Height Dilemma: Snow White's Modern Relationship Predicament

A woman in her mid-30s is conflicted about her relationship due to her boyfriend's shorter height, seeking advice on her concerns.

### Height Concerns in Relationships and the Snow White Theory
* 👫 A woman is preparing for marriage with her boyfriend of four years, but she is struggling with concerns about his **slightly shorter height**, feeling self-conscious about it when they go out together.
* 🍎 Inspired by a post comparing her situation to Snow White, who only sees the flaws of the dwarfs when considering marriage, the woman is worried that she may **regret her decision later on**.
* 📏 In many cultures, including South Korea, height is considered an important factor in partner selection, and **women's standards regarding height have risen over the years**.
* 🌏 Due to the emphasis on height in South Korea, Korean men who have faced challenges due to their shorter stature may find more **acceptance in international marriages**.
* 👑 The Snow White story is interpreted as a cautionary tale against being **overly critical of potential partners** and fixating on **external factors when considering marriage**.
* 💬 "When someone treats you well, you accept it all, but when it comes to marriage, you only see the flaws, showing a **selfish nature that cares about others' opinions**."
* 🔮 The woman is anxious about whether she can find someone who matches her boyfriend's personality and goodness even if she breaks up with him due to his **height**.
* 🌍 "In a world where people break up because of others' opinions, I wonder if the **fool is me**."

Hello everyone, nice to meet you. Another new theory has come out, the Snow White theory. It was a post on a blind date, but now it's deleted, so it's gone. Let's take a look at the content of the post. The title is I'm thinking about breaking up. We met at work with my boyfriend, and now we work in different regions due to a job transfer. When we worked together, we had great personalities, good chemistry, and thought we were both good and decent people. Even after the job transfer, we kept in touch often, and he confessed his feelings. At first, I hesitated, saying I wouldn't get married until at least seven years have passed due to the age difference. But we decided to meet and see how it goes. Everything matched well, and he was a fun person, so despite my initial concerns about his height, I ended up meeting him for a longer period than I thought. We keep our relationship a secret at work, mainly date at home, and avoid crowded places in the outskirts.

I've done a lot, and as we spent time together, I found the homely and neat appearance more appealing. I handle household chores, cooking, and everything without showing any sign of inconvenience, and I am someone who becomes even happier when I see you happy. After about four years of being together, I realized I was in my mid-30s, and I thought it would be comfortable and nice to live with this person, so I started preparing for that. I think we met when I was 31. If that's the case, did this woman just stay still for four years? She probably made an effort to meet other men during that time. Nevertheless, I can't help but think that it's not firm. As I prepare for marriage, I find myself bothered by my boyfriend's slightly shorter height. I am taller than the average woman, around 160 cm, while my boyfriend is in his mid-160s, so I am taller. As we walk around, I become conscious of people's stares, and this height issue keeps bothering me.

It's not a big deal, so I'm not really worried about it. I think of it as just a brief meeting, mainly spending time indoors, so I didn't pay much attention to it. But I'm foolishly ruining my confidence because of my height as I prepare for marriage. It really makes sense. I've only met people taller than me, so I've never been concerned about height. Even when I go out with my boyfriend now, I can't confidently ask people to take pictures of us. I could tell from people's expressions that they thought, Oh, the woman is taller. Adults say that appearance, including height, is not important, but personality is the most important. Even if someone was ten centimeters taller than me, I don't think they would worry like this. However, in a world where people break up because of others' opinions, I wonder if the fool is me. I'm worried that I might regret it later. The anxiety of not knowing what to do if I regret it is tormenting me dozens of times a day. My boyfriend has no qualms about being shorter, and he even thinks it's better that way.

