우정 평가하기: 친구가 당신의 발목을 잡고 있나요?

### 우정을 평가하세요: 도움이 되나요, 아니면 해가 되나요?
* 🤔 "이 그룹이 나를 어디로 이끌었나?"와 같은 질문을 던지며 **주변 친구들의 영향을 평가**하는 것이 중요합니다.
* 😲 그 대답은 충격을 줄 수 있으며, 소위 친구라고 불리는 사람들 중 상당수가 **여러분의 최선의 이익에 부합하지 않을 수도 있다**는 사실을 알게 될 것입니다.
* 🍻 친구들이 **파티와 술자리, 여자를 쫓아다니기만 한다면** 인생에서 친구의 역할을 다시 생각해봐야 할 때입니다.
* 🚫 이러한 사람들 중 상당수는 진정으로 여러분을 걱정하지 않을 수 있으며, **여러분이 자신을 개선하려고 할 때 종종 본색**을 드러내기도 합니다.
* 💪 운동을 하거나 술을 줄이는 등 자기 계발을 위해 노력하는 경우, **상대방의 조롱은 관계를 끊으라는 신호**가 될 수 있습니다.
* 🔍 현실은 진동이 낮은 친구들과 어울리다 보면 **평범함과 우울함의 사이클**에 갇힐 수 있다는 것입니다.
* 🚀 성장하려면 부정적인 에너지로 자신을 끌어내리는 사람보다는 **자신을 고양하고 격려하는 사람들**과 함께해야 합니다.
* 💔 궁극적으로 선택은 여러분의 몫입니다. **여러분의 발전을 방해하는 친구**를 계속 사귀거나 **최고의 자신을 만들 수 있도록 영감을 주는 친구**를 찾아보세요.

대부분의 친구는 여러분의 성장에 관심이 없고 오히려 여러분의 발목을 잡는 경우가 많습니다.

oh man. T, no man, those are my bros. No, that's the bros, man. Bros over hoes, you know. I know what you guys are thinking when you read the title, like, No, those are my friends. I can't leave them. You know, Now that's my ride-or-dies, and that's my homies, and I can't leave them. No, you're tripping. And the thing about it is you have to ask yourself a few questions, fellas. Ask yourself, Where has the group of people you have been hanging with gotten you? Right? Do they really even care about you? Because the answer is surprising. The answer is going to shock a lot of you guys when you really ask these questions. Are they really good for you? Right? Do they have your best interest in mind? Like I said, the answers to these are going to shock you, and they might disappoint you, okay? But this is a truth that you guys need to hear because you guys are wasting your time with these losers that

you call friends. I'm sorry. I know it's harsh, but I'mma get into it. This is TK talks. Glad y'all could join me. Let's get into it. These are questions that you really need to ask yourself. These people that I'm hanging out with. And quick disclaimer before I even continue, guys. If your friends are empowering you and they're encouraging you to go on the right path and they're not losers, ignore. Ignore this. This video isn't even for you, right? This video is not even for you. But I can bet my bottom dollar for the majority, for the average. And guys, this is why this word average is used, right? What is aver? Average means it means on the whole, the majority of the time, nine times out of ten, 90% of the time. These modern males, right, that you hang out with, these friends are losers. And I'm not saying this from a position of, Oh, I'm just this perfect, perfect guy, you know, this perfect dude that never messed up in his life and was

never a bad influence and all that good stuff. I'm not saying that from that position at all. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt and the autograph. What do they say? Experience is the best teacher. From experience, I realize that these friends are keeping me intoxicated, keeping me broke, right? Keeping me thirsty for broads, I'm telling you. And a lot of you guys can relate to this. Keeping me dumbed down because I guarantee you a lot of these so-called friends, when you try to do something positive with your life, they're going to start talking [ __ ] about you. They're going to start throwing little remarks and stuff, right? Little jokes, hate disguised as jokes. Because ask yourself this: when you're hanging around these guys, are you becoming better or are you becoming average to below average? Probably most of the time below average, right? Number two: if you guys weren't getting drunk together, getting high, intoxicated, chasing broads, you know, being thirsty as hell, going to these uh

useless ass clubs and splitting a section between six dudes in one bottle, right? Six dudes in one bottle, kind of like that two girls in one cup, right? Six dudes in one bottle in a [__] section. All that meaningless, pointless stuff is that you, if you weren't doing that, would these guys be hanging out with you? The answer is no. Another question I had asked, do they even really care about you? I'mma tell you guys what, fellas, I promise you this, and this is going to be extremely unfortunate, and this is going to hurt a lot of you guys. A lot of times, the people you hang out with for the vast majority of the times don't care about you. Where did I learn this? I learned this from my younger days when I felt like I had to be in the in-crowd all the time, or I felt like I always needed to have friends, right? I felt like I always needed to have friends. I later learned that a lot of those people I was hanging out with

didn't even give a [ __ ] about me, right? Didn't even care about me because at some point they started showing their true colors, right? I would come in, you know, in the restaurant that I have worked in, and we would all hang out, and sometimes they would act like they ain't even know me, right? They acting like they, you know, they had like a little attitude of, like, you know, like looking at me like that. I'm like, Damn, I thought we was friends, right? And I'm not saying it's about every single person that, you know, don't get it twisted. You know, if you have a great friend, if you've had a friend for a long time, go ahead, keep that person. That's not very easy to come by. It's rare to come by. But truth be told, like I said, most of your friends mean you no good. Most of your friends do not care about you, do not have your best interest. If you try to, guys, I remember when I first started

