The Battle for Dreams: Overcoming Mental Obstacles

Dreams are a battlefield, and one must actively fight for them to achieve success.

### The War on Mediocrity: A Philosophical and Motivational Monologue
* 💡 The speaker emphasizes the importance of finding role models and mentors to emulate, suggesting that even if they turn out to be flawed, it's better to be **scammed by someone you admire** than by someone you dislike.
* 🧠 He discusses the dangers of boredom, warning that "if you ever catch yourself being bored, **bad [__] is coming to you, dude. that's really bad**."
* 💰 The concept of wealth accumulation is presented as a battle, with each financial milestone symbolizing **defeating an enemy obstructing one's dreams**.
* The idea of dreams being constantly evolving and getting further away as one approaches them is introduced, with the speaker suggesting that this is a **deliberate test from God** to keep individuals **evolving**.
* 💔 The speaker warns against idolizing individuals who turn out to be unworthy of admiration, using the example of **Mike Tyson's drug use** to illustrate the need to **let go of heroes who no longer represent one's values**.
* 🧘 The importance of mental strength and self-control is emphasized, with the speaker stating that "**every problem you've ever had is self-inflicted**" and highlighting the role of emotions in **amplifying challenges**.
* 📚 The speaker criticizes the self-help industry, suggesting that true self-improvement comes from addressing **basic human vices such as greed, lust, and envy**.
* 🙏 The monologue concludes with a call to "**follow God**," arguing that many ancient wisdom teachings align with **conservative values** and the concept of **battling personal vices**.

this is your chat. You are a loser. Why? Because even people with millions of followers are rattled like Moist Critical. You understand? You're rattled like Moist. That means even at a million followers, you're gonna be ill-rattled and not confident. That's not good. The best thing you can do in life is mirror someone, dude. Mirror someone you want to be like, okay? Do that Apprentice-Master thing. That's good. Do it. Even if you don't meet the person you want to be like, that guy, you do what he's doing sometimes, not what he's saying, because he might be selling you something. Sometimes I think it's okay to be scammed if you're being scammed by someone you want to be like, because you spend more time in their energy, you know? So it's like the worst thing in the world is getting scammed by someone you hate. Getting scammed by someone you want to be like is not the worst thing in the world because their thinking is still around you. That thinking is important, and you gotta know

when you're the guy you want to be like, is a loser, right? Like, for example, if you have a hero and now he's a degenerate [__] crackhead, he's not your hero anymore. You need to let go of it. You need to know when it's like, Hey, I gotta watch someone new. You understand? Like, delete that. Like, some people will make someone a hero and they'll be like their icon for life. Okay, let's say it's Mike Tyson and I'm a boxer. Should he be my icon right now that he does shrooms and licks frogs and gets high off licking frog poison? No, I know when to cut it off. Like, I know exactly when to cut off the hero energy. I know when to stop watching and stop taking it serious. But some people idolize. They're like, Wow, I'm just everything Mike Tyson says has to be true. It's not good. If you're ever bored, life is coming to rape you. If you ever catch yourself being bored, bad [__] is coming to you, dude.

that's really bad. It's coming to brutalize you. If you ever, as a man, are like, I'm bored. I'm just bored. I'm bored. I'm just gonna like, uh, scroll through the algorithm. I'm bored. I'm just gonna watch some Animal Planet because I'm bored. No, dude. If you watch Animal Planet, you gotta ask yourself this. This is what you do. You watch it, and you go, Why didn't cows eat all day, but a jaguar eats once a day and is in better shape? Why? Maybe I want to start fasting like a jaguar. Maybe I want to eat more meat, red meat, like a jaguar. But if you're just watching, Hey, nice teeth, the scariest thing you could have is a passive brain because, uh, to be passive means to be a woman. The difference from lunar and solar is male and female. That's why it's called the Sun. The sun is active, and it laps the moon and Eclipse. It's active. You want to be active. You don't want to be

passive bad things happen when you're passive here, son. You should really see your career, let's say career or dreams. Dreams is a better word for 2023. Check this out, here's your dreams, okay? Dreams, your dreams are not like this. Oh wow, this is like cozy, this is so beautiful. No, no, your dreams are here, and they're actually being raped and murdered by the world. Here's the world, okay? Here's the people, okay? And they've got a bunch of Spears, right? They've got a bunch of Spears. These people, they're holding Spears, okay? And you don't go to your dreams, you go to war for them, meaning as soon as you make your first hundred thousand, hundred thousand dollars. What really happened here? You killed one of these guys obstructing your dreams. Boom, you killed them. That's you punching the universe back. Material world is the devil. You're punching the devil at this point. Boom, hundred thousand. The devil's shook, and the devil's like, Oh, he's building momentum. I'm just gonna pick on Dunkle, leave.

