Understanding Anger: Situations, People, and Divine Will

Anger stems from misunderstanding life's challenges, ultimately leading to frustration with oneself and divine circumstances.

### Understanding Anger: The Source and Self-Reflection
* 🚗 When faced with an unexpected flat tire on the freeway, the anger felt is not directed at the tire itself but rather at the **frustrating situation** one finds themselves in.
* 👤 In contrast, when someone causes harm, such as breaking a window, the **anger can be directed towards that individual**, making it clear **who is responsible for the distress**.
* 🔍 There are two paths to understanding anger: one where there is **no clear target for the anger**, leading to **frustration with the situation**, and another where the anger is directed at a **specific person who caused harm**.
* 💭 However, upon deeper reflection, all forms of anger can be traced back to oneself, as one recognizes that circumstances, like the **flat tire or the broken window**, are part of a **larger plan**.
* ⚖ It is essential to understand that even the events that upset us, such as a **flat tire or a broken window**, may be orchestrated by a **higher power or our own decisions**.
* 🙏 This realization can lead to a profound understanding that **anger may, in fact, be directed towards Hashem**, who governs our lives and the challenges we face.
* 💡 By developing a **deeper faith and understanding of our circumstances**, we can learn to **manage our anger and respond with greater awareness and acceptance**.
* 🌟 Ultimately, the journey involves examining our lives and recognizing that the events we encounter are part of a **divine plan**, encouraging us to **cultivate patience and trust**.

Good morning everyone, we're continuing here in Mish, speaking about the idea of anger, and we spoke about yesterday the idea of when the flat tire takes place on the freeway and now you're on the side of the road and you find yourself getting

angry. Who are you getting angry at? You're not getting angry at the tire; the tire didn't do anything. You're getting angry with the situation that you find yourself in. That's number one. The second type of anger that a person

has when something happens to you through the hands of another person, for example, Ru breaks the window of Shim's house and so now Shim is upset. In this category, now you have naturally have someone to direct your anger at, that's against the person who has

done this crime to you. Shik, he's the damager. So the guy damaged, he broke my window, I see him standing there with his baseball bat in his hand and now my window is smashed. I'm upset. Who am I upset with? I'm upset with the person who

broke my window. Now we see from here there's two different paths to the attribute of KAS of anger. Number one, a, that it's not clear who you're getting angry with. There's no way to get angry at. So I'm getting angry at the tire. Well

that's ridiculous. You don't get angry at the tire. I'm getting angry at the nail that was on the ground that my tire ran over. Well, that's ridiculous. I don't get angry with the nail. So am I getting angry at... so I'm angry with the situation.

that I find myself in, not at a particular person or a particular thing, but the situation I'm in. And B, secondly, there's anger that I can have towards another person. He's the one that has caused me to get angry. He took, took his bat, he

came to my house, he smashed my window, so I'm angry at the person himself who has done this action against me, which is now causing me to get angry. Now, however, the truth is in the real inner essence of these things and this matter, the truth is all types of anger

that a person broods with inside of them, they're really equal in their nature. Let us explain this. When a person understands a moon, he understands belief in, in his mind very well. He knows what a moon is all about, that there's a, he recognizes it clearly in his heart,

then he'll be intellectually sharp. He'll understand in a deep way, in all the different ways of [Music] anger, the one that actually did this deed or this action which brought me to anger, it is none other than self who is the one that put the nail on

the road and my car's tire ran over it. That was designed and orchestrated by who?  Is the one that decided or allowed that this man with the baseball bat is going to come and smash the window in my house for whatever reason, I deserve it, or I need it, or is a

challenge I have to go through? It is none other than the self. And therefore, when I get into this world of understanding why I'm getting angry and who I'm really getting angry with, this, we'll have to speak about much more in depth. I'm getting

Angry at Hashem, is it possible that a person is going to be enraged with Him for the things that are going on in my life? Maybe I need to stop, maybe I need to think, maybe I need to examine my ways and examine my life and use my

understandings of Him to try to realize why He's putting me through this right now. But to get angry with Hashem, that's going to be a big problem as we see in the world of, in the world of, if the, the is perfect, is all

powerful, doesn't make mistakes, that means I was supposed to get the flat tire, my window was supposed to get broken by the baseball bat, I was supposed to lose the job, I was supposed to go single for so many years, I'm supposed to be struggling getting a

or having children or having health issues, I'm supposed to be... Why am I getting angry? He is the one that is governing and running the world, and therefore it's all AEM. We shall see how we're going to conquer the meat of Anger of Hashem by

developing and working on and solidifying our Muna in our hearts. Have a wonderful day.

Who Are You Really Getting Angry With?

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Anger directed at situations, not the cause (e.g., anger at a flat tire, not the tire itself).

Anger directed at a person who caused harm (e.g., anger at someone who broke a window).

In the second type, the target of anger is clear: the person who committed the act.

Examples illustrating anger directed at the situation versus the person responsible.

Discussion on the absurdity of directing anger at inanimate objects.

All anger stems from the self, regardless of the apparent target.

Understanding the self's role in creating the situations that cause anger.

The self orchestrates the events that lead to anger, whether it's a flat tire or a broken window.

The self's role in allowing or causing negative events to happen.

Questioning the appropriateness of anger towards a divine entity.

The concept of acceptance when facing challenges orchestrated by a higher power.

Examples of life events that might trigger anger but are potentially part of a larger plan.

The importance of faith and understanding in overcoming anger towards a higher power.