The Importance of Immersion in Studying and Overcoming Loneliness

Studying alone may lead to loneliness, but immersing oneself in it resolves the feeling and turns it into positive energy.

### Solving Loneliness Through Immersion and Positive Energy
* 📖 The speaker wrote a book that they were initially embarrassed about but now find **well-written and timeless**, containing **profound content** that they recommend **reading and contemplating**.
* 💬 The speaker shared a passage from the book about loneliness, emphasizing that **loneliness arises from not being fully immersed**, and it is a **constant struggle to immerse oneself**, especially when studying.
* 📚 The speaker recommended **studying and reflecting on each part of the book**, as well as **applying the insights in daily life**.
* 👥 Loneliness is not solely about being alone, as even when surrounded by others, one can still feel lonely if the **fundamental loneliness is not resolved**.
* 😔 Loneliness is often considered a bad thing, leading to **dichotomous thinking and self-blame**.
* 🎯 The speaker advised transforming the energy of loneliness into **positive energy** and using it as **fuel for one's goals**, emphasizing that it should be done **for oneself, not for others**.

Hello everyone, today is a delightful Tuesday. If I may share something with you, I have a book. If studying doesn't work out, give up. After writing this book, I felt a bit embarrassed. So, I didn't really go to bookstores often to see if my book was there. I checked if my book was there and left after looking at 10 pages. But recently, I kept seeing it. I thought, Wow, I really wrote well. So, it's not embarrassing. Even if I show it off anywhere, this book will remain with me for a lifetime. It's a book that I'm not embarrassed about, no matter who reads it or in which era. I'm confident that it's a book that stands the test of time. So, as I look at it again, I'm reading it carefully.

I would like to explain to you. The books here are like jewels to me. I turned 43 years old. When I was 40, I had to reinterpret and discard the contents given to me by the horse that made me. I felt the conclusion through interpretation, so it's okay. Although it's not a classic, I recommend reading classics to you. Even though it's not a classic, the content is good. Today, I want to share and discuss with you. On page 293, it says, Do not seek from people for lonely reasons. I will read this and explain it to you. Listen once and I will tell you what it means. Even if a student is sitting in a bustling classroom at Harvard University, it feels like the capital of the desert.

Like water, being alone is lonely. However, a monk alone is not lonely. If a monk feels lonely, he cannot do his duties. Then, even if a monk is alone in the isolated environment of the desert, wouldn't he feel lonely? That's because he is fully immersed in that moment. A person who is immersed does not feel lonely even when alone. Studying is something that can only be done alone. You may think you are lonely just because you are alone, but that is a misconception. The reason you feel lonely is that you are not fully immersed. It's not about being alone. Studying can be a battle against loneliness and distraction, ultimately a constant struggle for immersion. The moment you stop immersing yourself, depression creeps in. To not feel lonely when studying alone, you must immerse yourself. Do not seek the reason for loneliness in others. I will read you this part of the book.

Chaeganeun ireohge namassjanayo. Danrag-eul naraeseo dallang mada tto gangjohaneun juge yeoleul dasi jemog-eulo dal-a najanhayo. Ige yo wae ireohge haessseubnikka? Yeolebun-ege jom deo yeolebuni jom deo jal iehago jom deo ganghage wa dasi algo geuleohge malssum deulin geojyo. Geuleohge bubunbun ilg-eusigo bosigo saeng-gag-eul haneun geosdo johayo. Yeolebuni ige jega chaeg-i johdago malssum-eul deulyeossjiman yo chaeg-ui naeyong-i jochogayo. Gunde geugeoleul yeolebun-ui gyeolgug 4 geol an mandeulmyeon igeon geunyang hanbeon ilg-eo ij-eobeolineun geuleon caeg-e bulgwahan geojyo yeotaye geuleon caegdeul-i lang geulaeseo ilg-eo saeng-gag-eul hasyeoya doeyo. Jega jigeum non-eo gang-ui leul hajanayo. Non-eo non-eo ga juneun insaiteuga gwe

Don't just immerse yourself in studying like pouring water into a bucket, it's not about going to KaSi, just try applying it in your daily life. What I'm saying is, instead of looking for reasons for your loneliness in other people, there's a saying, right? Try to observe what that means. Observe things happening around you with that theme in mind. That's how you will truly understand and internalize it. Yes, yes, then in order to do that, utilize it like that. This book, well, today, you are lonely. Why are you lonely? Love yourself. I also feel lonely. Why are you lonely? It's not because you are alone. Why are you lonely? It's because of the loneliness that comes from human nature.

