Men's Hobbies: Attractive and Unattractive Traits Revealed

Men attract women by engaging in hobbies like reading, woodworking, and cooking.

### Attractiveness of Hobbies: What Men Should Know
* 📊 A recent survey by Date Psychology of 840 individuals revealed the most and least attractive hobbies for men, highlighting that some might find the results **surprising**.
* 👄 The least attractive hobby, according to women, is **makeup**, followed closely by **crypto**, which is seen as **unappealing** when identified as a hobby rather than a profession.
* 🚬 Other hobbies deemed unattractive include cigars, clubbing, and marijuana, with the latter two often perceived as **lacking seriousness or depth**.
* 🎲 Gambling and being poor ranked highly as unattractive hobbies, reflecting concerns about **stability and responsibility** in potential partners.
* 🛠 Conversely, the most attractive hobby identified is **woodworking**, showcasing a **practical skill** that many find appealing.
* 🍳 Cooking follows closely, recognized as an **essential and attractive ability** that signifies **care and nurturing**.
* 🎶 Playing instruments and learning foreign languages are also considered attractive, although the latter is sometimes viewed skeptically as it may seem **pretentious**.
* 📚 Ultimately, reading tops the list as the **most attractive hobby**, emphasizing the **value of knowledge** and the **accessibility of this pursuit**.

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called Date Psychology surveyed 840 men and women asking them a series
of questions to find out

what the most and least
attractive male hobbies are. And today we're gonna go through it. We're gonna look at the
least attractive hobbies. We're gonna look at the
most attractive hobbies. And let me warn you now guys, some

of these hobbies on this
list are gonna upset you. And some of these hobbies on
this list are our hobbies. Number 10 least attractive hobby that a man can have according to women is makeup. I mean, yeah, okay, what's
number nine? Crypto.

Ooh, dude, I am all about blockchain. Like the idea behind it, I'm into it. Dude, decentralized stuff. Keep people from taking
crap away from you. I'm all about it, but it's not my hobby.

It's like one of those
things where if it's your job and it's a good job,
then that's one thing. But if you are like a sous chef and then you're like, oh,
I'm into crypto as my hobby,

it's kind of like, all right, I can see how that's unattractive. Crypto, fine. Self-Identifying
as a crypto guy? Not very attractive. Again, not up to me. This
is what the girls said.

Number eight, cigars. Cigars as a hobby. I get it. If you're just like smoking black and milds, constantly
like hanging out the side of your window 100%, that's super weird. This is an easy thing to
not look cool while doing.

Are you guys familiar with the
Italian term sprezzatura? It's the ease with which you do things. So you can have an outfit and if you look like you're
not comfortable in it, then you don't look cool. But you can take that same outfit

and put it on a guy
who's like chilling in it and he's got sprezzatura. It's like chillness and
you look natural doing it. If you look natural smoking a cigar, then you're Arnold
Schwarzenegger, you look cool.

And I don't care who tells me different. The Governator looks
cool while smoking a stogie. I smoke my stogie anywhere
I want because I'm a stud. But as a hobby, like your
whole hobby is cigars.

Mm, that's accurate. Don't smoke anything. Life's hard enough. Alright, number seven, clubbing. Clubbing. Eight. A hobby. Dude, clubbing is a lifestyle, dude. I don't necessarily know
if like going to a club

and dancing is a very
unattractive thing. Girls love dancing and girls love a guy who
will go dancing with them. But again, I think these
people are imagining that first date you're sitting
across from each other at a

restaurant, you're
getting to know each other and it's like, so what are you into? If off the bat some dude
is like, I like clubbing, I picture a Jersey Shore type guy. You know a guy who's like
maybe doesn't have his

priorities straight. I like clubbing, but that's
not to say that going to clubs and dancing, like if this were dancing, I think it would be much more attractive. So what do you like to do? I like dancing.

That's something to think about.
So what do you like to do? I like clubbing. Ooh. It doesn't have the same ring
to it, you know what I mean? Number six, marijuana as a hobby. Marijuana is my hobby. What
are you into? Marijuana.

It could potentially enhance your hobbies. Going to a movie, smoking a
joint, cooking after smoking a joint. You know, like it used to be
kind of like an outlaw thing and allowed you to be sort
of a rebellious person.

But now that it's legal,
it's just like drinking. It's like being into drinking. And so like if you were
like, Hey, what's your hobby? Oh, I like drinking. It's like, yo, okay,
this'll be our last date.