this guy alone. This guy's hitting hard, and the coolest part is the devil hates momentum, dude. Like, he waits for you at your worst moment. He doesn't like you going forward. He's so pathetic he can only [ __ ] your wife behind your back, the only dude stuff behind your back. He'll never challenge you. So, you made your first hundred thousand, you're getting close to your dream, boom. Now you have a podcast. Let's say you want to start a podcast. You have podcast friends who have a good following, a good mindset. You want to build with them. You team up with them, boom. You kill another one of them. Now you've hit the world twice, you've hit the universe twice, and you keep going, right? And what's sad is the dreams keep going further away from you, and they get larger, but they go, they keep evolving, and you have no idea that this is God dangling your dreams in front of you and evolving them and making them bigger for you just so you keep evolving because God knows when you stand still.

and stop evolving. The devil's gonna rape you, and God knows if you stagnate, that's when they smell blood in the water. So, that's why God evolves your dreams and makes them bigger. The closer you get, the more different they look. Eventually, you might be in a completely different spot where the dream makes no sense. It's a different dream completely or a different person, and you look in your past and you go, Holy [__]. But if you ever look in your past and you go, Whoa, I evolved to someone I don't like, that's terrifying. Who do you respect the most and why? That'll tell you who you are. Who, when you have a hard question, who do you immediately come to your mind? Is it Kevin Samuels? Is it this guy? Is it that guy? Who is it? I think that was a lot because I see myself in a suit and tie telling women to shut the [__] up. I can easily see my business like that. What would Cap do?

the problem is a lot of people see their dreams as friendly. No, dude, you're at war. Your career is a war zone. There's a lot of people trying to push you. You know, even if your competition stopped trying to beat you, you'd still lose your own mind. A man who conquers the world is respected by everyone, except the dude who has conquered his own mind. We battle with ourselves; that's the truth. Every problem you've ever had is self-inflicted. Why? Because the problem might come from the external. Let's say it's a grain of sand, but it turns into a whole beach when it goes through your mind. Your mind makes it so much worse. So, I know you can handle a grain of sand, but you cannot handle a beach. So, stop letting it become a beach. Why are you letting it become the ocean sea floor? You're letting it because your mind is weak. That's the truth. You're weak-minded.

you don't understand that the supercharger to your problems are your feelings. The problem ain't big. Becoming successful is not the hard part; it's staying sane doing it. Sorry, everyone falls off. It's like a weak-minded soft soy boy. [ __ ] You understand? I remember live when I said to this chat, Guys, I'm broke. My first goal is money so I never have to worry about this. [ __ ] I farmed the [ __ ] out of my chat, got a bunch of money. You can live anywhere, can go Colombia. I can go, you can go, and I can go anywhere and live, and I just gotta keep working, and I can sustain it. It's not like I'm a millionaire, but you know, obviously, I'm gonna keep working. So now I solve the money equation, right? Very easy for me, okay? Very easy. It was just grind. But what happened there is you grind long enough, and your creativity goes down, right? Now look at your competition. They're beating you not because they're

grinding more than you. They're staying playful with their grind. If it's a chore, your competition is destroying you. It's like the fighter smiling at you, punching you, and enjoying the fight, and you're just trying to go through him. Well, it's not working if he's better than you. You need a different angle. You need to be playful with this. You need your brain to be... is it called neuroblastic? What's that term? So, how do you control your mind easily? Step one: follow God. You don't see weak-minded conservatives, or real conservatives, following God. It's like defeating Greek lost gluttony. It's so [__] easy, bro. There's never... all these red bull [__] is so cringe. Since the dawn of times, they're like, Hey, don't be a degenerate, and you're gonna be a winner. It's never been [__] easier. Even if you're wondering like Tory Lanez, you go in prison being a degenerate. When you follow God, good [__] happens, man.

