Evaluating Friendships: Are Your Friends Holding You Back?

Most friends often don't care about your growth and may hold you back.

### Evaluate Your Friendships: Are They Helping or Hurting You?
* 🤔 It's crucial to assess the impact of the friends you surround yourself with, asking questions like, "**Where has this group gotten me?**"
* 😲 The answers may shock you, revealing that many of your so-called friends might not have your **best interests at heart**.
* 🍻 If your friends are only around for **partying, drinking, and chasing women**, it's time to **reconsider their role in your life**.
* 🚫 Many of these individuals may not genuinely care about you, often showing their **true colors** when you attempt to **improve yourself**.
* 💪 When you strive for self-improvement, such as working out or reducing alcohol consumption, their **mockery can be a sign to cut ties**.
* 🔍 The reality is that hanging out with low-vibrational friends can keep you **stuck in a cycle of mediocrity and depression**.
* 🚀 To grow, you need to surround yourself with those who **uplift and encourage you**, rather than those who **drag you down with negative energy**.
* 💔 Ultimately, the choice is yours: keep friends who **hinder your progress** or seek out those who **inspire you to become the best version of yourself**.

oh man. T, no man, those are my bros. No, that's the bros, man. Bros over hoes, you know. I know what you guys are thinking when you read the title, like, No, those are my friends. I can't leave them. You know, Now that's my ride-or-dies, and that's my homies, and I can't leave them. No, you're tripping. And the thing about it is you have to ask yourself a few questions, fellas. Ask yourself, Where has the group of people you have been hanging with gotten you? Right? Do they really even care about you? Because the answer is surprising. The answer is going to shock a lot of you guys when you really ask these questions. Are they really good for you? Right? Do they have your best interest in mind? Like I said, the answers to these are going to shock you, and they might disappoint you, okay? But this is a truth that you guys need to hear because you guys are wasting your time with these losers that

you call friends. I'm sorry. I know it's harsh, but I'mma get into it. This is TK talks. Glad y'all could join me. Let's get into it. These are questions that you really need to ask yourself. These people that I'm hanging out with. And quick disclaimer before I even continue, guys. If your friends are empowering you and they're encouraging you to go on the right path and they're not losers, ignore. Ignore this. This video isn't even for you, right? This video is not even for you. But I can bet my bottom dollar for the majority, for the average. And guys, this is why this word average is used, right? What is aver? Average means it means on the whole, the majority of the time, nine times out of ten, 90% of the time. These modern males, right, that you hang out with, these friends are losers. And I'm not saying this from a position of, Oh, I'm just this perfect, perfect guy, you know, this perfect dude that never messed up in his life and was

never a bad influence and all that good stuff. I'm not saying that from that position at all. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt and the autograph. What do they say? Experience is the best teacher. From experience, I realize that these friends are keeping me intoxicated, keeping me broke, right? Keeping me thirsty for broads, I'm telling you. And a lot of you guys can relate to this. Keeping me dumbed down because I guarantee you a lot of these so-called friends, when you try to do something positive with your life, they're going to start talking [ __ ] about you. They're going to start throwing little remarks and stuff, right? Little jokes, hate disguised as jokes. Because ask yourself this: when you're hanging around these guys, are you becoming better or are you becoming average to below average? Probably most of the time below average, right? Number two: if you guys weren't getting drunk together, getting high, intoxicated, chasing broads, you know, being thirsty as hell, going to these uh

useless ass clubs and splitting a section between six dudes in one bottle, right? Six dudes in one bottle, kind of like that two girls in one cup, right? Six dudes in one bottle in a [__] section. All that meaningless, pointless stuff is that you, if you weren't doing that, would these guys be hanging out with you? The answer is no. Another question I had asked, do they even really care about you? I'mma tell you guys what, fellas, I promise you this, and this is going to be extremely unfortunate, and this is going to hurt a lot of you guys. A lot of times, the people you hang out with for the vast majority of the times don't care about you. Where did I learn this? I learned this from my younger days when I felt like I had to be in the in-crowd all the time, or I felt like I always needed to have friends, right? I felt like I always needed to have friends. I later learned that a lot of those people I was hanging out with

didn't even give a [ __ ] about me, right? Didn't even care about me because at some point they started showing their true colors, right? I would come in, you know, in the restaurant that I have worked in, and we would all hang out, and sometimes they would act like they ain't even know me, right? They acting like they, you know, they had like a little attitude of, like, you know, like looking at me like that. I'm like, Damn, I thought we was friends, right? And I'm not saying it's about every single person that, you know, don't get it twisted. You know, if you have a great friend, if you've had a friend for a long time, go ahead, keep that person. That's not very easy to come by. It's rare to come by. But truth be told, like I said, most of your friends mean you no good. Most of your friends do not care about you, do not have your best interest. If you try to, guys, I remember when I first started

