마음가짐의 힘: 꿈과 정체성 구축

### 목표 달성을 위한 자기 정체성과 표현의 힘
* 💭 연사는 **외부의 영향에 휘둘리지 않고 강한 자아 정체성을 유지**하고 개인적인 목표에 집중하는 것이 중요하다고 강조합니다.
* 🧠 그는 **'벽돌 쌓기'라는 은유**를 통해 꿈을 향해 노력하는 것을 표현하고, 방해 요소가 이 과정을 방해하도록 허용하지 말라고 경고합니다.
* 👫 한 사람이 상대를 위해 자신의 꿈을 희생하는 관계의 예는 **자아 정체성 상실이 미치는 부정적인 영향**을 설명하는 데 사용됩니다.
* 💰 연사는 성공과 풍요로움을 얻기 위해서는 **미래의 목표를 열망하기보다는 이미 목표를 달성했다는 마음가짐**을 가져야 한다고 조언합니다.
* 👁 '나'라는 개념은 자기 표현을 위한 강력한 도구로 강조되며, 화자는 **습관을 끊거나 목표를 달성하기 위해 이 문구를 사용할 것**을 제안합니다.
* 💪 그는 **저항 없이 긍정적인 변화를 시도**하면 부정적인 행동으로 재발할 수 있으므로, 저항 없이 긍정적인 변화를 시도하는 것이 중요하다고 강조합니다.
* 🎯 연사는 **목표 추구가 번거로운 일처럼 느껴지지 않도록 즐겁게 만들 것**을 제안하고, 자신의 현실을 형성하는 데 있어 **자아 정체성의 힘**을 강조합니다.

성공한 사람들은 자신의 꿈에 집중하여 방해 요소를 무시하고 목표를 향해 꾸준히 노력합니다.

this is you, okay, 2023, and this is the biggest trap you've had your whole life, okay. This is you right here. This is your brain on zerka, but now check this out. This is you, right, and this is your idea and what your dreams. Let's say your dreams in your head, they're internal actually, and then here is the outside world. We'll call it feelings, right. We'll make it something gay like pink, okay. This is the outside world. Damn, this is the outside world penetrating your mind. I feel tired. I feel lustful. I feel gluttonous. I feel greedy. I feel right 'cause you're on your phone scrolling these outside thoughts, right, these feelings you have. Feelings are reacting to these outside external like the mental plane, right. Let's say girls, okay. Your dream is to pop off, but your desire, right, your external desire is girls, right. Something in the real world is making you feel lonely. You're like consuming media that is telling you you're a [ __ ] loser, you're lonely, you're going to die alone.

and so you think of girls and get distracted, or it could be anything, and it's really about realizing this stuff is useless. This external stuff, don't react to it by drinking and doing stupid [__]. Just go back to your dream, you know. You look at any successful person, they just keep going back to their dream, right? You add the bricks that like brick layers, right? Look at that, you add the bricks, and you just go up, and then you stop because you want to talk to some [__][__]. Hey yo [__]. No, no, no, you've done that already, that's why you're depressed. Just keep adding bricks, keep adding bricks, keep adding bricks, and then one day you slip up and you do go out with a [__], and all you can think about is bricks as she's talking. You're at the table, and all you can think about is bricks and brick laying, and then you go, Well, maybe if I

pipe her that this feeling is going to go away. You pipe bang bang bang bang. I nutted. I'm sorry babe. And then you're like bricked up. You finish that and then you're just in bed and she's talking stupid [__] and you're back to thinking of your dreams. Now you can go the road of staying with her but eventually she picks up on the fact that your dreams are being substituted by her and she goes I actually want a guy who has dreams chat and chat goes oh but I put them on pause for you and she goes M yeah I don't want that. I thought I did and the guy goes oh and the saddest moment here is when you go back to laying bricks after this moment. It doesn't feel good to lay bricks anymore when you're off that momentum because you've lost identity. Now that she's not a part of your life right. You've lost identity. You're kind of confused and then you dream of the days.