And some people say they feel lonely when studying. When studying, it's not about studying alone, is it? Are you supposed to study together with others? If so, what is the point of studying? But if I feel lonely because I am alone, not just by myself, but because there is no one around, then it becomes distressing. Next time, I should work with someone. If I feel lonely, I can't focus on studying or get immersed. It means I have to be so lonely that it's hard to study. But everyone is not like that. It's not that way. When you study with others, you don't feel lonely. When you study or talk to someone next to you, you may mistakenly think you are not lonely. But I still feel lonely. The reason you feel lonely is not just because you are alone. That's why even if someone talks to me and there is someone next to me, I still feel lonely. Why? Because the fundamental loneliness has not been resolved.

And it solves the fundamental loneliness, right? It shouldn't be called a problem to solve throughout our lives. It's not a problem to solve, so there's nothing to solve. It's about resolving it. We all have various emotions in our lives. We can feel loneliness, happiness, anger, and various emotions because we are emotional beings. Humans have these emotions internally, and the issue lies in how we express them with what kind of energy. You are doing that. Because I feel lonely, I think loneliness is bad. We always think in terms of good and bad. I mentioned good luck and bad luck. So, loneliness is considered bad, and laziness is bad, but being kind is good. Selfishness is bad, and being considerate is good. That's how it goes. It's exactly ten thousand won.

I should become a good person, that's why I cultivated the field of education. Since I was young, I have been receiving such advice. Starting from elementary school, they tell you to be a kind and good person. I didn't even think much about it, that's why. Therefore, being lonely is considered bad. Feeling lonely means I am saying that I am lonely to others, that I have no people around me, that I am a person who is not well-liked. If I am not popular, it means I am a bad person. Due to this twisted binary thinking, I end up creating a very strange version of myself. I conclude that I am lonely because there is no one around me, even though that's not the real reason. Am I making sense? So, if I keep meeting those people, meeting people is about using your energy, as I mentioned. Therefore, I use my energy there.

It's about human relationships. When you meet people because you are lonely, how deep can those human relationships be? Usually, it becomes an exceptional encounter. And what remains after such exceptional encounters? It's even greater loneliness. So, for those who are studying, even if you study, if you don't study with the intention of truly understanding the book, it's just a superficial study. People who study also feel lonely. They feel lonely because they haven't immersed themselves in it. They feel so lonely. When you immerse yourself in something, you become unaware of even the things happening around you. That's because you only see that one thing. So, the reason you feel lonely is because you don't seek it from people.

Please drink, everyone, loneliness can be solved by yourselves a lot, and you can solve it a lot. How should you do that? You should purify the feeling of loneliness into positive energy and radiate it. That's how successful people do it. Those who can't do that fail. The feeling of loneliness you feel is also energy. Don't treat it as garbage, as I mentioned before, don't use trash-like materials. Then what remains? Only garbage remains. But pour that energy, the energy of feeling lonely, positively and find the subject to radiate. It's not about being a person, you must never become a person. It's not about doing it for others, it's solely for you. If you are studying, how should you pour that energy? It becomes the essence of studying.

I feel lonely because I can't concentrate. It's not because of people. So, everyone, please study hard today. Now, let's read each sentence and complete it. Oh, show it to me 100 times together. Oh, the local food has a strong taste. The meat is all gone, it's salty. I ate the bone, it's delicious. How about the taste? It's been a while since I've had such a delicious meal. Yes, I've finished eating. Nice to meet you. I'll eat the rich people's Jjapaguri. Eat a lot, kids, it's really good. It's not difficult to eat. It's moist, try it.

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A Delightful Tuesday and the Book Revelation

The author, at 43, rediscovers and appreciates their book, realizing its timeless quality.

The book's message emphasizes the importance of immersion to combat loneliness while studying, resonating with the author's own experience.

The author encourages the reader to focus on immersion in their studies to avoid loneliness, rather than seeking companionship.

The Importance of Deeply Engaging with the Analects

Reading the Analects in parts allows for better understanding and retention of the profound content.

Simply reading the text without contemplation will result in a lack of impact.

By studying each part and applying it to daily life, one can gain valuable insights on loneliness and human instinct.

The Essence of Studying Alone and Together

Studying alone can lead to feelings of loneliness, which can be painful and affect concentration.

Studying with others may create the illusion of not being lonely, but the fundamental loneliness remains unresolved.

It's important to address and resolve feelings of loneliness as a fundamental human emotion.

The Impact of Loneliness on Personal Growth

Messages about being a good person from a young age have led to a fear of loneliness and a struggle to form deep connections.

The pressure to be popular and constantly surrounded by friends has led to dichotomous thinking and self-blame for feeling lonely.

The text emphasizes that studying without the intention of the book and not seeking connections with others can lead to a profound sense of loneliness.

Converting Loneliness into Positive Energy

Loneliness can be transformed into positive energy, which is crucial for success.

It's important to focus on personal goals and use the energy of loneliness as fuel, rather than wasting it.

Whether it's studying or other activities, channeling loneliness into productivity can lead to a more fulfilling life.