라숀 하라 이해하기: 악플의 영향

### 라숀하라의 힘: 유대인의 말하기 개념 이해하기
* 🗣 유대 율법에서 라숀 하라는 타인에 대해 부정적으로 말하는 것을 금지하는 **'악한 말'**을 의미하며, 말의 도덕적 무게를 강조하는 용어입니다.
* 📺 이방카 트럼프는 **2016년부터 라숀 하라가 대중의 조사와 공격**을 받았음에도 불구하고 이 개념이 어떻게 그녀에게 힘을 실어주고 육아에 영향을 미치는지 공유하는 영상을 통해 **라숀 하라에 대해 이야기**했습니다.
* 💬 그녀는 금욕적인 태도를 유지하고 정치적 진흙탕 싸움에 참여하지 않기로 한 자신의 철학을 되돌아보며 **부정적인 반응은 자신의 진정한 자아와 맞지 않는다고 생각**했습니다.
* 🕊 이방카는 **라숀 하라는 돌이킬 수 없는 해악**을 끼친다는 점에서 살인과 비슷하며, 대상뿐만 아니라 말하는 사람과 듣는 사람에게도 영향을 미쳐 피해의 악순환을 일으킨다고 설명했습니다.
* 💔 유대인의 전통에 따르면 **부정적인 말을 하면 상대방이 그 말을 의식하지 못하더라도 영적인 차원에서 상대방을 무너뜨리고 영향을 미친다**고 가르칩니다.
* 🌱 반대로, 고양시키는 말은 다른 사람을 영적으로 고양시킬 수 있으며, 서로를 지지하는 환경을 조성하는 데 있어 **긍정적인 커뮤니케이션의 중요성**을 강조합니다.
* 📖 라숀하라에 대한 이러한 이해는 상호 작용 시 마음챙김을 장려하여 **커뮤니티 내에서 존중과 친절의 문화**를 조성합니다.
* 💌 이 토론은 우리 모두가 어떻게 하면 더 나은 말하기를 실천하고 주변 환경에 긍정적으로 기여할 수 있는지에 대한 성찰을 유도하며, **말의 영적 의미**를 강조합니다.

이방카 트럼프는 비판 속에서도 부정보다는 긍정을 선택함으로써 유대인의 원칙인 라숀 하라를 실천하고 있습니다.

Hey everyone, I hope you're doing well. In Jewish law and Jewish thought, there's a concept called lashon hara, literally meaning evil speech. And so what that means is that when you speak negatively against somebody, that's not something that is allowed in Jewish law and

conceptually, uh, in Jewish thought as well. There's certain things that we'll discuss in a few moments. So I came across this clip of Ivanka Trump going through, uh, different, uh, slurs and and things that have come against her, and she brings up the concept of lashon hara and

says that it's something that's empowering for her and talks about how she relates it in her with her family and bringing up her kids and so forth. Now, I know what a lot of people are going to say in the comments is, "Oh, she needs to talk to her father," and I don't

like her father and all these different things. Be that as it may, whatever you think of her father, that's that's fine. Keep it to yourself. Listen to what she says regarding, uh, her relationship, her understanding, and her implementation of the Jewish concept of lashon hara. Did she

is a convert to Judaism, by the way, and so her her taking in this spiritual message is something I think that resonates even more. Uh, ever since 2016, the the number and the level of attacks you've been under has been steadily increasing. Has been super

intense. How do you walk through the fire of that? You've been very stoic about the whole thing. I've don't think I've ever seen you respond to an attack. You just let it pass over you. You stay positive, and you focus on solving problems, and you didn't engage

while being in DC you didn't engage into the back and forth fire of the politics so what's your philosophy behind that I appreciate your saying that I was very stoic about it I think you know I feel things pretty deeply so initially some of

that really took me off guard like some of the derivative love and hatred um some of the intensity of of of the attacks um and there were times when it was it was so easy to counter it I'd even write something out and and say well I'm gonna I'm gonna press send and

never did I I felt that sort of getting into the mud fighting back it didn't run true to who I am as a human being like it didn't it felt at odds with with who I am and how I want to spend my time so I think as a result I was often times on

