The Importance of Financial Stability in Relationships

Men must strive for success, as women are naturally attracted to those who can provide and protect.

### The Illusion of Love Without Financial Stability: A Reality Check for Men
* 💔 Many men are misled by the belief that "**the right woman won't care about money**," which distorts their understanding of attraction and relationships.
* 🤒 The speaker shares his personal struggles, including a **recent illness** and a past where **financial constraints** affected his **self-esteem and relationships**.
* 💼 He emphasizes that women are inherently attracted to men who can **provide and protect**, and that **financial stability** plays a crucial role in this dynamic.
* 👨 The speaker plans to raise his daughter with **high standards**, showcasing the importance of **hard work and success** in setting an example for future partners.
* 💪 He argues that if a woman is not attracted to a man due to his financial situation, it reflects more on the man's **lack of ambition and self-respect** than on the woman's character.
* 🏡 The cycle of dissatisfaction in families often stems from men who **settle for mediocrity**, leading to **resentment and poor role modeling for children**.
* 🚀 He advises men to push themselves daily to achieve more, asserting that **confidence and success are essential for attracting quality partners**.
* 🔥 Ultimately, the speaker warns against the **dangerous mindset** that one can find love without financial responsibility, urging men to **take action and build a fulfilling life**.

If you find the right woman, she won't care how much money you have. Now, your parents have probably told you this. Society has told you this, right? People around you have probably been like, Oh, you know, all women are gold diggers. They only care about money, yada, yada, yada. But that phrase that I just stated, that if you find the right woman, she won't care about how much money you have, is absolute [__] and it is literally a complete... Let me tell you why, because it's [__] up so many men's perspectives on how this thing actually works. Um, I'm in Miami right now. Uh, it's... Tomorrow's the 4th of July. I'm still working on my vlog for those of you guys who, um, are regulars on my channel. Um, and I've had literally a 104 fever for the past... since I got here on Monday. And I haven't been sick in a long ass time, so I'm struggling. I didn't want to make this

video, but I was sitting in the shower, and I had to like the thought would just keep looping over me, looping over me, and I was like, Dude, I just want to go to bed. I'm sick. I'm feeling a little bit better. Maybe my fever will go away. But when I have thoughts like that, I know that I have to sit here and make a video and let it out because that's when I provide the most value. And if I were to go to sleep on that thought, it would never be the same. You always have to act on thoughts like that when you instantly get them. So, I decided to sit down, even though I've lost like 10 lbs, and I'm looking super, super skinny, and I've been sweating and freezing cold all day, and talk about this topic, especially here in Vice City, a week before I move. I'm staring at my apartment building that I'll be moving into next Wednesday, and um, super surreal, but I'm getting

off topic. Let me talk about what you clicked on this video to watch. Now, when I started my first business that failed miserably, my girlfriend at the time, I could barely afford to take her out to dinner. I'm talking like 50 bucks would completely drain my bank account. And it wasn't even that she like wanted me to take her to super nice places or anything like that. Like this girl loved me for me, but it made me feel broken inside because I couldn't do more for her. And she could tell that outward reflection of me. She could feel that energy 'cause you can't fake that as a man when you have no self-confidence. Not because of the way you look, not because of anything else, but because of the habits that you're participating in, the habits that you have, the actions that you're participating in, and the things that you aren't putting effort towards that you should be putting effort towards. You can fake the confidence all day long, but women can smell that [ __ ] right. It is in

a woman's nature to find and be attracted to the man who can provide and protect her and her future children or her current children as best as possible. And that's who a woman's going to pick every single solitary day. And if you cannot generate an income that can at least support yourself in abundance and support other people like a family and like children, it's going to [ __ ] up that entire dynamic. When I have a daughter, I will spoil the [ __ ] out of her. My son will get absolutely nothing because that's what's going to turn him into the man that I want him to be. My parents did the same thing to me. My parents were very hard on me, and I hated it at the time, and I am so glad that they were. I'm like, Damn, I wish you guys would have just thrown me out into the woods for a couple of years and been like, 'Survive.' It would have been the best thing ever for me, right? But my daughter, it's going to be different. I'm