working out right or not. When I first started working out, when I was working out, and I would tell certain friends like, Hey, you know, I'm trying to cut back on drinking. I'm trying to cut back on going out. 'Cause in my head, I'm like, Bro, I'm tired of chasing after broads and being thirsty and hitting clubs. And then the guys I was going to the clubs and [__] with their ass had the most depressed Dem. Like, it was so depressing to be around him, right? It was so depressing. It's like, for somebody who was begging me to drink and go out with them, like, damn, their mood was so depressed. But guess why they were depressed? Because they were always involved in low vibrational activities, right? All they wanted to do was go out, drink, chase broads, low vibrational activity. You know, I've mentioned low vibrational activities to you guys plenty of times. And I tell them, Hey, look, I'm trying to improve myself. I'm trying to cut back on this, cut back on

right hey look I'm I'm I'm getting more in touch with the spirit and they we start laughing and [ __ ] does that sound familiar to you guys do you guys does that sound familiar you know when you try to get on self-improvement when you try to better your physique when you try to better your diet and your so-called friends start making fun of you cut them off dog you know and at some point I all that uh juvenile way of thinking like oh you know what I said in beginning oh those are my friends that's the Bros who would I who who am I going to hang out with [ __ ] that why are you even hanging out with them type of people What What In in what way are they enriching your life cuz let me tell you something going out every like going out several nights of the week to a bar getting drunk and chasing broads it's it is not going to do a single Jack [ __ ] thing for

you right if your friends if you're always hanging out with these so-called friends right and they're always complaining they're always in this bad low vibrational mood everything you know guys I've hung out with people that when I was in a room with them I felt a dark cloud over my head right there were and these might have been friends of friends right you know I walk in everybody all drunk everybody looking all depressed the energy you know they the only thing they talking about is oh where the hoes at oh we F to [ __ ] these hoes and and it was extremely low vibrational I felt depressed and hey look as men right single men or whatever do we like to come of young ladies of course of course if we're s especially if we're single we're going to go out there and and you know try to get with a young lady that's natural cool I can dig it but when it's like the focal point of every single time you know if if your friend's not a

one time mention hey look let's go to the gym or hey man let's let's drop the liquor for a little bit get on this L uh water okay get on this water get on this this more balanced diet you don't got to eat broccoli and asparagus and all that but a more balanced diet you know you know let's skip the clubs this this let's let's skip the clubs for a little bit let's let's not go to the bars and and be thirsty over thoughts you know you know you're you're you're not going to really hear that from these type of friends cuz all they're going to want is to do low vibrational stuff and then when get around them like I said they're going to be complaining they're going to have this kind of dark energy around them because they're too busy indulging in [ __ ] they think it's cool you know most most men out here most modern men not all but most for the most part they

think being thirsty is, you know, like I be hearing the conversations. Oh man, I [ __ ] this gr dog. I no one cares. We get it, bro. Like, like these friends are going to always be in a constant state of trying to validate themselves. Oh man, I [ __ ] this girl dog. Oh man. And deep down inside, they're depressed as hell and they're trying to mask. Oh man, you ain't got no hoes. You talk what you ain't got no ho, bro. Is that the only thing? Like these dudes, a lot of these dudes have no car, no job, no money, but worried about hoes. You know, they don't have anything going on for themselves, but they're worried about females. They have no kind of potential, anything going on, but they're worried about females. And you need to cut them type of people off, dog. I'm sorry if they're your friends, but if they're not going to change, first of all, that's not your job. Second of all, those friends are quick s, and you need to have the proper

discernment of letting them go. It you'll be all right. You'll be better off because those same friends you don't need. As the more you hang out with them, the more you're going to be a loser just like them because they're going to keep influencing you, right? Anyway, with that being said, hope y'all like the video. Peace.

Get Rid of Your LOSER Friends or End Up Like Them (Harsh Reality)

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Hanging out with the wrong group of people can hinder personal growth and success.

It's important to ask whether these friends truly care about you and have your best interests in mind.

Toxic friendships often lead to negative behaviors and can hold you back from achieving your goals.

Many social interactions, like splitting a bottle between six guys, are meaningless and superficial.

The people you hang out with often don't genuinely care about you, and their true colors may show over time.

While true friendships are rare, most acquaintances do not have your best interest at heart.

The Impact of Low Vibrational Activities on Self-Improvement

The speaker reflects on their journey to self-improvement, trying to cut back on drinking and partying.

They notice that their friends, who are still engaged in low vibrational activities, have a depressing demeanor.

The speaker emphasizes the importance of distancing themselves from negative influences and highlights the need to surround oneself with people who enrich their life.

Hanging out with friends who have a negative, low vibrational mood can be draining and depressing.

These friends often focus on indulgent and unhealthy behaviors, neglecting positive activities or personal growth.

The lack of balance and motivation to make healthier choices can perpetuate a cycle of negativity and dissatisfaction.

Some individuals constantly seek validation through their relationships, often masking deeper issues like depression.

Many of these friends lack stability in their own lives, yet prioritize their pursuits of women.

It's important to recognize the negative influence of such friendships and consider cutting ties for personal growth.