She graduated from a local national music college and works as a kindergarten teacher. Her father is the CEO of a company with an annual revenue of 200 billion won and serves as the chairman of two hospitals. At first, I thought about her just as a kindergarten teacher, but then I learned about her father’s impressive background. Nowadays, many people hope to join our company, and while there are many ordinary office workers, I often think, Are there really such remarkable individuals in life? Recently, many extraordinary people have been coming in. For example, there are individuals who own entire regions of land in Gyeonggi Province and have 20 billion won in cash, all while being in their early thirties. What kind of woman do such men marry? They tend to marry women who are equally accomplished. One common trait among them is that they are young.

She is a woman from a good family. In conclusion, today we will discuss the specifications of women in their twenties from affluent families. The specifications are as follows: she is 25 years old, 165 cm tall, and has a degree from a top university in Seoul. She works for a medium-sized company and has an annual salary of 50 million won. She has saved up 60 million won in cash. Her parents' retirement is well taken care of. In terms of appearance, she is considered beautiful, as she is often mentioned as one of the pretty people in her high school and university. Her parents' assets exceed 4 billion won, and they can support a wedding worth 700 million won. 

Her ideal type is a man who is at least 170 cm tall and has good capabilities; height is not a strict requirement if he is capable. She is open to marrying until the age of 40. Wow, as long as the woman is capable and not extremely unattractive, drinking and smoking are okay. She wants a man who has the ability and assets to afford a house in Gangnam. It seems she desires a man from a similar background, which is not impossible. At 25 years old, she has a good age, good height, good education, and her salary is reasonable as well.

It's usually good for parents to have a stable situation, right? I really hope for someone with a net worth of over 100 billion or at least 50 billion. If that's not the case, I think introductions could be possible, especially if the person is attractive. The criteria themselves, such as age, education, parents' retirement, and annual salary, are all decent, right? But on top of that, how do women feel about their ideal type? They tend to broaden their age preferences significantly. So, I always say that when women in their 30s come in, they might be open to men in their 20s, and they can even consider guys who are 15 or 13 years older if the man's capabilities are good enough. This is really true. They see it that way. So, this person should realistically assess the situation. It's actually better to be upfront about financial capability because that allows for introductions; it’s not impossible. However, if someone is too open about it, like saying they can afford a house in Gangnam, that’s different. But look, if their parents have over 4 billion, then…

In a class where parents' assets are not considered wealth, if one earns about 3,000, it seems like a big dream to want a man who can afford a house in Gangnam. However, since parents provide some support, it might not be impossible. Given their young age, has the representative been mentioned? I've heard a lot, but since it's not confirmed, if I were to give a score for this person, I would give three and a half out of five stars. I can't give four because I haven't seen their face; I need to know how they look. So, for this person, I think they would be well introduced if they come to us. I don't have much to say about this specification; it seems like something I've never seen before. For marriage, the support amount is 700 million, which is good. Now, let's look at the specifications of the second woman. She is also 25 years old, 165 cm tall, and has a master's degree from a SKY university. I'm curious about where she completed her bachelor's degree because that is important. Her occupation is a graduate student.

My annual salary is 100 million won, and I have rental income as well. I received a 40-pyeong apartment in Gangnam as a gift. My parents are getting older, and my father is the director of a hospital and owns a building. My ideal partner is a somewhat ordinary person from a good family, preferably an ophthalmologist. I prefer someone like that over a woman who is too flashy. I am a graduate student, 25 years old, with an annual salary of 100 million won, which translates to about 10 million won per month. The 40-pyeong apartment in Gangnam was given to me by my father. You can see that being a hospital director qualifies me to look for a partner with a similar background. I think I could introduce you to some doctors we know. We have women in our company with similar qualifications. There are even women who are 27, graduated from overseas universities, and come from wealthy families with assets over 100 billion won. This kind of person is definitely someone I can introduce. From a man's perspective, this is the type of partner I would like.

Would you like to meet the first woman or the second woman? I think you should meet the second woman. Just look at her assets; she has 4 billion won, which is really substantial. And look here, the rental income is 100 million won. Plus, she owns a building in Apgujeong, so she seems much more appealing. That's how people's eyes work. 

Now, from the perspective of a doctor, should I see the first woman or the second woman? I would choose the second one. So, when I see women who want to marry a doctor or become a doctor’s daughter-in-law, they come to us with these kinds of requirements. This means they are competing against these women without even realizing it. 

