Today, I want to share a fun story about our Korean women who are now saying they don't want to be DINKs (Dual Income, No Kids) anymore and are begging for children. Let's take a look at a post from a wife who wants to lift the DINK status. 

We are a couple born in 1984, and we are both 41 years old. Until six years ago, just before our marriage, I, as the man, wanted to have at least one child, while my girlfriend, who is now my wife, absolutely wanted to remain child-free. We faced a crisis of breaking up due to our conflicting values, but I gave in and we got married. We were living without any major issues until suddenly, my wife expressed her desire to have a child. She said that if we wait any longer, it might really be too late. Can you imagine how shocked I was? Even now, if we want to have a child, we could somehow manage it. My sister had her second child after turning forty, so it is possible, but I am mentally quite disappointed with my wife. I had hoped to raise at least one child, using all kinds of reasoning.

He stood up, trampled on doubts about affection, and ultimately made me surrender. Now, having grown older, I have changed my mind. From my perspective, it feels like all the time I spent was in vain, and despite having made difficult sacrifices for you, I was told to adjust. I was angry about that. However, my wife, instead of understanding, called me strange and said I shouldn't act tired and that I didn't want a child. I felt like if I were to have a child, I would have rather done it quickly. What is this? This is the frustration of a man expressing his thoughts. Interestingly, he had the chance to have a child when there was no risk of advanced maternal age, but too much time has passed, and now at forty, he faces the heat of advanced maternal age. The woman, however, cannot empathize with his anger and only makes harsh comments telling him not to act tired. In reality, such situations occur quite frequently.

Do you know that there are women who regret being DINKs (Dual Income No Kids) after giving birth? They think about how they would have felt if they hadn't had children, and it's a reflection of our women's rights movement. Women who were DINKs are now thinking, What if I hadn't had children? They are experiencing emotions and experiences they have never encountered before. The Korean FM list of women who advocated for DINK lifestyles all say they are incredibly happy after having children. They express regret about not having children sooner, saying that the overall happiness has increased. Korean women wish they had become mothers earlier, as the joy is beyond their imagination. I will also share a post about a woman who was a DINK but changed her mind and now regrets it. By the way, the term 마시 refers to women who participate in mom cafes and are part of the women's era, indicating a mix of those who have given birth but are still struggling with FML (F*ck My Life). They all say these feelings are precious and new to them.

I don't regret my life to the point of it being precious, but I do regret the days when I disliked Enaki. Even now, if I say that I want to have a child, isn't it a thank you for the situation? Instead of acting like a victim, speak confidently like a boss. Now, our Korean women boldly say that they will give birth. Isn't it pathetic to see them regret their past decisions and want to have children now? There are women who, after living a life of being single, regret it as they get older and say they want to get married. Similarly, there are women who, after being child-free, regret it and express a desire to have children as they age. I don't know why, but our women tend to regret their actions only after they have aged. As time goes on, they think about wanting to have children, but when they reach an age where they can't, they lament their situation, feeling like they have become too old to have kids.

Women who regret having children tend to reflect on their past. It is often only after aging that they acknowledge their mistakes and realize they were wrong. The numerous women you see online, often labeled as FM women, will eventually find that age resolves everything. Even the women who ran mega businesses end up marrying a man, which is a common trait among Korean women. Those who cry out on the internet will also eventually reach that point. Today, I shared an interesting fact with you. I will conclude the video here. Your subscriptions and likes greatly help with the coffee costs when I create videos. 

Today's summary: Their claims of being single and choosing not to have children are ultimately a call for attention.

"이제와서 딩크 후회한다ㅋ"

"이제와서 딩크 후회한다ㅋ"