Again to each their own. But as a hobby, just my opinion. And 840 women, the number
five least attractive hobby that a man can have according to women is Funko Pops, the first brand name on the list? Collecting little things with big heads

is the number five least
attractive thing that a man can do as a hobby according to women. Surprised that it's above marijuana. I'm surprised it's above cigars. I'm surprised it's above makeup. I wonder if this one is
associated with the other things

that it suggests that you like. Funko suggests I like
entertainment stuff so much that I have created an
entirely new hobby just to show people who come to my house how much I like that stuff. And while I'm not one
to judge, I could see

how a woman walking into your house and seeing your wall of Walter White dolls might be like, I don't know if
I want this guy to be the dad of my kids dude. But like anything in moderation
is totally reasonable. I have little toys
hidden all over my house,

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There is no safe, like simply safe. Number four, arguing online. Again, dude, what are you
into? I like fighting online. About what? Anything. This is a big thing now, the debate thing. Tell him to debate me.
Tell him to debate me.

You'll never debate me. That is the nerdiest
thing I've ever heard. And I did speech and
debate in high school. It could be argued that this
is a synonym for Reddit. Again, I like Reddit.

I think Reddit is one of the
best platforms on the internet. One of the few bastions of what I think the internet should
kinda look like is Reddit. But my hobby is not arguing
with other people on Reddit. I'm not damning the things
it's, it's if it's your hobby.

I will admit that I did
argue with a few people when we uploaded our first few videos, argued with a couple guys. I don't know if I argued with 'em. I, you know, that's how guys who argue online probably think too.

It's like I'm not arguing.
I'm getting, I'm getting them. That's what a lawyer does.
I like arguing in person. That's not a hobby though. That's a job. He's getting paid for it
so it makes it better.

Yeah, that seems like a number four. Makes me really excited
for one through three. All right, number three, poor being poor. Oh, but Jesse didn't wanna write it. We might get demonetized if
we write. Should I say corn?

That's what they do on TikTok. Alright, Korn, dude, if
that's your hobby, get help. And if that is your hobby and just like right out of
the gate you're like, this is what I'm about, kudos to you for bravery.

Much better to just come
out with it and admit stuff and be about it than to bury it. This one's real tricky,
dude. This one's real tricky. It's your hobby. You know,
I'm not a guy who's like,

dude, don't goon, don't goon. I'm too old for that, right? Dude, as a hobby, I think in general, if that's your hobby, I don't
know if that's healthy. Number three least attractive
hobby a guy can have is any

sort of number two. Gambling. No surprise here. This is one of the ones that
I saw when we first found this list and I asked Ri if it was accurate and she was like, well
it depends if you win. I'm just trying to put myself
in the head of the people

who took the survey and I think, oh yeah, that would be unattractive
for a guy to just be like, "Ugh, babe. Babe, let me hold four grand.
Let me hold another 4K, babe. Like let me hold another 4K, babe."

I could totally see as
a potential partner, if you're looking to
have a life with someone to build an empire together,
I could totally see how gambling is a, a hobby
that puts that at risk. Like it's gonna take a lot
of fungos to lose the house.

You know what I mean? Like gambling. You could do it in a hand, you could put it all on
black and be like, "Yep. Well hey, remember how we've
been working towards a future? Yeah, we're not doing that no more."

But if you let me hold 4K, I think I can get it back. And then some. Not surprising. Alright, we are now at the number one least attractive hobby that a man can have according to women. I really don't have any idea what it is.

Heroin, get a little sip of coffee. I hope it's not caffeine. The number one least attractive hobby that a man can have according to women is "manosphere". Huh? Is that like guys on the internet, stop standing like a nerd.

Don't be a balance broke six pack, you're gonna have a hard time. I mean, what do I have to say about this? 98% of our audience is male and a lot of 'em are young men. And I do acknowledge that there are specific challenges

and hardships that young men have to deal with. And I don't know if they are currently given the amount of attention that I think they should, but like I think that like this just presses on that fact and is sort of a perverse, nerdy way

of handling that stuff. So I don't know, one of the reasons we started this channel and more and more I wanna like have those conversations with you guys and help you navigate some of those things in ways that like either did

or didn't have people to help me navigate those things when I was younger. So yeah, luckily they are attracted to some stuff though, huh? Guys, we are here. Guys. There is hope, not. I'm not just telling you what's wrong with you.

