소셜 실험: 100명에게 데이트 요청하기

### 거절 극복하기: 데이트 도전에 대한 사회적 실험
* 🎥 내레이터는 중요한 동영상 제작에 대한 미루기와 자괴감에 시달리며 종종 **'적절한 타이밍'이 오기를 기다리는 자신의 어려움**을 털어놓습니다.
* 💬 그는 다양한 사람들에게 데이트할 의향이 있는지 물어보며 유머러스한 대화를 나누고, **자신의 감정적 가용성과 거절의 어색함**에 대해 반성합니다.
* 😂 어떤 사람들은 정중하게 거절하는 반면, 어떤 사람들은 관심을 보이는 등 반응이 엇갈리는데, 이는 **사회적 상호작용의 예측할 수 없는 특성**을 강조합니다.
* 🌍 그는 **타이베이의 대중교통, 안전, 활기찬 음식 문화**를 칭찬하며 타이베이에서의 경험을 이야기하고, 도전의 일환으로 사람들에게 **데이트 신청을 계속**하고 있습니다.
* 📊 내레이터는 자존감을 높이기 위해 사람들에게 다가가는 것이 중요하다고 강조하며, **다른 사람들에게 자신의 학교에 참여해 데이트와 사회성 기술에 대한 개인 코칭**을 받으라고 권유합니다.
* ⏳ 수많은 거절에 직면했지만, 그는 **직접적으로 접근하면 관계 형성 없이 즉각적인 거절**로 이어지는 경우가 많다는 점을 인식하고 이를 개인적으로 받아들이지 않는 법을 배웠습니다.
* 💪 100명에게 데이트 신청하기라는 목표를 달성한 그는 이 도전이 예상보다 힘들었지만 궁극적으로 **자신감과 회복력에 대한 소중한 교훈**을 얻게 되었다는 것을 깨달았습니다.
* 🥤 영상은 지쳤지만 성취감을 느낀 내레이터가 더 많은 모험을 기대하며 **시청자들에게 향후 콘텐츠를 위해 커뮤니티에 가입할 것**을 권유하는 것으로 마무리됩니다.

미루는 습관은 중요한 콘텐츠를 만들고 다른 사람들과 소통하는 데 방해가 됩니다.

I've been procrastinating on making this video. I just think to myself, "Ah, it's not the right timing. I don't really feel good. Let me wait till I'm..." You know, this is an important video. Let me wait till I'm feeling really good, and then I'll...

ex... Would you go on a date with me now? I should... So, it's a yes? Uh, yeah, sure. Awesome. Let's do it. I am... uh... slightly in my head right now. Oh my gosh, yo, the reactions are so funny. Next...

Next time. Next time. Okay. Oh no, sorry. Hey, that's... that's sorry. Sorry, I'm not emotionally available right now. I *am* available right now. On the bright side, I am starting to get out of my head a bit. Yeah, honestly, I just view all of this like it's reps, like my

approaches, my interactions. Join the community if you want to learn. And I see... yeah, thank you. All right, I'll see you... Would you date me? Would you go on a date with me? I got a... You all right? You got to go? Ah, man, that's a bit awkward, isn't it? You

can say no. You can say no. No is okay. Okay, that's fine. I was wondering, can I ask you guys a crazy question? Oh hey, is that your boyfriend? No. Depending on where you're going... Hey, what's up, man? My... wng... man in Germany? You're in Germany? Sh... What the hell are you

doing in Germany, boy? Bro, what about you? Would you go on a date with me? I'm like... I'm like... sub... Now you're studying him? Huh. Yeah. So it looks like a chocolate sandwich. Smells like... doesn't really smell like anything. Doesn't really taste like...

Anything going? Give it a solid 6 out of 10. What the hell is this? Would you go on a date with me? No, I'm married. Um, I... I have a dance show right now, right later. Taipei is one of the coolest cities I've ever been to.

