Hello, this is Jeje. Today, I will talk about four ways to attract karaoke helpers, as told by an active helper. I hope you will subscribe, like, and set notifications. Let's get started. Today, I will share insights based on interviews with women who have experience as karaoke helpers, discussing the realities of karaoke helpers and how to attract them. 

Middle-aged men often go to karaoke after company dinners or drinking parties, but many end up spending money without achieving any results. One common misconception among men is that karaoke helpers will easily give in just because they are in that line of work. A few years ago, a female university student currently working as a karaoke helper wrote a post that gained attention.

A female college student who posted on an online community explained the misunderstandings people have about the role of karaoke helpers. The first misunderstanding is that karaoke helpers are synonymous with prostitution. She emphasized that karaoke helpers do not engage in sex work. While a small number may resort to it, it is not a profession based on selling one's body. There are certainly individuals who may change their minds due to difficult circumstances, but there are more who do not. In my case, I only worked as a helper for one night, she stated.

The second misunderstanding is that they earn a lot of money. She addressed the notion of making a significant income by saying that they do not earn as much as people think. While they do earn more than typical part-time jobs, it is still not as much as what is often assumed. Typically, they earn about the same as other night part-time jobs, and even with hard work, the earnings are still limited.

It's just a little more than what I earn from part-time work. Because I divide the money this way as a karaoke business owner, no matter how hard I try, it's difficult to earn as much as I do from my main job. 

The third misunderstanding is that people think it's an easy job. While customer service and hospitality may seem easy, I found it to be anything but. Most of the people working in this field are single mothers, university students, career changers, and foreigners who are in difficult situations and pushed to the edge. Even those who have tried high-paying part-time jobs often face rejections, and because they need to find work quickly, they end up having to swallow their tears and search for jobs in the entertainment industry. Of course, many people in this field choose it because the nature of the work involves selling sex. 

The fourth misunderstanding is about not paying taxes. When considering the entertainment industry...

I think it's important to acknowledge that, compared to the amount of money we earn, we don't have social insurance, and it's difficult to receive protection, which makes it a risky situation. This is what I appealed for. 

Fifth, I believe that selling laughter is not wrong. Saying that selling laughter is wrong is an insult to the entire service industry, which is meant to make people smile. I don't understand why we should be slandered for that.

Furthermore, she expressed that karaoke room attendants are not involved in illegal activities that are different from general sexual services. Although there is still a lot of prejudice and hatred, I believe that if we listen to the stories of the sisters and brothers working in this field, this social climate can change. That's why I reflected on our stories.

If you want to entice karaoke room attendants, you should understand their true feelings about the customers.

You should know that one of the dark motives of many men who go to karaoke is to have encounters with hostesses. Especially since most of the hostesses are women in their 20s and 30s, it sufficiently stirs men's curiosity and adventurous spirit. However, as I mentioned earlier, the likelihood of these men's desires being fulfilled is quite low. First of all, when meeting separately outside, many men find it easy to see that the hostesses themselves may not want to meet. Ms. B, who has ten years of experience in karaoke, said, When they come often and treat me comfortably, I develop a liking for them, but once we meet outside, the men's attitudes completely change. They ignore and despise me internally, while outwardly they try to charm me, which is obvious. All the customers I have met so far, hoping for something more, have turned out to be more about a one-night stand than a relationship.

Most of the time, I was trying to create a partnership, so I decided not to meet clients outside anymore. Additionally, since most of the help I provide is more like a part-time job, I don't really think about trying to extract a lot of money from men. Therefore, even if I do meet clients outside, I consider it important to have fun and enjoy myself. Now that I understand the true feelings of the helpers, I wonder how I can charm them. Listening to this makes me feel more confident. However, you don’t need to think that way. If you follow the information I’m about to share until the end, you won’t end up going home lonely after spending money without any physical contact. Here are four ways to charm a karaoke helper, as shared by an active helper. 

First, treat them like any other woman. When going to karaoke, helpers...

Particularly undesirable customers are those who engage in power harassment or exhibit outrageous behavior with inappropriate physical contact. Customers who display power harassment often have the mistaken belief that since they are paying for a service, they can do whatever they want. This leads them to treat the staff carelessly, causing feelings of human humiliation. Of course, the role of the karaoke assistants is to provide a service that allows customers to have an enjoyable time, but treating them in a way that induces feelings of humiliation and disregard is unacceptable. Some customers not only speak in a disrespectful manner but also inappropriately touch women's private areas, leading to conflicts with the assistants. Additionally, they demand excessive services that do not match the amount they paid. However, rather than these problematic customers, the majority of customers tend to imagine a romance with the assistants. In other words, they fantasize about dating the assistants.

