The Power of Detachment: Attracting What You Desire

Attracting what you desire comes from detachment, not chasing after it.

### The Power of Detachment: Attracting What You Desire by Letting Go
* 🔄 "The more that you are willing to **let something go**, the more it is indeed actually **attracted to you**."
* 🧲 By adopting the mindset of **not being emotionally invested in outcomes**, you become like the negative side of a magnet, **drawing positive experiences and opportunities towards you**.
* 🏃 The natural dynamic of pursuit—where the **hunter chases the hunted**—illustrates that when you **chase after your goals or desires**, they tend to **elude you**.
* 💡 A fundamental aspect of human nature is that when something is **chased, it instinctively runs away**, making it essential to **shift from a mindset of pursuit to one of attraction**.
* 🤑 Wanting more money, for instance, can lead to feelings of **insufficiency**, making it difficult to **appreciate what you already possess**.
* 🌌 Creating a centered and grounded presence allows you to **establish your own gravitational field**, making it easier for your goals and desires to **come to you effortlessly**.
* 🚀 Rather than scattering your energy by chasing after what you want, focus on **becoming the person that naturally attracts those desires into your life**.
* 💪 "Life is much easier when you're in a **flow state**," as this mindset shift can profoundly change how you approach your **goals and relationships**.

yo, what's going on guys? It's me, welcome back to another video. In this one, talking about why you should not give a [ __ ] or stop giving a [ __ ] about literally everything. So, there's a universal law called the law of detachment, and basically, the more that you are willing to let something go, the more that you are willing to detach from something, the more it is indeed actually attracted to you. Now, this can be applied to a lot of different aspects of life, whether it be with your goals, with business, with women especially. This is a big one because basically, it's a fundamental piece of human nature, right? There is the Hunter and there's the hunted, there's the predator and there is prey, and naturally, when something chases after you, you run, run. Now, this could be your goals, it could be the woman that you want. If you are the pursuer, if you are chasing that thing, it is naturally going to run away, even if you want good things for it, right? It's just a natural

instinct when something comes running at you at full speed. You're unsettled. You're not sure what it is, but it feels like it's an emergency, and it feels like something that you evacuate from. It feels like something you should get away from. So, like I said, it doesn't matter how great or how pure your intentions are. Something that is naturally being chased will run just by default. That is the instinct that we are programmed with, and your goals are the same way, right? Don't chase; attract. I've talked about this in other videos where the fastest way to get what you actually want is not to go after that thing because, again, it will run away, but to become the person that attracts that thing naturally. Become a person that money is attracted to. Become a person that women are attracted to, right? So, life is much easier when you're in a flow state, when you're in a centered, grounded, um, very present in the moment, and that is when you start to literally create your own gravity. Like, imagine yourself

as a planet, right? If you're flying around chasing all these goals, you're scattered and you're kind of all over the place. It's very hard for you to be present, to be solid in your presence, and to create that like gravitational field around yourself, right? You need to be set in your goals and your identity and your belief systems in yourself mentally, physically, spiritually. And once you do that, you create your presence, your orbit, and things will naturally start to become attracted to you. So, that is something that's very, very powerful, something that has changed the way I go about thinking about specifically goals, women, a lot of things that in my life. I spent all this time and energy trying to get to this place, trying to chase after this thing, and you always feel like you're like chasing your own tail, like you're running in circles, and like you're never really at that thing. It's because you're not letting it come to you. You're not attracting it to you. It's far more effortless when you do it like that, when things naturally just enter your

field enter your domain. It's much easier to handle them. It's much easier to keep attracting them and keep the things that come your way. And from there, it also puts you in a position of power because the things that are coming to you, into your life, are entering into your world and tearing into your frame. That's super important, especially with women. So yeah, don't be a person that chases after things. Become somebody that attracts them. And again, the biggest component of this is to not give a [__]. Right? So I think it's a Buddhist belief that all suffering comes from desire. When you want something, you inherently are then exposed to the lack of that thing that you want, right? So if you want more money, automatically, as soon as you want to have more, the amount that you have becomes insufficient, becomes not enough, right? So by wanting more than what you have, what you do have, you become ungrateful for and becomes insufficient for you, becomes not enough.

It's hard to be grateful for those things, so when you stop giving a [__], when you release your desire to have more than what you already have, it's basically what is necessary for you to align with the energy that you need to have in order for you to do the things I was talking about earlier, like attracting things into your world, right? Because if you give a [__], if you have desire, if you're chasing after the thing, it runs, and it's going to be pushed farther away from you. Like, think about it like this: magnets have polarities. Some sides are attracted, and when you flip it, they're repelled, right? If you try to push two sides of the magnets together, then it's the same. They push each other away. That is what happens when you give a [__]. Think about it. It's like the positive versus the negative side of the magnet, right? The positive side is you giving a [__], and you're trying to attract positive things.

so they just keep pushing each other away, right? If you flip that and you are the negative side of the magnet, which is pulling things in by not giving a [__], by not having desire, by not being emotionally invested in the outcomes or the things that you do not have because it will make you feel empty. Once you release all of that, you become the negative side of the magnet. You can now attract things to you, and that will completely change the dynamic of a lot of things within your life. So, I hope you guys found that helpful. If you made it to the end of the video, you're a real one. I appreciate you guys. Make sure you like, comment, subscribe. We got more content coming soon. Stop giving a [__]. Stay strong, stay blessed, stay dangerous, and I'll catch you guys in the next one. All right, love you, peace.

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Bengt Jobe

Instinctively, we are unsettled when something comes at us quickly, leading us to want to escape.

This same instinct applies to our goals; chasing them often drives them away.

Instead, by becoming the person who naturally attracts what we want, whether it's money or relationships, we can create our own gravity and achieve a flow state in life.

Being scattered in chasing goals makes it difficult to be present and create a strong personal presence.

Establishing clear goals, identity, and belief systems mentally, physically, and spiritually helps create a gravitational field that attracts desired outcomes.

Effortlessly attracting what you want in life is more effective than constantly chasing after it.

Attracting opportunities and desires is more effective than chasing after them, as it puts you in a position of power.

The desire for more can lead to ungratefulness and a sense of lack, making it difficult to appreciate what you have.

Releasing desire and not caring too much can align your energy to attract positive things into your life, similar to the polarities of magnets.

Detaching from desires and outcomes can shift your energy, making you the "negative side of the magnet" and attracting things to you.

This principle, known as the law of detachment, suggests that letting go of something can actually draw it closer.

The dynamic of chasing after goals or people often leads to them running away, highlighting the importance of not being overly invested.