This man seems to have a different genre, which piques curiosity and makes him want to attract the man's interest. For those who feel unsure about how to approach women because there are none around them, it might have been challenging to smoothly lead the process from flirting to dating. For those who are struggling to grasp how to interact with women, today, I would like to share how popular men treat and handle women.

The first way that popular men handle women is by expressing their emotions honestly. Since women tend to be emotional, they often need to receive compliments. Many people are overly cautious in their conversations, thinking that they shouldn't speak carelessly. Of course, until you get to know the other person, it's essential to maintain a respectful distance. However, in front of me, this...

Because a person is a woman, one should not try to fit oneself into the standards of the other party. This is necessary when it has been confirmed that the other person has some degree of affection for me. From that point on, I also want to present myself well as a man to you, and it can be interpreted as a signal that I am willing to pursue a good relationship with you. Typically, those who have little experience with women tend to become rigid the moment they see a woman they find pretty or their type. They try to act in a somewhat unnatural way, as if following a formula that says, Women like this kind of man. However, at that point, the game is already over. Especially as a woman becomes more beautiful and popular, she can discern these behaviors from a man in just a few seconds. This causes him to take on a submissive role or to fall out of her interest. At this time, popular men are excellent at maintaining a poker face and controlling their emotions. To be precise, they...

Rather than intentionally controlling, it's more about having many direct experiences that accumulate into a kind of dull excitement. This can be seen as an increase in awareness. Therefore, one might not feel the need to consciously recognize being a woman and instead express emotions in a calm and natural manner according to their own reactions. 

At this point, an interesting phenomenon begins to occur. The more popular a woman is, the more she starts to wonder inwardly, Does this guy not see me as a woman? This is because, up until now, most men have treated her in a very feminine manner from the start, giving her the kind of attention befitting someone described as beautiful. However, with popular men, that is not the case. Consequently, from a woman's perspective, the desire for validation kicks in, wanting to confirm that recognition. Of course, at this stage, there can also be situations where both parties feel equal, leading to a standstill where the connection may break.

There may be about seventeen people, but this man thinks it's a bit different, which piques curiosity and makes him want to attract the man's attention. At this point, popular men have probably encountered many women trying to grab their interest in this way, so they are likely to be aware of it. However, instead of being defensive, they use a sophisticated but skilled approach. The woman reads this feeling and expresses her emotions honestly. You look really good in that outfit today. I didn't realize it because you usually just wear pants, but your image is very different. You should wear skirts more often. It's a subtle detail, yet it acknowledges the woman's feelings and compliments her. When saying such things, attitude is important. Instead of just revealing personal feelings, it's more effective to say something like, Wow, you look really pretty. Today is the best day I've seen you in a skirt.

You look pretty in a skirt, and I’m just expressing the facts as I feel them. It seems like the words are indeed a compliment, but it’s ambiguous whether this guy has romantic feelings for me or not. I honestly express my feelings based on the facts, but by moderating my emotions, it raises a question of whether he likes me or not, which makes me think about it. This is precisely the kind of straightforward yet subtle expression that skilled men use to make women take the initiative. 

The second way that popular men handle women is by mastering the balance of push and pull. You should really think about the meanings of push and pull and balance. I’ve said before that skilled men don’t play games; push and pull is like a tug-of-war, a horizontal relationship.

On the one hand, being able to adjust the intensity means that you are already in a position of strength, where you can freely lower or raise the tension as you wish. This indicates a vertical relationship. Instead of being on the same level, it suggests, I will control things according to my own will for you. Therefore, popular men often do not engage in trivial matters with women. From a woman's perspective, being with such a man is comfortable, and she doesn't need to articulate her desires one by one, as he intuitively understands her needs. This makes her feel that he is sophisticated in his manners and speech. If he simply follows her lead and matches her energy, he becomes a nice but boring man. However, if he skillfully shifts direction unexpectedly, creating a situation where the woman has no choice but to be drawn to him, he becomes an irresistibly popular man. He can cater to the little things for her, but he maintains his own control.