the receiving end of a lot of a lot of cheap shots and I'm okay with that because it's sort of the way I know how to be in the world I was focused on things I thought mattered more and you know I I think part of me

also internalized there's a concept in Judaism called lashon hara which is translated into I think quite literally evil speech and the idea that you know speaking poorly of another is almost the moral equivalent to murder because you can't really repair

it you can apologize but you can't repair it another component of that is that it does as much damage to the person saying the words um than it does to the person receiving them and I think about that a lot I talk about this concept with with my kids a

a lot um and I'm not willing to pay the price of that fleeting and momentary satisfaction of sort of swinging back because I think it would be it would be too expensive for my soul and and that's how I kind of made peace with

it because I think that's just that feels more true for me good for her that's that's a beautiful thing uh in in Jewish tradition there's a very interesting spiritual idea that's brought out from the concept of lashon hara so it says that lashon hara hurts three

people number one the person that said it number two the person who was uh who listened to it and number three the person who it's being said about right when you say something bad so I understand the person it's it hurts the person that said it because you're not

allowed to say those types of things and I understand the person that listened to it because you're not supposed to listen to that kind of thing but why does it hurt the person that it was said about what if they never find out about it and

so interestingly enough in our tradition we are taught that even if the person who the lashon hara is being said about just by speaking negatively about somebody you bring them down on a soul level and something in the ether is affected that that person is brought down and so we

have to be very careful about the way that we talk about things uh in Judaism we're careful about the way that we refer to animals or inanimate objects we we care about the honor of all and everything and creation and so it's interesting that our tradition does

highlight that when a person speaks negatively about another person, you lower them down, but the same thing can be said in the other extreme. If a person wants to help elevate somebody and bring them up spiritually, start speaking positive words over them, even if they never hear

them, even if it doesn't hit them consciously, it's something that helps them along in their journey. And so um, we'll hold with that for today. Just thought it was a nice interesting little clip that came across. Uh, love to hear what you have to say, and if you enjoy

this content overall, I'd highly encourage you to hit that subscribe button below and would love to stay in touch. Have a wonderful day everybody. Oh

Ivanka Trump Makes Host SPEECHLESS With This Jewish Concept on Gossip

Rabbi Pinchas Taylor

라숀 하라와 이방카 트럼프의 관점 소개

유대인의 법과 사상에서 라숀하라(악한 말)에 대해 설명합니다.

이방카 트럼프가 비판에 대한 대응으로 라숀 하라를 사용한 사례.

시청자 댓글에 대한 기대와 이방카의 관점에 집중해 달라는 요청이 있었습니다.

이방카 트럼프의 유대교로의 개종과 그녀의 관점과의 관련성.

2016년 이후 이방카 트럼프에 대한 공격이 증가하고 있는 것에 대한 논의입니다.

비판에 대한 이방카 트럼프의 금욕적인 접근법

이방카는 공격에 대응하지 않고 문제 해결에 집중합니다.

공격에 대한 이방카의 초기 반응과 보복을 하지 않기로 한 결정.

이방카는 비판을 수용하고 다른 사안에 우선순위를 둡니다.

이방카의 라숀 하라 내면화와 그 의미.

라숀하라의 더 깊은 의미와 영향력

라숀 하라는 살인에 대한 도덕적 동등성과 그 돌이킬 수 없는 본질에 대해 이야기합니다.

라숀 하라가 말하는 사람과 듣는 사람 모두에게 미치는 영향.

이방카는 즉각적인 만족보다 내면의 평화를 우선시합니다.

라숀 하라는 화자, 청자, 주제에 모두 해를 끼칩니다.

화자와 청자에게 미치는 피해에 대한 설명.

피험자가 모르는 사이에도 해를 끼칠 수 있습니다.

부정적인 발언이 대상에게 미치는 정신적 영향.

유대교는 모든 존재에 대한 존중을 강조합니다.

인지도와 상관없이 다른 사람에 대해 긍정적으로 말하는 것이 미치는 긍정적인 영향.

마무리 발언과 구독을 권장합니다.