working out right or not. When I first started working out, when I was working out, and I would tell certain friends like, Hey, you know, I'm trying to cut back on drinking. I'm trying to cut back on going out. 'Cause in my head, I'm like, Bro, I'm tired of chasing after broads and being thirsty and hitting clubs. And then the guys I was going to the clubs and [__] with their ass had the most depressed Dem. Like, it was so depressing to be around him, right? It was so depressing. It's like, for somebody who was begging me to drink and go out with them, like, damn, their mood was so depressed. But guess why they were depressed? Because they were always involved in low vibrational activities, right? All they wanted to do was go out, drink, chase broads, low vibrational activity. You know, I've mentioned low vibrational activities to you guys plenty of times. And I tell them, Hey, look, I'm trying to improve myself. I'm trying to cut back on this, cut back on

right hey look I'm I'm I'm getting more in touch with the spirit and they we start laughing and [ __ ] does that sound familiar to you guys do you guys does that sound familiar you know when you try to get on self-improvement when you try to better your physique when you try to better your diet and your so-called friends start making fun of you cut them off dog you know and at some point I all that uh juvenile way of thinking like oh you know what I said in beginning oh those are my friends that's the Bros who would I who who am I going to hang out with [ __ ] that why are you even hanging out with them type of people What What In in what way are they enriching your life cuz let me tell you something going out every like going out several nights of the week to a bar getting drunk and chasing broads it's it is not going to do a single Jack [ __ ] thing for

you right if your friends if you're always hanging out with these so-called friends right and they're always complaining they're always in this bad low vibrational mood everything you know guys I've hung out with people that when I was in a room with them I felt a dark cloud over my head right there were and these might have been friends of friends right you know I walk in everybody all drunk everybody looking all depressed the energy you know they the only thing they talking about is oh where the hoes at oh we F to [ __ ] these hoes and and it was extremely low vibrational I felt depressed and hey look as men right single men or whatever do we like to come of young ladies of course of course if we're s especially if we're single we're going to go out there and and you know try to get with a young lady that's natural cool I can dig it but when it's like the focal point of every single time you know if if your friend's not a

one time mention hey look let's go to the gym or hey man let's let's drop the liquor for a little bit get on this L uh water okay get on this water get on this this more balanced diet you don't got to eat broccoli and asparagus and all that but a more balanced diet you know you know let's skip the clubs this this let's let's skip the clubs for a little bit let's let's not go to the bars and and be thirsty over thoughts you know you know you're you're you're not going to really hear that from these type of friends cuz all they're going to want is to do low vibrational stuff and then when get around them like I said they're going to be complaining they're going to have this kind of dark energy around them because they're too busy indulging in [ __ ] they think it's cool you know most most men out here most modern men not all but most for the most part they

think being thirsty is, you know, like I be hearing the conversations. Oh man, I [ __ ] this gr dog. I no one cares. We get it, bro. Like, like these friends are going to always be in a constant state of trying to validate themselves. Oh man, I [ __ ] this girl dog. Oh man. And deep down inside, they're depressed as hell and they're trying to mask. Oh man, you ain't got no hoes. You talk what you ain't got no ho, bro. Is that the only thing? Like these dudes, a lot of these dudes have no car, no job, no money, but worried about hoes. You know, they don't have anything going on for themselves, but they're worried about females. They have no kind of potential, anything going on, but they're worried about females. And you need to cut them type of people off, dog. I'm sorry if they're your friends, but if they're not going to change, first of all, that's not your job. Second of all, those friends are quick s, and you need to have the proper

discernment of letting them go. It you'll be all right. You'll be better off because those same friends you don't need. As the more you hang out with them, the more you're going to be a loser just like them because they're going to keep influencing you, right? Anyway, with that being said, hope y'all like the video. Peace.

Get Rid of Your LOSER Friends or End Up Like Them (Harsh Reality)

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잘못된 사람들과 어울리면 개인의 성장과 성공에 방해가 될 수 있습니다.

이러한 친구들이 진정으로 나를 아끼고 나의 최선의 이익을 염두에 두고 있는지 물어보는 것이 중요합니다.

독이 되는 우정은 종종 부정적인 행동으로 이어지고 목표 달성을 방해할 수 있습니다.

여섯 명이서 술잔을 나누는 것과 같은 많은 사회적 상호작용은 무의미하고 피상적입니다.

함께 어울리는 사람들은 종종 여러분에게 진심으로 관심이 없는 경우가 많으며, 시간이 지나면 그들의 본색이 드러날 수도 있습니다.

진정한 우정은 드물지만, 대부분의 지인은 여러분을 진심으로 생각하지 않습니다.

저진동 활동이 자기 계발에 미치는 영향

화자는 술과 파티를 줄이려고 노력하면서 자기 계발을 위한 자신의 여정을 되돌아봅니다.

화자는 여전히 활기찬 활동을 하지 않는 친구들의 우울한 태도를 발견합니다.

화자는 부정적인 영향으로부터 거리를 두는 것이 중요하다는 점을 강조하고 자신의 삶을 풍요롭게 하는 사람들과 함께해야 한다고 강조합니다.

부정적이고 활기찬 기분을 가진 친구들과 어울리면 기운이 빠지고 우울해질 수 있습니다.

이러한 친구들은 종종 방종하고 건강에 해로운 행동에 집중하며 긍정적인 활동이나 개인적인 성장을 소홀히 합니다.

더 건강한 선택을 할 수 있는 균형과 동기가 부족하면 부정과 불만족의 악순환이 지속될 수 있습니다.

어떤 사람들은 관계를 통해 끊임없이 인정받고자 하며, 이로 인해 우울증과 같은 더 깊은 문제를 숨기기도 합니다.

이러한 친구들 중 상당수는 자신의 삶에서 안정감이 부족하면서도 여성에 대한 추구를 우선시합니다.

이러한 우정의 부정적인 영향을 인식하고 개인적인 성장을 위해 관계를 끊는 것을 고려하는 것이 중요합니다.