여성의 우정: 칭찬과 비판 탐색하기

진실하지 않은 칭찬과 남성을 비난하는 친구를 믿으면 외로움을 느끼게 되므로 여성은 더 나은 삶을 위해 솔직한 조언을 구해야 합니다.

### 우정과 결혼을 탐색하는 여성을 위한 가이드
* 👭 여성은 자신의 외모와 가치에 대한 오해를 불러일으킬 수 있으므로 **진심 어린 칭찬**을 하는 친구를 주의해야 합니다.
* 👂 다른 사람을 비판하거나 결점을 지적하는 친구는 **진정한 친구가 아니며 자존감에 부정적인 영향**을 미칠 수 있습니다.
* ⏳ 30대 초반은 결혼 적령기가 아니며, **결혼에 대한 열망이 있는 여성**이라면 적극적으로 파트너를 찾아야 합니다.
* 🎯 여성스러움과 성숙함, 아름다움이 공존하는 시기인 만큼 **좋은 파트너를 만나기에 이상적인 나이는 28세 전후**입니다.
* 👰 여성은 결혼을 결심할 경우 **배신감을 느낄 수 있으므로 함께 독신으로 지내려는 친구**를 경계해야 합니다.
* 🛤 ️ 여성은 자신의 인생에서 **자신의 길을 통제**하고 **목표를 달성**하기 위해 노력해야 합니다.
* 💬 "달콤한 말은 잠시 듣기에는 좋지만 실제로는 도움이 되지 않습니다. **불쾌하지만 솔직한 조언**을 해주고 자신의 이익을 위해 **냉정하게 충고하는 사람**을 곁에 두는 것을 적극 추천합니다."

Friends who talk like this are very bad friends. This is a phrase that reveals the worst shortcut to the swamp of a spinster. But the friend who took the lead in this is the one who brings the wedding invitation, not the trashy girl. Have you ever received empty compliments from your friends, acquaintances, or seniors, even if they were insincere? It happens occasionally. If you're a woman, you can relate. But as an older sister, my advice would be to keep a distance from such friends. In my opinion, it would be better. There are friends who only say nice things. Why should you keep your distance? Because if you take those words at face value, the chances of becoming a spinster for a female producer or women increase by 100%. So today, I will explain in detail about the words that women should never believe or trust. Let me tell you about the five types. The first is compliments on appearance. There are two types of compliments that should not be trusted. First.

First, in social situations, you can't spit on someone's face even if you're angry, right? So, yes, it's about going above that. Oh, you look younger than your age. I thought you weren't married. Colleagues or bosses often say that. But honestly, insincere compliments are more common. Second, Poomasihyeong is about complimenting each other's appearance. It's like saying you look a bit like Jenny. Oh, you look a bit like Seoyeon. Oh, you look a bit like Kali. The problem with these compliments is that it's hard to distinguish if it's a genuine compliment or just a polite one. Women now hear these things and come to me saying, I'm in my forties, but people see me as in my thirties. They receive these kinds of comments. When you respond, you often hear a lot of those comments. People who hear these kinds of comments a lot, when they meet people who don't say those things, they say, There are no photos of you. Women always make these compliments at least once.

I've heard a lot that I'm cuter than her, but in reality, many times, the actual person is just ordinary. So, hearing expressions like cute or pretty is probably because they are really beautiful. For example, when someone heard compliments about me in my absence, saying, Oh, Onebang Unnie is really beautiful, that's a real compliment. Women who are truly beautiful don't even bother to distinguish these things. They don't get caught up in the compliments. Oh, thank you. That's it. It's not a big deal. Why? Because the world is very favorable to me. If I go that way, I get treated well and receive attention from men. People who can live a slightly more abundant life because of their appearance. That's why I never really enjoy or care about such compliments. Here, what I mean is, women truly do not know if they are beautiful.

A way to objectively evaluate if someone is pretty is when you hear that you are pretty, you feel excited all day long and keep reminiscing about it, saying I am pretty. I turned 32 and felt so good because I had never received such a compliment before. So, receiving this compliment makes me feel really good. A friend who has heard this a lot just takes it in stride. A woman who keeps reminiscing about compliments may not be that pretty. Right? Secondly, friends who talk like this, pointing out what's wrong with you, are really bad friends. This is a phrase that leads to the worst shortcut to the swamp of an old maid. It's something you often hear when introducing your boyfriend to your friends, criticizing the man to lift up the woman. What's lacking in you that you're dating him? You deserve much better. Second marriage.

