. It's a child. You treat a kid with respect. I don't really care for how you feel, and if you really feel that way, you should not be with me. Get your stuff and get out of my [Music] house. London, London, London. I'm sorry, okay? I seen the drawing. London, I'm sorry, okay? Please forgive me, all right? Please, I'm so sorry. I didn't believe you.

but I will forever believe you. All right, mhm. And because that lied to me, I promise. I promise I'm going to change everything. I'm going to change everything. All right, please believe me. Okay, I love you so much. I'm sorry. I seen the drawing. I seen the rip join. I'm so sorry I didn't believe you, babe. I love you so much. Okay, sorry. I just messed up as a mom. Please, please wait. London, get out. I'm sorry. Just get out. I just want to say I'm sorry. I didn't mean to. I just didn't know what I was doing. I'm sorry. Okay, I just have a lot of resentment because we all just get out. Can't trust you anymore. You need counseling. You need help. She bothers you. I'm willing to go to counseling. I love my family, and I can't picture myself without my family right now. Can you just... I need you. I need my family, guys, please. You didn't... I nothing. I am nothing with consider her family. Can you just go? I love you, Lon. Can I get a please just go?

please, please can you listen to me. Just give us time. I'm sorry. I said I'm sorry. Please, I love you guys. I don't, I didn't want to lose my family. Please, all right. Maybe I just need an eye-opener right now, which, what that's what happened today, okay. I said I promise I'm going to be a better man. I promise I'm going to be the dad for her, okay. That's she always wanted. I'm right here, okay. We're going to make it work. Just please give us time. Give me a hug, please. Sorry if I ever hurt you. I'm sorry if I ever treated you different from my other two kids. I never ever meant it. And today I get to realize what family really means. And you are my family. You are my daughter. And I want you to know that I will never ever treat you different. And I learned my lesson today. Can you please forgive me? Fine. I love [Music] you. We hope you enjoy this short film that we just did for you guys, and it's

to raise awareness on being a family and listening to your children. Absolutely, guys, you have to listen to your children. You know, I'm not saying every kid tells the truth or that kids don't lie, but still, listen to them. And even if they lie, understand why they lie and try to seek and understand where that is coming from. There's a reason for everything. And, um, it's important that us mothers, we tend to sometimes move on because our relationships didn't work out with the previous dad or just your previous relationship didn't work out, and we trust a little bit fast, which can cause a lot sometimes. And you cannot trust any man around your kids. You cannot. You just can't trust nobody around your kid. You have to build that. You have to take time with that. It's really serious that you do. And, um, that is a big awareness for our children out there, you know, especially the moms that get caught up. Pay attention to your kids. Keep them men away for a long time and just start very slowly, you know, like

that we want to bring awareness to acceptance. A lot of time in step-parent homes, the stepdad or stepmom having a hard time accepting the stepchild, and guys, that's a big red flag. Guys, if your partner doesn't accept your child, always pay attention to small details, pay attention to everything, pay attention to the way him or her treats your child all the time, especially when you guys are together. Pay attention to how each his or her kids versus your kids. That's not his or her. Yeah, but a lot of the times, sometimes they hide it. Mhm. So, I would just say, like, you know, you have to be around, you have to be around, and if you're not around, make sure you have that third eye. Not because a kid is not your kid, that doesn't mean you should not show the kid love or treat the kid equal as yours. But really and truly, if you're married and you love your wife or your husband, even if you're not married, if that's the person you love, you have to love

everything that they come with, and they come with a child, which is the most precious thing in this world. So why would you want to leave a child left out? You know what I'm saying? I also feel like, kind of like, even if you don't, 'cause I don't want to say I feel like if you're going to get with someone, you have to love what they come with, but sometimes that's not always the case. But if you love that person enough, love them enough to respect their kid and treat their kid fair. Absolutely, you know, because I mean, sometimes kids don't want to give these step-parents a chance, right? But despite that, keep trying, don't give up, and make sure that you could treat the kid as good as possible, even if the kid is a jerk. You absolutely just never let a kid feel left out, no matter the circumstances, no matter the situation. And guys, as I depict in this short film, I ripped up London drawing that she did for me. The family, it's all props f to do in this short.

film right now, so hope you guys enjoy this one. And if you guys like videos like these and want more, definitely get the video to at least 10K likes, guys. We love y'all, and it's hard to raise awareness and acceptance that not because the child is not yours, you should treat them different. Show love even if the child is not yours, 'cause no child deserves to be left out. We love you guys, hope you guys enjoy this video. Want you guys to like, share, subscribe, and see you guys next video. Peace out. [Music]

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화자는 가족에 대한 깊은 사랑과 감사를 표현하며 휴일 동안 함께 시간을 보내는 것의 중요성을 강조합니다.

한 아이가 아빠가 그림을 찢어버린 것에 대한 실망감을 이야기하고, 아버지의 행동에 대해 형제자매 간에 의견 충돌이 일어납니다.

대화는 한 형제가 오해를 받았다고 느끼고 토론을 떠나는 것으로 끝납니다.

화자는 런던이라는 어린이가 자신의 그림을 찢었다고 비난한 것에 대해 불만을 품고 있습니다.

그들은 아이의 행동과 아이들을 존중하는 태도의 중요성에 대해 논쟁을 벌입니다.

상황이 악화되어 격렬한 대화가 오가고 화자는 상대방에게 집을 나가달라고 요청합니다.

어머니의 사과와 변화에 대한 열망

한 어머니가 자녀를 믿지 못한 것에 대해 깊은 후회를 표하며 자신의 방식을 바꾸겠다고 약속합니다.

그녀는 자신의 분노와 상담의 필요성을 인정하고 가족에 대한 사랑과 함께 지내고 싶은 마음을 표현합니다.

어머니는 더 나은 부모가 되겠다고 다짐하고 가족의 소중함을 깨닫고 용서를 구합니다.

아이들의 말에 귀 기울이고 신뢰를 쌓는 것의 중요성

자녀가 거짓말을 하더라도 그 이유를 이해하면 신뢰를 쌓는 데 도움이 될 수 있으므로 자녀의 말을 경청하는 것이 중요합니다.

신뢰가 필수적이므로 어머니는 자녀의 삶에 남성을 소개하기 전에 시간을 들여야 합니다.

파트너가 자녀를 대하는 방식에 주의를 기울이고 생물학적 관계에 관계없이 동등한 사랑과 관심을 보이는 것이 중요합니다.

파트너의 자녀를 존중하고 공정하게 대하는 것은 자녀의 행동에 관계없이 매우 중요합니다.

자녀를 포용하고 소외감을 느끼지 않도록 노력하는 것이 중요합니다.

내 자녀가 아니더라도 자녀에게 사랑과 수용을 보여주는 것은 자녀의 행복을 위해 필수적입니다.