Man, the public transportation is amazing. It's safe, it's clean, amazing food, good prices, so many bars, so many things to do, bro. This is one of the coolest cities I've ever been to. I take it... oh, I... would you go on a date with me? She...

can't. No, no girlfriend. What the heck? It depends on how you're approaching. Gives you energy, bro. Approaching is one of the best things you could possibly do for your... for your self-esteem. If you want to learn how to approach and just learn

how to have so much fun doing it and how to get girls, how to get on more dates, join my [ __ ] school, dude. I will teach you personally, one-on-one. It's the craziest offer you'll get: five live calls per week. Now, sure, why

not? Uh, I have a boyfriend. Fair enough. What about you? Stacking up noses right now? A bunch of noses? No, no. All right, fair enough. Fair enough. What about you? I like your hat, by the way. That's a cool hat. Probably... probably all right. I'll take it. Yeah, IG

Yeah, all right. He's money. Done deal. Oh God, okay. I'm hesitating. I'm hesitating. Ah [ __ ] [Music] Man, oh man. You can say no. Maybe I'll take it. Maybe say yes. Maybe I saw that one coming. Wow. Sorry, I just have to walk my

Friend, hey! It's pretty crazy out here. Hi! Hi, how are you? Um, alright. Maybe... maybe I'll take a... maybe, yes. Ah... okay, hold on. Okay. Oh, this your friend? Oh, I'm too handsome. Okay. Do... that's crazy, you don't even

know him, do you? Okay, okay. I thought that was your... your father. I was like, 'Her dad just came out of the building!' Old head did not like me. He said, 'Boy, if you don't get your foreign ass...' Maybe sorry, you can say that. I'm not even enthusiastic about it

anymore. I think it's giving me worse reactions. No, okay, that's fair. What about you? No, okay, that's fair. Hey, thank you for being honest. No, okay, hey, fair enough. What about you? I have a boyfriend. Fair enough, that's the question. All right.

Boys, I'm done for today. I'll check back in tomorrow.  Hell, that was hard! Thank you. Bros, I'm so tired. It's... it's a shame that I'm eating like convenience store food in the city where there's like the best food in the world.

I have to ask 60 more girls for a date. Let's see if we can get a date; let's see if we can actually go on a date in this video. I think that would be cool. I am a YouTuber. Yeah, really? Yeah, I know. Years...

Okay, well you have an interesting story, because you're from... you're from Taiwan, but you lived in Switzerland for like 3 years. And what was the biggest thing, like the main difference you've noticed from like Taiwan to Switzerland? Taiwanese people are too shy, so...

Approach them, they would be like, "Yo, okay, you got a problem with me? Don't talk to me, don't introduce yourself to me 'cause I'm interested." Okay, are you ready for the crazy question? Yeah. What is... you can say no too, this is just a social experiment.

Would you go on a date with me? Oh wow! We can chat before we go on a date. We chat, we get to know each other first. Yeah, okay. Boys, that was one of the very rare occurrences where a girl approached me because I had a camera.

It almost never happens, but when it does, it's almost like a guaranteed win. All right, I'm going to get you one of these... Oops! Boom! All right, all right, shut down. But I know... I think you should be a YouTuber. I feel

like you're natural at this. You know what? You probably are a YouTuber. Really happy with this. Look at this! That's crazy! In America, this would be like $30, $40 easy. I'm going to use the bathroom really quick. I'll be all right.

Dirty hands. It's all good. Chopsticks, probably a good idea.  Bashi, bashi, bashi...run? Is that how you say Portuguese?  No, no, no.  Portu... how do you say Portuguese?  She... shean? Yeah, yeah. One... one Spanish? Yeah, I speak Spanish. Portuguese...

Peng... blue ones, please. Blue ones, all of it. My Spanish and Portuguese... I understand enough to have a small conversation, but I... I'm moving to South America, so I'm going to learn. Yeah. Okay, okay. Don't... All right, this is my first meal in...

Like two days, I've been eating just eggs, just nothing. It's because I always forget to eat, and then it's like 2:00 a.m. when I'm hungry, and I'm like, all right, well, 7-Eleven...

eggs. Yeah, so what are you...? All right, I'm back at it. I'm back at it, boys. Coffee at 10:00 p.m. is always a mistake. It's always a mistake. All right, round... uh, round three. Would you go on a date with me?

