Understanding Female Psychology in Dating Dynamics

Understanding the female animus is crucial for improving dating success and personal growth.

### Understanding Dating Dynamics: The Role of Animus and Self-Improvement
* 🧠 The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding a woman's **animus**, which is shaped by her **experiences with male figures** in her life, as a key to **successful dating**.
* 🎯 He argues against the idea of winging it on dates and instead suggests that men should consider **how they fit into the archetype that women desire**, which involves **meeting certain expectations**.
* 👤 The speaker highlights that both men and women have their own versions of this archetype, with men often visualizing **idealized female forms** to motivate themselves.
* 📊 He stresses that individuals must work on their psychological state and relationship with their animus to improve dating outcomes, stating, "**fixing your psychological state with your anima is huge**."
* 💪 The speaker warns that **laziness and procrastination** can hinder personal growth, suggesting that **failing to act can lead to increased difficulty later in life**.
* 📚 He encourages **continuous learning and self-improvement**, particularly through reading and absorbing knowledge from various sources, including **audiobooks**.
* 💡 The discussion also touches on the necessity of **individuation and finding one’s identity outside of familial ties**, which is crucial for **personal development**.
* 🗣 Finally, the speaker insists that **genuine confidence cannot be gained through superficial methods** and emphasizes the **transformative power of engaging with the world and taking action**.

All right. I've never gotten a good review on my course. I've never gotten a bad review. I've gotten Stellar reviews, and these reviews are like, You've changed the way I think about not just dating but everything. Because when you sit with a girl on a date, it's really hard to be in the zone, especially if you're a Chad. Even because you're not thinking of it as a sports game, or if you're a nerd, you're not thinking of it as a video game. That's why I make it an imperative. You don't do the Andre Tate thing where you [ __ ] wing it, try to look like a badass, 'cause you will be tested. You need to think through her lens. If you're checking the boxes of the archetype she wants, the one she wants, she wants to submit to something her animus approves of. Her animus will be every single experience with the males on Earth: father, brother, boyfriend, fiancé, whatever the [ __ ] she has, this Angelic being over her.

that tells her this [ __ ] broke. He's not rich like me, and she goes, Yes, Divine father. Yes, yes. And men have this too. They have like, How many of you like men? I heard that men, when they work out, they think of like a hot chick, and they work out harder. Some [ __ ] like that. Well, who the [ __ ] are they thinking of? It's not an abstract form. It's like a [ __ ]. Well, I mean, it is, but it's a perfect form of everything feminine, right? So now check this out. If you're checking the boxes of that little Angelic thought that keeps [ __ ] on you in her head when you're talking, she's [ __ ] on you. If you're checking the boxes of her Divine father, let's say it's not actually Divine, but you know like she's ruled by this. That's all you have to do. That's all you got to do is check some of these [ __ ] boxes. You've never seen

a clip of Zurka talking to a woman where he's not talking about status Network and looks. I'm telling you this. I'll tell you this. You interrupting me is ruining your [ __ ] [ __ ] life because when I give advice, I am so anti-cringe. I'm afraid of giving cringe advice like all the other [ __ ] scammers that I'm giving you gold, and I'm telling you this. When I turn this [ __ ] off, I'm not going to be live for a while. I disappear sometimes. I got [ __ ] to do, so you're going to be missing out. You need to absorb what I said about the female's animus. You need to understand this. Even if you don't believe in Jungian Psychology, whatever, you need to understand she is [ __ ] on you in her head during the date because you're not adhering to the concept of a perfect male. Not that you need to be perfect, but you need to check

boxes. Animon, animist are the yin and yang, right? The little dot in yours, like everyone, for example, why men drool over Brad Pitt. He's got status, network, looks, so this Divine mother, right? It's not your real M, it's not Freudian. [__] [__] It's Your Divine mother. I'm using the word divine as in like it's real to you, but it's not actually divine, right? This thought form, this Angelic being in your head, this is what literally keeps you in a state of I need to improve my life or she will leave me. If you have a bad relationship with this Angelic being, she's going to say things to you like you're not, you're worthless, you're this. And that's what an insol is. An insol has an extremely dark shadow filled with Thea, which is Ana, is all female experiences they've had bundled up into one. Then you have someone like me as a Chad where I had the bad Ena with all the bad experiences.

