Hey guys, Antonio here with some more of The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. Today we're going to be talking about chapter 3: Live as if your father were dead. And no, this is not a negative thing here. They're saying to truly love

your father, you know, you shouldn't have anything against him. Care about him, love him, but you need to be free of his expectations. Don't let his thoughts, ideas, and ideals, unless you truly want to accept them as truth, um, to, uh, to affect your thinking. Don't, don't just

simply live in his footsteps. Um, be your own person. Ask yourself how would you have lived differently um if you know you didn't try to do things for your father or you know try to, um, try to do something to impress him. I know some people that, uh, you know, their dad is, uh,

for instance, a mechanic, and then they become a mechanic as well, simply because they, you know, their dad told them their entire lives to become a mechanic, or you know, a dentist and a dentist, or you know, stuff like that happens where the dad says you

were going to be this, you're going to go get a good job here, but the person might love something completely different, like you know, art or music, and they can't get into it simply because their father instilled these ideas into them to really become who they are. So I have a

challenge for you guys: the next three days, do one thing every single day that you might have avoided or suppressed because of what your dad did. Um, and after doing this, please let me know how you feel if any of your mindsets have changed at all. Please let me know. I'd

love to have a discussion with you guys in the comments down below um so hope you guys enjoyed today's video on living as if your father was dead please leave me a thumbs up if you enjoyed it guys I'm going to leave a link in the

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Live as if Your Father was Dead - How to be free of Your Influences

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3장: 아버지가 죽은 것처럼 살기 - 부모의 기대 극복하기

이 장에서는 아버지를 사랑하되 아버지의 기대에서 벗어날 것을 권장합니다.

진정으로 동의하지 않는 한 아버지의 생각과 이상이 여러분의 결정에 영향을 미치지 않도록 하세요.

단순히 아버지의 발자취를 따라가는 것이 아니라 자신만의 개성을 드러내세요.

다른 열정을 가졌음에도 불구하고 아버지가 기계공이나 치과의사라는 이유만으로 자녀가 기계공이나 치과의사가 된 경우를 예로 들 수 있습니다.

화자는 시청자에게 아버지의 영향 때문에 피했던 일을 3일 동안 매일 한 가지씩 하도록 도전합니다.

시청자는 자신의 경험과 사고방식의 변화를 공유할 수 있습니다.

화자는 시청자에게 동영상에 좋아요를 누르고 채널을 구독하도록 권장합니다.

설명에 책 구매 링크가 제공됩니다.