Code Switching in Charisma and Intimidation Dynamics

Code switching helps charismatic individuals connect better in different social situations.

### The Art of Code Switching: Charisma and Authenticity in Social Situations
* 🎭 Code switching is essential for navigating different social environments, especially when it comes to being **charismatic with friends and potential partners**.
* 💬 In intimate situations, like cuddling, it's important to **gauge the mood and adjust your conversation topics** to maintain **comfort and connection**.
* 🤔 The idea of being "fake" in a job interview is misleading; you're simply **adapting your communication style** to fit the context and expectations.
* 💡 When faced with intimidation due to appearance, finding a balance between being **attractive and approachable** can enhance romantic interactions.
* 😂 Utilizing humor, even if it's not your personal style, can help **break the ice and ease anxiety** in social situations, particularly with a partner.
* 💪 Embracing your natural self after establishing comfort can strengthen relationships, allowing for **authenticity to shine through**.
* 🧠 Ultimately, mastering the balance of code switching can lead to **better outcomes in both professional and personal realms**, highlighting the **importance of adaptability**.

Jessica, what do you do when you come off as intimidating but girls like you, but you look too threatening, and breaking that intimidation factor kind of kills the arousal? I'll tell you this, dude. If you're an intimidating-looking guy that's attractive and can get girls, what better channel to watch than Zerka? My face looks like a serial killer, bro. I'm the most scary dude ever, but I get a little flamboyant and stuff, and the girls giggle, and then boom, I [__] them. I had to practice being flamboyant just to [__]. You have to work against your nature just to calm your anxiety. As soon as you're with your girlfriend, you can go back to being who you are and [__]. But dude, all my silly jokes is to [__] her. You think I like silly jokes, right? You think I like dad jokes? I don't at all. I like jokes about death and murder. I like weird [__] right, but I only dad

joke it so I'd drop her heart rate right, calm her down right, and then [ __ ] yeah, and yeah, that's the truth, you do it too subconsciously right. It's not a fake personality, it's you. Are you being fake in a job interview? Think about that. You're getting paid, you might as well not talk about 9/11. When you're cuddling with her and it's very intimate, that's when you can say buildings seven and that way the toxic and when she's like afraid of you is almost like a meme. She goes he's doing it again right thing seven [ __ ] go on a date with a girl and go that's [ __ ] three towers and two planes, three out three [ __ ] thousand duplicates playing the math. If you do that bro in a job interview, you don't get paid, and in a date, you don't get sex. So what is it, being fake or are you just [ __ ] [ __ ]

it's called code switching. Yeah, it is. Yeah, no, no, dude. If you're a very cancerable soul, I recommend you learn to be charismatic, right, right, with your boys. Do whatever, but when it's time to be charismatic, you know you have to switch the code for sure. Foreign.

JON ZHERKA - What to Do When Girls Like You but You're Too Intimidating

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An intimidating appearance can be attractive to some girls, but it may also create a threatening vibe.

Being flamboyant and playful can help break the intimidation factor and create a connection.

Using silly jokes and light-hearted humor is a strategy to ease anxiety and win over a partner, even if it's not one's natural style.

Code switching involves changing one's behavior or personality in different situations, such as being charismatic with friends and adopting a different persona in a job interview.

It is not necessarily fake, but rather a natural adaptation to different contexts.

The speaker uses humor and controversial topics to illustrate the concept, questioning the line between being authentic and playing a role.