What Women Secretly Want in Men

Women secretly want confident, charming, positive, emotionally present, passionate, accepting, sociable, and assertive men.

### Understanding Women's Secret Desires in Relationships
* 💪 Women want **confident men** who can face any situation or person **without fear**.
* 🔥 Chemistry is crucial, as women value the **spark and connection** in relationships.
* 🌞 Positive men are preferred, as women are attracted to **optimism and encouragement**.
* 🎩 Charming men are desired, but **authenticity is key** to avoid being perceived as insincere.
* 💬 Women want men who can **open up and be vulnerable**, as this deepens **emotional connection**.
* 👀 Attractiveness is important, but extends beyond **physical appearance** to include **grooming and style**.
* 💼 Stability is a key desire, encompassing **financial, emotional, and mental balance**.
* 👂 Emotional presence is crucial, as women want partners who **actively listen and engage**.
* ❤ Passion is valued, with women appreciating gestures that demonstrate **love and care**.
* 🤝 Acceptance is essential, as women want to be loved for **who they are, flaws and all**.
* 🗣 Sociability is desired, as women appreciate men who can **interact comfortably in social settings**.
* 🚀 Assertiveness is attractive, with women valuing men who can **express their needs confidently**.

when I ask you buddy to describe women in one word, I expect you to say mysterious. Yes, women are indeed mysterious, and that is why men have continued to ask the question, What do they want? While this question might seem the hardest, the answer is simple. Do you want to know what women truly want about relationships, friendships, or marriage? Then keep watching as we discuss it in detail in this episode. Women want confident men. At this point, you think that every man out there already knows that confidence is one attribute women always look for. That is only sometimes the case, as I've seen shy men who seem okay with being the way that they are. If you fall under that category, you have to change by all means. Yeah, you're the shy type, and even at that, you have a damn who understands you for who you are, loves you regardless. While she may never admit it, she would love you better if you gain some confidence. Women love it when men can boldly face any situation or any person that comes their way. They love it when

men approach them with voices devoid of fear or intimidation. Or when men handle issues with courage and boldness. So dude, you could find ways to build your confidence, even if you're shy. Facing your fears is one perfect way to start. What makes you lose confidence or fidget when you're around ladies? Is it their eyes or maybe how they talk? Whatever it is, going out of your way and getting accustomed to it is what you need to do before moving forward. I have to point out that women want confident men, not egomaniacs, as there is a thin line between both. So to build your confidence, try not to go overboard. Trust me, once she becomes comfortable with you due to your confidence when you're with her, she will love you more than ever. Women want chemistry. Chemistry is everything to women. They take it so seriously that they won't even want you if you're as handsome as Michael Jordan but you lack chemistry. So dude, try to build that chemistry between you and her. Make moves that keep her hooked. Learn to do things

differently. Occasionally, spice things up once chemistry is lacking in a relationship. That could signal the end of that relationship, so constantly be on your toes to keep things afloat. This reminds me of a counseling session with two married couples I watched on TV. Uh, was that last night? Probably the night before. The counselor started by listening to the man's side. The man started by stating that his wife of 10 years had suddenly become withdrawn. She would hardly give him a goodbye kiss when he went to work or a welcome back kiss when he returned home. He stated that things had gotten so bad that they bought and lived like strangers in their home. When the woman was asked to narrate what she felt like the man was doing wrong, she blurted out in one single sentence, Their marriage lacked any chemistry. To her, the man was no longer as romantic as he used to be, hence her withdrawal. Now, if marriage could face the risk of divorce just because it lacked chemistry, how much more could your relationship with that girl, buddy?

