키의 딜레마: 백설공주의 현대적 관계의 곤경

30대 중반의 한 여성이 남자친구의 키가 작아 관계에 갈등을 겪고 있다며 고민에 대한 조언을 구합니다.

### 관계에서의 키 문제와 백설공주 이론
* 👫 4살 연하의 남자친구와 결혼을 준비 중인 한 여성은 남자친구의 키가 조금 작아 함께 외출할 때 **자괴감을 느끼며 고민**하고 있습니다.
* 🍎 결혼을 고려할 때 난쟁이의 결점만 보는 백설공주와 자신의 상황을 비교한 게시물에서 영감을 받은 이 여성은 **나중에 자신의 결정을 후회할까 봐 걱정**하고 있습니다.
* 📏 한국을 포함한 많은 문화권에서 **키는 파트너를 선택하는 데 중요한 요소**로 간주되며, 여성의 키에 대한 기준은 수년에 걸쳐 **높아졌습니다**.
* 🌏 한국에서는 키를 중시하기 때문에 **키가 작아 어려움을 겪었던 한국 남성은 국제결혼에서 더 많은 수용**을 받을 수 있습니다.
* 👑 백설공주 이야기는 결혼을 고려할 때 **잠재적 파트너에 대해 지나치게 비판적**이거나 **외부 요인에 집착**하는 것을 경계하는 이야기로 해석됩니다.
* 💬 "누군가가 나를 잘 대해주면 모든 것을 받아들이지만 **결혼 생활에서는 결점만 보고 다른 사람의 의견에 신경 쓰는 이기적인 성격**을 보입니다."
* 🔮 이 여성은 남자친구의 키 때문에 헤어지더라도 **성격과 좋은 점이 맞는 사람**을 찾을 수 있을지 불안해하고 있습니다.
* 🌍 "남의 의견 때문에 헤어지는 세상에서 바보가 바로 **저인지 궁금합니다**."

Hello everyone, nice to meet you. Another new theory has come out, the Snow White theory. It was a post on a blind date, but now it's deleted, so it's gone. Let's take a look at the content of the post. The title is I'm thinking about breaking up. We met at work with my boyfriend, and now we work in different regions due to a job transfer. When we worked together, we had great personalities, good chemistry, and thought we were both good and decent people. Even after the job transfer, we kept in touch often, and he confessed his feelings. At first, I hesitated, saying I wouldn't get married until at least seven years have passed due to the age difference. But we decided to meet and see how it goes. Everything matched well, and he was a fun person, so despite my initial concerns about his height, I ended up meeting him for a longer period than I thought. We keep our relationship a secret at work, mainly date at home, and avoid crowded places in the outskirts.

I've done a lot, and as we spent time together, I found the homely and neat appearance more appealing. I handle household chores, cooking, and everything without showing any sign of inconvenience, and I am someone who becomes even happier when I see you happy. After about four years of being together, I realized I was in my mid-30s, and I thought it would be comfortable and nice to live with this person, so I started preparing for that. I think we met when I was 31. If that's the case, did this woman just stay still for four years? She probably made an effort to meet other men during that time. Nevertheless, I can't help but think that it's not firm. As I prepare for marriage, I find myself bothered by my boyfriend's slightly shorter height. I am taller than the average woman, around 160 cm, while my boyfriend is in his mid-160s, so I am taller. As we walk around, I become conscious of people's stares, and this height issue keeps bothering me.

It's not a big deal, so I'm not really worried about it. I think of it as just a brief meeting, mainly spending time indoors, so I didn't pay much attention to it. But I'm foolishly ruining my confidence because of my height as I prepare for marriage. It really makes sense. I've only met people taller than me, so I've never been concerned about height. Even when I go out with my boyfriend now, I can't confidently ask people to take pictures of us. I could tell from people's expressions that they thought, Oh, the woman is taller. Adults say that appearance, including height, is not important, but personality is the most important. Even if someone was ten centimeters taller than me, I don't think they would worry like this. However, in a world where people break up because of others' opinions, I wonder if the fool is me. I'm worried that I might regret it later. The anxiety of not knowing what to do if I regret it is tormenting me dozens of times a day. My boyfriend has no qualms about being shorter, and he even thinks it's better that way.