You can say no. I have a new wingman here. What's your name, bro? Andy. Andy, he is... he's the man. Have fun. Da... you... me... Dave. I'm fumbling my interactions just to ask that stupid question. Oh, is that your friend, Jacob? He looks like a... he looks like

half... like half... like me. You say no, it's okay. Heart's broken. Heart is broken. Say no. Say no. Go ahead. Go ahead. I'm with her. Hey, sounds good. I don't want to do... of you. It's like five nos back to back. No, no,

no, you're not mean. You're nice. You're actually very sweet. You're very kind, and we had an awesome conversation before I pulled out the camera and ruined it all, but it was worth it for you. Yeah, yeah. Okay, that's fair. Oh, you're so mean! My heart...

so mean? No. Okay, okay. No, that's fine. That's fine. It's cool. Hong Kong people are so, uh, you know, social. Cool. I want to go to Hong Kong. Okay, I'll bring you to look around. Okay. Yeah, awesome. Awesome. That kind of sounds like a date though. Yeah.

Was it you? Yeah, yeah, of course. I have a boyfriend. You have a boyfriend? Okay. Oh, you'd love that, don't you? You honestly? Sure. Yeah, I have a boyfriend, unfortunately. There we go. Where are we going, though? We're going to a rooftop bar. Oh, seriously? No, that

sounds cool. We're going to a rooftop bar. YouTube? Okay, perfect. Like, what are we doing? Coffee? It's okay, they can all say no. I'm going to take that as a big no. When? Tomorrow? Coffee tomorrow? No coffee. I can't. I'm not... I can't wake up tomorrow.

No. What about you? No? Okay, but we are from Taipei. We've got to get it. I'm just doing this challenge for the sake of finishing. Yeah, why not? F it! Hey, let's go! Let's go! Let's go! You can say no. No pressure. She said no. Okay, both

okay. You? That, of course, it's yes. Yeah. Okay, maybe. No. That was a good... Okay, fair enough. There we go. So you're going to judge me? You're going to give me a score from one out of 10? Ladies, I have a quick question, and it's

very easy. Yes. Can I ask you? Yes. Okay. Would you go on a date with me? Yes, you would? Um, maybe? Maybe. Okay, well that's solid. That's solid. What I said? No. You know what? I feel like you're going to say yeah. What? Would you go on a date

with me? Maybe? Maybe. Okay, maybe. Wow. Okay, three maybes. How'd I do? One out of 10? One out of 10? I actually didn't really pay attention. Well, it was a 10! Have fun. Okay, as you can see, I pushed it hard. I'm done.

For today, now I'm just enjoying the night. Got a little drink here; my man is eating right now, and uh, yeah, dude, this place is crazy! It's almost 3:00 a.m., and it's still packed like...

The 7-Eleven is still going crazy! There's a hell of a lot of people out. Morning, bros, or should I say afternoon, 'cause it's 2 p.m. Going out is crazy, bro. So alright guys, headed to a coffee shop. Rainy day. No, no, okay, that's okay.

No, but you know what? I tried. Y'all have a great day. It's an interesting video challenge. You know what it actually has taught me, though? It's taught me to not really care about like rejection. It's kind of like a rejection challenge, in that if you directly ask a girl without

building any rapport, nine times out of ten they're going to say no. What's up, bros? Just getting some work done. A lot of my work is through Telegram, where I talk to all the Approach Mastery students. Alright, bros, 23 more to go.

"Would you go on a date with me?" "Uh, not right now." "Are you working?" "I don't have time, sorry." "Uh, yeah, no, I would not." "No, no, no comment." Okay, I'll take it. And then what about you? No. Okay. Alright, well, I'm I'm exiting this interview. I'll see

you. Thank you. Oh, really? I'm C... oh, changed your mind, huh? She was actually really cute, though. I might have to talk to her when I go back around. You know what? I feel like I've thrown away more opportunities than gained opportunities while doing this.

Challenge cuz a lot of the time you'll actually be able to get the girl, but you just throw it away by asking and being super direct in the beginning. No, no. And we did it, boys! 100! 100! Oh my God! That was harder

than I thought. I really thought that was going to be easy. All right, I'm off to an actual date here. I'll see you boys. You can speak French? Yeah, speak to me in French. I want to hear... tell me what you uh... what you did

today. Okay. And Mommy Naomi... my friends, it's raining. Yeah, ah, it is raining. All righty, y'all. Hope you guys enjoyed all the adventures this weekend. I'm ending it off with bubble tea at Family Mart, the convenience store of Asia. Very, very, very

tired. I made a new friend. Is it on? What's up? Okay, wait, let me cut her out. All right, thanks for watching and tuning in to my challenge this weekend. And it's been really crazy to do and uh... way more videos to come. I'm really tired by the

way. Got a flight to catch. It's good. It's not the best one I've had while here, but it's... it's a job done. Good. Join the community, guys, and I will see you in the next one. Peace.