It's ignorant to talk without knowing the ecosystem of the market. For example, comparing a man and a woman who are both 35 years old and saying who looks better based solely on age. It's the man who looks better, right? But this kind of thing destroys the whole ecosystem. Oh, when you turn 30, there are so many girls around me who haven't even met their blind dates yet, and there are plenty of people meeting their blind dates. Friends who encourage you to meet someone of the same age just so you can also meet your blind date are really bad friends. It's really dangerous. True friends would say, Where is the person you are meeting at your age? If they are good, catch them. If someone says that a man is good, and you hear such words, your mood would definitely worsen by 100. A confident woman wouldn't be swayed by such words. It's only women who are unsure or lacking confidence who would be swayed by such words. That's why we...

When I see it, oh, my friends tell me who I look like, and they say I can meet much better people than him, so why do I bother meeting a guy like him? That's what they say to me. Then I tell my friends to introduce me to better people, but they don't introduce me. When they hear such things as, Your nose is too high, from these friends, those friends who are thin-skinned start to have thoughts that they are not worthy. And they fall into such misunderstandings while missing out on good men. I've seen a lot of cases like this. Oh, there are really many cases like this. But what if time is early? It becomes difficult for me to find a good man other than my boyfriend. That's the reality and a fact. Then, they end up boarding the open-air travel train. If a man really has a problem, instead of saying, You are not worth it, they say, When I look at it, this man is okay in this aspect, but this is a bit.

It seems like there is a problem, so I want you to tell me more accurately or as far as I know, that man knows this, so I would appreciate it if you could find out more clearly. You should keep that in mind. I didn't say that, but in general, men are men. I mentioned that I have a friend who got married early before. When that friend got married, they told me not to do it, but told other friends to go ahead. But later, they were like, How could she marry a guy like that? Is she crazy? while praising the marriage in front of me. That's the true feelings of women. They were really close friends, friends for over 10 years, exactly like that. Since then, I don't believe what female friends say at all, except for one. It's amazing that there is that one exception, truly amazing. In the early thirties, if you're in your early thirties, this is a bursting sound. [END OF TRANSCRIPT]

Even though the average age of marriage is said to be around 30, it's not the peak time. Get ready now, and to be honest, as women pass the age of 30, the chances of meeting someone decrease significantly, and you can feel that blind dates are decreasing. But what's the peak time? If I say that, the number of introductions will drastically decrease. If you rush and say you're in your prime, even the things that were coming in for introductions will stop. When you are in your prime, you can travel extensively with your friends who are still single and enjoy time with those who haven't married yet. The cases of missing out are numerous. So, foolish friends go to play with other friends and end up meeting someone. However, those friends don't mention meeting men to other friends; they pretend it doesn't happen. Then suddenly, a man appears. That's when you feel betrayed. If you have thoughts of marriage, crossing thirty is not the peak time to enjoy, but rather actively looking for a partner.

It's an age where you have to search hard. So, what is the best age for women to meet a good partner by searching hard? If I were to say I really have thoughts about marriage, I think the best age is in the early 20s. In the late 20s, it's the golden age for women. Why? Because the age of 28 means you have experienced social life to some extent, like working for about 3 to 4 years, and gained some knowledge. But in your 30s, you are not quite there yet, so you are still a bit innocent. And just before a woman turns 30, that age is when she looks the most beautiful. It's the age where femininity and maturity coexist. Really, if I want to marry well, I think the prime time to meet the best man I can choose is around 28. That's why I think it's good to strategize that age. It's the best time to aim for. It's still the early stage of the game. These days, people say to their friends, Don't get married, let's go to a retirement town together and live there for the rest of our lives.

There are definitely friends in their late twenties and early thirties who shout out for being single. If friends who think about staying single hang out together, they end up not getting married. If there are many friends around you who quickly get married, have children, and live happily, it seems like you end up getting married quickly. When there are friends who think about staying single, they say, Hey, let's not get married. What's the point of getting married in a day? They firmly resolve to stay single for a lifetime like a religious group. So, if you get married very actively, you become a betrayer. That's the scariest thing. They promise to stay single together for a lifetime. But the friend who was most proactive about this brings a wedding invitation. What's wrong with you? If you don't have a man, forget it. You keep following me saying it's great. We met a few times and it turned out like this. Trash. As they get older, feeling lonely, their other friends gradually stop coming to gatherings and stop coming on weekends.