I am a proud person. Even if I break up with this person and meet a taller person, can I meet someone who matches my personality well and is a good person like this one? I feel like such a fool myself. I would like to hear advice from wise people. Please refrain from malicious comments. I don't want to receive harsh criticism. Can I avoid getting criticized harshly? No, I can't. I receive a lot of harsh criticisms. First, I will meet with a lawyer I know, a famous lawyer. This person is well-known. This person portrayed Snow White as a dwarf. I wonder if Snow White felt like this looking at the dwarfs. When someone treats you well, you accept it all, but when it comes to marriage, you only see the flaws, showing a selfish nature that cares about others' opinions. Of course, the real writer is old, in the mid-30s, and does not seem to be exceptionally beautiful. Just a feeling, and not Snow White either. Snow White is different, right? Snow White is beautiful and has a magic mirror.

Mirror, who is the fairest of them all in the world? That's it, right? So, it's not about beauty or age like Snow White, not Snow White's age. That's why the prince of Baekmatan won't come, so don't wait. In her late thirties, she waits for a new prince of Baekmatan like Snow White. It's almost like a mission. It's a fact bomb. It says, Don't regret not getting married before becoming an old witch and dying alone. The person who posted this shares an interesting story. I'll take all the dwarfs, eat them, and the seven dwarfs really helped Snow White well. But Snow White wakes up from her sleep when the prince of Baekmatan kisses her and leaves with the prince, getting married. In this way, the author criticized her as a unique evil woman. Even when I think about cases like Titanic, it's a groundbreaking film.

It was a romance movie, wasn't it? Even in the case of Snow White, if you look at it, it's truly a classic romance. But when you really think about it, Snow White, after seeing that, was it that she liked the prince? The dwarfs just accepted everything, and when the prince with the white horse came, she left the seven dwarfs and went with him, right? Oh, I also think that one's innocence can be shattered like this. In the middle of the next comment, isn't it a fierce competition for men's height over 16? I also agree with this opinion. In fact, in a woman's eyes, if you think about it, the most valuable aspect of a man's prime is height. In the case of idols, women tend to prefer men over 160cm as their ideal type. And if you see many people talking about 175cm and above, and trying to avoid meeting people below 175cm as much as possible, right? But then, isn't a woman's age like a Christmas cake? Both are well sold. So when men look at it, they often talk about 175 to 180 and above.

It's popular, but if it goes over 25, it doesn't sell well. Men's height is the same. From what I've seen, 175 doesn't sell well. Even if the popularity drops, it seems there's not much difference between this and that. They are similar. So, if you were to say that you are looking for someone big, for example, a 20-year-old woman would be 180 cm tall, a 20-year-old man would be 175 cm tall, a 30-year-old woman would be 170 cm tall, and a 35-year-old woman would be 165 cm tall. The writer also mentioned 165 cm for those in their mid-30s. I also feel like this and that are similar. And if you are in your 10s, in terms of men's height, it would be 160 cm. I really empathize with this comment. Let's look at the next comment. If you are in your mid-30s, if you don't have a boyfriend now, and your height is 150 cm, it seems like there are no options left for men. So, please watch your language. No, this is a fact. From a man's perspective, once you are past the mid-30s, if you don't have children, I don't know about others, but if you have children,

In this case, people tend to be cautious. And this woman, in my opinion, doesn't seem like a beautiful woman like Snow White, except for her height. She doesn't seem to have much to boast about except for her height. Nevertheless, despite that, she is now preparing for marriage. Thinking about whether there is a chance for a man like that is a sign that metacognition is ruined. And I hope the man who is now preparing for marriage knows this fact. If he knew, I wish he would realize it. If his girlfriend has such thoughts, he should run away. And in the next comment, if that man had grown taller, you two wouldn't match. That's what I think. If he had grown taller, you wouldn't have met. And this comment, I think it's too harsh, but should I just take it as a joke? Anyway, reading it, let's believe in strong genetics and get married as it is. This woman said that kind of thing. In the past, she only dated tall men.

