여성을 끌어들이기 위해 남성이 취해야 할 주요 태도

여성의 욕구를 이해하고 자신만의 매력을 유지하는 자신감 있는 남성은 여성을 가장 매료시킵니다.

### 여성의 매력에 대한 이해: 남성이 가져야 할 5가지 핵심 태도
* 💔 남성은 종종 특별한 날을 위해 **최고의 경험을 유보**하고 부분적인 관심만 주는 것처럼 느껴지는데, 이는 매력적이지 않을 수 있습니다.
* 💖 여성은 본능적으로 자신감 있는 남성에게 끌리며, 이는 **무엇을 해야 할지 묻지 않고 주도적으로 계획을 제안하는 남성**의 모습에서 알 수 있습니다.
* 💪 넓은 어깨와 강한 팔은 남성성을 상징하지만, **소통에 대한 자신감**은 체형에 관계없이 매력을 높일 수 있습니다.
* 🗣 어려운 대화를 아첨하거나 회피하려고 하지 말고 **솔직한 대화를 통해 문제를 직접 해결**하고 상대방이 원하는 것이 무엇인지 파악하세요.
* 📜 자신의 매력을 인정하고 포용하는 것이 중요하며, **진정성이 매력적**일 수 있으므로 다른 사람의 이상에 맞추려고 지나치게 집중하지 않는 것이 중요합니다.
* 🌟 개인적인 가치를 높이는 것은 필수적이며, 나이가 많고 바쁜 남성은 **시간 균형을 잘 맞추고 신비감을 유지**하기 때문에 여성에게 매력을 느끼는 경우가 많습니다.
* 🎢 데이트는 역동적인 긴장감을 수반하며, 남성은 자신의 매력과 흥분을 유지하기 위해 **한 여성에게만 에너지를 집중해서는 안 됩니다.**
* 💌 이 다섯 가지 핵심 태도를 적용함으로써 남성은 **아름다운 여성과 데이트할 가능성**을 높이고 전반적인 로맨틱한 경험을 향상시킬 수 있습니다.

However, it feels like you’re not giving me your full time, as if you’re only giving me 100 when you’re busy. But when we meet, you take me to really nice places. Right now, I really like this girl, so I’m focusing 90% of my time and energy on her. It feels like, “Please call me like this.” That kind of man is not attractive. 

Hello, I am the woman who reads about relationships. Today’s topic is the attitudes of men that drive women crazy. I’d like to explore that. I feel more attracted to those who have charm, but when I see such people, they aren’t necessarily exceptionally good-looking or anything like that, yet they are popular. What kind of characteristics do they have? What is their charm that attracts women? It would be great if you could share some insights on that. Women are instinctively drawn to strong men. To put it simply, it’s all about confidence.

There are no women who are not attracted to confident men. For example, instead of saying, What should we do? What do you want? a man who confidently says, I'll pick you up. There's a great restaurant there; let's go, is much more attractive. Women are instinctively drawn to masculinity. The symbol of masculinity is the shoulders. Women are naturally attracted to men with broad shoulders and strong arms. It's about confidence. Speak with confidence and look her in the eyes. You can cover up being skinny with clothes. While women instinctively feel attracted to men with broad shoulders, the younger generation, the MZ generation, is also attracted to men who dress well, like Joo Woo-jae. So instead of lacking confidence just because you're thin, remember that your body is yours, and it's hard to change, so just be confident.

Yes, and if you hunch over because your shoulders are narrow, you will appear even smaller; only your face will look bigger. However, even with narrow shoulders, if you wear a loose t-shirt and speak confidently with your eyes, that can actually be appealing. Don't forget, confidence is key for men. 

And for the second situation, don't try to flatter someone to get out of a moment. What does that mean? For example, if two people have had a bit of a fight, and I notice that the woman seems a bit sulky, if I try to avoid that moment by asking, What's wrong? Why are you upset? and cling to her, those actions can annoy her. 

For instance, women often say, Do you even know why I'm upset? The story continues from there. Just do this: I'll give you a solution. Have an honest conversation. Ask her, Was there something about my behavior or my tone that upset you?

If you honestly tell me, I'll fix it. Girls, you don't need to be dragged around. In that moment, trying to avoid the situation, saying I'm sorry or It's okay, is what I dislike. Please identify the cause and respond to that part. Thirdly, understand what the other person wants. I really wanted to say something: I like it when you write me letters. Then, they might say, Just write me another letter. There are always kids like that. If you only give them a letter, it's absolutely not enough. You need to give them something shiny, you know? But friends who don't understand girls tend to do it straightforwardly. Popular guys listen carefully to what girls say. You can just ask, What do you want? But girls have two types of communication. One is the straightforward ones who say they want something. For example, I want that, oppa, and then you can just buy it for them. But if they don't say anything and subtly hint, like, Oppa, if you write me a letter...

There are kids who talk about various things, but do you know what they say among the girls? Oh, how do I explain this? There are types of conversations that happen. So, you should casually ask if they want a necklace, for example, or if there's something else they would like. By doing this, you can clearly identify what they want and then give them that as a gift. 