it's not rocket science. You're not battling with liberalism; you're battling with greed, lust, envy. This stuff has already been written about in a million different variations. You just call it liberalism, but you have no idea that liberalism is just talking about the deadly sins, right? It's like you're maximizing the deadly sins as long as it doesn't harm your neighbor, and then as long as it just harms you. You had war with the devil, and here's the crazy thing: you love him when the devil harms you, your mind and body. You love him, right? And he's got out front sometimes too about it where he's like, Hey, that alcohol is bad for you, and you still do it. You're appeasing the devil, puts this emotion in you. Hey, you're lonely, so you [__] ugly [__], and she tells all her friends, and Noah will ever [__] you again, and the devil's laughing. He goes, That was the best

contract you ever took. I told you. I told you. You should have took. You should take another contract like that. And God's looking at you like dude. You know that gut feeling. You know you weren't supposed to [__] that ugly [__]. Why did you do that. And you're just sitting there and well because the devil. The devil made me feel lonely. Were you lonely. No I wasn't. I just watched the devil media. I turned the TV on and everyone had a great life and then I felt lonely. I was watching MTV and I felt lonely. And God's like but were you lonely my child. And he's like no I wasn't lonely. That idea was accepted by the TV. So why did you do that if you weren't lonely. Well I'm 21 years old. I wasn't lonely but the TV made me think maybe I maybe maybe I am. Will you go off maybes. What are you a [__] hooker. You're going through your life with babies. No.

certainty. The truth is the language of God. You don't want to be certain. You look at how can I get good advice from the internet. What self-help book do I self-help book? What do you need help from? I'll tell you what you need help from [__] lust, greed, envy. This has already been talked about. Pride, wrath. Find out which ones you're overdosing on. And nowadays, everyone has like all of them maxed out a bit, so they're confused. Well, they're all maxed out, John. What does that tell you about the world, dude? They're all maxed. Change your whole [__] system for 24, 3. Your last systems are [__] failure systems. You cannot serve two masters. Remember even Plato said, right? All goodness leads upwards to something infinite. Goodness is God. That's why you have such a strong, uh, justice system in your brain where you go, That's engine, that guy is being treated unfairly. He shouldn't be in prison. He's innocent. You have that in

your gut because there's goodness in you. But the more you divide, the more you go. I think a lot of these ancients will talk about going down the ladder. You know, if you're going down the ladder, by the way, you're either descending or ascending. You're never stuck. I don't care what you say. You're never stuck. If you're going down goodness and going down to the lust, then I'm just gonna do what I want to do because my PP told me. Here's her pee pee and make it realistic for Chad. You read all of these sages, ancient texts, right? And they all talk, whether good, evil, whatever. They all talk about the same thing: thought, meditation, prayer, affect the real world. But that's pseudoscience to most people. Is it pseudoscience to you? And who taught you to think it's pseudoscience? Who convinced your ass? Hope is a waking dream. There's light at the end of the tunnel. That's 2023 for you guys. If you see it in your mind, you will hold it in your hand. But the

problem is how the [ __ ] can you see it in your mind when you're thinking of tits and ass and watching porn. How are you seeing any of your dreams that distracted with your blood flow, your life force energy going downwards. How are you seeing anything? You must be so [ __ ] right. War isn't the scary part; the fog of war is. You see exactly the Army you're facing; you've got a game plan, but through the fog, you're terrified. You're like, There could be trillions of them. Has it ever been trillions? Has anything you've ever faced really been that bad, or has the coping part made you so weak that it's like a medium-sized Dragon? You're so afraid of it that you can't throw your spear, but you know if you were not overthinking, that Dragon would be slain in one shot. Ask yourself every moment throughout the day, Why am I thinking this? Who instilled this thought? Where does this thought come from? Why is it important to me? Why does it tell me

about who I am. Every time you have an argument with a family member, you go ask yourself, Was it that important I win that argument? Why? Oh, it's important because I feel inferior. I'm the [__] of the family, so that's why I fight the hardest to get my idea out there. I want them to, you know, respect me. Well, why do you want to be respected? You take down the onion layers and you find out you're this insecure little [__] and really it takes you to such a good place where all the arguments you have, you stop doing them and go live and you know, get subscriptions. Arguing, you don't do it with your fam. The game isn't rigged so you lose, the game is rigged so you freeze and then you lose. But in life, you have two options: you either go forward or you go fast forward [__]. There is no in between, there's definitely no backwards. You hang out with your high school buddies, that's no option, there's two options and it really if you

