교사의 외로움과 행복 추구

### 한국 최고의 온라인 강사의 도전과 성찰
* 🎓 강사는 **38초 동안 온라인 강의를 준비**하며 20년간의 교육 여정을 되돌아보고 **10,852명의 학생을 등록**했습니다.
* 😔 직업적 성공에도 불구하고 강사는 특히 **제한된 사회적 관계와 학생들과의 관계의 특성**으로 인해 공허함과 외로움을 느낍니다.
* 💰 한때 '스타 교사'를 꿈꿨지만 지금은 그 목표에 의문을 품고 있는 이 강사는 **경제적으로 여유**가 있지만 여전히 **성공의 의미**를 고민하고 있습니다.
* 👥 강사는 행복을 위한 관계의 중요성을 강조하며 **업무 외의 의미 있는 관계의 부족**을 인정했습니다.
* 🏫 강사는 제대로 공부하면 성적이 크게 향상될 수 있다는 것을 보여주기 위해 **위너스 클럽**을 시작했고, 서로 돕는 커뮤니티를 만들기 위해 노력했습니다.
* 🧠 강사는 특히 교육과 사회적 상호작용의 맥락에서 **인간의 행동을 정확하게 이해하고 측정하는 데 따르는 어려움**에 대해 이야기합니다.
* 🌟 때때로 부담감을 느끼면서도 **강사는 여전히 가르치는 것을 즐기고 학생들의 삶에 긍정적인 영향을 주기 위해 노력**합니다.
* ❓ 강사는 자신의 분야에서 감정과 책임의 균형을 맞추는 것의 복잡성을 강조하면서 **개인적, 직업적 도전을 헤쳐나가는 방법에 대한 조언**을 구합니다.

정승은 가르치는 일과 성취에도 불구하고 공허함을 느끼고, 사회적 관계가 부족하고 인간의 감정에 대한 깊은 이해를 추구합니다.

I think I will be happy. I have been preparing for an online lecture for 38 seconds, and I've already spent about 20 years on this, moving sites and signing contracts twice. I've lived in a whirlwind, and now I've reached this age. It feels like I've been chasing happiness, but even if I don't pursue great happiness, I want to eliminate the small misfortunes that come my way. It feels like I've been avoiding a life of a million pains. Others think that if they reach a certain level in their field, they will be successful, and I also tried my best not to be unhappy. However, in trying to avoid unhappiness, I feel like happiness has become even more distant. Reflecting on this, I realize that life can feel quite empty. Even the top star lecturer in South Korea feels a sense of emptiness.

It's amazing. In fact, the app shows that there are a total of 10,852 enrolled students. That means there are many dedicated students. However, I still feel like I haven't made much progress. When I think about it, I should be very grateful and happy, but it feels like I'm suddenly overwhelmed with emotions, as if I've become a superstar overnight. In reality, it's been a slow climb over the past 15 years, and I often hear that I should be preparing and practicing. When I solve problems, I wonder what it would be like to have a hundred billion won. In the past, I thought about becoming the top instructor in the country, the star teacher, but now I wonder what that really means. I started with just a passion for teaching, and I remember when I was a student, I was very enthusiastic. Now, I have students who are making significant improvements, and I have about 300,000 won in tuition from college students.

It costs about 400,000 won, but even 25 years ago, that level of income was decent. Nowadays, people eat without any concept of money. On my 20th birthday, I rented out an entire club in Gangnam. I started this after graduating from elementary school, sending invitations to all my acquaintances, and I was responsible for everything from the meal to the final toast. It was quite extravagant. It was enjoyable, but I feel like it was more about putting my heart into organizing a fun event for a day. In college, if you have four friends, you can't just hang out all the time. One of the most important things that makes a person feel happy is relationships. The connections we form play a significant role in our happiness.

It seems that there is a lack of connection. I don't express my emotions, and sometimes, due to the nature of my profession, the social relationships I form are not equal. They are more like students looking up to a teacher. In this sense, I think our teachers might have had very few social relationships. It can be quite lonely. Even among those of us with the same profession, there are many who gather and share experiences. However, for the past ten years, I have intentionally cut off contact and saved the phone numbers of those related to my field. I have been rejecting and blocking them. I really don't think I've met anyone in the past ten years. So, those who have faced difficulties in this industry, have you also experienced similar challenges?

Let's listen carefully to the people involved. It seems that some intentionally cut off contact and saved the phone numbers of those related to the issue. They were rejected and blocked. I really don't think I've met anyone in the last ten years. So, when people are blocked, they might have faced some difficulties. How can we understand this better among those who are involved? We need to figure it out. 

Also, I visit community sites and read comments. If someone says that if you take this class, it will completely fail, but if you consume this, you will definitely succeed, it creates a kind of virtual reality that you can't help but believe in. I couldn't grasp the principles at first, but gradually, the child shows more and more signs of growth, right?

Older people's wives can create something like this, and it may seem a bit small to post about, but it feels like a completely different broadcast, almost like a comment job, giving off that kind of vibe. You must have received a lot of comments, right? It’s like I want to completely cut off all the talk about children. 