It's not that I'm trying to be nice; it's just that I know exactly what you want, so I'm simply going to come down to your level and show some consideration. Ironically, a man who doesn't engage in petty games appears very straightforward to women, and I find myself opening up more quickly, which is even better. Instead of feeling that he's being selfish by pushing forward without any compromise, I see him as being manly. I accept him as someone who leads with charisma. Of course, there’s an invisible threshold between a popular man who skillfully balances calmness and chaos. These men likely didn’t start out thinking they should conform to women; they probably thought they would just push forward in their own way. Over time, as they engaged in this dynamic, they learned how to ease off in relationships. However, it’s likely that their original personality played a role in this development.

Since I originally had a calm demeanor and didn't show much emotional fluctuation, I was able to catch on to these things quickly. So, how does this strong regulation work? Usually, it's about letting the other person handle things on their own without interfering in their actions, maintaining a distance. However, when the time comes where I can't make a concession, I take charge and say, Leave this to me; just follow my lead. If a man consistently behaves this way, a woman might feel a sense of rebellion. But if a man who usually doesn't act like this suddenly shows such behavior, she might subconsciously understand and feel the urge to trust him. This makes her naturally inclined to follow him. In fact, when a man is assertive and persistent, it creates a sense of reliability, and she feels protected. The important thing is that popular men are very good at navigating the dynamics in their relationships with women.

However, without necessarily standing on the same level as a woman, I can observe the situation leisurely, knowing that I am a step above you. I can control the situation with a balance of intensity, sometimes winning and sometimes losing. The last point is that a popular man handles women delicately. As mentioned earlier, it is possible to create a situation where a woman naturally follows, while skillfully adjusting the balance of intensity. This is likely due to the delicate nature that men possess as a foundation. Simply being blindly assertive does not work. In relationships between men and women, mutual feelings that are hidden behind the blindfold of rational attraction are likely to be exchanged, which is essential for maintaining the relationship. In interactions between individuals, if one person continuously gives without receiving, it can lead to exhaustion on one side. This is not just about material things; even expressions of gratitude or apologies are important emotional exchanges.

When we exchange things, we can influence each other. Popular people often possess this subtlety; they remember small details and express them well. However, it’s important that this doesn’t come across as, I’m trying to make you feel good or gain your favor. Instead, it should feel natural, as if it’s just a thought that occurred because of the current situation. For example, instead of saying, I’ve been waiting here for you to come so I could give you this, it would be more touching to say, I saw this and thought of you, so I stopped by to give it to you on my way. This way, the focus shifts from the intention of giving to the spontaneous thought of the other person, which changes how it is received. This psychology is skillfully utilized, and this subtle difference can lead women to respond more favorably to popular men, even in the same situation.

It's about being able to touch and move people beautifully and nicely, and as I think about this, I find myself gradually liking men more. I've mentioned this a few times, but speaking nicely is really important. This isn't just about trying to attract women; it’s also a measure of how well I can get along with others and how harmonious I can be as a person. Especially since many women are perceptive and sensitive to these aspects, there’s a level of caution that exists between us. However, many men seem to think that it's not important to speak this way, believing that what truly matters is something else. In the past, during the era when physical appearance was prioritized, this approach worked. But in today's world, where emotional intelligence is valued, the ability to move people's hearts through speech is incredibly significant.

It has become important, and for this to be possible, delicacy and a sense of awareness are necessary. How well you observe the other person and how much you can empathize by relating their situation to your own determines your level in dating. When this is established, people, not just potential romantic partners, will naturally like you. This is because you give others the feeling that they are understood. Women, in particular, tend to feel this sense of understanding two to three times more strongly. It's not just about saying thank you, but rather expressing gratitude by acknowledging that they too must be busy and thanking them for thinking of you. Break down that meaning, be delicate, and express it honestly. This is how popular men treat women. I will support you until the day you become a popular sweetheart and receive many advances. I will greet you again in the next video. See you next time. Goodbye!

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