The Illusion of Masculine Authority in Dating Culture

He believes many self-proclaimed dating authorities online are fake and lack real experience with women.

### The Reality Behind Influencer Lifestyles: A Deep Dive into Masculinity and Authenticity
* 🤔 The conversation begins with a comparison between the lifestyles of the speaker and Dan Bilzerian, noting that while Bilzerian has a **larger public presence**, the speaker feels a **deeper connection** with his own life.
* 💬 The speaker expresses a nuanced view of Bilzerian, recognizing the debate over his authenticity and wealth, and appreciates the message of **living unapologetically** that Bilzerian represents, stating, "**I like that being broadcast to the world because I actually think it's a healthy message for a lot of young men to hear.**"
* 🏆 He contrasts his approach to relationships with Bilzerian's, explaining that he has historically **seduced women in a more traditional manner**, leading to **mutual financial benefits**, unlike Bilzerian's model of providing **allowances for companionship**.
* 📈 With a follower count of around 300,000, the speaker acknowledges his slower growth on social media compared to Bilzerian but emphasizes that his life is **fulfilling regardless of public perception**.
* 📸 When it comes to sharing his life on Instagram, he prioritizes his **personal happiness** and avoids posting content that could lead to complications with women in his life, stating that he is more concerned about **"how much trouble is this going to cause me."**
* 👀 The speaker critiques the many self-proclaimed authorities on dating, asserting that "**ninety percent**" of them are fake, as they lack **real experiences or evidence** of their claims.
* 🎣 He uses the analogy of fishermen to illustrate that while many talk about their successes, few can **show proof**, emphasizing the importance of **authenticity** in a world filled with pretenders.
* 🔍 The discussion concludes with a call for **transparency in the dating advice space**, highlighting the **dangers of anonymous accounts** and the need for **genuine experiences** to guide men in their pursuits.

Is your life, um, similar in a sense to a guy like Dan Bilzerian? I mean, he's a very, like, he's far more public, and he's got a bigger reach with the Instagram thing, and he made that happen a number of years ago. But, I mean, you're a guy that I can reach out to, like I've got you on WhatsApp, but you know, I can reach out to you and say, Hey, you know, what are you up to? sort of thing. But I feel like your life is like his, but I don't even know if it's at another level. Like, I feel like you guys live better, you know, to some regard, because the way that you have no apologies to anything in a different sort of way. There's a debate with Dan Bilzerian. There's a debate whether he was legit, whether he's not, whether it's dad's money, whether he's... Do you think he's rich himself? I hoped he was for a very long time, but finding out that when all these stories came out, you know, that he's a big fake.

but you know people have written [ __ ] about me too, so I did my research. And when it all came out, it was fake. It kind of upset me because I feel like I like people like him existing to give that message to, you know, what I live how I want, I [ __ ] who I want, I'm not going to get tied down, I'm not going to get divorce rate, I just put my dick in whichever model I like, and everyone could leave me alone, and I don't apologize. I like that being broadcast to the world because I actually think it's a healthy message for a lot of young men to hear, and it's something that a lot of young men need to know as possible. So, it's not like me finding out Santa wasn't real because I don't [ __ ] idolize him. I don't idolize anybody. I'm a self-made man. I live in my own world, but at my level and my

brother's level. You have to understand I've met women and [__] women who have been to his house, who have been to his parties. So, I know his setup. His setup is he contacts the model agencies, they all sign NDAs. They shouldn't, she shouldn't have spoke to me. I'm not gonna name drop her. They all sign NDAs, uh, they get an allowance, they get their flights paid for. You can't rely on a woman signing an NDA to keep your mouth shut. Exactly, exactly, clearly, obviously not. They get an allowance, a weekly expenditure. Now, he doesn't actually pay them for sex, but they're flown in, they're paid for their, uh, you know, they're giving money to hang out with him. And he does [__] some of them. Now, that's very different from my setup. Typically, my setup was for many, many years. I would approach women and meet them and seduce them in the old-fashioned way, and within a few months, they were earning money for me to make me richer, either on webcam or a