trust me, she'll never walk up to you and ask you to be more romantic or attentive to her needs, or that you converse with her more deeply. I guess I shouldn't say never; it is possible, but it's unlikely, so don't expect it. However, deep down, she does crave these things, so take a clue and build that chemistry. They want positive men; some men can be so pessimistic, expecting the worst to happen in every situation. If you fall under that category, you got to make a u-turn, or she's going to leave you for somebody else. Yeah, you heard me. Women love positive men, and while they may not write this on a placard and post it at the entrance of their apartment, this is something that they do secretly crave in a man, maybe not so secretly sometimes. So, dude, if you want her to be attracted to you and stay hooked simultaneously, do away with that negative energy. Begin to see the good side of every situation and let happiness flow through you. What I mean is this: your girlfriend or spouse

recently lost her job, and after 2 weeks of constantly applying to get a new one, the only thing that seems to keep coming are rejection letters in the mail. A perfect way to be positive here is by constantly encouraging her. You got to tell her everything's going to be okay while being with her constantly, or at least as often as you can, and ensuring that she's not bored. If she's a big fan of chocolates and wine, it might be the best time to get her those. Never discourage her from applying for more jobs or tell her words like you're not the first person to lose a job or there are thousands of unemployed people out there who are better skilled than you because if you do, you're going to be pushing her away. Always stay positive. Women want positive men, and people want positive people, and if you are one, she would secretly want you. They want charming men. If you pick 10 women and ask them one quality that they want every man to have, they'd all answer that he should be charming. Yes.

all women, or to be on the safe side, almost all women, want a charming man. And when I say charming, I mean a man who's a sweet talker, an excellent dresser, a perfect companion, and a good friend. Now, before you go about dropping thousands of nice lines to your crush or your spouse, let me point this out. Being charming is not limited to nice words or a good dress sense. What matters most in being charming is originality and uniqueness. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that since you're a boring person, you should be dull around her. Since you want to be original, no. What I mean is that you shouldn't start overdoing things because you want to be a charming guy. That's a little cliche, but sometimes cliches are true. You got to be yourself. And when you're with her, your conversation should be centered on your dreams and passions, as well as hers, of course, and the things that you care about. This is a way to be charming.

if you get that right, she will automatically draw close to you, because that's a quality that she's secretly craving. They want men who can open up and be vulnerable. You ever been in a relationship with a secretive woman? I'm sure you found the relationship to be draining and frustrating. If you have, well, that's how women also feel when there with a man who doesn't open up about his fears. So, dude, if you fall into this category, then you might need to make a change, as women don't like that. I'm sure you got to be thinking, I dated All My Exes, and they never talked about not liking that I didn't know open up to them about my fears. It's because it's something that all women want, and again, almost all women. You can never really know, but it's something they all want, but find it hard to admit. However, they would choose a guy who readily opens up over one who secretive. If asked to make a choice, opening up about your dreams and fears and showing her your vulnerability.

passes the message that you're comfortable around her. This move would in turn get her feeling comfortable around you. It doesn't end there as showing your vulnerable side to your partner generally creates a deeper connection, placing you both on the same page in your relationship. And trust me, there's nothing women love more than understanding their men more than anyone else does. So do take a break from your Mr. hard man Mantra, show her that you have a vulnerable side beneath your lovely words and soothing smile. Trust me, she's going to like you more for it. They want attractive men. Looks, speaking of what women want but will generally avoid outright admitting, are good looks. Yes, women will always have a thing for attractive men, even when they don't say it. Well, this may sound shallow and unreasonable, the truth is nobody would want to date a person who's unattractive, not even you. So, if you're the type that cares less about his looks, then you need to start seeing things differently. Being attractive is not limited to your looks.

alone it encompasses your dressing your hygiene how you smell to mention a few things. It reminds me of my experience at the mall a couple days back. I ran out of groceries and I needed to restock, so I hit my wardrobe. After several sving of clothes sessions, I decided to wear a red tea, some black Jean trousers, and a nice pair of Nike sneakers. I remembered to use a nice cologne, so I went for the Georgio Armani cologne brand. Well, I stepped out of my apartment exuding confidence as I addressed appropriately. On getting to the mall, I noticed this tall sexy brunette with the shape of a model, maybe not exactly, but you know this is reality here. Anyways, I ignored it because I really wasn't in the mood to get girl digits at the time. I kind of had a thing to do, so it didn't actually take long before she approached me and started the conversation. A little bit of laughter here and there, and she

