Young friends can meet Doi, but why should they specifically meet someone older? I think the biggest appeal that older individuals have for younger friends is their experience. This could be a significant difference between older people and younger friends. 

The first point is this: I need to recognize my age. Just because I am older, I shouldn't think that I automatically have an advantage. Being older means that I need to add some other charm to my personality. It's important to have self-awareness about this. As one gets older, it’s not necessarily easier to be attractive; in fact, the opposite is often true. This applies to both men and women. However, there is a high possibility that someone might think they are more attractive simply because they are older. Self-awareness is crucial, of course, when interacting with peers.

Meeting someone is fine, but if I say I want to meet someone much younger than me, that part is definitely about my own energy. So, from now on, I will talk a bit more specifically about what I should appeal to. The first thing is appearance. This might be a bit of a cliché, but since I'm older, I'll speak comfortably. If I say I'm older, I should look a bit younger, right? Honestly, if I look very old, it will be difficult to have a close relationship with someone much younger than me. The other person might feel a sense of rejection towards me. Also, wearing neat clothes is important; trying to look young by wearing flashy outfits won't work either. It should be appropriately neat and dandy.

You shouldn't overdo it just to look younger, like wearing ripped jeans and trying to dress in a way that is considered fashionable. Sometimes, I see people wearing overly flashy outfits, like neon t-shirts with ripped jeans and a big belt, and that can be too much. If you're unsure about your style, observe how the younger male colleagues at your workplace dress. You can follow their lead and think, Oh, I can do that too. Pay attention to color combinations and try to replicate them. When you get older and someone tells you, Wow, you look so young, you should feel good about it and think, I'm doing well. However, if someone mentions your age and says, Oh, you look that old, then you might realize you made a mistake in your previous statement.

You need to review it once. There aren't many people who say that. There are those who have a different level of experience compared to younger friends, and they can meet younger people. Younger friends can meet their peers, but why should they meet someone older? If you think about it from that perspective, when they want to eat something or decide where to go, they might not know where to go when they meet their peers. They would talk about it together and end up eating something casually. But when they meet an older brother, he might say, Oh, there’s a place that has the best food in our country, and lead them there. In the past, when they met friends of the same age, there was a sense of childishness, but this person feels more mature and different. They seem to have a different kind of leadership compared to my peers, which adds to their charm.

There is a point that I feel. Women seem to be attracted to someone who can provide guidance, protection, and solutions. If we look at older man-younger woman couples, there are indeed many cases where older women marry younger men, but traditionally, it is much more common for older men to marry younger women. The clear distinction that younger people can have is definitely in terms of maturity and experience. This is something that doesn't require a lot of effort; rather, it’s a matter of how well one can express it. If expressed well, I believe one can appeal to their attractiveness sufficiently. I think one of the significant aspects that older men can appeal to is generosity, which I believe is much more pronounced in women than in men.

There is an emotional and somewhat sensitive aspect to it. In life, we experience a lot of hormonal changes. We go through these changes every month, and also due to pregnancy and childbirth. This sensitivity fluctuates, and it seems that we need to contain it within a certain capacity to feel stable even when these hormonal waves come and go. However, if the capacity is too small, then every time the hormonal waves fluctuate, it breaks. Women tend to consider this capacity as a significant factor when they perceive a man's charm. This could be a major difference between older individuals and younger friends. As people age, they naturally engage in social life and build relationships, and through those experiences, they get hurt and become more rounded.

I believe that the generosity we can have is definitely an aspect that can appeal to many. It's not easy, though; maintaining that balance is quite challenging. Ultimately, it comes down to meeting the right partner. Both partners need to be good people for a marriage to be sustained. I often talk about meeting good people and being cautious about others. However, it is necessary; it’s a matter of luck. This is because we cannot fully understand a person. Even if you date someone for a year before getting married, you might still say, I didn't know they were like this. It's truly difficult to know a person completely. Therefore, I think it's important to acknowledge that I don't know everything about my partner and also to recognize that I don't fully understand myself. This way, even if a crisis arises in the marriage, we can have the strength to overcome it. How could this happen to me? It could never happen in my life.

Rather than thinking that it’s something that doesn’t happen, I believe it’s important to recognize that such things can happen in my life as well. So, what should be the next step? I think we need to put in more energy into that. Only then can we have a smooth married life. In my opinion, the biggest appeal that older individuals can have towards younger friends is their generosity. However, there may be people who could misuse this, so you need to be cautious about that. There’s no need to feel intimidated because of age, but it’s important to have a good sense of self-awareness. I hope you take these aspects into consideration and build good relationships with women. Thank you. This has been attorney Choi Young-hoon.

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"이혼 사건은 이 언니가 제일 잘한다"

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"그냥 맡기면 된다. 그 이상 잘하는 변호사는 모른다."


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안녕하세요. 
변호사 혹은 그의 친인척도 이혼사건이라면 저를 찾아올 만큼 실력을 인정받고 있는 최영은 변호사입니다. 


결혼한 부부 3쌍 중 한 쌍이 고민한다는 이혼, 
내게는 절대 일어나지 않을 것만 같았던 불륜, 


가장 긴밀한 가족/친인척에게도 쉽게 털어놓지 못한 일이 바로 이혼일 것입니다. 


이혼은 마음먹기가 가장 어려운 일인 줄 알았는데, 
막상 이혼을 시작하고 준비하다 보니, 오히려 돈문제, 양육권 문제 등이 얽혀있어 하나부터 열까지 신경써야 하는 일투성이입니다. 


처음부터 전문가의 도움을 받았더라면 억울한 일이 발생하지는 않았을텐데..
'잘 모른다는 이유로 손해를 입는 분'들을 보며 이 채널을 시작하게 되었습니다. 


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