But then they come and say, Mom, could you please reduce the dowry from 700 million won to 200 million won? That’s really off-putting from a man's perspective. So, if someone has assets like this, they can be introduced without any problem. However, introductions limited to just doctors are impossible. Why is it always only ophthalmologists?

It's not just ophthalmologists who gather here; it seems we should broaden the scope a bit. Maybe it's because my father is an ophthalmologist. However, even if an ophthalmologist comes from a generally pleasant family, their personality might not be so agreeable, and their family background might not be either. If we diversify the specialties a bit, it will definitely make introductions easier. We shouldn't limit ourselves to just one specialty; it makes it hard for us to make introductions.

Now, if this person is a graduate student, how can we introduce them? If I were a doctor, my father is a graduate student who owns a building and has an apartment in Gangnam, earning about 100 million won a month, making more money than an average office worker. Of course, I would want to meet them. 

Now, the specs for this person are four and a half stars out of five. Even a graduate student gets four and a half stars. What does being a graduate student have to do with it? It's about rental income.

There are apartments here, and my parents even have a view of the front building. Moreover, at my age, there's nothing that can surpass my job. I mean, I have everything lined up perfectly. If we consider my appearance as well, I would rate myself a perfect five out of five. I am a teacher with an annual salary of 4,600, and I have assets worth 800 million. My parents are preparing for their retirement. I have a bright and positive personality, and my hobbies include traveling, golfing, and reading. I don't indulge in luxury. My father is the CEO of a company with an annual revenue of 200 billion, and he is the chairman of two hospitals. I received a gift of hospital shares from my father. My mother operates a kindergarten worth over 10 billion. When we first looked at just being a kindergarten teacher, we thought it was okay, but then we realized that my father is the CEO of a company with an annual revenue of 200 billion and the chairman of two hospitals, which means he actually owns the hospitals and employs doctors. He received shares in the hospital as a gift.

I have a friend whose mom runs a kindergarten worth over 10 billion won. It seems like she is working at the kindergarten and might be even better than the previous person. My ideal type is someone tall, and if they are a doctor, that's perfect. Just look at this: for those who want to marry a doctor, it should be like this: They can open a clinic. When we introduce a doctor, we can say, They can open a clinic, and they can gift 700 million won. But with 200 million won or even 100 million won, that's not enough. This is not feasible. 

The characteristics of people with economic stability, those who are emotionally stable, and those who are willing to learn are significant. What do these three characteristics have in common? They have a very clear ideal type and are quite determined. There is nothing vague about them; they are all very decisive. Their ideal type is clear. If the ideal type is a doctor, they can open a clinic, and if they get married, they can support with 700 million won. If they have financial power, they can go up to 40 years old. Everything is quite certain. But when we look at those who are a bit ambiguous, how do they seem? Everything is unclear.

Having a sense of humor, being kind, and caring for me are fundamental qualities I look for in friends. Now, is it possible to have a high school graduate among them? I shouldn't say that, right? What this friend wants is someone from a family with a certain level of business or succession in the family business, or professionals like doctors or judges. Can you provide that? This level is good. This person, too, would be rated around four and a half to five stars. There are only amazing people here. Indeed, it seems that such individuals exist. If I say this, people might think it's made up, but we're actually basing this on what you've written. Even if you tell me to make something up, I can't; this is a person whose father runs a company with an annual revenue of 200 billion won and whose mother is a 10 billion won influencer. Based on this person's criteria, there are indeed people with a certain level of economic stability. They might not be at the same level as this individual, but they live in the Gangnam area.

I wonder if there are people who maintain a certain level of wealth, like having over 10 billion. Still, you can't meet self-made doctors. For example, if a doctor is truly smart and has an excellent educational background, and they are in a professional field like being a judge, then it would be different if they come from a background of judges. If that person has superior qualifications, it changes things. For instance, if a man works at a large corporation and has personal wealth similar to that, then a mutual agreement could be possible. Introductions could happen in such cases. Most of these individuals tend to come from professional backgrounds that involve family business succession, like if their family runs a hospital. It's better when it's family-operated. The specifications of the women I mentioned today are so extraordinary that it would be hard to be born with such qualifications again. It's fascinating; those kinds of people really do exist. I just look at it for fun, but then I end up feeling hurt, wondering why I can’t be like that.

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