I am a proud person. Even if I break up with this person and meet a taller person, can I meet someone who matches my personality well and is a good person like this one? I feel like such a fool myself. I would like to hear advice from wise people. Please refrain from malicious comments. I don't want to receive harsh criticism. Can I avoid getting criticized harshly? No, I can't. I receive a lot of harsh criticisms. First, I will meet with a lawyer I know, a famous lawyer. This person is well-known. This person portrayed Snow White as a dwarf. I wonder if Snow White felt like this looking at the dwarfs. When someone treats you well, you accept it all, but when it comes to marriage, you only see the flaws, showing a selfish nature that cares about others' opinions. Of course, the real writer is old, in the mid-30s, and does not seem to be exceptionally beautiful. Just a feeling, and not Snow White either. Snow White is different, right? Snow White is beautiful and has a magic mirror.

Mirror, who is the fairest of them all in the world? That's it, right? So, it's not about beauty or age like Snow White, not Snow White's age. That's why the prince of Baekmatan won't come, so don't wait. In her late thirties, she waits for a new prince of Baekmatan like Snow White. It's almost like a mission. It's a fact bomb. It says, Don't regret not getting married before becoming an old witch and dying alone. The person who posted this shares an interesting story. I'll take all the dwarfs, eat them, and the seven dwarfs really helped Snow White well. But Snow White wakes up from her sleep when the prince of Baekmatan kisses her and leaves with the prince, getting married. In this way, the author criticized her as a unique evil woman. Even when I think about cases like Titanic, it's a groundbreaking film.

It was a romance movie, wasn't it? Even in the case of Snow White, if you look at it, it's truly a classic romance. But when you really think about it, Snow White, after seeing that, was it that she liked the prince? The dwarfs just accepted everything, and when the prince with the white horse came, she left the seven dwarfs and went with him, right? Oh, I also think that one's innocence can be shattered like this. In the middle of the next comment, isn't it a fierce competition for men's height over 16? I also agree with this opinion. In fact, in a woman's eyes, if you think about it, the most valuable aspect of a man's prime is height. In the case of idols, women tend to prefer men over 160cm as their ideal type. And if you see many people talking about 175cm and above, and trying to avoid meeting people below 175cm as much as possible, right? But then, isn't a woman's age like a Christmas cake? Both are well sold. So when men look at it, they often talk about 175 to 180 and above.

It's popular, but if it goes over 25, it doesn't sell well. Men's height is the same. From what I've seen, 175 doesn't sell well. Even if the popularity drops, it seems there's not much difference between this and that. They are similar. So, if you were to say that you are looking for someone big, for example, a 20-year-old woman would be 180 cm tall, a 20-year-old man would be 175 cm tall, a 30-year-old woman would be 170 cm tall, and a 35-year-old woman would be 165 cm tall. The writer also mentioned 165 cm for those in their mid-30s. I also feel like this and that are similar. And if you are in your 10s, in terms of men's height, it would be 160 cm. I really empathize with this comment. Let's look at the next comment. If you are in your mid-30s, if you don't have a boyfriend now, and your height is 150 cm, it seems like there are no options left for men. So, please watch your language. No, this is a fact. From a man's perspective, once you are past the mid-30s, if you don't have children, I don't know about others, but if you have children,

In this case, people tend to be cautious. And this woman, in my opinion, doesn't seem like a beautiful woman like Snow White, except for her height. She doesn't seem to have much to boast about except for her height. Nevertheless, despite that, she is now preparing for marriage. Thinking about whether there is a chance for a man like that is a sign that metacognition is ruined. And I hope the man who is now preparing for marriage knows this fact. If he knew, I wish he would realize it. If his girlfriend has such thoughts, he should run away. And in the next comment, if that man had grown taller, you two wouldn't match. That's what I think. If he had grown taller, you wouldn't have met. And this comment, I think it's too harsh, but should I just take it as a joke? Anyway, reading it, let's believe in strong genetics and get married as it is. This woman said that kind of thing. In the past, she only dated tall men.

I met her, she's younger than me, but it's the first time this kind of thing happened. She said she already has a lot of dating experience, so I decided to trust her past and go with the flow. However, these days, when it comes to blind dates, it seems like guys have memorized it like a joke. And for those of you who may have recently joined us, you might not be familiar with the concept of 선부유전 (Sunbu genetic theory). As of now, this is still a hypothesis in the field of science. If it were scientifically proven, I would talk about it as it is, but since it's still just a theory, I recommend you all search for it on Google. If you search on Google, not Naver, you will find out what 선부유전 or 가목유전 (Gamo genetic theory) is. You might be shocked by the content. Next, a comment said, Are you only able to meet such women if you're short? This person seems to be short, but don't get too discouraged. Korean men's height is number one in Asia, they are the tallest.