and then I got all the women that a YouTuber could get, and I still [__] hate [__], but I never have a bad relationship with my ANA to where she tells me something wrong. So, for example, she'll tell me something like, Hey, you disregard women more than any influencer that's ever lived because you're, you know, you're real about it. Don't change, and they'll always chase you, John. Have I changed? No, I actually got worse over time. But I'm telling you right now, that voice in your head is what holds you from approaching women and stuff because you have a bad relationship with this Angelic thought that follows you around since [__] puberty, even before that. But we're talking about when it starts to really bite from the fruit, and fixing your psychological state with your anema is huge. It's so much bigger than my dating course, right? And it's not something that's like completely fixed. You tinker

tinker away at it, and I hate talking about this. Like, for years, why I didn't talk about it is, is I'm not going to lie, dude. The way I see chat is cattle. Even my chat, I've never in my life, like, for example, have you ever seen, like, an Aiden Ross or one of these streams? They bring Chatters on, and you start looking at them like they're not even human, you know? I've never in my life put Chatters, or I've never seen an influencer. I think of the influencer as a subhuman piece of [__] idiot, like, he just doesn't know what he's doing in life. But when the influencer puts on the Chatters, it reminds me why I followed the influencer in the first place. Because the CH, the average IQ will never understand this thing, they'll never understand it. And to me, man, you could have all the dating advice in the world, you're never going to do what I do, you're never going to be on a [__].

some guy's live stream with a bunch of [ __ ] and have them giggling like [ __ ] hyenas. You're never going to do even a percentage of what I do because I swear to God when I talk to women, I'm talking TOA. I swear to God you can even see my eyes when I talk to women in a room where everyone thinks like I'm half talking to chat but I'm half having a conversation with. Have you ever even heard me have a conversation with a woman that's not about Disney making her feel young or my status Network or looks? I don't think I've ever had a conversation with a woman where I'm not intercepting her mind with status Network looks, status Network looks, you know what I mean? And you got to ask yourself like how many times I love heel Mike to death but how many times has he had a conversation with a woman where he wants to promote himself but he first does the small talk and that guy gets a lot of women but you can cut out

the small talk. You can be way more direct. You can go right to the UN better than your face. Like, I'm telling you, if a woman is ever mad that you face-to-face said you're better than her. I mean, what? That's like someone in chat just said just rape and he George Floyd's fentanyl. That's his name, George Floyd's fentanyl. I know for a fact that dude is a huge incel, bro. That is crazy that instead of the good advice, you want to talk about this. Like, I can't. All I'm thinking about is rape now. I'm off the train. I'm off this. I'm off it. [__] it. You don't want it, don't take it, bro. I'm raping that generous [__] mom. Wow. Someone said most women have the same animus. Well, think about it. Most women. Oh my God, it's Brad Pitt. Where did that idea come from? So yeah, it's a collective. It's shared. Yes, same with men. So Zer, I'm 19. I know

what to do to make money, kind of, but why the [ __ ] am I so lazy? Listen, laziness comes from the idea that you're eventually going to do it, and you're eventually going to get there. However, when you do eventually attempt to do it, you're going to be a weaker version of yourself with baggage, almost like debt. So, if you don't do something for months or years, that thing you're trying to do becomes 10 times harder, and you don't have the life experience to know it's going to get harder. So, around 25, you start panicking and reading books and [ __ ] because you go, Holy [ __ ], it took me 25 years to get that [ __ ] done. So, you got to go learn the hard way, but that's what life is. That's why I always say you got to, you know, listen to your elders and your parents and stuff like that because experience comes with this truth pill that cannot be bought [ __ ] if

there's this truth pill in life where you think of like Sports and Fitness, how hard it is if you off it for a while. Now think of that for your thoughts. The cool thing about growing up and death anxiety and all that, that interplay, the collective unconscious that bleeds through into your conscious mind, right? The cool thing is a lot of people who never read and failed classes in high school, their brain shifts later in life when they're 25, and they love to read it. They want to compensate for that if they have a healthy psyche, where they actually want to improve. That's the cool thing, which I had no idea. Didn't happen to any of my high school buddies. They're all [ __ ] retards. I love you guys, but [ __ ] retards, bro. I can spin circles around them when you put me on a podcast. I sound like a [ __ ] genius compared to the average guy, and that's like what, a couple years of reading? But I'll tell you this, I read [ __ ] libraries of

