40대 여성에 대한 남성의 실제 반응

### 결혼 시장에서 40대 여성의 현실
* 😟 남성은 일반적으로 **40대 여성과의 관계에서 나이 차이로 인해 불편함**을 느끼는 경향이 있기 때문에 솔직하게 말하기 어렵다고 생각합니다.
* 👵 결혼 시장은 특히 **40대 여성에게 열악**하며, 많은 여성이 파트너를 찾는 데 어려움을 겪고 있습니다.
* 💭 **40대 여성은 결혼에 대해 비현실적인 기대**를 하는 경우가 많아 여러 가지 오해가 생깁니다.
* 👶 흔히 오해하는 것 중 하나는 **30대 연하남과 결혼할 수 있다**는 것인데, 이는 오해와 환상에 근거한 경우가 많습니다.
* 👩 여성은 나이가 들수록 현실과 점점 멀어지는 경향이 있어 **기대치를 타협하고 조정하기가 어렵습니다.**
* 💰 40대 여성은 결혼 시장에서 **'페널티'를 지불해야 하는 존재**로 여겨져 적합한 파트너를 찾는 데 어려움을 겪기도 합니다.
* 🎂 30대 여성과 40대 여성 사이의 매력 격차는 종종 눈에 띄며, **후자는 같은 수준의 신선함과 매력을 유지하기 위해 고군분투**하고 있습니다.
* ⏳ 결혼 시장에서 40대 여성이 직면하는 어려움을 고려할 때, 결혼을 조금이라도 생각하고 있다면 **40세가 되기 전에 파트너를 찾기 위한 적극적인 조치**를 취하는 것이 좋습니다.

20대 남성은 신체적, 연령적 차이로 인해 40대 여성과의 관계에 거부감을 표합니다.

Oh, a child appeared. I think the child can be raised well. In my 20s, when I talk about a woman in her 40s, what did she say? She honestly told me. There was a middle-aged lady passing by here, so that's why I purposely asked the producers. What I asked was, this reaction is the true reaction of men, and I think 40-year-old women should wake up a bit by seeing this true reaction of men. When the producers see women now, there are women in their 20s and 30s, various age groups, but among women in their 40s, there are some who are around 40, 41, or 43 years old. And there is a building in Gangnam that was inherited, worth over 200 billion won, right? The monthly rent is around 2 million won. But that woman says, I won't work, feed me and I'll live. But her appearance is just like her age, she doesn't take care of herself, and even if she does, she's not that pretty. Then, if they ask you to get married, do you think you'll get married?

No, our youngest is in his twenties, not that. Well, he's in his twenties, so that can happen. Our thirties don't do that, right? They do it, but with conditions. What are they? Owning two phones. Why do you have two phones? It's a chance to meet other people. If you're married and get caught cheating, that's it. Really? Are you serious? Oh my, you're serious. Oh, scary. But there are men who think like this. Right? Our PD in his mid-thirties seems like he could do it. Even though he's in his mid-thirties, it's still manageable. The age gap isn't that big, about ten years. But still, I think I'll pass. Why? Even though he likes money so much, he's already married. If he wasn't, I probably wouldn't pass, like 99%. Yeah, because he has money, he goes. But if he doesn't have money, what's the point? It's a waste of time. But she's pretty.

In Thousand and One Nights, what is a top-tier celebrity in their 40s? No, not to that extent, just around the mid-30s, let's pass on that. The reaction is very different from when talking about around 20 billion won earlier. Nowadays, many women in their 40s come, with money. If they are wealthy women in their 40s, men should at least think like this. However, most ordinary women come. It means that women in their 40s, just in terms of age, come. But there is a reason why these women cannot get married. Do you know what that reason is? It's because of misunderstandings. There are about three misunderstandings. Let's talk about that. The first one is the misconception that they can meet younger men in their 30s. They really have that misconception. They say, My friend is dating someone ten years younger. She earns a bit over 100 million won annually and owns an apartment in Gyeonggi Province.

I meet Yeonhwa, a seven-year-old, and she says she is meeting her boyfriend. So, where do you meet? Sometimes you meet for a drink, sometimes through blind dates, and sometimes you meet through clubs, but it's hard to get married. Even knowing that, I don't like men in their 40s. I prefer men in their late 30s because they are more comfortable. There are quite a few women who quietly ask for comfort. But now, we have men in their mid-30s, early 30s, and late 30s here, even up to their 20s. But how do you think? Even if you have 20 billion won, you consider it. But earlier, you said you saved 1.5 billion won, so what was that? This is reality. Women, why do you have this misconception? Why do we see so many celebrities on TV these days? Well-groomed young men get married a lot. If you look, among unmarried women these days.

