Welcome to the awakening. You should never put anyone between you and yourself. Now, the reason why I refer to it that way is because everyone here has something they keep reflecting on that is like the greater version of them, or what they want to achieve. I'll just say it like...

that. Don't put it into a god concept, but what you eventually want to do with your life.  I want to play piano, and I want to do this, and I want to be like this, and I want this, and I want that. So, you have this idea of what

you want to really be, and that's who you're really talking to. You're talking—that's giving you the good advice. You're talking to this idea of what you really want to be. But unfortunately, if you're not necessarily there yet, and you're not accepting that you're

there yet, and there's a distance between you and that space, if anything comes in between that, it just short-circuits your potential of being able to reach it. So just listen to what I'm saying here: you can be totally enamored by another being,

completely in quote-unquote what you call love, but you can never be in love with that person more than you're in love with yourself. And I know this is a big blow—it's a big blow to many people—because we're also living in a paradox.

So that can even be taken out of context by certain people. Well, I thought we were supposed to love each other, brotherly love, love everybody first, brother, then yourself. Okay, no. You can never love anybody else if you don't love yourself. What you call love...

is actually a part of the eidolonic program that you created, and you haven't come into love yet. Love is when you're finally into your true being, and when your true being says, 'I want to do this,' that's what you do. You don't give

yourself a bunch of thoughts about, 'Oh, well, but...'  Then you allow your being to completely fly. You see what it means; so that again is like when you get your wings.

Sevan Bomar - Why You Come First Before Anyone Else

Sevan Bomar Clips

The Importance of Self-Love in Achieving Goals

Avoid placing anything between yourself and your aspirations.

Reflect on your ideal self and future goals.

Distance between your current self and ideal self hinders progress.

Love for others shouldn't surpass self-love.

Addressing the Paradox of Love and Self-Love

The concept of loving others before oneself is challenged.

Love for others is viewed as part of a self-created program, not true love.

True love emerges from self-acceptance and following one's true being.

Allowing your true self to flourish is likened to gaining wings.