platform like OnlyFans or something like that. So, I see myself on a higher level because I distinguish the difference between being a customer and being a provider of the service, you know. I'm the guy who gets money because he has women, not the guy who spends his money to get women near him. But I liked the message he was spreading out there. Is my life similar to his? I don't know. He is the king of Instagram. Good for him. I mean, he's a big, big boy on Instagram. I'm about 300 and something thousand followers. Each time I get new cars, etc., it jumps by 10, 15,000. I will climb up there eventually, but that's not why I'm doing it. I don't post as often as I should. I don't take my Instagram as seriously as I could. A lot of the fun things I do aren't on my Instagram. If I took it more seriously, I think I could be bigger. But my life is certainly amazing. I haven't

listened. How do you distinguish what part of your life gets to be shown on Instagram versus what you reserve to be kept private? Well, it's all down to, I don't care about my Instagram audience. For me, it's how much trouble is this going to cause me. So, in the last episode with other women or with the authorities or no, but in general, but usually with other women, with people. I mean, there's the last episode of Take Confidential Mind of My Brother's kind of YouTube vlog where we just sometimes whip out our phones when we're doing [__] and we edit the footage together. I was on a camping trip. We rented these big tents in the Transylvanian mountains, kind of glamping more than camping, but I was with three different women. Now, all the women who know me know who these three are, and after that episode was released, it was all, Oh, why didn't I get invited? Why didn't you bring me on it? Because you don't like her, and she

doesn't like her, and it's chess, and it's politics, and it gets me in trouble. So, that's what I think about before I post things on social media. I don't care about my audience and what they'd like to see. I think, is this going to get me in trouble? Is this going to cause me unnecessary headache and unnecessary grief? You know, I want to keep my life happy. So, I'm happy having all the pictures of the women, all the pictures of me partnering with girls in my phone, and I don't need to show anybody. I just don't like it. It's not why I do it. Do you think that there's a chunk of the guys out there that purport to hold out to the public that they're authorities on women in dating that are full of crap? That are, I think, ah, this is a slippery slope I'm going to go down, but I think, man, slide down. Yeah, man, there are, you know, let's go down the road. There are people who I think can teach certain things to

different calibers of men, but in terms of just having it nailed in terms of what I refer to as living in god mode. Like, I can't have as much sex per day as the number of really beautiful women who want to have sex with me. I don't have that many hours because I'm busy driving supercars and doing other [__]. This is why I describe my life as god mode. It's unlimited resources, essentially. And I think it's very easy to [__] on the internet because so many men are in a horrible position right now. So many men are living lives where they're failing with women, they're failing on the sexual battlefield, they're failing in the sexual marketplace. They have no clue that it's very easy to be a pretender. I mean, I'm a martial artist. I come from a kickboxing background, and there are some gyms, especially in the United States, they're referred to as mcdojos when someone doesn't know how to fight, doesn't know karate, doesn't know

kickboxing doesn't know taekwondo, but he's teaching other people how to fight. And you know, because it's very cool to have men look up to you, be like, Yeah, this guy's a badass. They don't want to put in the years of hard training. They don't want to do the actual work. They just want people to admire them as some sort of authority on something that's badass. And open people's ass and having sex with a bunch of beautiful women is a badass thing to do. And on Twitter, it's very, very easy. I mean, don't even get me started on anonymous accounts, Rivolino. Like, what are you doing, Matt? Yeah, wrote the mask slips occasionally. He wants bragged about having sex with seven different women in five days, in five years. The mask slipped off, and you saw for a second underneath. Seven in five years. I've literally done seven in 48-hour periods of time. And for him to be an authority that people listen to, it just goes to show.

this the state of men as a whole is lost. It's terrible for these people to be authorities. They're all fake. Ninety percent, ninety percent, ninety percent. The guys who claim to sleep with beautiful women in bed, beautiful women, ninety percent. Now, there are people like Rolo Tomasi who, and Rolo talks about me sometimes, but you know, let me tell you something. I have friends who would be like, I was married and I read his book and his book saved my life. I haven't read Rolo's, but I've read one actually on audiobook. But I don't need the work of Rolo Tomassi. But when people who I respect say, Yeah, his work saved my life, I mean, I'm like, You know what, cool, that Rolo guy obviously knows something. But Rolo doesn't run around saying, I [__] all the [__]. This is why I don't, I don't have anything really bad to say about him. But loads of guys claim that they do [__].