have if you have to choose loneliness or your high school buddies. Hey, I chose loneliness. Wasn't that bad. You have to choose loneliness. If I did it, you have to. And what the [ __ ] you watch me all day for? Hell no. And what you're gonna notice is those winners do go fast forward. Like, they get knocked down, they go right on [ __ ] attack number two for their dreams. And your dreams are being held hostage and raped by someone who doesn't even believe in them but wants to bastardize them and make them their home to profit off your dreams. Your dreams are like a damsel, and you're Super Mario. You're not even mad. You get mad at people but not the devil. People are the [ __ ] puppets of the devil. The [ __ ] are you gonna be mad at covet mask-wearing puppet? If I puppeteered someone to slap you, you'd be mad at the ventriloquist puppet master. But the devil ain't real to you. That's

that you say you're based, but it's not real. You don't live in a world where the devil is real, and isn't that the exact world the devil wants? You're fighting a ghost, dude. For me, the devil's not invisible, no sir, not even one bit. I've seen him. I see him every day of my life, actually. I think I see the devil more than God, and he's always standing there and going, You sure you don't want to pee like when you were younger, John? You sure you don't want to regress? You sure you don't want to cry today, John? No, I don't want to cry, bro. Matter of fact, I want to kill you. And every day, I kill the devil, and he retreats. But there's so many of them, right? They'll never send a leader; they just send their minions, right? The legions. They'll never be Lucifer at your doorstep; it'll be the legions. I keep [ __ ] stabbing them, and then God gives me a buff where I feel

stronger, and now I'm complaining that there's another puppet to attack, but I just got a buff from God. Every devil you beat, you get a buff. That's more sense, that's more steps forward in this game, right? A lot of booby traps on the way, but that's what teams are for. You have to have a good team for booby traps, right? Family unit, whatever you suffer from, porn chat, that's lust, you know? I know I have Chad friends who suffer, and they show me who's in their DMs, and it's some ugly [__]. I'm like, you know what I mean? No more important 2023, guys. Your feed better look clean. No girls shaking their asses. Matter of fact, all my life, those rap music videos, I would look away. I would never get hard at a party when they played, just staring [__]. Do I need to be hard for at this party? It's groaning. It's like everyone, every man just drowning, staring. Hey bro, she's twerking. The [__] is twerking. Oh, I didn't notice.

oh you want, you like this. This is what you like. Oh no, John is just like, she's like, this is like water. John, a kid Club, you want the [ __ ]. Well, the devil has a sense of humor because that bitch's makeup will slip off one day, but you won't be laughing, that's for sure. Someone else gonna be laughing at you here, sir. There's no middle ground with Arab the streamer. There was like a middle ground where he's like, My feet is all ass, John. You know what happens when you're first successful and your feed is all ass? You stop working, say you have money, and start smashing all the ass, and then you try and get back to work, and it's not the same. You're just not as motivated. Oh no, because you take a detour in being a d-gen, and it turns to a [ __ ] lifestyle within a week. There's nothing worse than fence sitting. Fence sitting means someone's dragging your ass down like you're just waiting for it to happen. There's more demons

over the wall than on our side, so they're gonna grab a lot of money. Scar donated twenty dollars. I love a soft Johnny Boy. John doesn't understand average guy's options. No, I've told you what your options are. You have to get [__] married, period. You can't do that whole ambiguous [__]. You understand me? Also, you ain't gonna appreciate your girl if you have a life filled with hoes, so she's gonna get really ugly to you. That's not, that's like your home. Your home is going to be ugly. You don't want that. Clean up the feed. Matter of fact, I think cleaning up the feed is better than actually going to the website, because that feed is taking you to the website. You [__] [__] like everyone's on Instagram 10 minutes and then they switch tabs. Why don't you cut out the middle man, all right, and see how that plays for you? I remember when I first said I don't want an Instagram [__]. Could they Banned.