I've had some things going on and I've been looking into companies like ours here and meeting men on weekends. So, I think trusting a friend and not getting married is the dumbest thing in the world. Why believe that? What is a friend in your life? No, there's a saying like that. A friend is someone you only need one of when you're really dying, right? Except for your parents, who else can you trust? How can you trust a friend? It's your own fault to trust such a friend and end up miserable as a single. It's like what fathers do. There are famous public figures who don't get married like that and just keep gathering, right? When one person becomes a star of marriage, everyone follows. Those who haven't gotten married don't look pitiful, so I'm not going either. Don't you go either. Then we compete with each other. I think there's also that. So, when you pass your early thirties, women start to feel anxious. If they don't get introduced to anyone, they start thinking like this.

It's not that you can't get married. Some people say they can't sleep at night. But it's not just me, it's comforting if friends around you don't go. If they don't go, I don't have to go either. But if all your friends go and you're the only one left, how do you feel? But if your friends are not going around you, you automatically get comfort and end up not going. So, hoping for comfort, I encouraged my friends not to go, but if they betray and leave, the sense of betrayal becomes too great. Then, when that time comes and you try to find them, you can't find them. So, in your late thirties, they come looking for you. Remember this, PD-nim. Today, we talked about five things that women should never believe when women talk among themselves. I heard one of these five things. Keep a distance from that friend. The path to your life that you seek, you must find it yourself.

If you want to meet a good man, you should make some plans and efforts. Sweet words are just nice to hear for a moment, but they don't really help me. I highly recommend having someone by your side who gives you unpleasant but honest advice and advises you in a ruthless way for your own good.

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진심 어린 칭찬이 여성에게 미치는 영향

외모에 대한 진심 어린 칭찬은 잘못된 인식과 비현실적인 기대감으로 이어질 수 있습니다.

이러한 칭찬은 진심인지 예의인지 구분하기 어려운 경우가 많아 혼란과 불안감을 유발할 수 있습니다.

외모에 진정으로 자신감이 있는 여성은 자신의 아름다움의 진정한 가치를 이해하기 때문에 이러한 칭찬에 쉽게 흔들리지 않습니다.

칭찬과 비판이 자기 인식에 미치는 영향

외모에 대한 칭찬은 특히 드문 경험인 경우 자신감에 큰 영향을 미칠 수 있습니다.

칭찬에 대해 끊임없이 회상하는 것은 자신감이 부족하다는 것을 의미할 수 있으며, 지나치게 비판하고 비교하는 친구는 도움이 되지 않을 수 있습니다.

자존감에 대한 외부 의견의 영향과 사회적 기대치를 충족해야 한다는 압박감은 관계에서 오해를 불러일으키고 기회를 놓치는 결과를 초래할 수 있습니다.

여성이 파트너를 찾기에 가장 좋은 나이

여성의 경우 30세 이후에는 이성을 만날 확률이 현저히 낮아지기 때문에 30대 초반은 결혼 적령기가 아닙니다.

적극적으로 배우자를 찾고 결혼하기 가장 좋은 나이는 여성스러움과 성숙함이 공존하는 20대 후반, 28세 전후로 여겨집니다.

20대 초반도 적극적인 탐색을 통해 좋은 파트너를 만나기 좋은 시기로 여겨집니다.

30대의 결혼과 독신 생활에 대한 부담감

어떤 친구를 사귀느냐에 따라 결혼에 대한 태도가 달라질 수 있으며, 독신인 친구는 독신을 더 오래 지속할 수도 있습니다.

친구들이 정착하기 시작하면 결혼에 대한 압박이 더욱 심해져 아직 싱글인 사람들은 불안감을 느끼게 됩니다.

'배신자'가 될지도 모른다는 두려움과 유명인이나 친구의 영향력도 이러한 압박감을 더욱 가중시킵니다.

친구가 의사 결정에 미치는 영향

친구의 존재는 개인의 선택에 큰 영향을 미치고 위안을 줄 수 있습니다.

친구의 배신은 버림받았다는 느낌과 고통으로 이어질 수 있습니다.

개인적인 성장과 의사결정을 위해서는 불쾌하더라도 진실하고 정직한 조언을 구하는 것이 중요합니다.