complimented how much she loved my outfit and confessed. I looked attractive. I'd score myself as a seven out of 10 in the ls Department. However, if I had worn a suit and some Crocs to go with it on that particular day, I don't think she would have approached me. So, dude, before you book surgery to look like pretty boys in Korean dramas because you wanted to find you attractive, know that looks alone are not what she secretly craves. Learn to dress to impress. Your outfit for the day should be dependent on the occasion. Also, remember to wear nice cloth as these are things that she will want you to do. At least on the inside, they want stability. Stability is one thing that women will always Crave in men, even if they don't say so. And when I say stability, I'm not just talking about financial stability. It goes far beyond that. Women want financially stable, emotionally okay, and mentally balanced men. That's what stability means to them. So, dude, if your long-term plan is to hit a million dollars in your cash app while

ignoring your emotional and mental needs, because that's what stability means to you, and you're getting the entire concept wrong. When a man can afford the basics of life and possess a lot of control over his thoughts and emotions, he is deemed stable, and every woman would want to be around him. Nothing beats providing for yourself and a loved one, being emotionally supportive when needed, and knowing how to keep things in check, like anger. Women know these, and they it's the reason they look for it in men. So, dude, if you lack any of these qualities that spell stability, start working on yourself to attain them. Remember, finances are essential in every relationship, and women love it when men are financially stable. But you shouldn't chase money and forget about your emotional and mental needs. Trust me, herby behavior towards you will change positively once you attain stability. They want emotionally present men. Most men find it hard to pay attention when a partner talks, and it's a bit depressing. They prefer browsing the internet, going through different social media channels, rather than being

present emotionally, and if you're one of those guys, you are doing something wrong. She might not say it out loud, but she hates it when you're on your phone when she's trying to tell you about her day. There is nothing that woman would want more than a man who is there with them, present in the real world. Reminds me of a movie I actually also saw a couple of days ago, not the same as the M day, but that doesn't matter. There are about two couples who amassed a lot of money when they least expected it. Jerry was a poor countryside farmer who had difficulty selling his produce during harvest. He was married to Angela, and things, you know, weren't smooth, but they were happy. Well, things began to change for the better when Jerry hit a contract to supply food items to the White House, and with this change came a new reality for Angela. Her husband hardly had time for her. Things got so bad that she had no one to talk to about her day or that nosy neighbor. She wasn't happy, but she

never drew her husband's attention to these new changes, and it did not take long before that marriage crashed. I understand you are so engrossed about making the Forbes list before you hit 40. You're so engrossed with work, and it leaves you so little time to be emotionally present for your partner. While you may think she's okay with this, trust me when I say she's not. Learn to listen to her when she talks or encourage her when she's going through a tough time, no matter how busy your schedule is, as that's what she wants, even when she doesn't say it. They want passionate men. Every woman craves for that feeling of being loved. They love it when a man claiming to love them proves it. But if you want to make her happy, you got to show her your passion for her and how much she means to you. Well, she might not say it, trust me when I say that this is what she wants. No woman likes it when a man plays mind games or acts like he isn't into

her, or God forbid, forgets about her. So, dude, share how you feel, show her how you feel through these little acts of love. Make moves to buy her flowers when you both schedule a date, or get her jewelry on special occasions like her birthday or Valentine's Day. Or if her love language is acts of service, do things that she was going to do later in the day so that she does not have to. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you should wait for her birthday to get her pleasant things. You could just do this on random days when she least expects it. Also, remember to pass on her some genuine compliments, tell her how beautiful or how smart she is. This is going to make her feel just special. And of course, never forget I love you. Doing all these things will prove to her how passionate you are about her. And while she might not admit it, these gestures would mean a lot to her. They want men who are accepting. One thing women want but will never admit is an accepting man. And when