I met her, she's younger than me, but it's the first time this kind of thing happened. She said she already has a lot of dating experience, so I decided to trust her past and go with the flow. However, these days, when it comes to blind dates, it seems like guys have memorized it like a joke. And for those of you who may have recently joined us, you might not be familiar with the concept of 선부유전 (Sunbu genetic theory). As of now, this is still a hypothesis in the field of science. If it were scientifically proven, I would talk about it as it is, but since it's still just a theory, I recommend you all search for it on Google. If you search on Google, not Naver, you will find out what 선부유전 or 가목유전 (Gamo genetic theory) is. You might be shocked by the content. Next, a comment said, Are you only able to meet such women if you're short? This person seems to be short, but don't get too discouraged. Korean men's height is number one in Asia, they are the tallest.

In Asia, including the Middle East and so on, South Korean men are considered relatively tall. When we look at it globally, South Korea ranks among the tallest in Asia. When you enter here, you can confirm that. South Koreans are tall. Even among Western countries, there are many countries that do not have much difference compared to South Korea. In other countries, unlike South Korean women, height is not a significant factor. Among the Western countries, South Korean women are the ones who are most concerned about height. There is data to compare. The only data available is from 2007. In 2007, South Korean and Japanese competitors jointly conducted a survey with the same question. At that time, they surveyed 500 people. South Korean women, in terms of valuing a spouse, answered that height is important with 68.7. In Japan, it was 28.10, indicating that they consider it less important. This is from 2007, about 17 years ago.

When you compare the mermaids back then and the mermaids now, you can see that the standards have risen. So, if this survey is conducted again now, in your case, it could be around 68.72, or even over 80. In 2007, Japanese women began to come to their senses in the early stages. But there are decisive factors here, so they would have been quite picky. Nevertheless, only 28.1% of Japanese women answered that height is important. Now, 17 years have passed, and I often think it might be similar or even lower. Also, in Western countries surprisingly, they don't care much about height, and there are countries where people are shorter than in South Korea. Typically, in those countries, they consider the height of their own country's men. So, among men from other countries,

In countries where the average height is shorter than Korean men, when Korean men go to those countries, they often appear to be shorter compared to Korea, but in that country, they can also be close to the average height, and there are even cases where they are taller. Therefore, especially for those who have been hurt by Korean men due to their short stature, if you want to get married, you should consider international marriage. That's the message I would like to convey. Yes, we will end the video here. Thank you.

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The Snow White Theory: A Height Complex in a Relationship

A woman is struggling with her boyfriend's shorter height as they prepare for marriage, feeling self-conscious and worried about the opinions of others.

Despite her boyfriend being comfortable with his height, she is plagued by anxiety and concern about potentially regretting her decision.

Reflections on Love, Criticism, and Societal Standards

It's important to focus on finding someone who matches your personality and is a good person, regardless of height or societal standards.

The obsession with external factors like age and appearance can lead to harsh self-criticism and societal criticism.

Society's emphasis on height and age in relationships can be damaging, and it's important to challenge these narrow standards.

The Impact of Height on Dating and Marriage

Taller heights are more popular for men, with 175cm and above being desirable, while women in their 20s are expected to be 180cm tall.

The pressure on height is particularly challenging for women in their mid-30s, affecting their dating options.

Despite the focus on height, one woman is preparing for marriage, expressing concerns about genetic compatibility and the impact of height on relationships.

Dating Experience and Height Preference in South Korea

Meeting a younger woman with more dating experience leads to a decision to trust her past and go with the flow.

The concept of 선부유전 (Sunbu genetic theory) is still a hypothesis in the field of science, recommended to be searched on Google for shocking content.

South Korean men are considered relatively tall globally, but South Korean women are most concerned about height compared to other Western countries.

A 2007 survey showed that South Korean women value the height of a spouse significantly more than Japanese women.

The Changing Standards of Mermaids and the Impact on International Marriage

The standards for mermaids have risen over the years, leading to a potential increase in the survey results.

Height is not as important for Japanese women, and Western countries also have different perspectives on height.

The difference in average height between countries may impact how Korean men are perceived, suggesting the option of international marriage for those concerned about height.