I'm giving you some stuff that might attract the opposite sex. All right, number five, most attractive hobby a
man can have according to women is woodworking. Dude, this is like, again, they were, everyone was given a list

and they had to be like, okay, yeah, that would be attractive
if someone did that. Like of course woodworking
like working with wood. Wood, a super attractive thing. Nick Offerman woodworks. Number four, cooking. I totally get this. It's
attractive to be able

to feed your mate, to
feed a potential family. Dude, cooking is so attractive. I just read two Anthony Bourdain
books that I was thinking. Andy Morain is so known for The bear. Ah, girls love the bear. 

We're all buying expensive white T-shirts 'cause of this guy, Maddie Matheson, not a traditionally attractive man, but he's got zaddy status because the Moha knows how to cook. This one makes sense. If
anything, I'm surprised. 

It's at number four. Makes
me salivate for number three. Number three, most attractive
hobby according to women is playing instruments. My jealousies bubbling up a little bit. I think this is a best case
scenario, worst case scenario. 

And quite honestly, I'm
surprised that cooking is not above playing instruments. I think when someone sees,
oh, playing an instrument, they're thinking John
Mayer, they're thinking, this guy's gonna doodle on a guitar

and he's gonna, Dominic
fike me a song like I'm in *Euphoria* or something. But guess what else is an
instrument? The trumpet. Guess what else is an
instrument? The tuba. I'm not saying those are
unattractive instruments to play, 

but a guy who's good at
guitar, 100% attractive. A guy who's bad at the violin, maybe not being bad at an instrument
quickly goes from being very cool to being annoying and douchey. Number two, foreign languages. 

It's more of a thing
than a hobby, isn't it? And I think we're getting
into like *Twilight* novel arena of women imagining men that don't exist. This is the first one that
I'm like, all right, okay, 

you're getting fooled. If some guy's like, oh yeah, like my hubby's learning
foreign languages. He's trying to appear like he is something that he probably is not. Sorry ladies. That guy does not exist unless you're jma, NYC,
you're probably lying guys. 

We've made it. We went through all of the non attractive ones. We've gone through a bunch
of the attractive ones. We finally reached the number
one most attractive hobby a man can have according to women. If you do this, you're
probably doing okay gentlemen. 

And if you don't do it,
maybe you should pick it up. Number one most attractive hobby that a man can have according to women is looking on Facebook
Marketplace at old Japanese cars that are broken. All right? For real though,
the number one most attractive 

Hobby that a man can have
according to women is reading. Dude, this one's free. You
ever heard of a library? This one's awesome. This one's easy. Easier than woodworking.
Definitely easier than cooking.

Cooking's a good one though. Playing an instrument is definitely
easier than playing. We can all do it. We just gotta do it. Should I start sharing books
that I'm reading with you guys? You guys wanna start a book
club? Should we do that?

Is that, should we start a Discord? Are we becoming best friends right now? Dude, if you can prove to
me that you read 16 books by my birthday, March 19th,
I will buy you a pizza. I'll do it, dude. I'll
figure it out. Guys.

Let's get hotter together, dude. Let's make the boys smarter. We're bettering ourselves together. I'm surprised exercise
didn't make the list, but I encourage you to do that too. I've been running lately
and I love it. Read.

Let's read, cook, woodwork, and let's stop marijuana. I love you.

The Best Male Hobbies (according to women)

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Least Attractive Male Hobbies According to Women

Makeup is ranked as the 10th least attractive hobby.

Cryptocurrency, particularly self-identifying as a 'crypto guy,' is considered unattractive.

Cigars as a hobby are seen as unattractive unless done with effortless coolness.

Clubbing is viewed as a potentially unattractive hobby, depending on the context and presentation.

Marijuana, as a hobby, is considered less attractive than other activities.

Collecting Funko Pops is ranked as the fifth least attractive hobby.

Arguing online is considered unattractive.

Being poor is listed as an unattractive hobby.

Gambling is viewed as an unattractive hobby due to the potential risks involved.

Being involved in the 'manosphere' is ranked as the number one least attractive hobby.

Most Attractive Male Hobbies According to Women

Woodworking is considered a highly attractive hobby.

Cooking is ranked as the fourth most attractive hobby.

Playing musical instruments is considered the third most attractive hobby.

Learning foreign languages is listed as the second most attractive hobby.

Reading is ranked as the number one most attractive hobby.