Who are some very beautiful people? Like Song Ji-ho, Song Hye-kyo, Kim Sarang, how about them? They are almost in a league of their own, right? They are not ordinary people. How much money do you think it costs just to manage them? It's not something that an average person can afford. It's because they have good genes from birth, so the synergy of putting in money for management works even better. But women come with these fantasies, right? As they get older, they should be more realistic, but strangely, as they age, many women tend to drift further away from reality. So, this is denial of reality, right? Not everything is like that. Those who were in denial of reality in their 30s, but suddenly come to their senses and compromise with reality, are probably in their early 40s. But for those who can't do that, they just keep going like this, and then suddenly decide to get married and look for a partner. These days, there are quite a few women who come looking for me at that point.

It's not just about the second marriage that only people in their 40s think about, right? It's about getting married forever, saying goodbye. But every time I bring this up in counseling, it's useless. That's the biggest problem. So, the reason I intentionally asked the producers is, what men's real reactions are. Oh, in their 20s, because I talked about a woman in her 40s, what did they say? Honestly tell me. I feel like it would be difficult to be honest in a relationship with a woman like an old lady or an auntie. This kind of reaction is the real reaction. Just now, while the CEO was filming, I imagined a bit. If a woman in her mid-40s holds hands and walks, people might see me as a host. Even if it's a well-maintained woman, it might seem strange, right? It might be a bit less, but that's how it is. But that's my dream, you can't help the ages that come with aging. That's why I

Women in their 40s watching this should wake up a little by seeing the genuine reactions of these men. If you are already awake, you don't have to refer to this. This is only for women who are still mistaken. Representative, then who was the oldest woman in her 40s that you've seen? A woman, a woman, at 49 years old. When I told her to consider remarriage, she asked how she could consider it when she is in her prime. So, I had an experience where she just said goodbye and didn't join. Because even men in their 50s don't look at 49-year-old women. Then who do they look at? Men in their early 50s are matched with men in their late 30s. That's how it works. Because if there are women in their late 30s who are turning 50 and have money, they will be seen. But men in their early 50s looking at a 49-year-old woman in our direction...

Even if you can't help it, you should be in your early 40s at the most. Even if we match, the oldest among the 40s is in the early 40s. How old should a woman be married to? 40, but she had a lot, her appearance was good, and she looked at the age difference of six or seven years, so she decided to marry an older person and get married, but it wasn't her first marriage. She married a man who didn't have children. I will consider both first marriage and remarriage, and I don't mind remarriage. As long as there are no children, it's okay because even if you say you can't have a child due to your age, it's amazing that you gave birth to a child. So this is fate. Secondly, it's a misconception that all remarried men will choose themselves. Even if you're a little dusty, you know, you may be 41, 42, 43, or 44, but I'm the first, so I will definitely look at the first man. Remarriage is.

Once you've been there and back, how can you introduce me to a remarried person? So, when women who are a bit unrealistic and uncompromising say, Please introduce me to a guy like Unni, then you should also consider the remarried ones. Some people say they don't want to talk about it, that it's crazy. But realistically, if you're over 40, you have to consider remarried individuals for introductions. That's the age for it. But even if you explain that, it doesn't work. I can't do remarried. And remarried individuals may choose me unconditionally, but I'll wash up. I've seen women say things like, Of course, Jaehoon will choose me. It's obvious. A man who is remarried, like Jaehoon, could have better financial means and looks than a man in his first marriage. There are quite a few men like that these days. Even among women looking for a first marriage partner, there are those who say, I'm fine with remarried men as long as they don't have kids.

Such a mindset considers remarriage as a penalty, one's age is a penalty. Men, to be honest, if they have a certain amount of money and are not very old, they get remarried. Women in their mid-40s, 45 years old, have a remarriage age. Who came up with the penalty in the marriage market? It seems similar. A woman in her mid-40s has few people to be introduced to because there aren't many men over 50. When they reach a certain age, they have more remarriages. As I mentioned earlier, they want to see someone in their 30s. They need to have a child, but if a woman is in her mid-40s, men think they really can't have a child. What about a 35-year-old woman? People say there are many, but if you make an effort, things can improve. But what if the woman is 45? It's about giving up on having a child. That's the difference. Oh, a child was born. Yes, a child can be born.

I wonder if that's possible, but it could be different depending on the physique, so the possibility might be higher. It's true, right? It's all worrying. So, men need to have a lot of money. It's hard, so even women need to spend and help, right? It costs a lot of money. In order to do that, should women have a lot of money instead? This is the third point. People think I look like I'm in my early thirties, but as I turn forty-one, when I see the unmarried women coming in, they look slim and well-maintained these days. But as I always say, the freshness of the thirties can't be surpassed by the forties, you know? Why dress someone in a school uniform in their forties? It doesn't make them look like they're 17. But now, I say this. Oh, I was recently carded at Gangnam Station. A man in his early thirties followed me and asked, Aren't you 31? So, I just

When someone talks about it, if that person really says so, I can understand, but in my eyes, even if I look for a long time, I think I can see about five or six until seven, but it's hard to see even one. But that's just a misconception that they look like they're in their early thirties. In your thirties, you long for your twenties' freshness, and in your forties, you can't beat the thirties' freshness. Which age gap is bigger? It seems that the forties can't catch up with the thirties. But suddenly, you turn 50, and then, a woman in her fifties really looks like she's in her fifties. And we also have parties and such, so women from their early twenties to thirties come. When I look at them, even though they are the same women, the truth is, the faces of women in their thirties are prettier. But the freshness and brightness of the twenties cannot be followed by women in their twenties. Men know that better.

