The Illusion of Control in Life's Journey

Spinning teaches individuals to let go of the illusion of control and trust life's unfolding mystery.

### Embracing the Mystery: Letting Go of Control in Life
* 🌌 "Spinning teaches you how to let go, specifically of the **illusion of control**, because in reality, we're **not in control**."
* 🔄 Engaging in spinning exercises, whether in darkness or light, reveals that true balance comes from **trusting oneself and the process of life**.
* 🌀 The desire to **control every aspect of our lives** stems from societal and parental expectations, which often leads to feelings of **panic and dissatisfaction** when things don’t go as planned.
* 🌱 Instead of rigidly planning our futures, we should allow life to unfold naturally, **setting intentions and trusting the universe to guide us toward our dreams**.
* 💫 "Perfection is in the unknown, perfection is in the mystery," highlighting the importance of **embracing uncertainty for personal growth and happiness**.
* 🤝 To cultivate a fulfilling life, we must let go of the need to **micromanage our relationships, careers, and finances**, and instead have **faith in ourselves and the universe**.
* 🌍 Life is about **setting your intentions** and allowing the universe to **orchestrate the outcomes** in a way that is often **beyond our imagination**.
* ✨ Ultimately, learning to let go is crucial; it allows us to **experience life’s beauty without the constraints of control**, fostering a **deeper connection with ourselves and the world around us**.

Yeah yeah you do family order bring it back around that's right that's right We had to get in some rotation exercises counterclockwise clockwise This pitch black out here but anybody who knows anybody who knows knows that the more light you got within the less light you

need on the outside I don't need that I'd like to see and I'm feeling really motivated and right now I just want to make a quick video on the illusion of control and let him go And one thing I love about spinning one thing I love about spinning and yes

I mean spinning in circles like a top like the planet like my hair On one thing I love about spinning is it teaches you how to let go especially spinning in the dark you know because the average person not only could can they can they not keep their balance

while spinning but they also you know they could they wouldn't be able to see in this type of lighting But one thing that spinning teaches you is spinning teaches you to let go specifically of the illusion of control because in reality we're not in control All you can

do is align with control you know if we were in complete control you know we wouldn't have so many issues in our life We'd be able to do what we need to do and we'd be able to do it with no problem But the fact that no matter how

much we want to change a lot of us are stuck in these same cycles shows that we're not in control We give the commands to the vehicle which is the body but we're not the body The body carries out the commands we give it

however it sees fit or however it is capable and what I'm trying to say is you know our parents a lot of our parents try to control us they didn't they didn't necessarily do what they were supposed to do which is guide us on

which is to love and protect us and let us blossom into the beautiful unique individuals we're supposed to be instead they try to control us and they try to somewhat shape us into their idea of what we should be and because of this we kind of adopted that

ego we adopted some of those ways and what I'm trying to say is we need to learn how to let go and to kind of just trust this doesn't mean give up this doesn't mean do nothing but a lot of us try to plan our lives we try to plan the

next day we try to plan the next breath and we do this from an imperfect mind okay we think we know what's best but we have no idea I spoke about humility and humbling your ego all right sorry about that guys my my light cut out I had to

start my car but going back to what I said about humbling the ego and and work and not and accepting the fact that we're not being in control and being okay with this a lot of us panic when things don't go our way when the things

we planned are the things we expected or the things that we hoped a lot of us panic when things don't play out how they should be but in reality there's no reason to panic because that is an aspect of life you know life can't be

beautiful without the mystery. A lot of us have completely abandoned the mystery, and it's not our fault. School or the programming from our parents, a lot of these things kind of teach us to diminish and get rid of the mystery because they teach us to

control. What do you want to be when you grow up? What field are you gonna, um, you know, what field are you gonna study? What's gonna be your career? How many kids do you want to have? What's your perfect partner? Do you want to have a

