행복과 장수의 성별 차이에 대한 논쟁

### 행복과 장수에 대한 성별 관점
* 👩 ↪f_200D↩⚕️ 여성이 남성보다 오래 사는 경향이 있는데, 이는 **여성의 체력과 전반적인 행복감** 때문이며, 이는 연구와 관찰을 통해 뒷받침되는 사실입니다.
* 📊 최근 연구에 따르면 **여성은 나이가 들수록 불행이 증가**하는 반면, **남성은 48세 전후부터 더 행복**해지는 것으로 나타났으며, 이러한 변화에는 **재정적 안정**이 중요한 요인으로 작용하는 것으로 나타났습니다.
* 💰 비평가들은 주로 남성을 대상으로 한 이 연구가 **경제적 성공**을 강조하고 있으며, 이는 남성이 물질적 소유로 자존감을 측정하는 사회적 경향을 반영한다고 주장합니다.
* 🔍 이 토론에서는 **여성이 남성보다 가족 및 물질적 재화와 관련된 열망을 더 일찍 성취**하는 경우가 많아 행복에 대한 인식이 다르다는 점을 강조합니다.
* 💔 많은 여성들이 이혼을 시작한다는 사실은 그들의 행복이 종종 **그들의 선택과 관계**와 관련이 있음을 시사하며, 남성들은 이러한 별거에서 **안도감**을 찾을 수 있다는 것을 알 수 있습니다.
* 🏠 남성은 종종 여성을 부양하고 행복하게 해줘야 한다는 사회적 압박을 느끼며, 이는 개인적인 불만으로 이어질 수 있다는 점에서 **양성에 대한 논쟁은 계속**되고 있습니다.
* 🤔 궁극적으로 이 대화는 행복은 물질적 성취보다는 개인적인 성취에서 비롯되어야 한다는 점을 강조하며 **"자신이 불행하다고 말하는 사람은 모두 자신의 잘못"**이라고 강조합니다.
* 💪 대담은 사회적 기대와 상관없이 **미래 세대에게 자립심을 가르치는 것**이 중요하다는 점을 상기시키며 마무리됩니다.

여성은 남성에 비해 더 행복하고 강해 수명이 더 길어집니다.

there's a reason that women live longer, Mark. Let me tell you, it is because we are stronger and we are happier at the end of the day than most men, and that is factual, and you know it. When men are married to women who scream like you, they just want to die sooner. There is a new study out today that says women become unhappy as they get older. Well, the flip side, men get happier as life goes on. Now, the researchers, a couple of economists, by the way, they say it happens when we each turn 48, and of the major factors, um, coming down, it's all about money. Now, what's that all about? We're gonna debate it. Mark Rudolph is a no-nonsense man, and Tracy Burns, our Fox Business reporter, joins me to tell us what's really going on. Tracy, this is true, come on, come on. First of all, don't get me started. I know you've missed me, Mark. First of all, this study was conducted by mostly men, and when men conduct anything, they

talk about their finances because men judge themselves by this, the size of their wallet toys, dare I say. So, you put all your toys together in a parking lot, and it makes you happy. If they were to ask other questions in this study about spirituality, about the other aspects of our lives, that women would have taken over. I mean, first of all, a woman hits her sexual prime of 35. Things get much better for us. Hey, I'm 35. This is good for me. Alright, Mark, alright, go nuts because I know you're gonna go nuts. Well, first of all, you're presuming that that unhappiness in women begins in middle age. I'd say it starts when she's a little girl, when she's thought that happiness derives from shoes, jewelry, boob jobs, and pedestals. And what's interesting, oh come on, Alexis, and then you have boys who are taught that they're supposed to make girls happy. I was on the radio two weeks ago in Greensboro, North Carolina, and the host related a story he overheard his son and

