Hello everyone, of course, we all remember that women, just like men, are not born that way and only become so in the process of psychosexual development and the specific formation of their gender identity. That is, when a girl from early childhood builds and forms a mental image of her own femininity, just as boys cultivate and nurture an image of their individual masculinity within themselves. This happens because we observe different people of our preferred gender - adults, aunts, women, girls, mothers, grandmothers - and in what we like about them, we adopt this image and make it a part of our own personality. And of course, the more complete this image of femininity is, the more different roles you have there, the more mature and established you become as a woman. And of course, in this image of femininity, there is a place for all the characters of girls and friends.

For a daring girl and a sweetie, here are our modest embraces. And for such a mother, there is Play-Doh for a nursing one, which can bake a tasty, smoking, fragrant pie. And she will be in every clean little mold, such a housewife, and of course, there is a place for a fatal woman, the one that is hard to find, easy to lose, and impossible to forget. When I was a teenager, I was very interested in the question of forming my own femininity. I was very curious to know who this fatal woman is. The most impressive thing for me was when I read Salvador Dali's diary of a genius and stories of his life written by himself. As much as I dislike Salvador Dali as an artist, so vulgar and tasteless, so out of place, he simply touched me, amazed me as a writer. And in general, it seems to me that most of all, he

He unfolded in his life and realized his true, genuine purpose precisely in the process of his very tender, touching, and holy love for this mountain, which was actually Alenka Dyakonova. And when I was reading this book, it was so interesting to find out how Alenka Dyakonova managed to make him not love her for his whole life, putting her on a pedestal, she was a goddess to him, an ideal divine foam born. Intuitively reading this book, I then came to the conclusion for myself that most likely it is connected to her feelings, some very deep self-respect and self-esteem, and self-confidence. But now, as a psychotherapist, I didn't understand what a psychotherapeutic Zhenska is called. Say something about psychotherapeutic now I will explain to you in simple terms what it means to be a fatal woman and how to become one if you haven't yet, and this is related to.

A fatal woman is one who simply understands her feeling of love very well. We can be aware of our emotions or not be aware of our emotions, and it turns out that there are actually many women who swim shallowly and never dare to be so generous to allow themselves to experience the fullness of their own love. In contrast, a fatal woman is one who has well understood her love. Let's see why a woman may poorly understand her love. Firstly, because of the fear and shame of this love, and then these women, how do they behave? You have to win me over. Lower 1, approach. Release 1. She will admit, Let him invite me on a date. Let him give me flowers. Let him, most importantly, confess his love completely. He will be my knight, and I will be like this, sitting in the closed dungeon of my fear and shame, and do nothing.

This shows a very repressed woman who lacks freedom, who does not know how to express her sexuality with great many girls also asked me in the comments how a woman can show her healthy sexual love activity and the second distortion is in the case when a woman dissolves so much in love that she simply turns into some pathetic little dog who humbly grovels and falls down before her divine only king, becomes his work, and just shrinks to a point where she is literally about to be annihilated. At that moment, a woman completely loses herself, her identity, her dignity, and self-respect. In contrast to this, a fatal woman, she is fully aware of her emotion and thanks to this, she can possess this love with the precision of a surgeon and a professional, which implies awareness of this emotion. First of all, a fatal woman.

This is about situations when a woman is not playing anyone, not pretending to be anyone. In fact, she truly loves, bravely acknowledging this emotion. Firstly, she takes responsibility for it, making this love emotion become a feeling that belongs only to her. It becomes her gift, decoration, and charm of life. She treats her own love with care and respect, making others also respect it. Secondly, by being aware of it, she doesn't have to fall into the state of fear and shame, allowing her to fully master these emotions. She can freely act under its influence, giving her the opportunity to express this healthy sexual activity. On the other hand, at the same time, a fatal woman she is.

She understands that because it is a feeling that belongs to her, she can maintain a healthy distance between herself and her partner, and she can truly relate to him as equals. Here I am, I love him, here I am, here are my feelings of love, and here he is, the one to whom this feeling belongs. This allows her to still remember that she is herself, and these are her feelings. This allows her not to put her partner on a pedestal, so in a way, she separates her love a little. Love is territorially closer to her than to him, yes, she separates her love from him. So when we realize the emotion, we remember that it allows us to keep it at a level of intensity around seven or eight, where we can still control and possess it. And because of this, the fatal woman can indeed become this long-awaited goddess in a man's life, because at that moment, she becomes free, purely to manifest.

Empathy towards him means seeing him as a person, and thanks to this, she can already criticize and praise him somewhere. Because she deeply understands his soul so well and clearly because she loves him, she understands his emotions, knows his needs, lives his destiny to a certain extent. Thanks to this, she always becomes for him that unattainable tail of the Firebird, for which he will always want to strive like for a bright comet's light, just to catch up with this date. Because of this, she always becomes interesting, enticing, and calling, because she understands him, sees him, and shows only the most interesting in relation to him. And that is precisely the main difference of a fatal woman who can be constructive and constructive from a fatal woman who is destructive. For example, the second character that attracted me a lot in my teenage years was, of course, him.

John Lennon, whose Yoko Ono she was a fatal woman, but she was destructive, and she led to him developing a love dependency to such an extent that he simply soared into the heavenly skies of sanctity, and you were already twitching from side to side, but it ended badly because even though he bared himself at an existential level and it was just buzzing how he blossomed in this, there was still some kind of rupture. And Salvador Dali, look at how he reduced epoch, he had money in abundance, and she had enough in Girona and said whatever she wanted. She was burning, I can live with you separately now because I want to, and they lived separately, loved each other all their lives until the grave, right until the coffin. Yes, this happens because by nature, there are women with such a temperament who have the potential to be bright fatal women, like Yoko Ono or, for example, Shevchuk's wife.

Due to the fact that they have a personality disorder and they generally poorly understand all their emotions because they have low emotional regulation settings, they also poorly understand their feeling of love, and because of this, they cannot control it. But controlling it, you know, they just, well, where are they going to take it? So, they did it without a king in their head, but with a king in their head. This is when in such communication with a man, respectful care towards him as an adult is shown. In short, if you want to become a fatal woman, what do you need to do when you fall in love with a guy, a man? You need to realize this feeling, that is, understand that you have it, then you have to endure it, that is, you look at him and say this is love and apply it to your soul as long as you can endure it, and endure it. And for the fact that you have this feeling, you also love yourself for it, additionally respect yourself for it, and rejoice that you have it, precisely this from the outside.

And it will look like an incomparable and unique stake, from which you simply go crazy, always something new, something free, and always a degree of selflessness or, on the contrary, games will be present in your behavior. It is very, very interesting. So, as always, in any question, the most important thing is to be aware of your emotions. Subscribe to my channel, like, leave comments, wait for my new videos, and be happy in love. Thank you very much to all my sponsors and donors. Goodbye.

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