books in a year that [ __ ] can be done. You just stop listening to music and switch to audiobooks and [ __ ] you're done. That's all you need. And I even passively do audiobooks where I'm not listening, right? I never went back to music unless I'm driving around town, and even then. But I'm telling you this: if you do not make that shift from [ __ ] Chad jock, whatever, to, you know, businessman, oh my God, is the world going to R you. The world is going to rap you. The guy challenging me to a debate, you don't even have followers. If you were good, you'd op on a few podcasts that have 100 views and make them 10 million views because you're so smart. But I'm telling you this, bro: the average IQ is chat. The you guys are animal-level IQ compared to me, animal. And even if you had years of reading books, because you don't have the interest, you don't have no passion for

it there's no Fuego. You're not even gonna learn anything. You guys are so [ __ ]. I'm telling you, but I'll tell you this: you read a couple of business books, and you sit on your ass making 95 bands a month. I haven't gone live in like 20 days, and I'm the only guy who doesn't scam. Everyone else is on one of those telegram scam cycles, and [ __ ]. I don't even [ __ ] scam. I real [ __ ] donated $5. The greatest [ __ ] ever is reading dating on joining the local rosac crucian group in my city. What do you think, stupid? Don't do that. No [ __ ] anymore. Donate what the [ __ ] yo. We got to B. My girl's farting in the past, and I've told them I have a problem with it. How would you go about it? Beat her up? Attack her? What the [ __ ] are live up to the N word, bro? You're

supposed to be an outlaw all right we [ __ ] we beat up women I'm kidding we're not doing that joke anymore actually I want to say one thing about um beating up women Min she donated $530 man [ __ ] check y DM's [ __ ] I'm the lp11 born on the 30th be your greatest hire of 2024 I'll reat the I do with Jesus our God plus I'm the only one who can do Christian rapping uh okay dude is I got 2K views on a YouTube video I don't care about out dude when I say you guys got to be famous I'm not talking about being a famous [ __ ] everyone who's famous is a [ __ ] [ __ ] I I've never even looked up to who the [ __ ] did I never but check this out when I say you guys got to be famous I'm saying you guys got to get

paid sleeping, and that's the only way is Fame like that. It's the only way is if people are going to your online shop when you're asleep. That's the only way, okay? Other ways are not worth it, in my opinion. I mean, there's Facebook moms who sell ginger in a jar, and they make millions of dollars. You can't do it. You all right. What was I saying? I lost the train of thought, but I'm not really here for a self-help stream. I think I have so much free content online for you guys to change your life if you just... The problem is you're going to get distracted by the trolling content. St. webcam donated to. It's too addictive. How do you get rid of homesickness? I moved out of my parents' house a couple of weeks ago and already missed my family a lot. Oh, you should... I do. How do you not miss Adventure? You're starting your process of individuation.

of fighting your dragon. That dragon you fight is for the next 70 years. You better get cozy fighting it, my [__]. Like, you can't be with Mommy and Daddy. All right, another thing. If you're around your parents like that too much, they get anxiety. They grow old faster. They want to see a millionaire son. They want to see a millionaire son who goes like, Do you want your parents, bro? My parents used to worry about me the youngest the most, and now they don't give a [__]. They actually cannot believe the life I've built for myself 'cause, uh, I mean, they're confused. They're like, Does everyone at your follower account make this kind of money? I'm like, [__] no. They got nothing to teach, but they're convinced. They're like, Yeah, no, everyone does. Like, No, they don't, bro. And let's go. I'm making a Bill Clinton's boner. I don't really want to talk to TTS, bro. I don't have you remote viewed Sean Ryan interview with

someone in Project Stargate was nutty, you know. faap, stay strong boys. no, I have not. no, all right. I only do what's worth it for me, okay? and what's worth it for me is dream analysis, active imagination, and even if it takes a week for me to understand a dream. I've never fully grasped the... you're never going to fully grasp it, but the elements of the dream that you need will change your life. you will not experience resistance, you will not. you'll do your work FAS. you understand what's bleeding through. please keep talking about anime versus animus. also, what books should I read to figure out this life [ __ ] life path number seven. Christ is King. listen dude, there's two numerologists in the game. the books are fake. I mean, it's just me and this Jewish guy I know, and uh, you're never gonna... I mean, there's this one book uh, my buddy gave me, and it just talked about Soul Urge and all this stuff. that's fake uh.

