There is another misconception that makes it difficult for them to get married. It's the illusion that they are pretty enough. This is evident in blind posts. When I see women in their 30s claiming they are pretty and looking for men, many posts from women in their 30s appear on the bulletin board. Commonly, they assert that they have excellent looks and figure, good educational background, and decent jobs or family backgrounds, and they want to meet men who are similar to them. 

The problem here is that truly beautiful women have already been approached by those around them before they even write a blind post. So, what kind of women are likely to post? 1. Those who do not have an objective view of their appearance. 2. Those with personality flaws. These can be summarized into these two categories. However, even if someone has serious personality flaws, if they are pretty, they usually have a boyfriend. In reality, the women who confidently claim to be pretty on blind posts, after seeing their photos and meeting them, I found that there were no genuinely beautiful women. Ultimately, the conclusion is before watching the first video.

Please subscribe and like. Hello, I'm Bulgwang. It's really painful to admit this, I know, because I’m getting older too. However, there’s a difference between aging and getting old. Not acknowledging that I’m aging and foolishly trying to resist science and nature is a mistake. Here, there is a program related to I Am Solo. Mr. Kim is a really nice person every time he speaks. But the fact that he is still single suggests that he has high standards. A male participant born in 1984 asks another male participant about this. The male participant responds that when he sees a photo of someone introduced by the matchmaker and they are very beautiful, he wonders why such a pretty person is still single and that the introduction came to him. This makes all the participants burst into laughter. Then, the participant says, So what does that mean? and a female participant responds, But that’s too much!

No, why do you have such doubts about Ji before even meeting? It's surprising. But, despite being of this age, there are still such excellent individuals in the southern village who are single; there must be some reason for that. When I say this, the women can't say anything because they know their standards are high. If I don't meet those standards, then even if I make the maximum effort on my part, it's actually difficult for me to get that opportunity. If the probability of success is low, what do I gain in the end? Most men tend to analyze themselves objectively, don't they? Of course, there are times when they don't match their own standards, but through experiences in the military and society, men often learn a lot and find themselves in situations where they have to evaluate themselves objectively. It's about being realistic and sensible. Now, let's say I am a man of level five.

However, is it possible for a woman of third-tier appearance to come before me? It is impossible. This is because women, as a species, originally dream of being in the spotlight. This is the greatest driving force behind humanity's evolution, regardless of the context. If a woman with a certain level of beauty comes before me, especially since men only care about looks, and considering this country starts with 'Dong,' which has the lowest human development index in the world, if a woman of third-tier appearance even finds me attractive, men can only be suspicious. They might wonder if this person has something else appealing besides their looks. Furthermore, if you look here, there are women in their 40s who are single, advocating for a natural plant-based lifestyle. We ask ourselves, Why are we still alone? A 39-year-old named Dogeon, who shouts YOLO, is heading towards an unfortunate fate. In your 30s, if you live by YOLO, this is how you end up in your 40s.

Do you see the thumbnails of the vlogs? These days, such vlogs are really common, aren't they? Why is that? As I mentioned earlier, when a decent woman is in front of me, or if I think a woman is decent, there are times when the speaker is present but doesn't realize their own shortcomings, or they might be under the illusion that they have none, causing them to miss out on men. This leads to a higher likelihood of aging without getting married, right? Statistically speaking, that's the case, isn't it? How? Like this. First of all, these people are under the illusion that they are young, which drives them into despair a lot of the time. But we also need to consider the thoughts of younger women. So, I think, I'm 30, born in '87, and I have no plans to date anyone. If I meet someone born in '90, the earliest I could get married is next year, and the earliest I could have a child is next year too. The age of men is also important, so the comments are somewhat…

If you look closely, you can see that the comments are made by women in their early to mid-thirties. But where in the world is there a country where women in their early to mid-thirties have marriage prospects? It seems like only in that country does this happen. They can't seem to realize that while they are in their early to mid-thirties, men do not share the same perspective. I think this is due to the illusion of youth, and they just keep getting older. Despite feeling like they are aging, they still can't get married. As more and more older people surround them, it becomes easy to fall into this misconception. They think, Aren't I still young? But as I mentioned earlier, men find this perplexing. Just think about it; if you take an hour's ride to the right, you will find people who are already married before turning twenty-nine.

There are so many hardworking women, but in countries like Vietnam and Uzbekistan, they aim to get married in their early twenties. Here, however, in our country, people are getting married in their mid-thirties. This situation leads to a shortage of decent men, as they gradually disappear and the number of people looking for international marriages increases, leaving fewer options for marriage. Consequently, the average age for marriage continues to rise. Good men want to have children, and to do that, they need to marry younger women. 

There is also another misconception that makes it difficult for them to get married: the belief that they are attractive enough. In blind postings, when you see women in their thirties looking for men, they often claim that they are beautiful, have excellent bodies, good educational backgrounds, and stable jobs or families. They seek men who are similar to them.

The problem here is that really beautiful women often don't post on platforms like Blind before they've already been approached by others. So, which women are likely to post? 1. Those who do not have their appearance objectified. 2. Those who have personality issues. We can add these two categories. However, even if someone has significant personality issues, if they are pretty, they usually have a boyfriend. In fact, the women who confidently claim they are beautiful on Blind, after seeing their photos and meeting them, I found that none were truly beautiful. Ultimately, the conclusion is that it’s the first point. When men look for a partner, there’s a concept known as the Mizuno line. Is it age? Is it money? Some people do consider these factors, but that's quite rare. If I'm in my 20s and my partner is also in their 20s, or if I'm in my early 30s and my partner is in their late 20s to early 30s, the criteria we use often comes down to looks. This is something that all men would agree on. No matter how much money someone has, no matter how kind they are, no matter how...