I asked 100 Girls for a date in Taiwan

Nicoletti 

이 유튜버는 몸이 좋지 않고 적절한 타이밍이 필요해 영상 제작을 미뤘다고 인정합니다.

그는 사람들에게 데이트를 요청하며 일련의 상호 작용을 시작합니다.

그는 자신의 접근 방식을 연습 또는 '반복'이라고 생각하며 반성합니다.

그는 계속해서 사람들에게 '아니오'라는 대답도 괜찮다는 점을 강조하며 데이트에 대해 묻습니다.

그는 독일을 비롯한 다양한 사람들과 교류하며 다양한 반응을 얻습니다.

그는 초콜릿 샌드위치를 평가하고 계속해서 날짜를 물어봅니다.

그는 타이베이에서의 긍정적인 경험을 공유하며 타이베이의 매력을 강조합니다.

그는 자존감을 위해 사람들에게 다가가는 것의 중요성에 대해 이야기합니다.

그는 자신의 접근 방식 학교와 그 이점을 홍보합니다.

그는 계속해서 날짜를 물어보며 긍정적인 반응과 부정적인 반응이 섞여 있습니다.

그는 친구와 상호작용하며 더 다양한 반응을 접하게 됩니다.

그는 아버지가 반대하는 여성과 교류합니다.

그는 점점 줄어드는 열정과 정직하지 못한 답변에 대해 반성합니다.

피곤함을 표현하고 음식 선택에 대해 반성하며 첫날을 마무리합니다.

그는 60명의 여자에게 데이트 신청을 더 하겠다는 목표를 세웁니다.

대만과 스위스에서의 경험에 대해 인터뷰합니다.

그는 데이트를 요청하는 소셜 실험을 진행합니다.

둘째 날: 지속적인 상호 작용과 성찰

카메라 때문에 한 소녀가 그에게 다가오는 드문 일이 발생했습니다.

그는 음식 가격에 대해 언급하고 화장실을 이용합니다.

그는 스페인어와 포르투갈어를 언급하며 언어 능력에 대해 이야기합니다.

그는 달걀만 먹은 후 식사를 합니다.

그는 심야 커피를 언급하며 데이트 요청을 계속합니다.

그는 계속해서 새로운 윙맨과 데이트를 신청합니다.

그는 여러 번의 거절을 경험하며 그 경험을 되돌아봅니다.

그는 여러 번 거절당했지만 긍정적인 태도를 유지했습니다.

그는 홍콩의 사회적 역학 관계에 대해 이야기하고 데이트 계획을 세웁니다.

그는 계속해서 루프톱 바에 대한 날짜와 계획을 묻습니다.

그는 계속해서 날짜를 물어보며 다양한 반응을 경험합니다.

그는 이 경험을 되돌아보며 챌린지를 마무리합니다.

그는 데이트를 요청하고 다양한 응답을 받습니다.

그는 데이트 요청의 결과를 반영합니다.

그는 하루를 마무리하고 밤을 즐깁니다.

그는 늦은 밤과 다음 날을 반성합니다.

그는 자신의 경험과 교훈에 대해 이야기합니다.

그는 도전의 거부 측면에 대해 이야기합니다.

그는 자신의 작업과 남은 날짜 요청에 대해 업데이트합니다.

그는 계속해서 날짜를 물어보고 다양한 답변을 받습니다.

그는 직접적인 접근 방식 때문에 놓친 기회에 대해 반성합니다.

그는 도전을 완료하고 데이트를 시작합니다.

친구와 프랑스어로 대화하며 자신의 경험을 공유합니다.

그는 자신의 피곤함과 경험을 공유하며 영상을 마무리합니다.

시청자에게 감사를 표하고 커뮤니티를 홍보합니다.

그는 비행기와 버블티를 언급하며 영상을 마무리합니다.