미루는 습관 극복하기: 사자가 되기 위한 여정

### 성장을 포용하기: 미루는 습관 극복하고 사자 되기
* 🦁 미루는 것은 종종 사회적 기대에 부응해야 한다는 불안감에서 비롯되므로 이러한 부담감을 직시하고 도전하는 것이 중요합니다.
* 📚 의무와 조건에 얽매인 '낙타'에서 **'사자'가 되는 여정**은 성인으로의 전환과 개인의 역량 강화를 상징합니다.
* 🔥 사회적 압력을 상징하는 "너는 하라"는 '용'과 마주할 때, 자신의 의지를 주장하고 강요된 신념에 대해 **"아니오"라고 말하는 것**이 필수적입니다.
* 🌵 이 용을 처치하면 **기대의 무게에서 해방**되어 진정한 욕망과 야망을 품을 수 있습니다.
* 💪 "나는 할 것이다"라는 사자의 태도는 **커리어, 인간관계, 개인적인 관심사 등 삶의 선택에 대한 통제력**을 강화해 줍니다.
* 🌈 진정한 힘은 인생의 역경을 헤쳐나가는 데서 나오기 때문에 이러한 변화에는 **도전과 불편함을 견뎌내는 것**이 포함됩니다.
* 👶 궁극적으로는 지혜와 기쁨이 경험에 통합되어 만족스럽고 근거 있는 존재로 이끄는 **'어린이' 단계**로 계속 진화합니다.
* 🌟 이 여정은 성장과 자아 발견을 위한 것이므로 **내 안의 사자를 포용**하고 용기를 가지고 자신의 길을 추구하세요.

미루는 것은 짐을 짊어진 낙타에서 책임을 받아들일 준비가 된 강력한 사자로 변모하는 것을 의미합니다.

got a question here from one of our 17-year-old buddies. So, you know, towards the end of high school, this is definitely one of those transitionary periods in life, and he's an A-level student. He says, So, essentially, he's been doing everything that a good boy should be doing up until this point, right? An A-level student all throughout high school, but he's reaching a point now where he's battling with this problem of procrastination. He gets everything he needs or is supposed to get done done, but he waits until the last minute before he does it, and then it upsets him because he's dragging all the anxiety about having to do the [__] thing. Then he friggin' does it. He always does a good job, but he's like, Man, I wish I didn't carry, you know, three weeks of anxiety. I wish I just would have [__] done the thing when I was supposed to do it. Procrastinate with everything, especially the schoolwork. He's doing well, but he suffers with this.

inability to get [ __ ] done when it's supposed to get done right, except for one thing: when it comes to rugby or playing sports, athleticism, he's right on top of it, yo. Call rugby, he's there. Well, whistle, he's there. No hesitation whatsoever. This is the thing that he wants to do. There is no procrastination. In fact, he could probably do it all day long, right? So, the question really is, let me just get to the bottom line here. You know, you have any advice. You know, I've suffered from depression for about a year after losing someone close to me. Okay, sort of relevant, but I'm not gonna go down that route. But basically, how do I deal with this procrastination? Really interesting stuff. So, essentially, your procrastination is the lion growing in you. I'm gonna tell you what I mean in a moment, but essentially, you're becoming a man, and you're moving into a new phase in your life where you're beginning to say no. I

won't, but you keep it sort of passive-aggressive because you can't say that to your teacher. [__] you. I ain't doing this classwork. [__] you. I ain't taking the test. No, I'm not going to class. You can't, you can't, can't do that, right? Because you're still a camel. Tell you what I mean in a moment. And ultimately, this is a journey to becoming the strongest version of yourself or form wisdom that is encapsulated in another metaphor, which is the child. So, what am I talking about? What is Eliot talking about? If you've ever read Thus Spoke Zarathustra, there are three stir. This is Nietzsche, of course. Like, I can't pronounce half the [__] that he writes, but this is a metaphor that's used in this book by Frederick Nietzsche, where he describes the evolution, the spiritual evolution of the man, where he goes from the beginning stages of his life. He's physically and