going to spoil her. I'm going to set an amazing example for her. I'm going to be such a rare man that any man that crosses paths with her, that tries to sway her, woo her, and take her out on a date, she's going to have the highest standards, that if he doesn't come anywhere close to me, she won't even be attracted to him, right? And it's not going to be, Oh, he doesn't have money. It's going to be, Look, my dad wakes up at 4:00 a.m. My dad has a nine-figure business. My dad has all these cars. My dad provides for his wife in the future and our family in abundance. All of these things, right? I'm 20 years old, making $50,000 a month from my fitness coaching business. I also consult other fitness coaches and online coaches to scale their business. I'm doing well for myself right now, but I'm nowhere close to the goals that I want to and I will have reached by the time.

I'm that age. My point is you shouldn't be like, Oh well, this woman should just not want me for the money. Yes, there's gold diggers. Yes, there are stupid hoes that only want money out there. But if a woman doesn't like you because she sees you pull up in a [ __ ] Honda Accord and you're 25 and you work at, you know, some job where you're barely scraping six figures or you're making, you know, a teacher salary, $50,000-$60,000 a year, it's not that she's not a good person. It's that you're not a good man. You are showing her, you are nonverbally communicating to her why by your body language, by your actions, without even speaking to her and being like, Hey, I can't hold myself accountable. I have no work ethic. I have no real-world skills. And I don't have the balls to go out there and eat what I kill and provide for myself in abundance. You've either just let the system carry you away and you've settled, and no woman is

going to want that, and if she does, the whole family dynamic falls apart. That's how we have these families where the dad fat his [ __ ] doesn't respect himself, the wife is super out of shape and doesn't respect her husband because he barely provides, the kids don't respect the parents because the parents set a shitty example that no one would want to follow in the footsteps after they have a 30-year mortgage on a mediocre house. The dad hates his life, hates his job, comes home, binge eats, watches TV, argues with his kids, and his wife goes to sleep though goes on two vacations a year where he stressed out the whole time cuz he can't actually provide for his family the way he wants to, and it's a horrible endless cycle because he bought the LIE of like oh well it doesn't matter how much money I make I'll just be able to find the right woman for me and we'll be golden. You should be pushing yourself every [ __ ]

day to see how much you can achieve right the reason why you might see a very attractive woman with an ugly guy sometimes if it's like an 80-year-old dude right and a 20-year-old model from Sweden probably a gold digger and she's just in it for the money right but if you see a sort of overweight dude right he probably should get in shape and he's insecure about it himself no matter how much he flexes his money so he's already sort of a little bit of a [ __ ] because of that but the woman has fallen in love with his personality she's fallen in love with his work ethic she's falling in love with the fact that he can provide the security he provides the confidence he has in his own work ethic and that's what she loves she doesn't love the money women do not see money the same way that you do they do not see the material they don't see a Lamborghini as oh super cool uh superar

super fast pops and burbles sound super loud. Everyone looks at me. She sees it as, Oh, look at the man that I'm with, who's able to afford these things. Women don't give a [__] about that, but you guys are like, She's just with him because of the car. You're right. She's with him because he's able to acquire the car. The traits that he possesses got him to the level where he could acquire the car. I'm sitting here speaking with so much passion, even though I have a sore throat and I literally am feeling horrible with the fever, because you can't fake this. You can't fake this emotion that I give off because it's true. I've seen it in my own life. I literally live it. I see it around me, and I see people falling into this trap over and over and over again, and it's another thing that is [__] destroying the world. Now, you might argue and be like, Oh, well, some women don't. They don't.