daughter talking, so brother goes to sister and says, How come you always have money and I don't? And she says, That's simple. I have a boyfriend and you have a girlfriend. The fact of the matter is boys are taught that they're supposed to make women happy. He's actually living in the dark ages. There's that. I'm not living in the dark ages. This is reality. And if either of you women has ever dated women, you would know what I'm talking about, but you pretend that you don't know what I'm saying. So, what's happening in middle age? What's happening? What's happening in middle age here is that women who bring 70 percent of divorces are divorcing the men that they never wanted to marry to begin with. And so now, that's what's making the men happy. That's interesting because we control the household spending, don't we? Because we're working more than ever. All right, let's get back to the survey though, all right? Because basically what they're

saying is that we are happier in our early adult life and that women are more likely than men to fulfill their aspirations earlier related to material goods and family. That is true, wouldn't you say, Tracy? And a good thing. It takes men longer to figure out what they want to do in life. Well, I just think this whole notion of basing your happiness on material goods is part of the problem, hence part of the reason that this thing was run by men in the first place. If there were women on the page, if there were women on the panel, they would, I mean, ask any woman if she would choose her car over her children, and she'd take the kids any day. Whereas I would question a lot of men out there, quite frankly, Tracy. I guess there's a reason that women live longer, Mark. Let me tell you, it is because we are stronger and we are happier at the end of the day than most men, and that is factual, and you know it. When men are married to women who

scream like you. They just want to die sooner when you have any. When you have women comparing their engagement rings to show off who got the most carrots. Don't tell me that women don't compete. Don't tell me that women don't compete on material possessions about that kind of stuff. Women compete on houses, divorce settlements, carrots, country clubs. Women compete on money all the time. Give me a break. Wait a second, women in your life, buddy. What, Mark? Wait a second. The stature of a lot of men is measured in the car they drive, the golf country club they belong to, and very much the place they live in. You have to admit that. And whether or not their wives are staying at home and not working. That's exactly what I said at the beginning. That's because men are taught that the way the men are taught that they have to make women happy. The fact of the matter is you can't make anybody happy. You have to make yourself happy. Happiness is a byproduct of achievement.

so for women to say that they're unhappy, it's their own fault. Anybody who says he's unhappy is his own fault. Everybody has to make himself or herself. He's such a bloody headache. Yeah, I mean, where are you from? Where are you from, dear lord? I would never in a million years teach my girls that they have to grow up to be reliant on a man, as you can well imagine. I would never teach myself. That's wonderful, but Tracy, you're the same one. You're the same one who bragged that she's so strong and so tough and doesn't need a man's money, yet you're taking alimony. I have three children, Mark. So, but you don't need a man's mind. [Applause] [Music] you

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여성이 남성보다 더 오래 산다고 알려져 있지만, 새로운 연구에 따르면 남성은 나이가 들수록 더 행복해지는 반면 여성의 행복감은 감소한다고 합니다.

대부분 남성이 참여한 이 연구는 행복을 결정하는 데 있어 재정적 성공의 중요성을 강조합니다.

또한 어릴 때부터 남녀 모두에 대한 사회적 기대와 압력에 대해서도 논의합니다.

오빠는 누나의 재정적 안정성에 의문을 제기하며 남성과 여성에 대한 기대치가 다르다는 점을 강조합니다.

여성은 가계 지출에 대한 책임이 점점 더 커지고 있으며, 인생 초기에 자신의 열망을 성취할 가능성이 더 높습니다.

이 토론은 여성의 행복과 장수가 물질적 재화에 집중하는 남성과 달리 여성의 강한 정서적 유대감과 우선순위와 관련이 있을 수 있음을 시사합니다.

여성은 약혼 반지, 집, 이혼 합의금 등 물질적 소유를 놓고 경쟁하는 경우가 많습니다.

남성의 지위는 자동차, 컨트리클럽 회원권, 주거 환경으로 측정되는 경우가 많습니다.

연사는 행복은 다른 사람을 행복하게 만들려고 노력하기보다는 개인의 성취에서 비롯되어야 한다고 강조합니다.

연사는 개인이 자신의 행복과 성공에 대한 책임이 있다고 강조합니다.

특히 여성에게 파트너에 대한 의존성을 가르치는 관념을 비판합니다.

연사는 강하고 독립적이라고 주장하면서도 위자료를 받는 사람의 모순을 지적합니다.