In Asia, including the Middle East and so on, South Korean men are considered relatively tall. When we look at it globally, South Korea ranks among the tallest in Asia. When you enter here, you can confirm that. South Koreans are tall. Even among Western countries, there are many countries that do not have much difference compared to South Korea. In other countries, unlike South Korean women, height is not a significant factor. Among the Western countries, South Korean women are the ones who are most concerned about height. There is data to compare. The only data available is from 2007. In 2007, South Korean and Japanese competitors jointly conducted a survey with the same question. At that time, they surveyed 500 people. South Korean women, in terms of valuing a spouse, answered that height is important with 68.7. In Japan, it was 28.10, indicating that they consider it less important. This is from 2007, about 17 years ago.

When you compare the mermaids back then and the mermaids now, you can see that the standards have risen. So, if this survey is conducted again now, in your case, it could be around 68.72, or even over 80. In 2007, Japanese women began to come to their senses in the early stages. But there are decisive factors here, so they would have been quite picky. Nevertheless, only 28.1% of Japanese women answered that height is important. Now, 17 years have passed, and I often think it might be similar or even lower. Also, in Western countries surprisingly, they don't care much about height, and there are countries where people are shorter than in South Korea. Typically, in those countries, they consider the height of their own country's men. So, among men from other countries,

In countries where the average height is shorter than Korean men, when Korean men go to those countries, they often appear to be shorter compared to Korea, but in that country, they can also be close to the average height, and there are even cases where they are taller. Therefore, especially for those who have been hurt by Korean men due to their short stature, if you want to get married, you should consider international marriage. That's the message I would like to convey. Yes, we will end the video here. Thank you.

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백설공주 이론: 관계의 키 콤플렉스

한 여성이 결혼을 준비하면서 남자친구의 작은 키 때문에 자괴감과 주변 사람들의 시선에 대한 걱정에 시달리고 있습니다.

남자친구는 자신의 키에 만족하고 있지만, 혹시나 자신의 결정을 후회할까 봐 불안과 걱정에 시달리고 있습니다.

사랑, 비평, 사회적 기준에 대한 성찰

키나 사회적 기준에 상관없이 자신의 성격과 잘 맞고 좋은 사람을 찾는 데 집중하는 것이 중요합니다.

나이와 외모와 같은 외적인 요소에 집착하면 가혹한 자기 비판과 사회적 비난으로 이어질 수 있습니다.

사회가 인간관계에서 키와 나이를 강조하는 것은 해로울 수 있으며, 이러한 편협한 기준에 도전하는 것이 중요합니다.

키가 데이트와 결혼에 미치는 영향

남성은 키가 클수록 선호도가 높아 175cm 이상이 바람직한 반면, 20대 여성은 180cm가 적당할 것으로 예상됩니다.

특히 30대 중반의 여성은 키에 대한 부담감이 데이트 상대에 영향을 미치고 있습니다.

키에 대한 관심에도 불구하고 결혼을 준비하는 한 여성은 유전적 궁합과 키가 관계에 미치는 영향에 대해 우려를 표명했습니다.

한국에서의 데이트 경험 및 키 선호도

연애 경험이 많은 연하 여성을 만나면 과거를 믿고 흐름을 따르기로 결정하게 됩니다.

선부유전(선부 유전설)이라는 개념은 아직 과학계에서는 가설에 불과하며, 구글에서 검색해보면 충격적인 내용을 확인할 수 있습니다.

한국 남성은 전 세계적으로 비교적 키가 큰 편이지만, 한국 여성은 다른 서구 국가에 비해 키에 대한 걱정이 가장 큰 것으로 나타났습니다.

2007년 조사에 따르면 한국 여성은 일본 여성보다 배우자의 키를 훨씬 더 중요하게 생각하는 것으로 나타났습니다.

변화하는 인어의 기준과 국제 결혼에 미치는 영향

인어에 대한 기준이 수년에 걸쳐 높아지면서 설문조사 결과도 높아질 가능성이 있습니다.

일본 여성에게 키는 그다지 중요하지 않으며, 서양 국가에서도 키에 대한 관점이 다릅니다.

국가 간 평균 키의 차이는 한국 남성의 인식에 영향을 미칠 수 있으며, 키에 관심이 있는 사람들에게 국제결혼이라는 선택지를 제시할 수 있습니다.