if you want to know numerology, just go to Just YouTube Pythagoras audiobook, anything, and you'll start to get it. I donated $5. Where do you listen to audiobooks? Uh [__] um, it's the Chan Channel called, I think I've listened to every single esoterica channel on audiobooks there is, and man, I went through a lot of the [__], but I always made notes on the self-help stuff and anything that aligned with the business books I read, you know, I'd stick to that stuff. But really, if you look into what developed me the most, the Bible, and then the Bible built a big Shadow for me, right? So when you're going to God, you're going to build a Shadow that kind of resents God. Hold on, double uncore 8core LP donated $8.88. Thanks, Zurka. You once said in a lecture that we should always have someone to look up to, and I look up to you, dead ass, for someone that's early 20 or

teens, how should we start and end? Oh bro, there's so much content of me talking about early life. Like, go to my YouTube channel. The problem is I'm the biggest devil and angel 'cause I have the best life-changing free content, but you get so tempted like you're on PornHub to click on the videos where I'm trolling, and that's the problem. I think 99% of my Chatters are stuck on those videos. They're so funny. I even get stuck laughing. The truth donated $5, like the monkey streams and stuff. Who would you recommend to watch to get women? Well, I don't think Sneel actually, even when he does good with women, I don't think he can explain it well, and that's the biggest danger for me. I'd rather you guys read an Incel who wrote a psychology book over like, Dude, let me be honest. The biggest perpetrator of misinformation about women is Chads. Chads, this is how Chads talk, bro. I'm not talking about Sneaker right now.

right. He's got some good advice, but look at this. A Chad will tell you what worked for them, and the secret to that Chad's success is that anything would work for a Chad. It's, you know what I mean. Say dbx donated $5. I think you're a smart guy, but be honest. You would be way further in business if you would not act emotional like in 2023 with HS. Why did you do that? That was my biggest Ru reputation. That was literally my biggest [ __ ] paycheck ever. I don't even have to [ __ ] do anything this year, and I can go to k. I need a million right now, and I'll bring you. I'll bring you. What did I do with prime rap promotion? All right. I said, My fzy Moment will pay me the most. Donated $5. Zerka, did you see all Bean C destroy Vu Ser president? Yeah, yeah. We're gonna react to some of that stuff in a sec. Uh, but hold on. What was I saying?

um right. If the Chad gives you advice on how he picked up a [ __ ], close your eyes and think how much was that [ __ ] cringing before she let him hit it. That Chad shows you a win, and it's binary, yeah, wins and losses with women. But in my opinion, when I look at a Chad, I go, I could have helped you avoid a thousand losses that you don't platform and talk about, right? That's why the best part of my dating program is I updated, and the best content. If you want to skip right to the meat and potatoes, go look at the videos where I critique my game. It's GNA, help you more than anything. I've never done this before. I did it two weeks ago, and I was like, I've never critiqued myself, 'cause in my head, I never split the doing the jokes for content versus getting the girl. But when I started saying, Okay, let's not joke, let's speedrun this [ __ ], holy [ __ ], is

that [ __ ] useful. It's going to confuse you a bit too, so that's why you'll have a call with me to talk about that stuff. But I'm telling you this: watching Zurka critique his own game, critique it hard like I'm critiquing Sneak or Bradley Martin or someone else, right, bro, that [ __ ] will level you up faster than anything. The kind of DMs I got when I started doing this kind of content, mind-blowing, dude. I had no idea how many of my jokes you guys thought I did it to pick up the woman, but it's actually just for the stream, so I have to kind of like separate the two, right? Yeah, no, listen, guys, you don't gain confidence doing it the normal way. This is going to sound so dangerous to say because there might be insults listening to this, but I'll [ __ ] say it, okay? Oh my God, I like 5,000 on just these little 888 cents, 1 month and 6 days of not