all the [ __ ] and no one shows receipts. No one is like, Here are all the women I'm sleeping with. I mean, you just pulled up one of my tweets. I used to run that anonymous account where every day I was tweeting the women I slept with. Yeah, that was a very small following there too, and I was privileged enough to see all of that. I've still got that on. Yeah, I've still got that. I run an Instagram account now that has no followers and it's private, but each time I sleep with a new woman starting at this year, I just upload a picture of her for myself because it makes me happy to see it. And when you're playing at my level, ninety percent of the guys out there claiming to date women, sleep with women, meet women, pull women, they're all fake. No one's showing their cards, no one's showing their their uh. Me and my brother had the analogy, we're saying we're fishermen and we all talked about fishing all day long. Me and Andrew are the guys on Instagram.

with our huge catches weighing them, saying, This is my fish, this is my fish. Everyone just talks about fishing all day. Where's everyone's [ __ ] fish? Where are the pictures? Where's the evidence? You know, it's mind-blowing that these guys still can have such a large audience showing zero receipts, zero. Yeah, even one anon accounts are dangerous, the worst, often quite deceptive. I mean, why are they hiding? You know, why can't we see, you know, what's going on? You see it in all kinds of different genres out there. It's not just in spaces like this too, right? I mean, you see it everywhere. I mean, you know, you know the answer already. You know the answer. Why can't we see them? Because what they are saying they do and what they claim to have doesn't exist. A limitable man is, uh, tell your son, This is world-renowned for his. I've been blocked by a lot of those guys. Yeah, I've been talking about lions, guys, because I called them out on their

[ __ ] yeah, not as much as you guys. I mean, you guys destroyed that guy with like one week of material, I think, right? Yeah, yeah, the Jordy guy. No, tell your son this guy, that guy. Yeah, because he was chasing one of the girls that was in your cam studio or something. Was it, was that majority guy? No, well, that's, that's, it's both of them. So, and you know, there's a few names, there's, ah man, I'm not gonna do it, I'm not gonna do it. But very recently, a couple months ago, one of these, I'm a playboy, I'm this, I'm that, who doesn't tell anyone his real identity with the exact same email address he uses on his, uh, with the exact same email address he uses on his, his mailing list, etc. Had signed up to an Oni fans account, was tipping one of my girls money. So, you know who you are, my friend. This beer, this beer is on you, I guess. Thank you very much. But, uh, you need to get off the

internet telling men that you know how to get laid because I've read your messages and they're really [ __ ] sad. They're really sad, rich. You know what? You know what? Do I say his name? Do I just tell you? You know what? Just, just, uh, send it over to me on the WhatsApp. You know, I will, I will, I will do it because now I gotta know. Let's give a woman, give me like, give me, give it three things. Ask your next, next question. I'll track it down, you.

Tristan Tate: "I Live Better Than Dan BIlzerian"

Rich Cooper Clips

Comparing Lifestyles: Dan Bilzerian and Myself

The speaker feels a similarity between their life and Dan Bilzerian's, despite the latter's larger public reach.

They appreciate Bilzerian's unapologetic lifestyle and believe it sends a healthy message to young men.

The speaker has insider knowledge of Bilzerian's setup with model agencies and NDAs, contrasting it with their own approach to meeting and seducing women.

Balancing Public and Private Life on Social Media

The speaker distinguishes himself as a provider of services, contrasting with those who spend money to attract women.

He has a growing Instagram following and acknowledges that he could be bigger if he took it more seriously.

The speaker prioritizes his personal life and avoids posting content that could cause trouble or drama, focusing instead on keeping his life happy and private.

Living in "God Mode": A Perspective on Masculinity

The speaker describes their life as "god mode" due to unlimited resources and the attention of beautiful women, contrasting it with the struggles many men face in the sexual marketplace.

They criticize those who pretend to be authorities on masculinity and success with women, highlighting the prevalence of fake personas and anonymous accounts.

The speaker acknowledges the work of Rolo Tomassi, appreciating the positive impact he has had on some men's lives, but emphasizes the importance of genuine experience and hard work in achieving success.

Many men claim to date or sleep with multiple women but rarely show evidence or "receipts" to back up their claims.

The speaker, who has run anonymous accounts and now has a private Instagram, emphasizes the importance of showing proof and questions why others hide their actions.

The speaker believes that the majority of men making these claims are fake and that the lack of transparency is prevalent in various genres, not just in dating.

Drama in the Cam Studio: A Playboy's Double Life

A guy, known for his playboy persona, was recently exposed for tipping one of the cam studio's girls on OnlyFans while using the same email address for his mailing list.

The speaker expresses frustration with this person's online advice to men about dating, calling his messages sad.

The speaker hints at revealing the person's identity and offers to track him down.