Me, I got [ __ ] Rich for myself for what I for where I was from was great. I mean flirting on Instagram like a [ __ ] what are you a woman. The devil has been beating you your whole life and you got cozy you got cozy at the Devil spitting on the temple of God. You're one of the temples dude you're a child of God. He spits on you and you're just like my life ain't whatever man just like just leave me with my TV John. I'm just chilling I'm just chilling man it ain't that bad. The devil poo spitting on you for 25 years of your life whatever bro I'll just play Mario Kart John. Maybe I'll pop off playing Mario Kart and then what fulfillment where's the Fulfillment and ask yourself what are you being filled with if not God what the [ __ ] is the fulfilling part. So when you're working on your dreams God's spirit the Earth God's spirit.

flows through you. It's euphoric, and it's magnetic. People want to be around you. It's crazy if you don't as a boy see you and your dreams as a battlefield. You're [ __ ] it's not a game. Some I know, some angle white guys make it like it's a puzzle. It's solving the puzzle of getting out of the matrix. It's War. That's why you've been suffering. You've been suffering more than people who got their legs blown off, okay? You're suffering more than a dude who got shot with a bullet. You've been suffering 25 years. This Is War. This is psychological War. And to say the devil's winning when even if you don't have God's message, it's in your DNA. You know when you're in the Gen, you know when you're greedy [ __ ], you know when you're wrathful. You know, you know it. It's in your [ __ ] DNA. That's why you feel bad. Even the biggest [ __ ] [ __ ] knows

so that you're losing and you've got [ __ ] God's message in your DNA. How the [ __ ] are you losing? You're losing because nothing feels better than losing. Losing is the best feeling ever. Humans are addicted to losing. You love to lose. You're a losing machine who [Music] John Circle. I know who he is listening W advice. Follow God. You see, let me tell you something, okay? There's no rehab for losers. So what are you gonna do with your addiction to losing, really? What made you take the claw shot? Answer, man, probably because I put [ __ ] four grams, that's 4,000 milligrams of gear in my system with a bunch of recreational drugs and [ __ ] overdose three times and [ __ ] killed myself. Okay, you should be more worried about that [ __ ] of my past. There's a lot of stuff I've taken and it was to travel. You're right. I need to get out. I need to see some firm. I need to do

Some things, okay, now check this out, okay. I hope you make it, it's fine dude. I walk with God, I'm invincible. You guys gonna be listening to this [__] 39 years old, and then I'll tap out, that's all I need. I'm kidding, I'll be here a while. Now check this out, okay. Science, scientists are gonna hate what I'm gonna say, but I'm just gonna say it. If you're courageous, you can't die, it's impossible. The greatest warriors, they never died when they were courageous, they died. They died when they doubted themselves for a second, that's when the arrow hits their heart. They died when they doubted God for a second. I'm too obsessive to doubt, you understand? Holy [__] seating anti-vaxxers in chat. First of all, they're not called anti-vaxxers, they're called right, they're in the right, okay. The mainstream media said my bad, you're the [__] [__].

mainstream media has gone live, and they said, My bad, guys. How the [__] are you still calling them anti-vaxxers in 2023? [__] Mainstream media said, I'm sorry. If you remember, they went on a sorry parade. You're still calling them anti-vaxxers? You're deep in it, man. That's hilarious. Like, you are an occult man. Anyways, let's focus on the right things here, okay? Losing is a combo. You don't lose once, okay? A true loser loses in a combo. Remember that. Meaning, you will accept defeat when enough defeats accumulate. But how can you accept defeat when your different plans of attacks work? That's called winning. That's called winning, dude. Between you and your dreams is a... Here's the problem why most people don't get started on their dreams, okay? And this is gonna make a lot of sense. Between you and your dreams, we'll put some landmines, okay? There's a million landmines, okay? Most people don't get started because they go, Oh man, John Zurka, I like you all

but I just can't get started. I battled with sloth, and I'm very lazy. And look at all the landmines, John. I can't go over that to my dreams. And then there's some guards there. But that's not how it works, because when you go forward in life, you'll realize that those landmines, as soon as you hit some of your goals towards your dreams, it's not one landmine deleted at a time. It's like one at a time, two at a time, and then boom, you're halfway to your dream. They just half of them just get eviscerated. That's momentum. A lot of them are, it's like they're living, and they go, Get out of his way. Now, if it was one at a time, I'd feel defeated. I'd be like, Holy [__], that's a journey. But when you pick up momentum, everything starts getting out of your way, and then you get closer, and then there's the guards right here, and that's the hard

