hey guys, another 5 a.m. video this morning. Today I want to talk about how most people don't want to see you succeed, alright? And it's kind of a weird concept that we typically think of the positiveness, what we're trying to do, right? We're trying to make changes, we're trying to better ourselves, we're trying to take ourselves from one point and move ourselves to another area where we want to be, to create the life that we want, right? Those are all wonderful things, those are all super positive things, but most people around you do not want you to succeed, alright? And there's two camps on that. First off, there's the people out there that just don't want to see anybody succeed. They're afraid that if they admit that you're succeeding, they admit that you're making changes, then somehow it reflects poorly upon them because they're not making the changes they want to make, right? So, it's not so much that we're putting all those expectations on

others when we're changing the expectations on ourselves, right? So, most people out there don't want to see other people get ahead, improve. They don't want to see other people do the things they wish they could do, right? And we expect that, we know that, but I'll tell you what's kind of weird is the people that are in your camp, that are in your circle, that are the ones that are your supporters. At first, they don't want you to change either, and I'll tell you why. It's because it's change, right? And change is never easy for people, right? They love you, right? But at the same time, your changing is gonna affect them. All of a sudden, you know, if you're the one at home that handles a whole bunch of different things, and all of a sudden, they're not being handled because you're taking some time for yourself to work on yourself, and you're going out to work out two or three times a week, spending that hour on yourself, but you're not as home. You know, you're not home.

as much you're not as readily available. Maybe you're the one who takes care of the laundry, and all of a sudden, now what laundry doesn't get done at the same time, so they're inconvenienced, right? So, change is hard for people, whether they're on your side or not. And what you have to do is you have to be ready to fight that. You have to be ready to brace yourself against that because it's not going to be easy. There's gonna be some friction. There's gonna be some pushback. Now, the cool part is if the people that are around you that are affected by your changing your habits, right, if they just wait long enough, you're strong. If you get further through it and you start becoming more paw, if you start becoming more productive, you have more energy, become happier, well, then all of a sudden, those people that were disturbed by your changes, right, they were disturbed by the fact that things aren't getting done the same way, right, all of a sudden, they're gonna realize the overall benefit of you being

happier of you, being tougher of you, having more energy of you, being more successful because now it starts to really positively impact them as well, right? So just remember that. All right, most people don't want you to change, and it's for good reasons, and it's for bad reasons, and it's normal, and you have to push against that. So it's just another pressure. We have one of my changes is that we disrupt what we've currently been doing, and we have to let everybody around us get used to it, including ourselves. All right, guys, but don't let that stop you. Keep moving forward. You're doing great, and I'll talk to you guys later.

5 am video - People don’t want you to succeed

5 am video - People don’t want you to succeed

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