Yes, then there’s the Winners Club, which I started because I wanted to show that even if you don’t get any scores at first, after a year of proper study, your grades can improve. I wanted to demonstrate this through a clinical experiment. So, what I started is currently ongoing. 

The friends from the Winners Club made a promise ten years ago that they could come anytime and have a consultation with me to be number one. I am determined to create a space where that is still possible. I have no knowledge about coffee, chairs, or food, so we...

I created a separate section for the person in charge, and they handle everything while I just talk about math all day. As soon as we opened it, the community started to build up. I, Jeong-seung, have been so focused on the computer and the restaurant that I haven't been able to prepare for class. Traveling is also a topic we discuss, and I feel overwhelmed. It's not that I don't have anything to say, but on one hand, it feels too much. Someone is teaching a class at 1S, but it's not a domestic distributor. The owner of the shooting range is like a bingsu shop; if you go there, it can be harmful to your health. I have to point out that we need to be in a clean place. Today, I feel like a leader, surrounded by a society that doesn't really pay much attention to private education, which is also a choice. Even so, I still enjoy teaching.

I feel like there is also a sense of emotional pain. After experiencing such events, what changes occur in human tactics? After going through these experiences, I feel like I am more confined to myself. It seems that these people are only trying their best to draw out others. There is a characteristic of bravado that needs to be very precise, and there is also pressure to provide information. Therefore, it needs to be accurate, but the hardest thing to measure accurately is human beings. The human heart is difficult to quantify. It can be measured at 45 grams, but when it comes to real situations, it can be quite concerning and unsettling. For example, when subtle stimuli are given to people, they already have preconceived notions. This doesn't mean that it's a bad thing; rather, they are very perceptive and able to accept things without missing a beat.

Please also consider the impact. But I feel that my trust has been affected. It can't be like that. There are still many similarities. When you slightly cross the line, it becomes a bit tense and uncomfortable. So, if we add more to that, it has great advantages, but it shouldn't be too much. There are many related tests, and we should never hurt others' feelings. If we can lower it to that level, it would be really nice. Well, in this world, there are people who also feel that way, and we just have to let it go. Therefore, we shouldn't interpret things too seriously. I need to know how to live my life, so I'm asking for your help. If I'm doing something wrong, please let me know. But when will the teacher be here? Oh, we have to talk about this. It's frustrating. How about we discuss it like a tiger in summer?

They manage waste quickly, and it seems like they are very fast at it. So, I wonder if you understood it with your head. However, the heart is in a different realm, which makes it difficult. That's right. Because of that, if we can understand it not just with our heads but also deeply with our hearts, it seems like it would help a lot more.

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한국의 한 강사가 15년간 행복과 성공을 좇아 강의에 매진해온 여정을 되돌아봅니다.

열성적인 수강생이 많음에도 불구하고 강사는 여전히 공허함과 발전의 부족함을 느낍니다.

불행을 피하기 위해 노력하다 보니 행복은 더욱 멀게 느껴지고, 압도적인 감정과 성공의 의미에 대한 재평가로 이어집니다.

사회적 관계가 행복과 웰빙에 미치는 영향

호화롭고 사치스러운 라이프스타일은 진정한 행복을 가져다주지 못할 수 있으며, 진정한 관계는 행복에 중요한 역할을 합니다.

특히 직업적 환경에서 평등하고 의미 있는 사회적 관계가 부족하면 외로움을 느낄 수 있습니다.

의도적으로 연락을 끊고 같은 분야의 다른 사람들로부터 자신을 고립시키는 것은 업계에서 도전과 어려움의 원인이 될 수 있습니다.

사회적 배제와 가상 현실이 개인 성장에 미치는 영향

연락이 끊기거나 차단되면 해당 문제와 관련된 사람들은 상당한 어려움을 겪을 수 있습니다.

커뮤니티 사이트의 댓글의 영향력은 특히 개인의 성장과 관련하여 사람들의 신념과 인식에 큰 영향을 미치는 가상 현실을 만들 수 있습니다.

위너스 클럽은 시간이 지남에 따라 헌신적인 노력을 통해 개인의 발전 가능성을 보여주고, 상담과 지원을 위한 공간을 제공합니다.

비즈니스 운영의 압도적인 책임감

연사는 레스토랑과 담당자를 위한 별도의 섹션을 관리하는 동시에 수업 준비도 해야 하는 과중한 업무에 시달리고 있습니다.

그들은 리더십의 어려움을 헤쳐 나가면서 감정적 고통과 감금감을 느낍니다.

인간의 행동을 정확하게 측정하고 이해해야 하는 어려움은 역할에 대한 부담을 가중시킵니다.

선을 넘으면 긴장감과 불편함을 유발할 수 있으므로 적절한 균형을 찾는 것이 중요합니다.

더 많은 것을 추가하는 것은 큰 이점을 가져올 수 있지만, 지나쳐서 다른 사람의 감정을 상하게 하지 않는 것이 중요합니다.

어느 정도 진지하게 접근하되 때때로 놓아주는 것도 중요합니다.

머리뿐만 아니라 가슴으로 깊이 이해하는 것은 인생을 살아가는 데 큰 도움이 될 수 있습니다.