house? You want to have pets? Do you want this blah blah blah blah blah? And we never allow life to just sort itself out and do it for us. We never allow life to come in and and and do its thing. We never allow the universe to come in and

flex, and that is why a lot of people are unhappy and a lot of us are depressed because we think our lives out instead of kinda kind of just setting our intentions and letting life carry it out in the perfect manner because the universe knows the perfect way for

whatever your dream, whatever you want to happen, the universe has the perfect way for that to happen, a way so perfect that you couldn't even imagine, you couldn't even fathom it. But because you think you know how to get to where you want to go,

you keep getting in the way of perfection. Perfection is in the unknown, perfection is in the mystery. And going back to the original point of this video, cuz I want to make this quick, I love spinning cuz spinning teaches you how to let go. I don't know if I'm, when I'm gonna

spin I go spinning it in a caged area at this park and I don't know I could fall at any second I could run into the cage I can run into the fence you know who knows what could happen but I can honestly say every time that I've spun

I've never ran into anything I've never felt I've never tripped because I am okay with letting go and trusting my body to do what it's supposed to do and I know that sounds crazy and I'm gonna make a video on spinning because the

whole world should be spinning just like the planet everybody should be spinning because it's so important but I don't want to get off topic the point is we have to be okay with letting go give your attention to the universe tell the universe what you want out of life and

let go and just let the universe sort it out do what you know you need to do do the little bit that you need to do but other than that get out of the way quit trying to control every single aspect of your relationship quit trying to control

every single aspect of your job of your career of your finances and quit trying to control every single aspect excuse me of your life let go let go and trust have faith have faith in your relationships have faith in your significant other have faith in your ability to generate income have faith

have faith in the posts that you post on social media that you're helping somebody could try to control everything you're not gonna be able to control how many likes you get you're not gonna be able to control every aspect of your partner and every action your partner

takes you're not gonna be able to control everything you have to be all you have to learn to be okay with not being able to control everything we have to learn to let go it's so important that we all learn this lesson okay control is an illusion you're here to

set your intentions to enter watch it play out in the most beautiful and perfect manner possible okay that is life you have to let life work a little bit stop trying to control everything you're like a newborn child you know you're supposed to set your needs and the universe will come the

mother that is earth will come and take care of this for you all right so I was feeling really motivated really pumped up after that exercise and I want to get this message out more videos to come Buddha's Anne I'm out peace

Letting Go. The Illusion of Control.

BUDDHA XAN

Spinning in circles helps one learn to let go, especially in the dark.

Spinning challenges balance and vision, highlighting our lack of complete control.

True control is about alignment, not absolute command; we can't control everything.

Our inability to change recurring issues shows our limited control.

We give commands to our bodies, but we don't fully control how they execute them.

Many parents try to control their children instead of guiding and protecting them.

This control leads children to adopt controlling behaviors and egos.

We often overplan our lives from an imperfect perspective, thinking we know what's best.

The Importance of Letting Go and Trusting the Universe

Humbling the ego and accepting lack of control is crucial.

Panic arises when plans fail, but this is a natural part of life's mystery.

Society and parents often diminish life's mystery by emphasizing control and planning.

We're constantly asked to plan our futures, preventing life from unfolding naturally.

Unhappiness stems from overthinking life instead of setting intentions and trusting the universe.

Trying to control outcomes blocks the universe's perfect plan.

Personal Anecdote: Spinning as a Metaphor

Spinning teaches the speaker to let go and trust their body.

Despite potential risks, the speaker has never been injured while spinning due to trusting their body.

The speaker advocates for everyone to spin to understand this concept.

Set intentions, do what's necessary, and let the universe handle the rest.

Stop trying to control every aspect of your life, relationships, and career.

Have faith in your relationships, abilities, and the universe's plan.

You can't control everything; learn to be okay with that.

Control is an illusion; set intentions and watch life unfold beautifully.

Be like a newborn, trusting the universe to provide.