spiritually emotionally immature, and he calls this your camo stage, Zarathustra, right? I think I said all right. This is the camel stage of your revolution. What is the camel? The camel is a beast of burden. You basically are at a stage in your life, from birth, you know, where you start walking and talking, and they start teaching you [__]. They start laying burdens on your shoulders, right? Society, your parents, teachers, religion, they start low putting things on your shoulders. You're a beast of burden until about the age of, you know, about 17, like kind of like, you know, where you're at right now. Will you bow down? What does the camel do? It's such a great metaphor, beautiful, beautiful passage in the book. He bows down, and the world is loading his back with burdens. You're a beast of [__] burden. You're supposed to go to school, you're supposed to pass your tests, you're supposed to do your homework, you're supposed to clean your bedroom, you're supposed, suppose, suppose, supposed.

to both supposed to pose right all the things you're supposed to do, all the conditioning, and lay it upon you, all the beliefs that you've been given, they're not yours. A lot of us think we have our own beliefs, I've got my own beliefs. No, you know, no, you have not developed your own beliefs, your own ideas, your own conditioning. You have not become a lion just yet until that camel at about that age where you start exploring and questioning just a little bit. If you're a mature individual, you don't question. That means there's no inclination towards maturity in you, but you know, most of us in this day and age with the internet and you know, so many ideas being proliferated, of course, we're gonna mature, right? Here in all this other [ __ ] and I'm asked to do all this stuff here. What's going on? Sorry, about 17 years old, you've been all that has been laid on your shoulders, right? Beasts of burden now travels out into the desert. This is

the world. You're going to either go to college, you're gonna go and get a career, but essentially, you're now sort of free, right? We've extended college. We have me. We could extend college. That's all you're [ __ ] you know, 30-40 years old. It depends on when you want to grow up, but essentially, you're now going out into the world. So, that camel stands up, beautiful metaphor, and wanders out into the desert with this giant load on its back, and he meets a dragon. And the dragon's name is thou shalt. Thou shalt is this dragon, and on every one of his little pieces of, you know, dragon scales, there's thou shalt. There's a belief. There is a, there's an admonition. There's something that you're supposed to do, all these supposed to that the world tells us. It's all over this dragon. Here comes this dragon, thou shalt. Thou shalt in your way. You're carrying this burden that the world has laid upon you, and it is your responsibility as a maturing

individual to slay that dragon because one of two things will happen. You either bow down and you continue to live your life as a beast of burden, and you allow thou shalt to control you. So now that dragon rules your life. A lot of us live that way. Or you slay that [ __ ] dragon, right? This is kind of where you are right now. All that procrastination is because you feel this anxiety between, you know, all this stuff is being laid upon me, but I really don't want to do this. You're out in the desert right now. You start it. You started. You're sort of out there, and you're meeting this dragon, thou shalt, thou shalt your responsibility at this point. And I know it's your responsibility. This is your plight because you're asking me this [ __ ] question is to slay that [ __ ] dragon. And by slaying that dragon, you become a lion. And that lion's name and his attitude is, I will, and no, so the

know goes towards all the things that the world has told you you're supposed to do. Thou shalt you destroy the dragon with your no, no, no. See, right now you can't do it that way because you're still living in the confines. You're still bowed down. You're still you, but you're about to get up. You're still bowed down as that camel, but you're about to get up. Remember this, my friend. The now as you're walking is you're on your own four feet as that camel and out into the desert. And at this point, no one can do this for you. Your parents are not there for you anymore because you're becoming a man. Your most powerful position against the dragon of thou shalt is your no. And once you slay that dragon with your no, you begin a new journey in your ever spiritual evolution as a man, and that is your I will. Now, how many of us even make it that far, that become a man of I will? Now you go out there and the lion is completely hysterical. He's rebellious.