where laying bricks was fun for you. You dream about that and you go, Damn. And then over some time, over some, you know, working on yourself, the bricks start to be fun again, right? And then your buddies say, Hey, let's go to the club, and you get distracted again and again and again. What you don't realize is when this brick-laying process ends, well, what you have then is a, um, you have a castle. [Music] And [ __ ] love Castle. So you're going to have 30 of them to choose from. They don't like the cold world; they want to be in the castle. They want to be with the King. Yo, Zurka, I'm a junior in college. I'm going to be making big money out of college. My girlfriend goes to my college. I just want her to just marry me and have my kids, but she wants a career after college. What should I do? First of all, you are never going to be a millionaire with that language. Don't say, I will be a millionaire when I complete college. Say, I am a millionaire, and I've

already completed college. That way, she's attracted to you 'cause that when that's bouncing off your skull, the mystery of Golgatha. Then she's more attracted to you. Your IM am is I'm almost done, honey. They don't like that, bro. They 90% of listen to what I'm saying. You 90% of human communication is nonverbal. So what's bouncing between your ears is what she is picking up on. You have to be. You cannot become. You have to be. As soon as she senses that you're the type that becomes, she might be afraid that you might become brave when she's in danger. You need to be brave, donum. And here's what's crazy is you don't think of your ideal self. Your ideal self is angelic, good-looking, gets women, money, handsome. Your ideal self, you're connected to this, bro. This is you. You know what I mean? Like your ideal self is right in the moment. It's not in the past or the future because a lot of people say, In the future, I'm going to be.

this the Future Never Comes so you manifested the wrong thing. It's now I am this. That's that's why when God said I am the I am. What do you think he's telling you? He like be it. You're I am. No one can use the spellcasting of I just you. No one can say I for chat. You're the only one who can say I. I quit. So telling you guys if you want to quit something just do it. Don't do it cuz that's restrictive energy. That resistance and you'll snap back to it. You want to dieet just do it. That's it. You think someone else can hold your eye energy? You know what the Illuminati? The Eye of Providence is on your dollar bill. You know what the secret is? The eye. Ask Steiner. Ask anyone this any esoteric mainstream genius. The eye on your dollar bill is the letter better I. Cuz they know you can change reality with I. I quit. I do. I'm a millionaire. Every you know how many times I write in that I'm a millionaire. Money comes to me.

easy. I don't have to try thousands, bro, thousands of times. Margarito can. I'll tell you this, bro, if you have to do something dragging your feet, you're going to go back to whatever you're trying to quit. Oh, I'm quitting drinking. No, it's I quit. That was easy. I have peace of mind. That's the treat of life, is when you do something and it's, there's no elastic ban. I'm quitting alcohol, and now I'm drinking so much. I'm quitting blow, now I'm snorting everything. That's not how it works, bro. That's why when you diet, I hate my diet. Yeah, then you're going back to being a fat ass. That's why I used to make dieting very fun for my clients, make it as fun as possible.

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외로움이나 미디어 소비와 같은 외부의 감정과 욕구는 개인의 꿈과 목표를 방해할 수 있습니다.

이러한 외부의 영향에 부정적인 행동으로 대응하는 것은 비생산적입니다.

성공한 사람들은 자신의 꿈을 향해 꾸준히 노력하는 데 집중하며, 이를 '벽돌을 쌓는 것'으로 상징합니다.

인간관계가 개인의 꿈에 미치는 영향

남자가 여자 친구에게 집중하면 자신의 꿈을 추구하는 것이 멈추고 관계에 긴장이 생깁니다.

그녀가 야망을 가진 파트너에 대한 열망을 표현하면 그는 이별 후 상실감과 혼란을 느낍니다.

시간이 지남에 따라 그는 자신을 위해 노력하고 자신의 추구에서 다시 기쁨을 찾으며 궁극적으로 성공적인 미래를 구축합니다.

타인에게 매력적으로 보이기 위해서는 미래의 이상적인 모습을 위해 노력하기보다는 지금 이 순간에 자신의 이상적인 모습을 구현하는 것이 중요합니다.

비언어적 커뮤니케이션은 자신을 인식하는 방식에 중요한 역할을 하므로 자신감과 용기를 투영하는 것이 중요합니다.

"나는 나다"라는 개념은 변화를 표현하고 자신의 현실을 통제할 수 있는 능력을 강조하기 때문에 강력한 힘을 발휘합니다.

습관을 끊을 때 긍정적인 사고방식의 중요성

습관을 끊는 것은 투쟁이 아니라 결단력 있는 행동이어야 합니다.

긍정적인 마음가짐과 그 과정을 즐겁게 만드는 것이 건강에 해로운 행동에서 성공적으로 벗어나기 위한 핵심입니다.

쉽고 재미있게 도전에 접근하면 지속적인 변화와 마음의 평화를 얻을 수 있습니다.