And the fourth point is to know and understand your own charm. This seems to be a bit difficult. Everyone has their own charm, but for example, if I struggle with dating and only focus on dating skills, while just trembling and shaking, girls can see right through that and actually find it unattractive. If someone goes around just learning dating skills and tries to act charming with a shaky gaze, that’s not appealing. However, don’t be afraid to show your awkwardness.

Among women, even if it's not 100%, about 30% may feel attracted to that authenticity. Also, having a good physique like Kim Jong-kook's style is appealing. So what should you do? You have to drive, turn around, and walk with your muscles flexed while backing up. I think the point is to appeal to that charm. For example, just because someone says they like certain charms doesn't mean you have to match those exactly. That seems really off to me. For instance, women often talk about their ideal type, and men ask, What is your ideal type? But an ideal type is just an ideal. Even if I perfectly fit someone's ideal type, if I only show them what they want to see, my mental state will eventually break down. Moreover, the other person's ideal type can change. The ideal type in your 20s is different from that in your 30s. So, focusing too much on what the other person wants can lead to issues.

I don't exist, and I only match about 90% with that person. So what happens is that I look good, but I lose my charm. Dating is about tension, isn't it? There's a feeling of tug-of-war that creates excitement. Right? You have charm, and I have charm. I mentioned that men should have confidence, and similarly, we need to engage in a bit of a tug-of-war to be attractive. If I get too drawn in, what happens? I end up rolling around at the bottom. I think that's not good. So I must recognize my own charm. Lastly, the fifth point is to raise your own value to 100%. There’s a reason why most women go crazy for older guys. Older guys don’t treat me like I’m desperate. For example, older guys are always busy; they are very busy, but they still take the time to treat me to some nice things here and there. However, they don’t give everything they have.

I feel like you're not giving me 100% of your time because you're busy. But when we do meet, you take me to really nice places. If my level of knowledge is this much, then you guys give me even more. That's why women go crazy for you. A working man is very attractive, and a capable man is even more appealing. So I want to tell men to elevate their own value. Just because you really like a woman right now, don't spend 90% of your time and energy solely focused on her. That kind of attitude isn't attractive. What women really go crazy for is a man who uses his time wisely, spends time together when he can, and clearly listens to what they want. Women really like a man who keeps them on their toes. So I prefer men who are a bit more capable than those who are younger or the same age.

I feel like I'm experiencing tension and excitement. That's why I'm the one who reads about love. Instead of studying love through books, don't just listen to others' stories and have indirect experiences. Go out and experience it directly. It might be difficult for everyone at first, but remember the five key points I've mentioned. If you put in a little effort, you can end up dating a beautiful woman. What is the ultimate goal for men? They want to date beautiful women, right? Today, I've shared five key points about the attitudes of men that beautiful women truly adore. I hope all single men can date beautiful women. This has been the one who reads about love. Please like and subscribe. Thank you.

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여성 끌어들이기: 매력적인 남성의 주요 특징

자신감 있고 주도적인 남성은 여성에게 더 매력적입니다.

넓은 어깨와 강한 팔은 남성성을 상징하며, 이는 본능적으로 여성을 끌어당깁니다.

또한 옷을 잘 입고 자신감을 발산하는 것도 체형에 관계없이 상당한 영향을 미칠 수 있습니다.

어깨가 좁으면 사람이 작아 보일 수 있지만 헐렁한 옷을 입고 자신감 있게 말하는 것은 매력적으로 보일 수 있습니다.

아첨을 해서 갈등을 피하는 것은 비생산적일 수 있으며, 대신 문제에 대해 솔직하게 대화하는 것이 더 효과적입니다.

상대방이 원하는 것이 무엇인지 이해하고 직접적인 대화나 미묘한 힌트를 통해 상대방의 요구에 부응하는 것이 강한 유대감을 형성하는 데 중요합니다.

여자들의 대화와 나만의 매력 이해하기

여자들은 종종 자신의 욕망을 자연스럽게 이야기하기 때문에 선물로 무엇을 원하는지 쉽게 파악할 수 있습니다.

너무 매력적으로 보이려고 노력하면 오히려 매력적이지 않을 수 있으므로 자신의 매력을 이해하고 포용하는 것이 중요합니다.

진정성과 좋은 체격은 매력적일 수 있지만, 누군가의 이상형에 맞추기 위해 너무 집중하면 개인적인 문제와 스트레스를 유발할 수 있습니다.

화자는 데이트는 긴장감과 매력을 위한 상호 줄다리기에 관한 것이라고 믿습니다.

자신의 가치를 인정하고 너무 매몰되지 않는 것이 중요하다고 강조합니다.

연상의 남성은 바쁜 일정과 최선을 다하지 않고도 좋은 경험을 제공할 수 있는 능력으로 인해 더 매력적으로 여겨지며, 이는 여성의 욕망으로 이어집니다.

아름다운 여성과 데이트하는 남성을 위한 핵심 포인트

사랑을 직접 경험하는 것은 다른 사람의 이야기를 듣는 것보다 더 가치 있는 일입니다.

노력을 기울이고 핵심 사항을 따르면 아름다운 여성과 데이트할 수 있습니다.

남성의 궁극적인 목표는 아름다운 여성을 끌어들이고 데이트하는 것이며, 공유된 핵심 포인트는 이러한 여성이 진정으로 좋아하는 태도에 초점을 맞추고 있습니다.