he's angry. Ah, it was at everybody's heads off, heads off, and he just uses pure will. That's why his new power is called I will. You're living out of your... you're living out of this part of your body right now. This is where your will is. Of course, I'm talking about other things, but follow me. This is your heart. This is your breathing. This is your solar plexus. That which combusts and manifests in your body does so in your life. Now, it's the will. You build up your will. You go out there, and you do have a [__] you wanna do. You go, and you choose the type of woman you want. You choose the type of career you want. You choose the type of business you want. You choose whether or not you want to go into business. You decide you want what type of poetry you want to involve yourself in, type of art. You go out there now, and you exert your will the way you want to, and thou shalt has already died, so you do it out of

your own sense of purpose and strength. And this is where you'll be for quite a while. And this is where you'll find your greatest successes and your deepest hurts. When you become that lion, and you need to go through it, you need to go through those very difficult and treacherous times. Challenge, discomfort, hunger as a lion, because a lion doesn't bow down to nobody, right? He'll starve for he bows to the other animals, ain't bowing [ __ ]. He killed that dragon for a reason. Kill me or I'll starve. That's the attitude of the lion. This has been my attitude and the attitude that I've been sharing with you guys through these videos for the past several years. It's the attitude of the lion that I will. The know that you used to slay that [ __ ] dragon and the I will, but you'll carry with you to succeed in that next evolution of your life. And I can't speak very, very eloquently or in any type of coherent way about the

next phase, which is the child to become a child again. It's a full circle, but it's not an immaturity as in, you know, baby child. There's a sense of peace and joy and pleasure, but also grounding associated with all the things that the society has taught you. You know how to read and write. A baby doesn't have to read and write, know how to calculate, and how to think. You know how to... you've got wisdom. It's the wisdom of the child, but it's a full circle type wisdom. Just for perspective, me in my life at this point, that's sort of where I feel myself going. I have all very quickly, thirty-four years old, and I'm the lion is kind of almost dead in me or has grown into that child, but that's me. Keep watching my videos for the next ten years, and I'll talk to you about that next evolution. Watch these ones, right? This is ten years after this video has been created. Watch this one and know that if you're 17, 18, up till about 27.

perhaps thirty-four years old. You're in a lion phase right now. What you're experiencing is the dissonance, this is comfort between the old passing away and the new coming forth. Good luck, bro. Be a lion.

How To Become A LION Amongst Sheep

Elliott Hulse | WISDOM

미루는 습관 극복하기: 고등학생의 고군분투

17세 A레벨 학생은 미루는 습관과 싸우며 마지막 순간에 과제를 완료하고 불안감을 경험하고 있습니다.

그는 스포츠, 특히 럭비에 뛰어나며 주저하거나 미루는 법이 없습니다.

미루는 습관과의 싸움은 성인이 되고 개인이 성장하는 과정의 일부로 여겨집니다.

낙타 단계는 사회, 부모, 교사가 부과한 짐을 개인이 짊어지는 영적, 정서적 미성숙의 시기를 나타냅니다.

이 단계는 자신의 신념에 의문을 품고 탐구하기 시작하는 17세 무렵까지 지속됩니다.

낙타의 사막으로의 여정은 개인이 세상의 기대와 책임에 맞서야 하는 성인으로의 전환을 상징합니다.

미루는 것은 종종 책임감에 압도당하는 불안감에서 비롯됩니다.

이러한 의무에 굴복할 것인지 아니면 맞서 싸울 것인지 사이에서 갈등하는 것은 흔한 문제입니다.

"너는 해야 한다"는 사고방식을 거부하고 강력한 "아니오"를 주장함으로써 책임감이라는 용을 죽이고 개인의 역량 강화와 영적 진화의 여정을 시작할 수 있습니다.

연사는 자신의 욕구를 표현하고 삶을 선택하는 데 있어 의지력의 중요성을 강조합니다.

인간관계, 직업, 예술적 추구를 선택하기 위해 의지력을 키우는 과정을 설명합니다.

강하고 단호한 태도를 사자가 굽히지 않는 것에 비유하며 개인의 성장과 성공을 위해 도전과 불편함을 받아들일 것을 권장합니다.

인생의 완전한 순환: 사자에서 아이로

성인에서 어린이와 같은 상태로 전환하는 과정은 평화, 기쁨, 지혜를 가져다주는 완전한 원으로 묘사됩니다.

이러한 진화는 미성숙이 아니라 사회에서 얻은 지식과 경험을 바탕으로 이루어집니다.

34세의 화자는 자신의 여정을 되돌아보고 인생의 사자기에 있는 다른 사람들에게 변화의 불협화음을 받아들이도록 격려합니다.