releasing. What do you think are the pros and cons to no fap? Uh, I'm doing a whole stream on that, but uh, what are the pros of fapping? Z, you [__] idiot. Do you play better football if you fap? Do you do anything better if you [__] [__]? Now, check this out. What was I saying that was so C? Anyways, we're going to react to Putin, and uh, you guys want to keep going with a little more of this back and forth? Uh, I was [__] man. This is why I need to get it out. It's not even for you guys. It's like I like to rewatch just the intros of my self-help part of my stream and make it perfect each time, right? For confidence, dude. I swear to God when I said, I don't know if it was on Bradley Martins, whatever, but I said, Oh, whole depression is self-aggression. And when you start not finish, not when you start your

individuation process. It elevates some of the depression off you, and when you're going through it, not when you finish. I swear to God, the cure to depression. I always say God first, but they want the second answer, and the second answer. God wants you to have experience in this world and live your life and sweat by the brow, work hard. I'm telling you, you must be individuated. I promise you, Bradley Martin, Zurka, and Destiny, very different characters, do not deal with depression the way they used to because they are individuated enough to where people on the street know who the [__] they are. They've helped enough people, you know what I mean? And then I'm telling you, there's something that happens when you guys get the [__] out of living with your bros and stuff and go out into the world, and life is going to feel like a movie when you do. Every single day of your life will not have that feeling of another day. You're

going to have that feeling of what's to come, what's going to, what's going to come, what's going to come my way. It's going to be this abundance mindset of blessing. You're [ __ ] twitter.com official me up Pi me up. Do you like white people? Course, sure. Build the wall. Let's go like the video. Hold On. A man is talking. Shut the [ __ ] up. Yo, think about this, okay? Never say the N word. What up, my [ __ ]? No, no, no [ __ ] that John. Stand on your [ __ ]. [Music] [ __ ]

Zherka Explains how to Repair Confidence and Anima

Jon Zherka | Best Moments 

The Impact of Course Reviews on Dating Advice

The course has received stellar reviews, with students praising its transformative impact on their thinking about dating and life.

The approach emphasizes understanding a woman's perspective and checking the boxes of her ideal male archetype.

The instructor stresses the importance of providing consistent, non-cringe advice and highlights the significance of a woman's animus in her thoughts during a date.

The Impact of the Divine Mother and Inner Voices

The concept of the Divine Mother represents a thought form that influences one's desire to improve their life.

A negative relationship with this Angelic being can lead to feelings of worthlessness, while a positive relationship can provide guidance.

The speaker reflects on their own experiences and the importance of fixing the psychological state with the Anima, emphasizing that it's a continuous process.

The Art of Direct Communication and Overcoming Laziness

The speaker emphasizes the importance of direct communication with women, criticizing the use of small talk and status promotion.

They argue that laziness stems from the false belief that tasks will eventually get done, leading to increased difficulty over time.

The speaker highlights the value of life experience and learning from elders to navigate challenges and avoid procrastination.

The Impact of Life Changes on Personal Growth

Life transitions, such as aging and dealing with death anxiety, can lead to a shift in mindset and a desire for self-improvement.

Many people who struggled in school later develop a love for reading and personal growth.

Making a conscious shift from a carefree lifestyle to a more focused, business-oriented mindset can lead to significant success and financial stability.

The speaker discusses the concept of fame as a means to financial success, emphasizing the importance of making money while sleeping.

They share their personal experience of moving out and feeling homesick, highlighting the need for independence and the impact of parental presence on their growth.

The speaker also reflects on their parents' changing perception of their success and the confusion it has caused.

Navigating Life's Challenges and Seeking Guidance

The speaker emphasizes the importance of dream analysis and active imagination for personal growth.

They suggest using Pythagoras' audiobook for understanding numerology and recommend the Bible as a significant source of personal development.

The speaker also acknowledges the temptation of their entertaining content while offering life-changing advice, and they caution against seeking relationship guidance from those who may perpetuate misinformation.

Chads often attribute their success to their inherent charm, making it seem like anything would work for them.

The speaker reflects on their own emotional decisions and the impact on their business, emphasizing the importance of self-critique in personal growth.

They believe that sharing their own struggles and failures can provide valuable lessons and help others avoid similar pitfalls.

No fapping is suggested to improve confidence and elevate depression by promoting individuation.

The speaker believes that stepping out of one's comfort zone and helping others can lead to a fulfilling life.

They emphasize the importance of hard work and experiencing life to overcome depression and achieve an abundance mindset.