A good job and a wealthy background are not enough; if a man cannot surpass the hurdle of appearance, he doesn't even consider marriage. This means that regardless of personality flaws, lack of money, poor education, or even being unemployed, if a woman is pretty, she will get married. However, when I reach a certain age, who is going to introduce me to a beautiful woman? If you think that's nonsense, you're right. When you go out, you either meet someone who looks different from their pictures, or the matchmaker is under the illusion that they are pretty, which has a 999.9% chance of happening. It's true that only married women who are pretty and kind exist. The likelihood of them coming to us is only 0.1%. This is based on those in their late 20s. Once you pass your 30s, you can consider it zero. And do you know what prevents these people from getting married and just aging? Vanity. They carry luxury goods, travel, and post verification shots online.

The online community is filled with pretentiousness and burdens. Just look at what's in the box; there are at least hundreds, if not thousands, of luxury items inside, right? What do women think when they see this? They say, Wow, I'm envious, or That's amazing. But do you know what men think? They immediately think, I need to avoid people like that. 

Let me give you an example. When a woman shows up at a blind date covered in luxury items, do you know how that feels? It feels like encountering a wild beast, like a tiger or a bear, halfway up a mountain. You think, Please, let me escape. I don’t want any of this, or How can I get away from here? Yet, women are under the illusion that if they present themselves this way, men will treat them well or like them. They are mistaken. This kind of thinking, fueled by vanity, makes them forget who they are.

I don't know if it's just because I'm getting older, but there are still many people willing to help if you're pretty. The car wash proposal I introduced yesterday costs around 30 million won, and the Chanel proposal you see here also estimates about 30 million won. Looking at the price of a 17 million won saunas, men are making decisions. They either choose to remain single or decide on international marriage. So now, dating and marriage are becoming less appealing. What I want to say is that even alpha males are dating and marrying deeply. I've talked about the contagiousness of love before, and this time it's about Lee Dong-wook. Now, it feels like I can't date anymore; it's just too bothersome. When you date, you have to get close first, right? So, how do you even do that? It feels so distant. Plus, I've gotten so comfortable being alone that I want to keep it that way.

Working makes it so that on my days off, I find it very comfortable to just be alone at home. So when Yoo Jae-seok asks me if I want to date, I can see myself answering that I do want to, but it's just too bothersome. You can imagine that I haven't met beautiful women or wealthy women; I've probably met all kinds of women. But I'm just tired of it and don't want to get married. There must be a reason for that. I mentioned earlier various examples, and then producer Na Young-seok asks Lee Seo-jin if he plans to get married. When asked, he says that he really can't date right now, and that's the biggest problem. It's just too bothersome. We used to have a routine of eating, drinking a bit, watching a movie, having coffee, but now I can't do that anymore. So what does that mean? I'm exhausted, and I'd rather live as a single person.

Are they not speaking? Do those people not have money? Is their appearance not good? With the abilities they possess, they can cover their age. Look at Ji-hoon; look at the actor who is aging but still beautiful. Young Japanese women can certainly get married, right? And if a girlfriend has been working at a company for 12 years, and they are a couple, but the boyfriend has 4,000 won, what do you think about that? If you look at the comments on that post, you'll see people saying, What kind of money is that? It's leftover money. It's really absurd. They must have joined the company at least at 30, so even if you calculate it that way, being 32 with 4,000 won is ridiculous. Nowadays, men are not getting married. They think it through, weighing everything before deciding to marry. The minimum criteria that used to be looks now also includes savings, personality, and so on. Why? Because if they don't, they feel they can't be happy; there's a likelihood of unhappiness.

The likelihood of being slaughtered is very high, you see. Look at how picky men have become. It's been 40 years since the matchmaking agency started, and they only take membership fees without making any matches. Why? If your job isn't desirable, they might only give you seven chances, and then they just ignore you. I was foolish to join in the first place; it would have been a thousand times better to join a high-end hobby club. Never be deceived! They say that if women in their 40s join a matchmaking agency, they become easy targets. But why do these people join a matchmaking agency instead of hobby clubs? It's because they want to get married. Even if they attend hobby clubs for a hundred days, they won't be able to marry. They might be treated like queen bees by men and can date, but they can't get married, so they paid money to join the agency. And when they turn 40, it's similar in other ways. Even if they really dislike it, they end up going out because the manager insists. After going out 20 times, they think it’s better to just live alone. It’s true; a person over 40 should realize this.

Isn't it a bit selective? The manager must have matched the men at a similar level, but don’t you think it doesn’t fit with the military? No wonder people can’t get married. To succeed in marriage, one needs to have 1) good looks and be in their 20s, and 2) come from a good family with wealth. Some people have realized this, but it’s already too late. That's right; now men are not as easy to please. The days when just being a woman was enough are over because men now have many options. The so-called marriage scammers talk about the marriageable age, but now there’s no need for marriage. Women who can marry in their mid-20s, plus or minus, are plentiful all over the world. You understand what I want to say, right? It’s time to wake up from the dream. Thank you for watching Red Sun.

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