subscribe to those gender roles, right? The women that are at the bottom of the pool, yes, TikTok, Hillary Clinton, and birth control have [ __ ] up that dynamic. But the women that haven't dyed their hair blue and subscribe to they/them pronouns still carry that desire to find a man who is masculine, to find a man who is strong, who can protect and provide, and who can provide security to the family. Okay, so if you're only seeing women that are like, Oh, I want to be in charge, I don't want to work in, I want to get a job on my own, I don't want to take care of the house, you need to take care of the house, right? You can't tell me what to do, that's bottom of the [ __ ] pool women. And the reason that you're there and you're like, Oh, the dating scene around me is so [ __ ], is because you can only attract who you are. You're

attracting women that are the exact replica of the low life that you are. Okay, some of you guys might be making your first 10K a month, might be making your first 20K a month, and that's [ __ ] great. That's when you need to start taking your life to the next level and build confidence in every single area. But I'm talking to those of you who have fallen into this trap, and I just, I have to put it out there. I don't care if this video gets five views, right? I have to put it out there. Do not fall into the trap of thinking that, Oh, the right woman is not going to care how much money I make, right? I can live in a hut, and we can eat leaves, and we can be like naked and afraid, and everything's going to be happy and dandy. You're [ __ ] lying to yourself. That woman doesn't love you. It's probably not even a woman, right? You're being played. Get that out of your

mind stop selling yourself short and go [ __ ] execute go do something with your life go start your coaching business if you're in shape and you're broke like I used to be I was the most ripped guy in the gym and I had no [ __ ] money and I started working three jobs and I took all the money that I had and I invested in coaches and mentors and courses and I built this business that I have and I'm going to hit seven figures by the end of the year I'm in my condo in Miami that I've dreamed about and worked towards for two years I drive a six-figure car all these things I'm able to literally have time location and Financial Freedom to go do whatever the [ __ ] I want I'm lit here in Miami by myself just working for a whole week just because I wanted to don't fall into the Trap of thinking that you can sell yourself short and still feel confident in yourself still attract the 10 out of 10 wom still live

a fulfilling lifestyle. You absolutely cannot, and you need to get that out of your head. The Vlog is coming before I leave, I promise. I've got so much content coming out. I needed to spill that. I needed to let your boys know what was going on. Don't fall into that [ __ ] trap. I love you. Stay aggressive.

Your DREAM GIRL Won't Care About the Money You Make

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The belief that the right woman won't care about a man's money is misleading and has distorted many men's perspectives.

The speaker shares their personal struggle with finances while trying to support a girlfriend, highlighting how a lack of self-confidence can be felt by others.

The video emphasizes the importance of taking action towards self-improvement and building confidence, as women can easily sense when a man is not genuine.

Women are naturally drawn to men who can provide and protect, impacting their partner choices.

The speaker plans to spoil his daughter while being tough on his son to shape him into a responsible man.

The speaker's success at a young age is aimed at setting a strong example for his daughter, emphasizing the importance of work ethic and real-world skills in attracting a partner.

The Impact of Family Dynamics on Personal Growth

Family dynamics can become toxic when parents are out of shape and unhappy, leading to a cycle of disrespect and dissatisfaction.

The pursuit of financial stability and the wrong beliefs about relationships can trap individuals in a miserable life.

Women are often attracted to a man's work ethic and confidence, rather than just his money, as they value the traits that lead to success.

Challenging Gender Roles and Dating Dynamics

Women at the bottom of the dating pool may exhibit certain behaviors and desires, but those who seek masculine partners for protection and security still exist.

The speaker argues that individuals attract partners who mirror their own life situation.

It's important to build confidence and take life to the next level, rather than falling into the trap of believing that financial stability doesn't matter in a relationship.

Taking Charge of Your Life: A Call to Action

Stop selling yourself short and take action to change your life.

Invest in coaches, mentors, and courses to build a successful business.

Achieve time, location, and financial freedom by working hard and staying aggressive.