There are many cases where people abuse their power because they want to. In contrast to those who exert power over others, some say that when the beauty matches their preferences, it feels like today's meeting is destined. They might say things like, Shall I take you somewhere nice and buy you something delicious? If there's something you want, just let me know. In this way, they try hard to get the assistant's phone number. However, the assistants are not inexperienced; they know that these types of customers are just looking for a way to have fun for a night without spending any money. Regardless, the assistants are not here to date; they came to earn money. Therefore, when dealing with men, they tend to perceive them more as financial opportunities rather than romantic interests. In fact, while they can manage customers who are demanding in the moment, those who request romance tend to cling on and continue the conversation until they get her phone number, which can be even more annoying. So,

If you want to charm a hostess, you shouldn't act arrogantly or try to bore her by asking for her phone number just for fun. When the hostess first enters the karaoke room, treat her politely and cheerfully, as you would with an ordinary woman. Even if she has been working for a long time, there is always a fear of encountering difficult customers when meeting new guests, so it’s important to quickly convey that you are not a troublesome customer. However, if you overly flatter her, you might come off as a fool in the eyes of someone spending money, and if you give off a strong impression of trying to seduce her from the start, it may put her on guard. Additionally, if you decide to have a specific partner, insisting only on a particular attractive hostess can leave a bad first impression. There are also points to be cautious about during conversation; for instance, you might ask how long she has been working.

Talking about how much one earns in a month or how many places one visits in a day is not a good idea when it comes to conversations about helpers. This is because helpers do not particularly like being treated like hostesses. On the other hand, customers who express pity or sympathy by saying things like You must be struggling at this age; work isn't that hard, is it? are also considered troublesome. Therefore, using work-related topics as conversation starters can decrease the chances of charming the helpers. 

Secondly, presenting oneself as someone who enjoys life and gives a neat impression is important. To gain favor with helpers, engaging in pleasant conversation and maintaining a clean and sophisticated image are crucial. Discussing topics related to romance can also help in easily understanding each other's preferences and provide insights on how to approach them. Even as a customer, one must manage oneself to be perceived as a potential romantic interest.

As your belly grows, it's better to wear casual suits rather than hiking or sportswear. This can help cover your body shape and give a neat image. Especially, you should avoid entering a karaoke room in a state of excessive drunkenness or using foul language. If you immediately attempt physical contact as soon as you enter, the person will perceive you as a nuisance and will just be waiting for time to pass. Moreover, a man who reeks of cigarette smoke or sweat will be off-putting not only to general women but also to women in the dating scene. You need to have a balanced approach that conveys a refined and clean image, making you feel like a better option compared to peers or friends. This relative differentiation will make women more inclined to like you. Thirdly, raise your energy level. If you’ve made a good first impression on the assistants, the next step is to elevate the atmosphere.

It's important to create a fun atmosphere when meeting regular women; it's not much different. You can enjoy drinks, share light jokes, and raise your glasses to lift the mood. Try to keep the energy up with games or similar activities. However, if the woman is not drinking and is instead acting in a way that lowers the mood, you may need to switch to a different approach. Not drinking could be a sign that she is cautious about the guests, and even if that's not the case, it's generally much harder to charm a woman who doesn't drink. This is because those who avoid alcohol often come solely to earn money. 

The fourth point is to target the early morning hours. Those who have been to clubs or nightclubs when they were younger will know that there are golden hours for charming women. The same goes for karaoke rooms, where hostesses frequent various places.

Because of the running, when I go in the early evening, I often feel the pressure to move to another place, so I don’t engage much. When I go in the early morning hours, right before closing time, I make them aware that it’s the last room, and if I encourage them to play longer with a long shot, the helpers will also feel comfortable and won't try to control their drinking. There may be regional differences, but going the day before the helpers take a break can increase the success rate. Since I’m a woman, I think it’s okay to know a man who has a clean style and atmosphere, as it creates a sense of rational attraction. Then, catch the level of interest from the helper and naturally suggest going out for hangover soup at an appropriate time. So far, I have shared four methods of charming helpers at karaoke, as taught by a current active helper. To summarize once more, these are the tips shared by the current active helper.

How to Charm a Karaoke Room Dom: Four Methods. 

First, treat her like an ordinary woman. 
Second, have a good time and give a neat impression. 
Third, raise the energy. 
Fourth, target the early morning hours. 

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