I say accepting, I mean a man who accepts her for just who she is and who loves her regardless unconditionally. As they say, buddy, never try to change her into the woman that you've pictured in your head, just encourage her to be a better person. Women want to be around men who don't judge them for their past mistakes or make them feel less of themselves because of their limitations. You want her to feel comfortable around you, then learn to be accommodating. Just accept her for who she is. Before you get it all twisted, I'm not saying that you shouldn't let her know when she's wrong or acts in a way that wrongs you or is unfair to you. Stand up for yourself, of course. Instead, I want you to correct her without judging her. Being judgmental about her actions implies that she's not good enough and she needs to upgrade herself to be around you. And women don't like that. People don't like that. I've never liked that. And while they might have a hard time saying it out loud, they

would ditch you at the slightest opportunity. They get so please learn to accept and support her despite her flaws and see her love you better. They want sociable men you the type that finds it difficult to maybe talk to other people. Do you feel uncomfortable around your partner's friends? If your answers to the above are affirmative then you got to dig deep find an attitude change within your yourself. Women love it when a man is friendly when he can converse and relate with others outside of a Social Circle even when she doesn't say that she won't be happy when you act socially awkward amongst her friends. If you find being sociable a problem you could solve it by being passionate about yourself and investing in your interests and hobbies. Doing this will make you attractive to her and her Social Circle so yeah put effort into hanging out with her friends and talk to them with your natural charms. Don't try so hard to be loved by them as women know when a man is trying too hard. Rather Be Yourself trust me once she

notices your top-notch social aspect. She's always going to be happy around you. They want assertive men, knowing what you want as a man and going forward is one of the attributes that women want in men, even when they don't admit it. You want her to love you more, then learn to be assertive. Most men find it challenging to ask women to do certain things for them. I get it, every man possesses a certain amount of ego, however, trust me when I say that she wants you to ask. If you want her to make you a nice plate of broccoli, then ask. Only by asking and relating your needs to your partner can you create an atmosphere of love and care in your relationship. However, try not to go overboard. Well, she wants you to be assertive, she doesn't want you to be controlling. Know what you want and go for it, but don't sound like she's your slave while you're at it. Understanding what women want without her saying it, I mean, it goes without saying, and it's a

hard game but if you try and study them better you will find this puzzle a little bit easier to solve. All that a woman wants from you, even when she doesn't admit it, has been outlined in this video. So you would do well to practice them to become the man of her dreams.

11 Things Women Want But Will NEVER Admit

Masculinity Guidance

Women are attracted to confident men who can boldly face any situation and handle issues with courage and boldness.

They also prioritize chemistry in relationships, valuing it so much that the lack of it can lead to the end of a relationship.

Building and maintaining chemistry is crucial to keeping a woman hooked and interested in a relationship.

The Importance of Being a Positive and Charming Man to Women

Women secretly crave men who are positive, attentive, and romantic, so it's important to build chemistry by fulfilling these needs.

Being a positive presence, especially during tough times, and avoiding negativity is crucial for keeping a woman attracted and engaged.

Women desire charming men who are original, unique, and genuine in their words and actions, focusing on being a good companion and showing a true interest in her and her passions.

The Secret Desires of Women in Relationships

Women are secretly craving men who can open up and be vulnerable in a relationship, as it creates a deeper connection and makes them feel comfortable.

Showing vulnerability to a partner not only makes women feel more understood but also helps to build a stronger bond in the relationship.

In addition to emotional openness, women are attracted to men who take care of their looks and appearance, as physical attractiveness plays a role in dating, even though it may not be openly admitted.

The Importance of Appearance and Stability in Attracting Women

Dressing well is important for attracting women, as it makes a strong first impression and shows stability.

Women seek men who are financially stable, emotionally supportive, and in control of their thoughts and emotions.

Being emotionally present and attentive is crucial for building a positive relationship, as demonstrated in the story of Jerry and Angela.

How to Be a Better Partner: A Guide for Men

Make time for your partner and be emotionally present, even when busy with work, as women crave emotional connection.

Show your passion and love through thoughtful gestures like buying flowers or giving compliments.

Be an accepting partner who supports her unconditionally and doesn't try to change her.

Correct her mistakes without being judgmental, making her feel comfortable and valued in the relationship.

Women appreciate men who are sociable and able to interact with her friends.

Being friendly and natural in social situations can make you more attractive to her and her social circle.

Women also desire assertive men who can communicate their needs and desires, creating an atmosphere of love and care in the relationship.

It's important to understand and study what women want, even if they don't explicitly say it, in order to become the partner they desire.