No, when I see the mediators I appear with, there are young friends who are 22 years old, and sometimes women in their mid-30s appear. But even if the face is pretty in their 30s, the vibe is different. After filming, when you see the report, the PDs clearly say that the 20s are different. What they are saying is that the age of a woman is really noticeable. Today, Yeon is making a lot of comments. I felt like my taste changed a bit. In my case, I felt that my taste completely changed after giving birth. That was in my late 30s. So, at that time, if you really look, the skin is sagging a lot, completely different. For those who have not given birth or married, women over 35, then aging comes rapidly. Each year makes a difference in feeling. So, even if you see a beautiful woman at 36, the freshness of being in her early 30s is completely different.

I can't keep up. Yes, when women pass the age of about 35, their freshness seems to diminish a bit. These days, there are many women in their late 30s to 40s, and if women at this age have even a slight thought of marriage, I recommend that they move quickly, even if it's just three months. I actively recommend finding a man. It's a fact that women in their 40s are not very popular in the marriage market. Therefore, as a woman of the same age, I recommend that you come before you turn forty and prepare for marriage.

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여성들의 결혼과 나이에 대한 오해

40대 중년 여성이 자신을 돌보지 않고 유산에 의존한다는 이유로 비난을 받습니다.

일부 남성들 사이에서는 40대 여성은 남성이 부유해야만 결혼에 관심이 있다는 믿음이 있습니다.

40대 여성은 30대 남성과 쉽게 데이트할 수 있다고 생각하여 파트너를 찾는 데 어려움을 겪는다는 오해를 받기도 합니다.

결혼과 나이에 대한 오해와 진실

많은 여성들이 결혼과 나이에 대한 오해를 가지고 있으며, 특히 나이가 들수록 비현실적인 환상을 추구하는 경우가 많습니다.

사회적으로 현실을 부정하는 분위기가 존재하며, 일부 여성은 나이가 들수록 현실과 타협하지 못하고 점점 더 멀어집니다.

연상의 여성과의 관계에 대한 남성의 실제 반응은 종종 사회적 인식과 나이에 대한 고정관념의 영향을 받습니다.

40대 여성을 위한 데이트와 재혼

50대 남성은 종종 30대 후반의 여성과 관계를 맺으려 하기 때문에 40대 여성은 소외감을 느낍니다.

40대 후반의 한 여성은 자신이 전성기라고 생각하며 재혼을 꺼리는 것으로 나타났습니다.

그러나 모든 재혼 남성이 젊은 파트너를 선택할 것이라는 오해가 있으며, 일부는 40대 여성에게 개방적입니다.

나이와 자녀의 유무는 여성이 재혼을 결정할 때 중요한 요소입니다.

40세 이상 여성은 재혼한 남성을 소개받는 것을 불이익으로 여기고 결혼 시장에서 선택의 폭이 제한된다고 생각하여 꺼리는 경우가 많습니다.

재정적으로 안정적이고 외모가 좋은 남성이 재혼할 가능성이 높다는 인식이 있는 반면, 40대 중반의 여성은 특히 아이를 갖고 싶어 하는 경우 파트너를 찾는 데 어려움을 겪습니다.

재혼에 대한 낙인은 이 연령대의 개인에게 중요한 요소가 되어 데이트와 결혼 전망에 영향을 미칩니다.

여성의 외모와 재정적 압박에 대한 나이의 영향

여성들은 사회적 기대와 돈의 영향력 때문에 젊고 상큼해 보여야 한다는 압박감을 느낍니다.

젊은 외모를 유지하기 위한 노력은 남성과 여성 모두에게 경제적 비용에 대한 의문을 제기합니다.

젊어 보이고 싶은 욕망에도 불구하고 자연스러운 노화 과정은 결국 사람의 외모를 따라잡음니다.

연령이 여성의 인식과 결혼에 미치는 영향

30대 여성은 20대 여성과 다르게 인식되며, 나이가 외모와 분위기에 큰 영향을 미칩니다.

엄마가 되는 시기는 여성의 인생에서 전환점으로 여겨지며 선호도와 취향에 영향을 미칩니다.

30대 후반과 40대 여성은 결혼 시장에서 인기가 떨어지기 때문에 빨리 결혼해야 한다는 사회적 압박이 있습니다.