part but nobody gets that. It's like every obstacle in your way. A lot of them are just illusions; they're not real obstacles. The real ones you'll feel, but a lot of them are just your mind playing tricks on you like they're actually not there. Okay, I think we get so caught up in worrying what we did wrong, like what did I do wrong. This is puzzling. I think we got to focus on what we did right and copy-paste that [__]. Okay, a lot of time you see fighters coping and saying what did I do wrong in this fight when really in between rounds they could have asked which punch landed. I'm gonna do that punch more, and usually that's the antidote. Oh, we're so used to feeling bad about ourselves that our wins we don't really like dissect wins well. This is a new feeling I want. I want, so I'm gonna drink alcohol till I feel like a loser again and then wonder why I can't win. I won, so I'm gonna cope. How you cope if

you won. Why are you coping? If you want, if you want, do everything you can to stay in that mental frame. This is what makes up who you are, what you do, who you are around, where you live, which is kind of the same as two. This is the Trinity that can show you your reality. You tell me you're from Kentucky. I know where you live, and I know the most you can succeed, and I know who you're around. You tell me what you do in Kentucky, and I've got you figured out, and I know exactly where you're going in life. These are the least asked questions when people self-reflect. Now I'm so paranoid that I'm around nobody because I think everyone's a [__] [__]. It's like the only person I'll be around is Derek from More Place More Dates. Like, I listen to him like, Yeah, yeah. Everyone else, I don't take what they say seriously. I go, There's a [__] [__]. I don't care if

you have a million subs. You look like a [ __ ] [ __ ] to me. Very, very few people I respect. Once you see that this is the devil's troops, your dreams become more magnetic because you go, How the [ __ ] are they over there? And here's the crazy part: is this dream of yours already exists in the form world, according to Plato. That means it's been stolen in the material world by the king of material, the devil. That means it

Jon Zherka on how to control your mind

Missing The Point

The Importance of Mirroring and Taking Action

Mirroring someone you want to be like can be a powerful strategy for personal growth.

It's important to recognize when to let go of idolizing someone who no longer aligns with your values.

Being passive and bored can lead to negative outcomes, so it's crucial to stay active and fight for your dreams.

The Struggle for Success and Personal Evolution

The devil thrives on your moments of weakness and tries to derail your progress.

God's evolution of your dreams is a way to keep you growing and moving forward.

The real battle for success is with yourself, and staying sane while pursuing your goals is the true challenge.

The Importance of a Playful Mindset and Following God

Staying playful with your grind is crucial for success, as a chore-like approach will lead to failure.

Following God is presented as a simple solution to overcoming greed, lust, and envy, which are the real battles in life.

The speaker emphasizes the importance of certainty and finding the right path to overcome common deadly sins, suggesting a need for a system change to achieve true fulfillment.

The text emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and the impact of thoughts on real-life outcomes.

It discusses the struggle between ascending and descending in life, highlighting that one is never truly stuck.

The author encourages taking responsibility for one's thoughts and actions, suggesting that true change comes from within and that pursuing dreams requires focused energy and determination.

The speaker believes the devil is real and present in their life, constantly tempting them to regress and giving them challenges to overcome.

They describe the devil's minions as the main source of struggle, with each victory providing a "buff" or strength from God.

The speaker emphasizes the importance of cleaning up one's social media feed and avoiding distractions to maintain focus and motivation in life.

Struggling with Life's Challenges and Finding Fulfillment

The speaker reflects on their difficult life, feeling cozy in suffering and losing, while recognizing the need for God's presence and guidance.

They emphasize that pursuing dreams is a battle and that losing can become an addictive pattern.

The speaker shares their own past struggles with addiction and overdose, highlighting the importance of seeking a way out and finding fulfillment through God's message.

Courage is seen as the key to invincibility, with doubt being the true cause of failure.

The speaker criticizes the labeling of anti-vaxxers and highlights the mainstream media's shift in narrative.

They emphasize that losing is a cumulative process and that momentum is crucial for overcoming obstacles and achieving dreams.

Overcoming Mental Obstacles and Self-Reflection

Many perceived obstacles are just illusions created by the mind, while real challenges are felt.

It's important to focus on what we did right and replicate those actions, rather than dwelling on mistakes.

Our environment, actions, and relationships play a crucial role in shaping our reality and determining our future success.